overboard
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Post by overboard on May 31, 2022 11:42:27 GMT -6
I’m so sorry. No advice but I wish you all the best.
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Post by Wtfshouldmynamebe on May 31, 2022 11:44:22 GMT -6
Hugs to you. I am glad you have support
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joy
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Post by joy on May 31, 2022 11:44:27 GMT -6
I’m so sorry, FlightView. I applaud your headspace over the past year. I hope you have some peace moving forward.
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Post by yoginikiki on May 31, 2022 11:44:58 GMT -6
You got this and we got you.
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Bookshelves
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Post by Bookshelves on May 31, 2022 11:45:24 GMT -6
I’m sorry, FV, I hope you’ll continue to take good care of yourself. You are in my thoughts.
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Post by microworm on May 31, 2022 11:48:48 GMT -6
Oh friend, I'm sorry you are in this situation but you are a bad ass woman and mom so you got this.
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Post by CestLaVie on May 31, 2022 11:50:00 GMT -6
Hugs. I know it's hard. You are such an awesome mom and person and I'm sorry he broke your trust.
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Post by justbecause on May 31, 2022 11:51:44 GMT -6
I’m sorry. Hugs and we are here for you!
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Post by ldubhawksfan on May 31, 2022 11:54:24 GMT -6
I’m sorry. Sending you strength during this tough time.
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Post by kittyriot on May 31, 2022 11:54:36 GMT -6
Sending love and strength friend. You have absolutely given this your all and may that bring you peace as you move forward.
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willow
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Post by willow on May 31, 2022 11:58:22 GMT -6
You've got this, my dear. We all have our hands on your back as you navigate these next steps. You can move forward knowing that you did everything you could to give him chance after chance to change and become a better man/father/husband and he didn't. That's on him. Sending you love.
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apk4
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Post by apk4 on May 31, 2022 12:01:12 GMT -6
Sending you so much love. You've got this.
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Post by wildflower on May 31, 2022 12:05:33 GMT -6
You have given your marriage every possible chance. And now, he's proven that he can't be a faithful partner.
Your next steps are to make a new life for yourself and your kids and I am so sure you'll be a badass at it.
I'm sure this isn't what you hoped and I'm sorry for the pain. You have an amazing future ahead of you.
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starfisher
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Post by starfisher on May 31, 2022 12:08:50 GMT -6
I’m so sorry he’s put you through this. Thinking of you and your kiddos in the coming weeks.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 31, 2022 12:14:57 GMT -6
This is my first time hearing it.
As for why would you need a burner phone for that?
So people do not have your real number. So people cannot look you up on other platforms using your phone number.
I know a lot of people like to make burners nefarious but it can be just as simple as wanting a buffer between you and others.
I had a burner phone for years. Still do but it's not on right now.
As for the relationship part, I feel if there are still feelings and emotions then there is nothing wrong with trying. For me, I don't want that shoulda, woulda, coulda, hanging over my head.
That being said, as long as you are safe, do what you feel is right. If you are done, you will know when that is.
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thatgolfb
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Post by thatgolfb on May 31, 2022 12:21:48 GMT -6
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hawkward
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Post by hawkward on May 31, 2022 12:41:41 GMT -6
Huge hugs, FV.
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Post by blurnette989 on May 31, 2022 12:43:30 GMT -6
So many hugs FV. You are an awesome and strong woman, and you've got this. ❤️❤️❤️
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brux
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Post by brux on May 31, 2022 12:45:03 GMT -6
You have weathered infidelity and substance abuse impacting your safe space for more than five years now.
You’ve trusted him to take care of himself and to invest in your relationship. And he keeps showing you that he can’t.
It’s more than ok to let go and prove that you love yourself more than he’s telling you that you’re worth.
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cnf
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Post by cnf on May 31, 2022 13:15:46 GMT -6
Sending you all the love and strength ❤️
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jaidit
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Post by jaidit on May 31, 2022 13:20:14 GMT -6
Your update reads as so strong and decided, and you should be very proud of yourself. I know you’ll do what’s right for you and your kids.
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sullivan
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Post by sullivan on May 31, 2022 13:21:58 GMT -6
You got this, FV. You have given him so much grace and went above & beyond to give him a chance to change. I’m sorry it didn’t work out, but I’m proud of you for setting your line and taking steps to make a better life for yourself.
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Post by charlotte on May 31, 2022 13:22:16 GMT -6
You sound really convicted in your decision, and that certainty will give you strength for the coming months.
I’m so glad to hear you have family support and I’m wishing you the absolute best. I have faith that there are much better things ahead for you.
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sterling
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Post by sterling on May 31, 2022 13:31:36 GMT -6
You have weathered infidelity and substance abuse impacting your safe space for more than five years now. You’ve trusted him to take care of himself and to invest in your relationship. And he keeps showing you that he can’t. It’s more than ok to let go and prove that you love yourself more than he’s telling you that you’re worth. This this this. IME there’s a point where you just know, deep in your core, that things aren’t right. Wrong person, wrong situation, whatever. You have tried. You don’t have to try forever. It’s simply okay to be done. You are worthy of love and respect and happiness, and by all accounts he cannot provide those things for you. ❤️
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Post by babybean on May 31, 2022 13:35:42 GMT -6
♥️
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Post by sassafras83 on May 31, 2022 13:40:25 GMT -6
I’m sorry this is happening, send lots of love your way. You got this.
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STP
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Post by STP on May 31, 2022 13:44:52 GMT -6
I am so sorry, FV. I am so glad you have support from family.
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Post by allthekristys on May 31, 2022 13:51:49 GMT -6
Sending you love and strength and clarity. Keep your head up and looking forward and make the best decisions in the moment you are making them. Love to you!
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Post by thechickencoop on May 31, 2022 13:55:08 GMT -6
You have weathered infidelity and substance abuse impacting your safe space for more than five years now. You’ve trusted him to take care of himself and to invest in your relationship. And he keeps showing you that he can’t. It’s more than ok to let go and prove that you love yourself more than he’s telling you that you’re worth. This this this. IME there’s a point where you just know, deep in your core, that things aren’t right. Wrong person, wrong situation, whatever. You have tried. You don’t have to try forever. It’s simply okay to be done. You are worthy of love and respect and happiness, and by all accounts he cannot provide those things for you. ❤️ I'm just gonna +1 this all here. And come on over to our little quiet, supportive divorce board whenever you're ready friend. 💜
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Post by skategirl128 on May 31, 2022 13:56:18 GMT -6
Sending you love and strength.
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