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Post by Rusty Red on Apr 18, 2018 7:54:31 GMT -6
We really can turn anything into a battleground.
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ripper
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Post by ripper on Apr 18, 2018 7:56:57 GMT -6
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mack
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Post by mack on Apr 18, 2018 7:59:16 GMT -6
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ttcbabyj
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 8:01:50 GMT -6
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ttcbabyj
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 8:07:46 GMT -6
Trust me you didn’t just say, “I don’t understand.” But whatever it is what it is...I’m not a “spike the ball” type of girl or a “poke the bear and hide the stick” type of girl either. 🤷🏽♀️ Who’s hiding? I’m right here, boo. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:16:13 GMT -6
there are a few. Clearly I didn't make it up? Maybe it just "reads" that way. I didn’t say you made it up, which is why I asked “who”... I mean are you asking for me to go. Through the thread and point it. Out? Seems kind of obvious. I don't really have that kind of. Time today.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:20:41 GMT -6
I'm also having computer issues. Let me get those addressed first.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:22:40 GMT -6
I mean the breathtaking hostilities was tic but some do seem very offended she didn't file her taxes to say the least.
Or was that she said IF?
I wasn't focused on the reason as many seem to have been.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:25:03 GMT -6
Lol that y'all can zoom in on breathtaking hostilities but don't see the other words other people used.
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Post by rayann on Apr 18, 2018 8:30:17 GMT -6
I saw the OP and my anxiety increased. I had been anxious about doing my mom and dads 2016 taxes late, that she had filed an extension for. She missed that deadline too. I have officially taken over their taxes because they just cannot keep track anymore. Anyways, I know we are past this but, glad you were able to get it done.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Apr 18, 2018 8:32:52 GMT -6
This place.
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mack
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Post by mack on Apr 18, 2018 8:32:59 GMT -6
I mean are you asking for me to go. Through the thread and point it. Out? Seems kind of obvious. I don't really have that kind of. Time today. I honestly don’t see breath taking hostility. Unless it’s me.... I thought the response was mild. Me either. Maybe we are becoming desensitized to hostility?
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Apr 18, 2018 8:33:50 GMT -6
And I don't know if I am delirious from being a million months pregnant, not getting any sleep and being sick or what, but the gif game the last couple of days have been cracking me up.
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Post by angelashly on Apr 18, 2018 8:37:03 GMT -6
Who’s hiding? I’m right here, boo. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:38:18 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj , you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. I wouldn't call the first bit of replies as hair patting. If you read over they were actually action plan/information based.
She posted OP 04/13/18
Then she said she would get started. 04/13/18 at 5:17pm CST
Brux asked for update 04/16/18 9:37am CST
04/16/18 1:06pm CST she responded that she got 2015 in, filed an extension for 2017 and will do 2016 next weekend.
On 04/16/18 9:43pm CST was the "and totally understand why you couldn't before..."
A mere 2 posts later she got the Nikki Minaj side eye so I don't really see that as "all the head patting" but I am just one person. It's my perception. I am an army of one but alas still one person.
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Post by mack on Apr 18, 2018 8:40:04 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj , you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. I wouldn't call the first bit of replies as hair patting. If you read over they were actually action plan/information based.
She posted OP 04/13/18
Then she said she would get started. 04/13/18 at 5:17pm CST
Brux asked for update 04/16/18 9:37am CST
04/16/18 1:06pm CST she responded that she got 2015 in, filed an extension for 2017 and will do 2016 next weekend.
On 04/16/18 9:43pm CST was the "and totally understand why you couldn't before..."
A mere 2 posts later she got the Nikki Minaj side eye so I don't really see that as "all the head patting" but I am just one person. It's my perception. I am an army of one but alas still one person.
She didn't get the side eye. The person that said not filing for 3 years was completely understandable got the side eye.
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Post by Cher on Apr 18, 2018 8:40:47 GMT -6
I just want you to know I really enjoy you. I don’t trust you at all. But I enjoy you.
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ttcbabyj
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 8:41:14 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj , you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. I wouldn't call the first bit of replies as hair patting. If you read over they were actually action plan/information based.
She posted OP 04/13/18
Then she said she would get started. 04/13/18 at 5:17pm CST
Brux asked for update 04/16/18 9:37am CST
04/16/18 1:06pm CST she responded that she got 2015 in, filed an extension for 2017 and will do 2016 next weekend.
On 04/16/18 9:43pm CST was the "and totally understand why you couldn't before..."
A mere 2 posts later she got the Nikki Minaj side eye so I don't really see that as "all the head patting" but I am just one person. It's my perception. I am an army of one but alas still one person.
This exactly!
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:41:45 GMT -6
But ripper isn’t lying though. Going through tragic life events doesn’t give a 3 year excuse to put off your responsibilities. I’m not here for this, at all.
Hostile is defined as unfriendly and antagonistic, disapproving of.
This post didn't scream friendly to me and it read as disapproving. Not just by connotation but if you see the last sentence states: "I'm not here for this, at all" as in I just have to leave and get away from this which to me says disapproving.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:43:03 GMT -6
But ripper isn’t lying though. Going through tragic life events doesn’t give a 3 year excuse to put off your responsibilities. I’m not here for this, at all. Meh. She fucked up, she admitted it, she's trying to fix it. And she's actually attacking it more quickly than most people do one year's worth of taxes. It's not what I'd have done, but I'm not going to knock someone who's trying to get their shit together. Then there's this post - as you can see someone else received the narrative as knocking someone who is trying to get their shit together. So this says to me that I was not alone in my perception.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:44:40 GMT -6
Meh. She fucked up, she admitted it, she's trying to fix it. And she's actually attacking it more quickly than most people do one year's worth of taxes. It's not what I'd have done, but I'm not going to knock someone who's trying to get their shit together. Being impressed and being “understanding” of this is... beyond me. Again, there was one post saying they understood, one person.
Again, the words used here are connotative for me as disapproval. I have previously explained how and why.
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Post by pobre on Apr 18, 2018 8:46:17 GMT -6
Being impressed and being “understanding” of this is... beyond me. Again, there was one post saying they understood, one person.
Again, the words used here are connotative for me as disapproval. I have previously explained how and why.
"doesn't have this kind of time today"
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Post by wickedcandy on Apr 18, 2018 8:47:21 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj , you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. I definitely would say it was just the IF, but more of the mind crippling depression/dysthymia. But hey I get it, when you gotta flame, you gotta flame. That was no where near flaming.. My first thought (that I didn't post) would have been flaming.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:47:57 GMT -6
@gentleapricot I never once asked to be excused of my responsibilities. You act like I said my DH and I have filed exempt for the past 3 years. We both have had more than enough taxes already deducted from our payroll. We never owe taxes because of the large amount of money deducted from our paychecks. We don’t qualify for any of the usual credits because of our income. So right now filing is more of a formality than anything else. Until you walk in my shoes you have ABSOLUTELY no idea what I was experiencing in my life. Gentle apricot, my ass abrasive lemon is more like it. You don’t know me, nor do you know what I’ve been through so let’s please not play the pain olympics. Ignoring your taxes for years, whether you get a refund, break even or owe, is irresponsible. So here in this example we just come out and call the person irresponsible. I mean I am fine with it. Everyone is grown.
I am only mentioning since my observation of hostilities was questioned. Again, doesn't seem friendly so I would go with the opposite of that.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:49:10 GMT -6
Again, there was one post saying they understood, one person.
Again, the words used here are connotative for me as disapproval. I have previously explained how and why.
"doesn't have this kind of time today" I did say let me get my computer fixed first and if you checked the time stamps.
Time has passed and I am up and running.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 8:57:30 GMT -6
I just want to say about the whole people go through stuff all the time and still file their taxes, etc.
I work with mental health and I myself have suffered with my own issues and let me tell you, some people have a real hard time just getting their activities of daily living done when in the throes and the thick of it. The day to day stuff done like personal grooming, preparing meals, household chores, managing finances, shopping for their needs, etc. Again, I am not speaking to the OP cause I Mariah Carey don't know her. I just had to speak on the "well other people are able to go through horrible life shit and still file their taxes."
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 9:00:51 GMT -6
So let me be clear, I am not saying no one could throw shade or unfriendly remarks at all.
I am not saying grace had to be extended by all people here - at all.
I don't care who said or says what.
Just don't be all
and harping on my breath be taken by the hostilities like I just made that up.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 9:04:09 GMT -6
I hope I have now answered the questions about the origin of my comment in regard to "hostilities."
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Post by brux on Apr 18, 2018 9:04:36 GMT -6
File your motherfucking taxes, everyone.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 9:06:55 GMT -6
I wouldn't call the first bit of replies as hair patting. If you read over they were actually action plan/information based.
She posted OP 04/13/18
Then she said she would get started. 04/13/18 at 5:17pm CST
Brux asked for update 04/16/18 9:37am CST
04/16/18 1:06pm CST she responded that she got 2015 in, filed an extension for 2017 and will do 2016 next weekend.
On 04/16/18 9:43pm CST was the "and totally understand why you couldn't before..."
A mere 2 posts later she got the Nikki Minaj side eye so I don't really see that as "all the head patting" but I am just one person. It's my perception. I am an army of one but alas still one person.
She didn't get the side eye. The person that said not filing for 3 years was completely understandable got the side eye. Yes.
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