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Post by lfig on Nov 16, 2017 20:38:13 GMT -6
I have witnessed this with MH on more than one occasion. Twice in the hospital with S and once at the Dr office. I was so embarrassed so I know the feeling @wine!! At least YH probably had good reason! L has a rash that isn't even bugging her. All I needed was for him to call and ask if we needed to be concerned that she'd gotten shots the day before! I can't imagine if he were dealing with S's health issues or what tgrimes has been going through with M! Ha...a couple of times was pretty valid, but poor execution. But one time was him jumping all over the poor lady changing trash in the hospital room. S had just fell asleep and The lady came in to change out the trash. She wasn’t being very quiet about it. MH let her know his displeasure with her noise level while S was sleeping....but guess what....S didn’t wake from the the noisy trash changer. She did however wake from the shouting Dad. ETA: this was at the height of the frustration during S’s first 6 weeks of life ... shunt kept failing...and I think it was on her 3rd surgery, she kept blowing through IV’s, it was just a high stress time. He’s not always an ass...just sometimes. Lol. When tensions are high.
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Post by mwhip on Nov 16, 2017 20:50:05 GMT -6
mwhip I hope YH is doing laundry and you are sipping beer He did start one load of Evie's laundry, which I left sitting in the hallway while giving her a bath. And I'm doing my nails. We will probably leave so late Saturday!
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Post by Sunny41 on Nov 16, 2017 21:05:23 GMT -6
mwhip I hope YH is doing laundry and you are sipping beer He did start one load of Evie's laundry, which I left sitting in the hallway while giving her a bath. And I'm doing my nails. We will probably leave so late Saturday! Still driving? I hope it is a smoother drive than you anticipate.
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Post by mwhip on Nov 16, 2017 21:08:10 GMT -6
He did start one load of Evie's laundry, which I left sitting in the hallway while giving her a bath. And I'm doing my nails. We will probably leave so late Saturday! Still driving? I hope it is a smoother drive than you anticipate. Yes. Such a waste of vacation time.
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Post by kim22 on Nov 16, 2017 21:13:40 GMT -6
tgrimes how did YH like his first day? lfig I guess it's a good thing FIL stopped by so you could talk some sense into him.
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 21:18:11 GMT -6
tgrimes how did YH like his first day? lfig I guess it's a good thing FIL stopped by so you could talk some sense into him. He said it went well and it only took him 12 min to get home!
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Post by peachsmama on Nov 16, 2017 21:24:42 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now.
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 21:37:26 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right?
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Post by vino on Nov 16, 2017 21:40:35 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Oh my, please wash your eyes out with soap... or drink a stif drink...yes , I KNOW you dont drink but this is a wonderful exception.
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Post by vino on Nov 16, 2017 21:45:27 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right?
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Post by mskatiep on Nov 16, 2017 21:48:11 GMT -6
I just saw my father naked. I need my house. now. Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right? Lol yes, there's possibly something wrong with you 😂😉 I've seen my mom in a bra as an adult. I have one vivid memory burned into my brain of seeing my dad pee as a very small child. Other than that, no naked father!
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 21:48:44 GMT -6
Have you never seen your parents naked before? Why don’t I think this is weird? There’s something wrong with me, right? I’ve seen my parents naked on numerous occasions. Gross? Yes. But not as big of a deal as seeing your FIL or someone you’re not related to. Does that make sense?
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 21:49:53 GMT -6
I also saw my father naked at least 10 times while he was in the hospital. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by mskatiep on Nov 16, 2017 21:52:34 GMT -6
I'd only be ok with seeing my dad naked if it was a situation in which I was his care taker. In a medical capacity I could handle it. Other than that I rather see random/non related balls.
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Post by mskatiep on Nov 16, 2017 21:54:31 GMT -6
I also saw my father naked at least 10 times while he was in the hospital. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Yeah, I agree this is different. But getting dinner with a show is too weird for me.
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Post by vino on Nov 16, 2017 21:59:28 GMT -6
I'd only be ok with seeing my dad naked if it was a situation in which I was his care taker. In a medical capacity I could handle it. Other than that I rather see random/non related balls. +1 I did see my father naked when he was sick. But just random in the home. No.
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 22:16:02 GMT -6
Like was he just roaming around the house nude?
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 22:18:16 GMT -6
I'd only be ok with seeing my dad naked if it was a situation in which I was his care taker. In a medical capacity I could handle it. Other than that I rather see random/non related balls. Lol at random balls. MH’s grandparents visited over the summer and his grandfather wanted to get in the hot tub. We were all in the pool & the hot tub sits up higher than the pool. He uses a cane & was having difficulties getting out. I happened to look up at an unfortunate time and saw everything.
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Post by mskatiep on Nov 16, 2017 22:25:27 GMT -6
I'd only be ok with seeing my dad naked if it was a situation in which I was his care taker. In a medical capacity I could handle it. Other than that I rather see random/non related balls. Lol at random balls. MH’s grandparents visited over the summer and his grandfather wanted to get in the hot tub. We were all in the pool & the hot tub sits up higher than the pool. He uses a cane & was having difficulties getting out. I happened to look up at an unfortunate time and saw everything. Mmm old wrinkly balls... the best 🤢😨😱
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Post by Sunny41 on Nov 16, 2017 22:26:03 GMT -6
I also saw my father naked at least 10 times while he was in the hospital. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ How is he doing? Still on smoothie diet?
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Post by klong11 on Nov 16, 2017 22:41:04 GMT -6
wineallthetime is it hives or a rash? Give her benedryl and hopefully it will help clear it up. Discontinue the antibiotics and put it on the allergy list with your Dr, so they don't prescribe it again. Was it amox or the alternative?
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 22:49:32 GMT -6
I also saw my father naked at least 10 times while he was in the hospital. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ How is he doing? Still on smoothie diet? Yup. They tried to get his dentures in yesterday at the dr’s office and they don’t fit. Probably a couple more weeks until his skin can stretch more. He’s supposed to go back the to radiation oncologist tomorrow. And the dermatologist because my mother found a couple new spots on his leg.
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Post by inthekitty on Nov 16, 2017 23:19:40 GMT -6
I've seen my stepdad in his tighty whities way more times than my eyes cared to. I'm glad I don't have memories of my dad naked because he's a lot like Frank Gallagher (Shameless) without any charm.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Nov 16, 2017 23:30:14 GMT -6
No thank you to naked parents. I have seen my mom when helping her undress before surgery but I averted my eyes as much as possible. wineallthetime what does the rash look like? When S reacted to ammox her whole stomach turned red, along with her eyebrows. I was told to discontinue and we saw the pedi the following day.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Nov 16, 2017 23:33:29 GMT -6
DH has been working late this week, yay Christmas shopping has started 🙄. Anyways, I had to do solo bathtime and S slipped in the tub and hit her chin or mouth. She bit the inside of one side of her lower lip which of course caused her to bleed profusely. She was ok after a couple of minutes but now has a fat lip. DH got home right before I put S to bed. I put my 3 year old to bed for the last time, tomorrow I’ll have a 4 year old ðŸ˜.
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Post by guster on Nov 17, 2017 5:41:54 GMT -6
wineallthetime what does the rash look like? When S reacted to ammox her whole stomach turned red, along with her eyebrows. I was told to discontinue and we saw the pedi the following day. Same. All over Charlie's belly and back. Not raised just red. They discontinued it and noted it in his chart, so we'll get a different antibiotic if he needs it. Hope it's better this morning.
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Post by guster on Nov 17, 2017 5:44:00 GMT -6
I feel like I saw my mom naked as an adult (and not just when she was sick) between sharing vacation houses and walking in while she was getting dressed or even in a fitting room while shopping (though I suppose private parts are more covered up then). I don't think I ever saw my dad naked. Even when he was sick, I'm glad it's that way.
ETA: i'll take some of this back. After my dad passed I was going through his stuff and he had this locked box that he kept stuff from his past – dog tags, stuff from his police officer days, etc. I found nude pics of both of them in there (from the 70s,clearly) That was uncomfortable. I put them in the throw out pile.
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Post by wineallthetime on Nov 17, 2017 5:45:57 GMT -6
wineallthetime is it hives or a rash? Give her benedryl and hopefully it will help clear it up. Discontinue the antibiotics and put it on the allergy list with your Dr, so they don't prescribe it again. Was it amox or the alternative? It was amox, it's turning into hives. I googled and it looks like a lot of kids get a rash/reaction but aren't allergic... so I'd just like to chat with the Dr. She also have a couple days left of taking it, so I just want to double check on that as well.
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Post by guster on Nov 17, 2017 5:46:21 GMT -6
trtlcrzy, Poor, S. The mouth bleeds so much. It always looks horrible even if it's just a little bump. I'm glad she's okay.
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Post by wineallthetime on Nov 17, 2017 5:47:15 GMT -6
No thank you to naked parents. I have seen my mom when helping her undress before surgery but I averted my eyes as much as possible. wineallthetime what does the rash look like? When S reacted to ammox her whole stomach turned red, along with her eyebrows. I was told to discontinue and we saw the pedi the following day. It's like big red spots all over her torso, legs, face, neck, arms, hands, ect. It's definitely spreading and the spots are getting bigger. At least as of last night when I saw her.
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