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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2018 19:01:57 GMT -6
@gentleapricot you don’t know anything about me either! Nowhere I’m post did I ask if my behavior was irresponsible, no shit Sherlock I know it was irresponsible. I asked if we would get in trouble, if I could file online and other tangible tax related questions. But thank you for pointing out the subjective, obvious observation. You included your IF journey to give reason as to why you didn’t file your taxes, yes? And I commented on that along with the subsequent posts that referenced your situation.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 17, 2018 19:09:49 GMT -6
ttcbabyj hey, you got the help you needed, you are on the road to rectifying it. Can't we just flame your life choices, in peace, for the next 6 pages? Lol! Sure, why not. 🤷🏽♀️ I also breastfeed my daughter to sleep even though the pediatrician specifically told me to try to stop doing it by the time she’s 8 months old.
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Post by ripper on Apr 17, 2018 19:22:59 GMT -6
ttcbabyj hey, you got the help you needed, you are on the road to rectifying it. Can't we just flame your life choices, in peace, for the next 6 pages? Lol! Sure, why not. 🤷🏽♀️ I also breastfeed my daughter to sleep even though the pediatrician specifically told me to try to stop doing it by the time she’s 8 months old. We should flame you for the fact that you continue(d) to see this stupid paediatrician.
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Post by sterling on Apr 17, 2018 19:51:42 GMT -6
Omfg at "abrasive ass lemon" New screen name time.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 17, 2018 20:19:53 GMT -6
I rolled my eyes at the OP because it filing your taxes for years and years is a major failure at adulting. I think a lot of people go through horrible life shit and still file taxes. But you got helpful information from the board tax guru brux so that was nice. I do think it's... Something... That you are so taken aback by the reactions that this is not excusable. I’m not taken aback at the reactions, I know how the internet works. I know it’s irresponsible, I never said it wasn’t. My whole reason for posting was to receive some basic tax guidance, which I really appreciated brux. I’m just not a “spike the ball” type of girl. But I guess some people get their jollies by reiterating what a person has already readily admitted. I never said “hey this behavior is excusable.” I was giving some background.
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Post by Cher on Apr 17, 2018 20:25:30 GMT -6
I rolled my eyes at the OP because it filing your taxes for years and years is a major failure at adulting. I think a lot of people go through horrible life shit and still file taxes. But you got helpful information from the board tax guru brux so that was nice. I do think it's... Something... That you are so taken aback by the reactions that this is not excusable. I’m not taken aback at the reactions, I know how the internet works. I know it’s irresponsible, I never said it wasn’t. My whole reason for posting was to receive some basic tax guidance, which I really appreciated brux. I’m just not a “spike the ball” type of girl. But I guess some people get their jollies by reiterating what a person has already readily admitted. I never said “hey this behavior is excusable.” I was giving some background. Fwiw, I think a lot of people are thrown by the “I understand” sort of posts. You admitted you screwed up. I think people are responding the way they are because of some of the reactions. Bad year or not, you file taxes. But some people acting like it’s totally justifiable is a tad “lolwut?”.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2018 20:42:19 GMT -6
I’ve filed a filing extension for tragic life circumstances before.
And not for nothing but a lot of people’s anxiety and depression does manifest in major procrastination of even very important things. I know mine does.
Anyways, glad you are on the road to getting it cleared up, OP. I hope you feel better.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 17, 2018 20:48:44 GMT -6
I keep reading the thread again because I feel I missed the part where @gentleapricot said something worth this reaction. ttcbabyj, you're fixing this, you should be relieved and happy! Not all wound up tight. Eat some chocolate, celebrate your future of freedom from IRS fear. (Please, gods, don't let the comment about nursing turn this into another sleep thread.) Trust me the nursing comment was a joke. I will nurse to sleep until my DD doesn’t want to do it anymore.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 17, 2018 20:54:38 GMT -6
Cher I totally get what you are saying. I don’t want to speak for those who commented they understood my position, but I never took that support as them saying my behavior was excusable. I don’t think saying “I understand” is synomymous with saying, “your behavior was excusable.” Trust me I know if someone said, “girl you’re good, don’t trip” this is a bunch of bullshit.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 17, 2018 20:56:42 GMT -6
For me, the reason didn't matter. She didn't file. She is now.
This isn't high up there for me with a history of getting refunds.
I mean people post they couldn't muster strength to bathe, make dinner, etc and they receive all the hair Pats the Patty's have to give.
I don't know what she was dealing with or not. If it's an issue Uncle. SAM WILL get with her.
The hostilities are actually breathtaking.
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Post by Cher on Apr 17, 2018 21:01:01 GMT -6
Cher I totally get what you are saying. I don’t want to speak for those who commented they understood my position, but I never took that support as them saying my behavior was excusable. I don’t think saying “I understand” is synomymous with saying, “your behavior was excusable.” Trust me I know if someone said, “girl you’re good, don’t trip” this is a bunch of bullshit. I hear you. I wasn’t reading it as coming at you, but them. But I don’t want to speak for anyone either. Regardless, your anxiety made you freeze up before and now it’s making you jump into action. You’re filing for years past. And you have a beautiful baby that you will nurse for as long as you want. Positive changes everywhere!
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 17, 2018 21:03:08 GMT -6
🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊 thank you. I remember you from the POC and IF board. Trust me I ate A LOT cake and didn’t file my taxes. 😂
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 5:55:33 GMT -6
For me, the reason didn't matter. She didn't file. She is now. This isn't high up there for me with a history of getting refunds. I mean people post they couldn't muster strength to bathe, make dinner, etc and they receive all the hair Pats the Patty's have to give. I don't know what she was dealing with or not. If it's an issue Uncle. SAM WILL get with her. The hostilities are actually breathtaking. Who in here is being hostile? Good lord.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 18, 2018 5:58:01 GMT -6
For me, the reason didn't matter. She didn't file. She is now. This isn't high up there for me with a history of getting refunds. I mean people post they couldn't muster strength to bathe, make dinner, etc and they receive all the hair Pats the Patty's have to give. I don't know what she was dealing with or not. If it's an issue Uncle. SAM WILL get with her. The hostilities are actually breathtaking. Who in here is being hostile? Good lord. there are a few. Clearly I didn't make it up? Maybe it just "reads" that way.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 6:05:15 GMT -6
Who in here is being hostile? Good lord. there are a few. Clearly I didn't make it up? Maybe it just "reads" that way. I didn’t say you made it up, which is why I asked “who”...
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 6:18:17 GMT -6
I rolled my eyes at the OP because it filing your taxes for years and years is a major failure at adulting. I think a lot of people go through horrible life shit and still file taxes. But you got helpful information from the board tax guru brux so that was nice. I do think it's... Something... That you are so taken aback by the reactions that this is not excusable. I’m not taken aback at the reactions, I know how the internet works. I know it’s irresponsible, I never said it wasn’t. My whole reason for posting was to receive some basic tax guidance, which I really appreciated brux. I’m just not a “spike the ball” type of girl. But I guess some people get their jollies by reiterating what a person has already readily admitted. I never said “hey this behavior is excusable.” I was giving some background. Posters said they understood. I said that I did not. What is your issue?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 6:22:03 GMT -6
I also didn't sense any breathtaking hostilities in here but I may be desensitized. Perhaps I am too, especially since I’m an abrasive ass lemon.
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Post by mack on Apr 18, 2018 6:30:27 GMT -6
ttcbabyj hey, you got the help you needed, you are on the road to rectifying it. Can't we just flame your life choices, in peace, for the next 6 pages? Actual LOL
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Post by Cher on Apr 18, 2018 6:54:09 GMT -6
If we can’t yell at people for congratulating posters for not paying their taxes, what are we even doing here?
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Post by wickedcandy on Apr 18, 2018 7:19:43 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj, you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years..
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 7:27:39 GMT -6
I’m not taken aback at the reactions, I know how the internet works. I know it’s irresponsible, I never said it wasn’t. My whole reason for posting was to receive some basic tax guidance, which I really appreciated brux. I’m just not a “spike the ball” type of girl. But I guess some people get their jollies by reiterating what a person has already readily admitted. I never said “hey this behavior is excusable.” I was giving some background. Posters said they understood. I said that I did not. What is your issue? Trust me you didn’t just say, “I don’t understand.” But whatever it is what it is...I’m not a “spike the ball” type of girl or a “poke the bear and hide the stick” type of girl either. 🤷🏽♀️
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 7:32:17 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj, you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. I definitely would say it was just the IF, but more of the mind crippling depression/dysthymia. But hey I get it, when you gotta flame, you gotta flame.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 7:33:38 GMT -6
Did someone say abrasive ass lemon because I just got a google alert.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 7:33:49 GMT -6
I do not understand these "spike the ball" and whatever other metaphors (are they even metaphors? more things I'm not understanding)..... but we can file it under "don't care enough" and keep it pushing. I agree! Let’s keep it pushing. I have taxes to file. 😀
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Post by Cher on Apr 18, 2018 7:34:20 GMT -6
I read the first bit of replies, and went "Huh"... and was surprised at all the head patting.. and @ ttcbabyj, you are not #new , you know people are going to respond how they feel, to me blaming IF/Looses as the reasons for not doing your taxes feels. a bit much, esp for 3 years.. when you gotta flame, you gotta flame. Next forum name.
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Post by gimmeaQ on Apr 18, 2018 7:37:20 GMT -6
Did someone say abrasive ass lemon because I just got a google alert.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2018 7:41:23 GMT -6
Posters said they understood. I said that I did not. What is your issue? Trust me you didn’t just say, “I don’t understand.” But whatever it is what it is...I’m not a “spike the ball” type of girl or a “poke the bear and hide the stick” type of girl either. 🤷🏽♀️ Who’s hiding? I’m right here, boo.
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Post by mack on Apr 18, 2018 7:42:46 GMT -6
Trust me you didn’t just say, “I don’t understand.” But whatever it is what it is...I’m not a “spike the ball” type of girl or a “poke the bear and hide the stick” type of girl either. 🤷🏽♀️ Who’s hiding? I’m right here, boo. I am v confused
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Post by brux on Apr 18, 2018 7:51:55 GMT -6
oh "poke the bear and hide the stick" was the other one. wonderful.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Apr 18, 2018 7:53:50 GMT -6
Who’s hiding? I’m right here, boo. I am v confused +1
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