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Post by Lakes on Dec 16, 2019 14:46:12 GMT -6
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Post by piratecat on Dec 16, 2019 14:46:23 GMT -6
piratecat , I'm very sorry, that is so hard. I hope it goes better than you are expecting. How many weeks are you? I haven't really been keeping track but I'll be almost 11 weeks tomorrow.
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Post by addymac on Dec 16, 2019 17:10:51 GMT -6
Oh piratecat ๐ sending hugs. Iโm sorry youโre in this awful limbo. Iโve been keeping you in my thoughts, too. How is your sister doing, too?
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Post by cmb on Dec 16, 2019 18:05:18 GMT -6
sheilathetank The school didnโt know?? DS1 did this over the summer to another kid. at daycare. He did it to the one friend he always played with. According to one of his teachers at his special needs preschool program (different school), another kid in that class demonstrated the behaviors. All this to say it could be from yet another student and not a home thing
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Post by cmb on Dec 16, 2019 18:06:21 GMT -6
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Post by piratecat on Dec 16, 2019 18:30:44 GMT -6
Oh piratecat ๐ sending hugs. Iโm sorry youโre in this awful limbo. Iโve been keeping you in my thoughts, too. How is your sister doing, too? Sheโs doing pretty well, just managing pain and resting. Thanks for asking.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 17, 2019 7:37:07 GMT -6
cmb I completely agree that it's way more likely to be mimicking something seen on tv/movies. I'm just a worrier, and my mind also ways goes to worst case scenario. As far as the school knowing, no they didn't, and since I couldn't give them a timeline it could have happened on friday or it could have been something demonstrated months ago. The interventionist asked if I had an idea of when it could have occurred and I admitted I didn't even attempt to ask because DD's sense of time is so skewed, that any answer I got has a 40% chance of being right. Unless it happened that morning, which it obviously hadn't. And I think I should make it clear that in no way shape or form do I think anything "bad" should happen to the other child. I called the school primarily because they're the experts at dealing with things like this and could probably talk to DD better than I could about what happened and what to do if it happens again. They are also the ones trained to ask the right questions to find out when it happened. I also wanted to give them a heads up that this kid and my kid have a history and that as time goes on the things I'm hearing about at home regarding their interactions are more and more concerning to me.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 17, 2019 11:06:19 GMT -6
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Post by jt2378 on Dec 17, 2019 12:48:57 GMT -6
Hoping for good news and sending you love piratecat
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Post by piratecat on Dec 17, 2019 14:37:39 GMT -6
No good news here. Iโm just hoping it passes today so I can get on with my life.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 17, 2019 14:45:23 GMT -6
piratecat I am so, so, sorry. All the *hugs* to you and YH.
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Post by gingy on Dec 17, 2019 14:46:05 GMT -6
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Post by Lakes on Dec 17, 2019 15:08:45 GMT -6
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Post by billyhorrible on Dec 17, 2019 15:21:11 GMT -6
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Post by jt2378 on Dec 17, 2019 15:29:12 GMT -6
Iโm very sorry piratecat, sending you hugs, love and strength โค๏ธ
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Post by addymac on Dec 17, 2019 16:37:21 GMT -6
Oh piratecat I am so, so sorry. Sending you so many hugs and love. I hope you can take some time for yourself in these next few days. Hugs hugs hugs.
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Post by elle on Dec 17, 2019 20:14:53 GMT -6
I'm so incredibly sorry piratecat. Keeping you in my thoughts and sending you all the love. โค
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Post by ambiguousmango on Dec 17, 2019 20:30:56 GMT -6
I'm so sorry piratecat if there is anything you need please let me know.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 23, 2019 11:24:54 GMT -6
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Post by notblanche on Dec 23, 2019 12:05:54 GMT -6
Thank you! Weโre at the hospital and Iโve been poked and prodded, only waiting for an open OR now.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 23, 2019 12:21:33 GMT -6
Thank you! Weโre at the hospital and Iโve been poked and prodded, only waiting for an open OR now. So exciting! Hope everything goes smooth and easy.
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Post by notblanche on Dec 23, 2019 12:25:45 GMT -6
Omg I am so hungry.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 23, 2019 12:29:22 GMT -6
What time are you scheduled for? I didn't have a C but I remember the hunger to be the worst while laboring. I was fucking ravenous and all they would let me have was popsicles and ice chips. fuckers.
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Post by notblanche on Dec 23, 2019 12:40:34 GMT -6
What time are you scheduled for? I didn't have a C but I remember the hunger to be the worst while laboring. I was fucking ravenous and all they would let me have was popsicles and ice chips. fuckers. I was scheduled for 1:30 but theyโre running a little behind. Should be soon. I got up at 5:00 and had cold pizza for breakfast but now Iโm starving.
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Post by jt2378 on Dec 23, 2019 13:32:14 GMT -6
notblanche, wishing you good thoughts and how exciting to meet your little guy soon right before Christmas! Good luck
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Post by addymac on Dec 23, 2019 13:49:35 GMT -6
Eeeks! How exciting notblanche! I hope all goes smoothly and they stay on top of your post c/s pain meds and you are soon snuggling your LO!
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Post by ambiguousmango on Dec 23, 2019 14:45:11 GMT -6
notblanche wishing you a smooth delivery and a speedy recovery.
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Post by ambiguousmango on Dec 23, 2019 14:48:10 GMT -6
We finally put up our Christmas tree this weekend and my kid keeps scoping out the gift situation.
Him: ooh gifts.. patience, patience, have to wait... Christmas. Mommy is it Christmas?
It is equal parts cute, creepy, and annoying.
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Post by sheilathetank on Dec 23, 2019 14:53:52 GMT -6
We finally put up our Christmas tree this weekend and my kid keeps scoping out the gift situation. Him: ooh gifts.. patience, patience, have to wait... Christmas. Mommy is it Christmas? It is equal parts cute, creepy, and annoying. I am amazed at DDs self control so far. It may have helped that I firmly told her that if she even thinks of opening any presents then I'm sending them all back. I can't wait to see her face on christmas morning though! I think i'm more excited then she is. lol
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Post by ambiguousmango on Dec 23, 2019 15:06:38 GMT -6
sheilathetank I know! I am so excited and am almost as impatient as he is ๐ He is going to flip when he gets his own "pitar" (guitar). I am excited for his face, less excited about the noise.
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