notmoose
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Post by notmoose on Aug 10, 2017 14:01:08 GMT -6
I experienced that too, mostly only feeling sane with my husband around. I hated that he still freaking had to go to work. I wanted him to just stay home and keep me from completely losing it. Big big hugs. One week will turn into two, into another, into a month, and suddenly it just won't hurt as much. ❤️ I long for this. For when I can think about my baby and just wish things had been different, but not lose my shit. |
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notmoose
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Post by notmoose on Aug 10, 2017 14:03:59 GMT -6
The 1 SIL that knew I was pregnant, and misscarried, apparently told MH whole family. Another SIL called me 3 times today (which I ignored) and left me a long message about how she understands how I'm feeling and how she lost a baby too. And then at the end of the message told me all about another SIL new baby. If you really knew how I felt you'd know I don't want to see/hear about/think about babies right now.
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dragonflyinn
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Post by dragonflyinn on Aug 10, 2017 14:06:55 GMT -6
Wow notmoose. I want to go punch SIL for you. Really your whole family. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of that right now, it should absolutely be your news to tell!
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ajetter
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Post by ajetter on Aug 10, 2017 15:51:25 GMT -6
I had a friend text me shortly after my loss and talking about how sorry she was. Wanted to know how I knew something was wrong. Etc. Then proceeded to tell me she was pregnant and was worried she'd have the same ending. So then I'm all trying to console her and that it'll be fine while thinking why in the hell would you talk to me right now? Some people just really really don't get it.
Rage cleaning and purging of crap kept my mind off things.
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notmoose
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Post by notmoose on Aug 10, 2017 21:12:59 GMT -6
I had a friend text me shortly after my loss and talking about how sorry she was. Wanted to know how I knew something was wrong. Etc. Then proceeded to tell me she was pregnant and was worried she'd have the same ending. So then I'm all trying to console her and that it'll be fine while thinking why in the hell would you talk to me right now? Some people just really really don't get it. Rage cleaning and purging of crap kept my mind off things. I'm sorry she did that to you, that was so insensitive of her. I am really realizing that people are assholes when it comes to loss. Cleaning has actually been kind of therapeutic. I got 4 trash bags of trash (not actual garbage, but things i deemed junk and not donatable) and 2 bags for good will. I warned MH I was getting rid of everything. |
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notmoose
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Post by notmoose on Aug 10, 2017 21:17:15 GMT -6
Wow notmoose. I want to go punch SIL for you. Really your whole family. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of that right now, it should absolutely be your news to tell! Im not even really sure why i was so upset. I most likely wouldn't have told them, ever. I am not close with his family. It just set me off and then her talking about my other SIL baby was just too much. And this is that SILs 9th or 10th kid, so the horrible part of me was thinking "that's so fucking unfair." Not that I would wish this on her or anyone. Just... idk not fair. |
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