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Post by sunnysideup on Aug 1, 2021 14:17:53 GMT -6
If you need anything I’m always here for you. I’ve been alcohol free 16 months if you ever want to talk.
Sending you all my love.
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Post by Yogurt on Aug 1, 2021 14:36:32 GMT -6
Sending love to you. You're not being shady, you're being smart and practical. We are always here for you if you need to just let it out or whatever. ❤
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Post by Pistol on Aug 1, 2021 15:50:27 GMT -6
FlightView, I'm so sorry you are going through this but I'm glad it sounds like you are hopeful! I totally do not blame you for having emergency funds easily attainable for you. Honestly, if you can I would even encourage a little more. There is a chance you may never need it but I can see how it would be a little calming knowing it's there if you do. *hugs*
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Post by babybean on Aug 1, 2021 16:10:25 GMT -6
Sending so much love your way.
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Post by northernlghts on Aug 1, 2021 17:26:42 GMT -6
I hope his recovery is successful FlightView. I think it's great too you are choosing to be sober as well to see how things work out for your guys. Nothing wrong with looking out for yourself and your kids having the separate account. Sending you guys good thoughts and support with whatever you decide.
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Post by iruntodrink on Aug 1, 2021 17:42:57 GMT -6
Thank you for sharing, hoping for the best for all of you ❤️
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Post by jnetx on Aug 1, 2021 19:11:23 GMT -6
I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are doing your best to make the best choices for your family and that's all you can do. I've been through this as the child involved, so let me know if you want to chat about anything from that perspective
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Post by Cheshie6 on Aug 1, 2021 19:13:03 GMT -6
FlightView my husband is a merchant mariner who works in the oil field overseas. It’s a big community but small too! If you need someone to talk to… let me know!
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Post by dreaming on Aug 1, 2021 19:13:13 GMT -6
Sending you support. You shouldn’t feel any guilt about hiding a nest egg. Either you won’t need it, or you will be glad you have it, both are reasons why it’s okay. ((Hugs))
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Post by Pumpkinwest on Aug 1, 2021 19:44:56 GMT -6
Sending you love and strength. Echoing others to say you are absolutely doing the right thing. Know we are here to rally for you, whatever comes ♥️
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Post by microworm on Aug 1, 2021 19:45:01 GMT -6
Hugs. Don't feel guilty for anything. He has put you through a lot and you have a family to look out for, with or without him. We are here for you.
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Post by CeeBug on Aug 2, 2021 4:57:07 GMT -6
💜 Sending love and strength. I hope everything works out.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2021 6:22:28 GMT -6
Sending love and support your way.
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Post by maybe on Aug 2, 2021 6:41:50 GMT -6
Thank you for sharing. You are being wise and strong and practical. Make sure to take care of yourself emotionally and to get the support you need as well. Wishing you all the best.
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Post by loony on Aug 2, 2021 7:23:12 GMT -6
Sending you love. My BFF is in this exact position right now and it is not an easy road.
Thank you for sharing, we’re all here when you need an ear or support. ❤️
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Post by byjove on Aug 2, 2021 7:34:52 GMT -6
Sending more strength and hugs your way <3
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Post by STP on Aug 2, 2021 8:03:13 GMT -6
I’m so impressed with your strength and his. I’m sorry you’re both going through this.
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Post by Lormor on Aug 2, 2021 8:07:32 GMT -6
Sending you love and strength as you navigate the next steps.
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Post by aasri on Aug 2, 2021 8:15:22 GMT -6
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Post by angelashly on Aug 2, 2021 8:17:39 GMT -6
Sending you all the love and support and you are not in the wrong hiding that money. Recovery is a long process and you have to protect yourself.
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Post by catmom88 on Aug 2, 2021 9:07:02 GMT -6
FlightView,I am proud of you. These decisions are not easy and no one else knows your exact situation. Al-Anon saved my life when my dh's drinking became too much. It is worth a try if you haven't gone to a meeting. Huge hugs.
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bobyn
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Post by bobyn on Aug 2, 2021 15:07:22 GMT -6
I'm sending love and strength to you both. Please let us know if you need anything.
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Post by kittyriot on Aug 2, 2021 17:06:13 GMT -6
Thank so soooo much for sharing. You are a kind, brave, and strong as fuck. Never feel guilty for taking care of your kids and yourself. I hope the journey over the next many months is healing but always know we are here, to vent to, to boost you up, to sit with you….life is hard. And we are on your side!
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Post by caer on Aug 2, 2021 17:15:41 GMT -6
Sending lots of love your way. My DH will be 11 years sober in a couple of weeks but I still remember how hard those days were. Do whatever you need to do and feel whatever you feel. I’m here if you ever need to talk. ❤️
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Post by piratecat on Aug 2, 2021 17:27:06 GMT -6
❤️
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Post by Pizzaslut on Aug 4, 2021 12:10:31 GMT -6
I'm just seeing this. So much love to you. Don't feel guilty about keeping that money aside. You are doing that for your children. We are here for you for whatever you need over the next few months and beyond that. <3 my fellow Alaskan
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FlightView
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Post by FlightView on May 31, 2022 11:34:44 GMT -6
Update in OP
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Post by angelashly on May 31, 2022 11:38:13 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on May 31, 2022 11:39:34 GMT -6
Huge hugs. I'm so sorry that he has once again broke that trust. I'm glad you have support and I know you will do whatever is necessary for yourself and the kids. You are amazing and you will get through this!
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Post by leahcar on May 31, 2022 11:39:56 GMT -6
FlightView, I don't think you'll ever regret either the opportunity to see how things went post-treatment or trusting your gut with checking this time. You've got this! I'm so glad you've got a good support network.
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