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Post by theoprah on Jun 15, 2018 19:51:27 GMT -6
Self care for me means going out to happy hour with my girlfriends, deep tissue massages, mani/pedis and binge watching Netflix- new season of Queer Eye y’all!!!
And yes - DD is so.whiny!!! DS was not like this at all. I just hiss Stop Whining all the time. Good times.
DS will be getting evaluated for ADHD and autism spectrum on Tuesday June 26th and I cannot wait. I want answers and explanations and I hope to get some!!
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Post by dizzycooks on Jun 16, 2018 14:51:29 GMT -6
Just FYI all Nellie is having login troubles so she hasn’t been able to comment. 😪 Well we need to get that fixed...is she on the fb group? Is it bad that I get all the screen names and fb names mixed up?
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Post by dizzycooks on Jun 16, 2018 14:54:16 GMT -6
Guys I am at my ILs house and for the second time my FIL has wandered past me to the bathroom across the hall and used the toilet with the door open. I DO NOT NEED THIS MUCH INFORMATION. Omg. Close the door! Combined with the blenching and farting at lunch today I am so over bodily functions. Someone please pass the wine. Did I mention dd3 is having another fever and inflammation flare? She can't walk well and her fever is insane, but there's nothing we can do. She puked in the car last night, but I think that was just the fever. This has been a weekend yall.
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Post by kcrkcs on Jun 16, 2018 20:28:26 GMT -6
dizzycooks sorry your peanut isn't feeling well again and as to the bodily functions of others... yuck. So I have been super busy with work... that's like a broken record I know. Also I applied for a certification from one of the main national orgs. It should have been super straightforward. They just did the review and I was asked to submit additional references. This didn't make sense to me so I emailed them back and asked them if they could give me more insight. The head of the whole damn thing called me the next day. She said she wouldn't normally call someone or even discuss, but it was a weird situation and since I was a great candidate in all other respects she felt like she needed to break protocol. Long story short, I am pretty sure they are making me go through this because one of my references called me out for breast feeding publicly at the horse shows. I can't prove this but based on what was said this is the only conclusion I can come to. I am aghast, on so many levels. The head of the program was all, political climate, me too movement blah blah, and I am just aghast. And bugger off to whichever one of my references said whatever they may have said.
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Post by scorpioscuba on Jun 17, 2018 13:36:29 GMT -6
What the actual fuck kcrkcs!? I’m so sorry that is such crap. I hope everything works out in the end as it should!!
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Post by kcrkcs on Jun 17, 2018 16:40:55 GMT -6
What the actual fuck kcrkcs!? I’m so sorry that is such crap. I hope everything works out in the end as it should!! Thanks. Yeah, I was/am pissed.
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Post by scorpioscuba on Jun 17, 2018 22:50:37 GMT -6
Just FYI all Nellie is having login troubles so she hasn’t been able to comment. 😪 Well we need to get that fixed...is she on the fb group? Is it bad that I get all the screen names and fb names mixed up? Nope. She’s just on instagram.
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Post by theoprah on Jun 18, 2018 12:38:22 GMT -6
dizzycooks - yeah FIL needs to shut the freaking door!! Way TMI!! And I hope that DD3 feels better soon!! kcrkcs - that is beyond messed up - I am so sorry!!! I hope that Nellieoleson can find her way back!
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Post by nellieoleson on Jun 18, 2018 22:24:02 GMT -6
I’m back! You guys! I thought it was hopeless, but I prevailed. Hello! dizzycooks - can you ask your H to talk to his dad about closing the door? That is totally insane and inappropriate. I thought it was bad my FIL left the toilet seat up all the time, but leaving the bathroom door open takes the cake! kcrkcs - I am furious on your behalf, and on the behalf of all nursing mamas out there. What “political climate” makes it shameful to feed your baby? So I guess now days it’s totally cool to take kids from their parents and house them in tent cities, but it’s not cool to nurse your child. Mmmkay, got it. 😡 Anyway. I’m sorry you have to deal with this BS. scorpioscuba - thanks for keeping the group updated! tinydancer - any updates??? lollipop - how are you doing lately? I know you were feeling a bit rough a while ago and waiting on some appointments. Thinking of you and hope things are improving.
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Post by nellieoleson on Jun 18, 2018 22:29:22 GMT -6
tinydancer - just saw the new thread about the baby. Yay! Now off to catch up some more 😍😍😍 P.s. you guys... my timeline is so messed up! Sorry if I miss anything with I’m getting my bearings back.
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Post by lollipop on Jun 19, 2018 9:56:15 GMT -6
Thanks for thinking of me nellieoleson 😊 I'm definitely on a downswing, mental health wise. Part of it is probably because I just started a new prescription, and because I have to take it at night instead of in the morning I keep forgetting to take it. Also outside stressors. But I'm trying really hard to stay positive and keep up with my workbook and therapeutic tools
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Post by scorpioscuba on Jun 19, 2018 23:00:03 GMT -6
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Post by scorpioscuba on Jun 19, 2018 23:02:46 GMT -6
I’m seriously beside myself over this immigration issue.
At dinner tonight we actually discussed how we could foster some of these kids, living in Arizona. DS was so excited at the idea though I cautioned him that it was highly unlikely and if it could happen it wouldn’t be all sunshine and rainbows. But it made my mama heart happy he wanted to help. He saw the kids on the news this morning and was pretty devastated.
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Post by lollipop on Jun 20, 2018 9:06:34 GMT -6
Thank God H is taking his car in to get fixed tomorrow. I tweaked my hip and can barely walk, but H has my car so I've kept S home all week because walking that far is out of the question. He's driving me insane.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2018 9:31:58 GMT -6
lollipop, i hope your hip feels better. i'm glad you are staying positive and working on things. discuss here if needed! kcrkcs, holy sh$t i am pissed from afar. that is outrageous. i hope it all works out soon. scorpioscuba, i know. i move from being really upset to trying not to think about it. it all feels so hopeless with this administration. i sent a letter to my senator not supporting feinstein's bill through re.sist.bot. check that out if interested. very quick, effective and user friendly. theoprah, keep us posted about the screening. i'm glad things are moving forward.
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Post by dizzycooks on Jun 22, 2018 13:43:42 GMT -6
kcrkcs any updates? That’s crap that they’re even looking into it. FWIW I bf while working too and I don’t even cover aside from my shirt. No one has dared say a thing to me. scorpioscuba and @kelltothekell so upsetting. How are you explaining it to your kids? I’m generally pretty ok with having my kids watch the news because it brings up questions and forces me to be real with them, so they’ve seen this on the news but clearly dont get it. Neither do I so it’s really hard to discuss with them. nellieoleson you’re in insta? I am too, but I’m not active. How do I find you? I don’t want to loose you if this page gets hard to log into
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Post by dizzycooks on Jun 22, 2018 13:46:22 GMT -6
Today has been a day. I worked a few hours this morning, found out a purchase agreement I’d written was rejected, went grocery shopping (Costco and aldi) and spent $$$ and then my bottle of sangria fell out of the car and shattered glass everywhere. Now the baby won’t nap and I’m completely out of energy. Everyday I feel like I’m falling more behind and I’m trying to give myself credit for what I do actually get done, but man it’s hard. How do you decide enough is enough? My husband doesn’t seem to have a problem with this...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 15:09:16 GMT -6
dizzycooks one step at a time. Small goals. You are doing a great job. Have a great week everyone
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Post by scorpioscuba on Jun 24, 2018 23:25:07 GMT -6
kcrkcs any updates? That’s crap that they’re even looking into it. FWIW I bf while working too and I don’t even cover aside from my shirt. No one has dared say a thing to me. scorpioscuba and @kelltothekell so upsetting. How are you explaining it to your kids? I’m generally pretty ok with having my kids watch the news because it brings up questions and forces me to be real with them, so they’ve seen this on the news but clearly dont get it. Neither do I so it’s really hard to discuss with them. nellieoleson you’re in insta? I am too, but I’m not active. How do I find you? I don’t want to loose you if this page gets hard to log into I try not to get into the politics of it. Just simple facts for now about what’s happening. It’s been enough for now.
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Post by nellieoleson on Jun 25, 2018 10:05:50 GMT -6
kcrkcs any updates? That’s crap that they’re even looking into it. FWIW I bf while working too and I don’t even cover aside from my shirt. No one has dared say a thing to me. scorpioscuba and @kelltothekell so upsetting. How are you explaining it to your kids? I’m generally pretty ok with having my kids watch the news because it brings up questions and forces me to be real with them, so they’ve seen this on the news but clearly dont get it. Neither do I so it’s really hard to discuss with them. nellieoleson you’re in insta? I am too, but I’m not active. How do I find you? I don’t want to loose you if this page gets hard to log into I’m yesthatsara on instagram— any J16ers feel free to follow. I don’t have a Facebook account so if this site disappears you can find me there!
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Post by lollipop on Jun 26, 2018 10:46:58 GMT -6
Just realized today is the last day I have to get up to take S to school. H will do it tomorrow and Thursday and that's the end of the year. Obviously I'll still have to get up when M does, but I won't have to do stuff right off the bat and I don't need an alarm. Summer!
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Post by kcrkcs on Jun 27, 2018 20:03:20 GMT -6
Can we share instagram names again. I didn't have an insta account back in the day but now I do! Kcolferreece
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Post by dizzycooks on Jun 27, 2018 20:40:33 GMT -6
Can we share instagram names again. I didn't have an insta account back in the day but now I do! Kcolferreece Katien 123 k.nigh.t no periods or spaces obviously
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Post by lollipop on Jun 28, 2018 10:31:56 GMT -6
Can we share instagram names again. I didn't have an insta account back in the day but now I do! Kcolferreece lollipopb89
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