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Post by wasabi on Feb 6, 2018 15:34:36 GMT -6
(I'm coming in here without reading. On this topic, again, so I apologize) I don't know if anyone has brought up anything besides weight, but I have this thought often about women who have stopped shaving because FUCK THE PATRIARCHY. And I'm like, um, I would shave no matter what. I don't like hair, boyfriend or nah. (I don't care who shaves or not, I'm just saying I would whether dudes were into it or not) This is odd. I mean dropping this in here. lol, sorry. omg my job is crazy today and I was just trying to fit in here somewhere for a minute to ignore it while I can. |
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Post by wasabi on Feb 6, 2018 15:35:31 GMT -6
BUT REALLY THE HAIR THING. Girls posting pictures of their hairy armpits on fb with like, "love yourself, ladies"
fuck off, I love my non stinky, hairless pits.
Anyway. Carry on.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 15:39:36 GMT -6
Like when you are at a party or something and having a really deep or intense or moving conversation about something and your drunk coworker pops in and is like, "I hate hair! I would shave anyway!" Um, ok. You go girl. ![]() |
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Post by cribs on Feb 6, 2018 15:41:06 GMT -6
BUT REALLY THE HAIR THING. Girls posting pictures of their hairy armpits on fb with like, "love yourself, ladies" fuck off, I love my non stinky, hairless pits. Anyway. Carry on. You need new facebook friends |
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 15:41:12 GMT -6
McBenny after Japh's post:  |
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Post by wasabi on Feb 6, 2018 15:44:22 GMT -6
Like when you are at a party or something and having a really deep or intense or moving conversation about something and your drunk coworker pops in and is like, "I hate hair! I would shave anyway!" Um, ok. You go girl. ![]() SORRY I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS INTENSE Now I know how thatgolfb feels |
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Post by wasabi on Feb 6, 2018 15:45:00 GMT -6
BUT REALLY THE HAIR THING. Girls posting pictures of their hairy armpits on fb with like, "love yourself, ladies" fuck off, I love my non stinky, hairless pits. Anyway. Carry on. You need new facebook friends thankfully it's not a lot of my friends doing it |
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 15:45:30 GMT -6
Like when you are at a party or something and having a really deep or intense or moving conversation about something and your drunk coworker pops in and is like, "I hate hair! I would shave anyway!" Um, ok. You go girl. ![]() SORRY I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS INTENSE Now I know how thatgolfb feels I wouldn't say intense but it had surprisingly stayed the course until you came in here with your hair. |
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Post by cribs on Feb 6, 2018 15:45:51 GMT -6
You need new facebook friends thankfully it's not a lot of my friends doing it 1 is too many |
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Post by jorkzy on Feb 6, 2018 15:46:13 GMT -6
wasabi, that reminds me of folks who claim women wear make up only to make themselves more attractive to men. So real feminists wouldn't wear makeup. And I'm all "......"
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Post by Pizzaslut on Feb 6, 2018 15:48:13 GMT -6
I wish running did this for me. I ran 4 half marathons and 5 other shorter races last year and managed to gain 10 pounds. I love running but running makes me hungry, and I have a tendency to think– I ran this long distance, so now I can treat myself! Running is great for making me feel positive about how strong my body is, but for me, it isn't the key to weight loss. I have to monitor what I eat for that. Late but this is my experience with running. Since DS turned a year (so 4 years ago ) I’ve done 7 half marathons, 2 full. And I’m 5lbs heavier. Or I was...I’ve cut way back on running. Am doing ww and BBM and finally seeing the scale move. At 30+ miles a week my body held on to every single thing And running and wanting to (1) be faster and (2) still be running at 80 and finally BQ is my reason for wanting to drop serious weight I love running but I definitely didn't lose until I added some lifting into the mix. And cut back on sugar/carbs. There is one trainer at my gym that says you don't really need any cardio, except maybe 20 minutes at the end of workout. He almost shames those who use the treadmill. I'm sure I'm just projecting but it is annoying because I love running. And if it is the one activity that gets me out the door, then I'm going to do it. |
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Post by shan-ah-doo on Feb 6, 2018 16:17:19 GMT -6
I don’t regret much but I really really regret asking that fucking question. I should’ve known better.
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Post by Cher on Feb 6, 2018 16:27:48 GMT -6
Like when you are at a party or something and having a really deep or intense or moving conversation about something and your drunk coworker pops in and is like, "I hate hair! I would shave anyway!" Um, ok. You go girl. ![]() I really love that drunk girl though. I always need one friend like that. Sometimes it’s me. |
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Post by teatime on Feb 6, 2018 16:32:37 GMT -6
I don’t regret much but I really really regret asking that fucking question. I should’ve known better. I think it was a fair question and relevant to what the ae was discussing. 🤷♀️ |
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 16:37:46 GMT -6
I don't think people answered the question truthfully but I stopped reading responses and I wasn't keeping score.
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Post by pobre on Feb 6, 2018 16:42:35 GMT -6
I don’t regret much but I really really regret asking that fucking question. I should’ve known better. I think it was totally valid and topical to the discussion. +1 |
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 16:50:03 GMT -6
I don't think people answered the question truthfully but I stopped reading responses and I wasn't keeping score. Tons of people said it would impact their attraction. I think the responses were truthful. Well I read a few and I thought they were not being truthful so that must be when I stopped reading. |
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 16:50:55 GMT -6
Like when you are at a party or something and having a really deep or intense or moving conversation about something and your drunk coworker pops in and is like, "I hate hair! I would shave anyway!" Um, ok. You go girl. ![]() I really love that drunk girl though. I always need one friend like that. Sometimes it’s me. Yeah, I pass on that. |
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Post by yoginikiki on Feb 6, 2018 16:53:21 GMT -6
I mean, I really enjoyed today's discussion, so I'm glad you asked shan-ah-doo. I'm interested in how today may have changed my view on that Dia hoar. |
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Post by blurnette989 on Feb 6, 2018 16:59:54 GMT -6
Lttp butivebeen struggling extra with this in the last 6 months or so. I'm normally pretty dgaf about how those around be are doing exercise/diet wise. But since we moved, MH has lost 25 lbs without trying and I lost nothing. And now I'm pregnant so obvi not losing anything.
I struggle with self image too because I still see me at 21 just starting law school at a healthy weight, as I'd been my whole life. Then 3 years, a battle with depression and too much alcohol added 50 lbs to my frame and I've never felt like since. I've also never managed to drop the weight. A lot of it is depression, but then also when I finally got treatment, meds stagnated or reversed any progress I made. I hate pictures of me, because I think I'm stuck in my matrix version. What I look like when I plugin, but not irl.
No real point here just grumpy and can't seem to look at my own paper wrt mh.
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