tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 17, 2017 7:20:16 GMT -6
Hell no to nude photos. guster
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Post by guster on Nov 17, 2017 7:24:02 GMT -6
Hell no to nude photos. gusterMy thoughts exactly!!
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 7:37:12 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right? Not since I was like 4 maybe. Then my mom said I was to old to see him naked lol. Apparently 4 is to old but 24 isn't.
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 7:39:14 GMT -6
Like was he just roaming around the house nude? He went to bed, forgot his phone in the kitchen and came out to grab it so he could charge it. I walked out to get peach more water at the same time.. First I screamed. Because hello. Man in the kitchen when everyone was supposed to be asleep. Then I ran back in my room once I noticed.
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 7:42:26 GMT -6
Hell no to nude photos. guster My thoughts exactly!! I saw full frontal nude pictures of my FIL in the shower.. I was going through pictures with my MIL and well, maybe those shouldn't be mixed in with everyone's babies pictures.. Based on the house it was just after they got married.
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 7:43:10 GMT -6
Sorry, peach had me in his bed and up most of the night. Just catching up lol. Didn't mean to post and run last night.
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Post by cagoldi on Nov 17, 2017 10:18:47 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right? I think this really just depends how modest your household is. My mom and sisters and I would change in front of each other and share the bathroom, etc. We still do. Maybe because we're all girls? But I've never seen my dad in his underwear, much less naked. I remember following him into his room once as we continued a conversation and he started to get some pajamas and unbuttoned his pants like he was about to change. Just reflexively like I wasn't even there. I didn't even notice but he was mortified. "Oh my God, Birdie. I almost changed my clothes just now. Sorry, I was being absent-minded." LOL Dad. Do not care if I see your tighty whities.
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Post by flamingo on Nov 17, 2017 10:42:35 GMT -6
I opened this thread to the last page and "nude pics of parents" jumped out at me. :horrified face: DNW.
I have only seen my dad in boxers a handful of times. He is definitely on the modest end of the spectrum, and just kind of old-school--no bad language in front of ladies/children, etc. I know he was really uncomfortable when he was down at his mom's during her final days--there was stuff he just wouldn't do from a caretaking perspective, I think b/c of the modesty factor. Luckily my female cousin and a hospice nurse were on hand.
My mom is more immodest, I've seen her naked plenty of times and obviously in underwear while shopping, etc. My sister and I are pretty comfortable around each other in our underwear but would likely avert our eyes if faced with full-on nudity.
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Post by cagoldi on Nov 17, 2017 10:47:29 GMT -6
I just remembered in the hospital after his heart attack he wanted me to leave the room if he had to adjust his gown or something and was afraid I would see him.
He definitely would prefer I don't have to take care of his hygiene if he's ever ill enough to require it, which is why he's said he'll be getting long term care insurance.
Definitely not modest about cursing in front of me though. His language is very colorful.
"I don't want you to have to help me take a piss!"
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Post by flamingo on Nov 17, 2017 10:54:17 GMT -6
He definitely would prefer I don't have to take care of his hygiene if he's ever ill enough to require it, which is why he's said he'll be getting long term care insurance. This is my dad, too. They have started looking into LTC policies, too--for other reasons besides this, I'm sure. But yeah, I think for a man especially (at least the ones in my family), that could be tough to be dependent on your kids for help with stuff like that, assuming you were still in your right mind. My dad is a big person, too...6'5". Cannot imagine trying to help him negotiate certain things. FIL isn't as tall but is pretty overweight. I don't know that even my H could physically handle him. (Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not let me end up having my ILs live with me. (I do not think DH would go for that, but I irrationally worry...))
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 12:10:30 GMT -6
Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right? I think this really just depends how modest your household is. My mom and sisters and I would change in front of each other and share the bathroom, etc. We still do. Maybe because we're all girls? But I've never seen my dad in his underwear, much less naked. I remember following him into his room once as we continued a conversation and he started to get some pajamas and unbuttoned his pants like he was about to change. Just reflexively like I wasn't even there. I didn't even notice but he was mortified. "Oh my God, Birdie. I almost changed my clothes just now. Sorry, I was being absent-minded." LOL Dad. Do not care if I see your tighty whities. My mom and I do too. She would be a nudest if she could though lol. I think A has seen my mom topless a few times. She just walks around the house like that and he's stopped in to get something before we were living there and been horrified. For my dad, in a caregiver situation, it wouldn't bother me. It would take some adjusting but I would absolutely take care of him. But this was just shocking and MOTN and ew.
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 17, 2017 12:12:30 GMT -6
He definitely would prefer I don't have to take care of his hygiene if he's ever ill enough to require it, which is why he's said he'll be getting long term care insurance. This is my dad, too. They have started looking into LTC policies, too--for other reasons besides this, I'm sure. But yeah, I think for a man especially (at least the ones in my family), that could be tough to be dependent on your kids for help with stuff like that, assuming you were still in your right mind. My dad is a big person, too...6'5". Cannot imagine trying to help him negotiate certain things. FIL isn't as tall but is pretty overweight. I don't know that even my H could physically handle him. ( Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not let me end up having my ILs live with me. (I do not think DH would go for that, but I irrationally worry...)) Dh is what SIL calls the "bronze child" so I think we're at the bottom of the list for who my IL's would live with. And I'm so grateful for that.
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Post by wedding on Nov 17, 2017 13:17:28 GMT -6
I saw my dad in his tighty whiteys once. It was horrifying for both of us. We've never mentioned it. He is very modest. Keeps his shoes on until bed.
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Post by nam2013 on Nov 17, 2017 13:27:00 GMT -6
Haven’t seen my dad/mom naked in a long time, but wouldn’t really be phased if I did. I’ve tried in dresses ifo my parents quite recently, my dad drove us to the hospital while I was transitioning (dad is still traumatised), both go with us to doctors exams if needed, so where pretty relaxed about it. I think I would provide intimate care for my parents. All the above does not apply for my inlaws, while I love them, they’re not my ‘own’ KWIM?
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 17, 2017 18:50:41 GMT -6
We grew up with my parents not hiding their nakedness. Like, they would t walk around the house naked but when we’d barge in on them in the bathroom or shower they wouldn’t hide or anything.
I guess that’s why I don’t think it’s that big of a deal.
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 17, 2017 18:51:28 GMT -6
I saw my mother naked a couple weeks ago while she was drying her hair.
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Post by cheeksmum on Nov 17, 2017 19:48:41 GMT -6
We grew up with my parents not hiding their nakedness. Like, they would t walk around the house naked but when we’d barge in on them in the bathroom or shower they wouldn’t hide or anything. I guess that’s why I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. I feel like this is how I plan to be around N. I definitely won’t be walking around the house naked (especially since we will always live with my parents) but if he walks in then oh well. I’m sure he will be grossed out at some point, but then will stop barging in?
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