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Post by becausewhy on Jan 17, 2021 14:03:30 GMT -6
This whole thing can be complicated with so many rules and everyone having different comfort levels and interests.
One of our last times we were out I was approached by a couple who are our friends in the lifestyle and was told the guy wants to be with me and I’m interested as well. The wife was pushing for it because she likes to see him with other women but the issue we ran into is my husband who doesn’t want to feel left out since the wife does not mess around with other guys so it’s either find H a unicorn or figure out another scenario that works for all. I had the all clear to kiss him and all that but no naughty naughty. It’s something we’d all have to figure out together if the interest is still there next time we see them. Sometimes it’s not so easy.
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Post by willow on Jan 17, 2021 15:28:28 GMT -6
becausewhy do you feel as though the pandemic stopping these outings has negatively affected your sex life, or has all of it before helped keep the spark alive? Sorry if that’s too personal, I just wonder if it becomes a need rather than a want?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 17, 2021 18:05:13 GMT -6
Kind of. I started slowly reverting back into my rut. This lifestyle definitely makes everything way more exciting and going home after a sexy night out with my husband was always perfect even if we didn’t do anything with others. The atmosphere and the sexual freedom and being able to dress how I feel sexy without judgmental eyes around stirs up the mood. It’s a want. I have always loved going out and dancing but in the end it’s all about H and I so it’s not a need. It enhances our sex lives and feelings for one another and I want to keep that going.
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Post by spicysalmonroll on Jan 19, 2021 8:05:26 GMT -6
I'm a few days late on this but wow it was really interesting, thank you for being honest and sharing!!
I have a question- do you have rules about the cum? Like rules about swallowing or getting it on your boobs or whatever? Your boobs are great by the way lol
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 19, 2021 9:15:50 GMT -6
I'm a few days late on this but wow it was really interesting, thank you for being honest and sharing!! I have a question- do you have rules about the cum? Like rules about swallowing or getting it on your boobs or whatever? Your boobs are great by the way lol Oh interesting!
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Post by thatgolfb on Jan 19, 2021 12:23:30 GMT -6
I'm a few days late on this but wow it was really interesting, thank you for being honest and sharing!! I have a question- do you have rules about the cum? Like rules about swallowing or getting it on your boobs or whatever? Your boobs are great by the way lol I didn't think about this because she said they always wore condoms... I assumed it would be contained.
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Post by fb on Jan 19, 2021 13:16:31 GMT -6
I'm a few days late on this but wow it was really interesting, thank you for being honest and sharing!! I have a question- do you have rules about the cum? Like rules about swallowing or getting it on your boobs or whatever? Your boobs are great by the way lol I didn't think about this because she said they always wore condoms... I assumed it would be contained. Even for blowies?!
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Post by spicysalmonroll on Jan 19, 2021 14:10:10 GMT -6
I would hope so. Herpes is forever, fb . I can't imagine that would feel good for the man, but I would not want to suck on rubber. just curious lol
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 19, 2021 14:10:12 GMT -6
But she said they usually only have actual intercourse with their own spouses, so would condoms still be used then? What happens with that? Interesting question haha
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Post by microworm on Jan 19, 2021 14:32:36 GMT -6
I'm a few days late on this but wow it was really interesting, thank you for being honest and sharing!! I have a question- do you have rules about the cum? Like rules about swallowing or getting it on your boobs or whatever? Your boobs are great by the way lol ILY. Very important logistics question.
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Post by sammie on Jan 19, 2021 20:44:38 GMT -6
George Conway (Kellyanne’s husband) seems to reposition a pineapple on the shelf behind him in different interviews. 🤔
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Post by elle on Jan 19, 2021 22:14:53 GMT -6
George Conway (Kellyanne’s husband) seems to reposition a pineapple on the shelf behind him in different interviews. 🤔 Room rater has a thing for pineapples and gives extra points if they're in the background. I don't think it's swinger related, just an inside joke.
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Post by RajahMD on Jan 21, 2021 6:40:24 GMT -6
George Conway (Kellyanne’s husband) seems to reposition a pineapple on the shelf behind him in different interviews. 🤔 Room rater has a thing for pineapples and gives extra points if they're in the background. I don't think it's swinger related, just an inside joke. Maybe Room Rater is a Psych fan. They had an ongoing joke where they hid a pineapple in every single episode of the show.
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Post by elle on Jan 22, 2021 7:23:49 GMT -6
Room rater has a thing for pineapples and gives extra points if they're in the background. I don't think it's swinger related, just an inside joke. Maybe Room Rater is a Psych fan. They had an ongoing joke where they hid a pineapple in every single episode of the show. Could be, but the pineapples in Psych are an inside joke from when the writers/creators worked the Tiki Room at Disneyland (my H worked with them too back in the day).
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Post by sarah on Jan 22, 2021 8:23:35 GMT -6
Our house had wooden pineapples on the shutters when we bought it...
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Post by ldubhawksfan on Jan 24, 2021 10:54:43 GMT -6
I didn’t want to read/LT and not comment. Thank you for being so open. It was definitely not what I thought before this AMA, so I appreciate being enlightened. I could see how being in a sexually freeing environment would be a huge turn on and you still end up being with DH much of the time (purely intercourse). So very interesting!
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