Pizzaslut
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Sept 18, 2020 9:13:40 GMT -6
Post by Pizzaslut on Sept 18, 2020 9:13:40 GMT -6
I don't want to be the breadwinner because I don't like bread. We are exact opposites when it comes to food.
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Sept 18, 2020 9:14:45 GMT -6
Post by toebeans on Sept 18, 2020 9:14:45 GMT -6
Do you just like saying it wrong? 😉 I will always say it "wrong". I refuse to acknowledge it as jif. Same. GIF stands for Graphics Interchange Format. Graphics. Hard G. therefore, GIF is pronounced with a hard G forever and always. I am convinced people who insist on JIF are trolling us.
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Sept 18, 2020 9:15:56 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2020 9:15:56 GMT -6
everyone i know is either already married or living their best hoe life. i hope i get to go to one someday I wanna live my best hoe life. girl do it. the trick is to have one guy you can have a real conversation with, one guy you can count on for free food, one guy for sex, and one guy for fun. i mean. that's wrong. don't do that. but definitely do it
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elodin
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Sept 18, 2020 9:15:58 GMT -6
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Post by elodin on Sept 18, 2020 9:15:58 GMT -6
I refuse to say the word "gif" with the soft g sound. Refuse. I thought it was J? Jif? It is! Like the peanut butter. I say it like the g in gift.
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beatch
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Sept 18, 2020 9:16:03 GMT -6
Post by beatch on Sept 18, 2020 9:16:03 GMT -6
I don't want to be the breadwinner because I don't like bread. Finally, something flameful!
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Kida
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Sept 18, 2020 9:16:08 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Sept 18, 2020 9:16:08 GMT -6
I ignored it, because in general I ignore her. I do appreciate you acknowledging this though. I mean your confession brought my confession. I didn't say anything negative or put down about your feelings. You have the right to feel and be attached to whatever you want. I was sharing I have no attachment to items. I wasn't posting AT you. But you do this, not infrequently
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elodin
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Sept 18, 2020 9:16:43 GMT -6
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Post by elodin on Sept 18, 2020 9:16:43 GMT -6
I refuse to say the word "gif" with the soft g sound. Refuse. Do you just like saying it wrong? 😉 I do and I will until the day I die 😂
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Sept 18, 2020 9:17:04 GMT -6
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Post by GhoatMonket on Sept 18, 2020 9:17:04 GMT -6
everyone i know is either already married or living their best hoe life. i hope i get to go to one someday I wanna live my best hoe life. I call that time period "college".
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piratecat
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Sept 18, 2020 9:17:15 GMT -6
Post by piratecat on Sept 18, 2020 9:17:15 GMT -6
I don't want to be the breadwinner because I don't like bread. We are exact opposites when it comes to food.
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Sept 18, 2020 9:17:26 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2020 9:17:26 GMT -6
I mean your confession brought my confession. I didn't say anything negative or put down about your feelings. You have the right to feel and be attached to whatever you want. I was sharing I have no attachment to items. I wasn't posting AT you. But you do this, not infrequently Right. I'm feeling a little personal vendetta from you specifically recently so please to ignore my posts if you don't like what I'm posting.
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jaygee
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Sept 18, 2020 9:17:49 GMT -6
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Post by jaygee on Sept 18, 2020 9:17:49 GMT -6
I love weddings. *Love* I get to go eat food, listen to music, and check out different traditions. I love small ones and big ones. I was very "we won't spend a lot" at first, but then we did. No regrets. I've been to bad ones, but they have been the minority. The only thing I don't like about weddings is all the judgement, which is why I couldn't last on The Knot. Who cares if it's a cash bar*? Who cares if they had to do a civil service but still wanted to have a wedding? Etc. *Regional/how you grew up or whatever. I didn't even know full bars were a time outside the movies for a long time. No one in my cycle growing up did that. this is me. I just love to celebrate with people. And I’ve been invited to a few weddings that I know are just not going to be my thing (like a big hassle or something) or I don’t know the people that well and I just decline and send a gift. If I’m not enthusiastic about their wedding, I don’t go.
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sudsy
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Sept 18, 2020 9:18:05 GMT -6
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Post by sudsy on Sept 18, 2020 9:18:05 GMT -6
I wanna live my best hoe life. I call that time period "college". I made the mistake of always being tied down during college. Unfortunately, not literally. 😬
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Sept 18, 2020 9:18:20 GMT -6
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Post by GhoatMonket on Sept 18, 2020 9:18:20 GMT -6
LOLing at telling someone to ignore posts they don't like.
We don't do that shit here.
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fb
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Sept 18, 2020 9:18:23 GMT -6
Post by fb on Sept 18, 2020 9:18:23 GMT -6
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Sept 18, 2020 9:18:27 GMT -6
Post by Rusty Red on Sept 18, 2020 9:18:27 GMT -6
I mean your confession brought my confession. I didn't say anything negative or put down about your feelings. You have the right to feel and be attached to whatever you want. I was sharing I have no attachment to items. I wasn't posting AT you. But you do this, not infrequently
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Pistol
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Sept 18, 2020 9:19:07 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Sept 18, 2020 9:19:07 GMT -6
If I find myself single, I'll probably aim for my best hoe life. I don't know that I would want to do the whole dating and marriage thing again. I'm totally happy with H, no plans of divorcing, but I just really can't see myself settling down with anyone else if we did divorce.
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bobyn
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local baby-making menace
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Sept 18, 2020 9:19:09 GMT -6
Post by bobyn on Sept 18, 2020 9:19:09 GMT -6
I don't tell people to leave people (barring abuse) cause I don't know how great shit is when it's great. I don't know how bad it is when it's bad. I also know people that aren't happy but they aren't miserable and they feel that's ok. Who am I to exert the energy to tell someone to leave? People say it will get greater later and for some that may be the case. I also have had to deal with some be more miserable later. You just never know how the shit is going to go. During a global pandemic - I am not telling anyone to leave anything. Not jobs, not businesses, not relationships right now cause I feel shit is going to get worse. I am just confessing my feelings on the matter and not telling anyone here how to feel or how to move. The end. Plus - when a woman is truly fed up she will move mountains and no one could talk her out of it so again barring abuse I just roll with it and listen. I bared my soul to my friend over dinner last night and she basically gave me the same advice - 2020 is not the year to make big, life-altering decisions.
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Kida
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Sept 18, 2020 9:19:38 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Sept 18, 2020 9:19:38 GMT -6
I don't get these breadwinner feelings. However, in my home (not saying how we move is correct) we are a team. All monies goes into the pot. We have faced lay offs and new jobs and relocations and natural disasters and who made more has flip flopped multiple times in our relationship. So maybe that is why I don't have breadwinner feelings. Same, he takes care of me, I take care of him, we do what we do to take care of us.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
*it’s a joke. get some hobbies.
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Sept 18, 2020 9:19:58 GMT -6
Post by Pizzaslut on Sept 18, 2020 9:19:58 GMT -6
We are exact opposites when it comes to food. More bread and pizza for me!
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Sept 18, 2020 9:19:59 GMT -6
Post by Rusty Red on Sept 18, 2020 9:19:59 GMT -6
I tried for a bit after my separation/divorce to be wilder than I was previously. It was semi-successful, at least in having more experience than all the previous dating years combined. LOL
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rosalind
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As You Like It
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Sept 18, 2020 9:20:29 GMT -6
Post by rosalind on Sept 18, 2020 9:20:29 GMT -6
This is funny.
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Diordra
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Sept 18, 2020 9:20:38 GMT -6
Post by Diordra on Sept 18, 2020 9:20:38 GMT -6
If something ever happens to end my marriage, I will be single. Someone I can call up for some D when the mood strikes, yes. But a partner? Nah, never again.
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piratecat
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Sept 18, 2020 9:20:51 GMT -6
Post by piratecat on Sept 18, 2020 9:20:51 GMT -6
Now I want to go to a wedding.
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Pistol
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Sept 18, 2020 9:21:02 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Sept 18, 2020 9:21:02 GMT -6
I call that time period "college". I made the mistake of always being tied down during college. Unfortunately, not literally. 😬 I was dating H in college. We started dating right before my senior year of high school. Which seems so crazy now. At the time I really thought he was going to be a rebound and he thought the same about me. Jokes on us! 🤣
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Cher
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Post by Cher on Sept 18, 2020 9:22:03 GMT -6
I really do hope you find your ring, Donna. I’m nervous thinking about it and your feelings are totally normal. You’re handling it better than I would. I wouldn’t be able to post because I would be tearing apart the car and breathing into a paper bag.
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Sept 18, 2020 9:22:17 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2020 9:22:17 GMT -6
I was thinking yesterday about sexting and I remembered I used to take videos of myself and watch them back to see what I looked like. Haven't done that in a super long time. Hate to think what hands those ended up in.
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Kida
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Sept 18, 2020 9:22:47 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Sept 18, 2020 9:22:47 GMT -6
You think you've seen fuck dogs on a dog loss post? I'm so glad I'm single on divorce posts? We did just fine, bootstrap up on financial disaster posts? I guess I gloss over this dark corner of HIH. I feel like STP is having PT about the fuck dogs post. Also, remember when you hated cats in the cat thread for pages?
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jaygee
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Sept 18, 2020 9:23:15 GMT -6
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Post by jaygee on Sept 18, 2020 9:23:15 GMT -6
I call that time period "college". I made the mistake of always being tied down during college. Unfortunately, not literally. 😬 I tried to be a hoe in college but it was such a damn small town that it was a lot of drama and hassle for some average sex.
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Cher
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Post by Cher on Sept 18, 2020 9:23:18 GMT -6
If something happens to my marriage, I will find an elderly billionaire and quietly marry him so his kids couldn’t stop it.
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Kida
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Sept 18, 2020 9:24:02 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Sept 18, 2020 9:24:02 GMT -6
I don't want to be the breadwinner because I don't like bread. You can be the cauliflower winner
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