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Post by donnameagle on Jan 14, 2021 8:07:16 GMT -6
becausewhy - I work in corporate hotel sales for major international brand. I’ve booked a swingers groups before. I can’t remember what they called it... I think it was called a lifestyle party actually? Anyway, the staff got a kick out of the half naked people on the pool deck that looked over the water, but other than that we didn’t care - to me it was good for my numbers that month - LOL. But to speak on “booking a hotel out” - this rarely happens ever unless presidential (I’ve booked out and entire property for the FBI and the president before - actually for the RNC that just passed - obvi it got cancelled) or sometimes a celebrity can pull it off. A “normal” group no matter how big is usually isn’t totally taking over a hotel. If they have like 75% of it, sales and management considers that a book out. But really some individual reservations were likely already on the books. So they may have actually told your organizer that they booked out the hotel, but likely they booked the remaining inventory. It may not have been that planners fault! (This is all hotel dependent - but if you’re at a big brand (and I’ve worked for them all) this is usually how it works). It was a big brand. I figured the people who booked had booked long ago. That hotel had mentioned they tried to get the guests booked elsewhere. The last one we we to was just us. Probably not all room filled. It was a Hyatt or Westin and when we got there some lady was trying to extend her reservation but the manager kept apologizing and saying she couldn’t because there was a private event and the hotel was booked for that. Good insight on how it all works! Thank you! I def believe they would block an extension! Trust me the hotels love big groups! haha.
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Post by thatgolfb on Jan 14, 2021 8:29:46 GMT -6
I think it was you that said you have run into Corey Feldman at a party. Was it a swinger party?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 8:32:44 GMT -6
Is there ever a really large differential in attractiveness in a couple? Does it ruin their lives? Who supplies the lube? If it it byol, where do you keep it, because there is no room in your pockets? So often you’ll run into couples that don’t match looks-wise. I always wonder if it was like that the whole time or if they were both good looking early on when they met. I would’t know how it affects their lives. Even if they aren’t for us they’ll find a couple that are into both. We have a bag we keep our supplies in and lock it up in the locker. If it’s a party we might take our bag in a d the hosts might have somewhere to stash them. We don’t usually do anything at parties as we’re not comfortable in that environment doing that for some reason.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 8:34:05 GMT -6
I think it was you that said you have run into Corey Feldman at a party. Was it a swinger party? I’ve seen him at a few of the large parties/takeovers. Him and his wife were trying to hook up with our friends at the last one I saw him at.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jan 14, 2021 8:44:36 GMT -6
"Who supplies the lube?" is a question I never thought I'd see on HIH.
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Post by marsinvestigations on Jan 14, 2021 8:51:58 GMT -6
I feel like I could totally get into this lifestyle with the right amount of alcohol. I would need my kids to be older though where I didn't have to parent immediately after this is why MH and I haven’t done it since having kids. I’m not fully comfortable with my post kids body, but mainly I can’t wrap my head around doing it and then going home and parenting young children. My kids are young and needy now though, so we have discussed getting back into it when they are older.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 8:54:30 GMT -6
I feel like I could totally get into this lifestyle with the right amount of alcohol. I would need my kids to be older though where I didn't have to parent immediately after I definitely require some alcohol to really enjoy otherwise my reserved self gets in the way of the fun. You’d for sure need older kids. Sometimes we’d be out until 4 or 5am so there’d be no way we could function with a baby or toddler. We were working on trying to reign it in and leave by 2 in order to have a life the next day and function for our kid. Thankfully that kid can sleep late.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jan 14, 2021 8:56:48 GMT -6
I feel like I could totally get into this lifestyle with the right amount of alcohol. I would need my kids to be older though where I didn't have to parent immediately after I definitely require some alcohol to really enjoy otherwise my reserved self gets in the way of the fun. You’d for sure need older kids. Sometimes we’d be out until 4 or 5am so there’d be no way we could function with a baby or toddler. We were working on trying to reign it in and leave by 2 in order to have a life the next day and function for our kid. Thankfully that kid can sleep late. Well this right here sealed the deal of never gonna happen for me. I get up at 5 am!
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 8:58:57 GMT -6
@pizzslut on weekends!? I used to live that life to go running but I changed that up when all this started happening.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 9:03:26 GMT -6
One thing I was going to mention yesterday but forgot when someone asked if I was surprised by anything was the prevalence of drugs. It’s everywhere. H and I were blown away by how many adults do this stuff. We mainly see coke and molly. I should say it’s not out in the open but people have it and it’s so easy because everyone is so nice and offers it. We don’t partake in those extracurriculars for personal and work reasons. We’ve never been pressured to do it.
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Post by beatch on Jan 14, 2021 9:03:43 GMT -6
At the all-nude Vegas party, did anyone sit down? So you just wore...shoes?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 14, 2021 9:05:57 GMT -6
At the all-nude Vegas party, did anyone sit down? So you just wore...shoes? We laid towels down. It was a resort so pools and lounge chairs. We wore flip flops. Resort might be a stretch but that’s what they call it.
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 14, 2021 9:12:04 GMT -6
"Who supplies the lube?" is a question I never thought I'd see on HIH. This isn't actually surprising at all with all of the topics covered here. We talked about foot tacos in the blinds.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jan 14, 2021 9:22:02 GMT -6
@pizzslut on weekends!? I used to live that life to go running but I changed that up when all this started happening. You must not know about my kids... They are getting slightly better but a lot of times at least one of them is up before 6.
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Post by microworm on Jan 14, 2021 9:31:21 GMT -6
Is there ever a really large differential in attractiveness in a couple? Does it ruin their lives? Who supplies the lube? If it it byol, where do you keep it, because there is no room in your pockets? Some of us don't need lube.
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Post by microworm on Jan 14, 2021 9:33:15 GMT -6
How many people have you had sex with since starting the lifestyle?
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Post by sweetp on Jan 14, 2021 9:36:46 GMT -6
This is fascinating. I'd love to test the waters on this, but I can't even imagine the amount of alcohol I'd need to get past my reservations. Probably not a good idea in that case.
There used to be a swinger couple in my group of friends in the last state I lived in. We all knew they were, but it was more of a "don't ask, don't tell" situation. Now I have huge regrets for not asking all of the questions!
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 14, 2021 9:36:47 GMT -6
For me personally (I know everyone is different obvi haha) I think I would have to do it in one of the private rooms at the party. I'm pretty indecisive and I think by the time we would pack up, leave, go the hotel room, and pretty much have to start all over flirting wise I would lose my nerve. I think I'd have to stay in the moment
But we've never done it so I guess I can't say for sure lol
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 14, 2021 9:46:41 GMT -6
If one couple finishes before the other, what do you usually do? Like do you just lay there and wait? That may be too personal so if you dont want to answer thats okay
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Post by willow on Jan 14, 2021 9:47:33 GMT -6
Is there ever a really large differential in attractiveness in a couple? Does it ruin their lives? Who supplies the lube? If it it byol, where do you keep it, because there is no room in your pockets? Some of us don't need lube. NHIE.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 14, 2021 9:48:54 GMT -6
I guess I'm just picturing a situation like one guy is more of a minute man but the other lasts awhile
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Post by Cher on Jan 14, 2021 9:50:59 GMT -6
Donna, I need you to tell me if swingers rent out a hotel, they will give a heads up to the 25% vanilla people. Not trying to watch stranger sex with my kids (or without) at hotels.
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Post by rosalind on Jan 14, 2021 9:52:30 GMT -6
Listen, y’all. Some of us have been breastfeeding. It makes things Sahara-like.
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 14, 2021 9:53:16 GMT -6
I guess I'm just picturing a situation like one guy is more of a minute man but the other lasts awhile This is a good question actually! I would think they would join in with the other couple?
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Post by sweetp on Jan 14, 2021 9:57:37 GMT -6
Donna, I need you to tell me if swingers rent out a hotel, they will give a heads up to the 25% vanilla people. Not trying to watch stranger sex with my kids (or without) at hotels. Not trying to watch, but I also don't think I could turn away...
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 14, 2021 9:58:45 GMT -6
Donna, I need you to tell me if swingers rent out a hotel, they will give a heads up to the 25% vanilla people. Not trying to watch stranger sex with my kids (or without) at hotels. Nope. We may let families checking in know that the hotel is full. Avert your eyes on your own!
That said, most contracts do have stipulations. So if nudity isn't allowed, it's not like a group renting the place would be allowed to break the rules. Unless it's specified as a family resort, you can always see ass in thongs! I'm assuming maybe some of the total rent outs allow private spaces in ballrooms etc. Especially in the Vegas hotels? I have not personally booked that however. So most of the action likely took place in the hotel rooms with mine.
That said, in hotels you should always be aware that someone may be banging on a balcony. You have no idea how often that happens. lol. Also stairwells. Drunk couples just can't make it back to their rooms. Or people cheating on business trips. The amount of stairway sex I have seen in the past decade on security cameras! This has nothing to do with swingers tho.
I have some funny hotel stories.
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Post by beatch on Jan 14, 2021 9:59:19 GMT -6
I don't feel like I would need lube in this situation personally.
I'd like to check out one of these clubs but my H goes to bed at 9:30 most nights. It would have to be a hotel thing. Plus I doubt there's one close to us. Or maybe I just want to go to a city where I think there's hotter people. I'm an IE 9 but an LA 6.
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Post by microworm on Jan 14, 2021 10:04:41 GMT -6
Donna, I need you to tell me if swingers rent out a hotel, they will give a heads up to the 25% vanilla people. Not trying to watch stranger sex with my kids (or without) at hotels. Nope. We may let families checking in know that the hotel is full. Avert your eyes on your own!
That said, most contracts do have stipulations. So if nudity isn't allowed, it's not like a group renting the place would be allowed to break the rules. Unless it's specified as a family resort, you can always see ass in thongs! I'm assuming maybe some of the total rent outs allow private spaces in ballrooms etc. Especially in the Vegas hotels? I have not personally booked that however. So most of the action likely took place in the hotel rooms with mine.
That said, in hotels you should always be aware that someone may be banging on a balcony. You have no idea how often that happens. lol. Also stairwells. Drunk couples just can't make it back to their rooms. Or people cheating on business trips. The amount of stairway sex I have seen in the past decade on security cameras! This has nothing to do with swingers tho.
I have some funny hotel stories.
Next AMA
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 14, 2021 10:05:34 GMT -6
Donna, I need you to tell me if swingers rent out a hotel, they will give a heads up to the 25% vanilla people. Not trying to watch stranger sex with my kids (or without) at hotels. Nope. We may let families checking in know that the hotel is full. Avert your eyes on your own!
That said, most contracts do have stipulations. So if nudity isn't allowed, it's not like a group renting the place would be allowed to break the rules. Unless it's specified as a family resort, you can always see ass in thongs! I'm assuming maybe some of the total rent outs allow private spaces in ballrooms etc. Especially in the Vegas hotels? I have not personally booked that however. So most of the action likely took place in the hotel rooms with mine.
That said, in hotels you should always be aware that someone may be banging on a balcony. You have no idea how often that happens. lol. Also stairwells. Drunk couples just can't make it back to their rooms. Or people cheating on business trips. The amount of stairway sex I have seen in the past decade on security cameras! This has nothing to do with swingers tho.
I have some funny hotel stories.
You may need your own AMA thread too
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 14, 2021 10:05:59 GMT -6
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