thatgolfb
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Jun 2, 2017 7:50:43 GMT -6
Post by thatgolfb on Jun 2, 2017 7:50:43 GMT -6
If not then... that would be make me extra super salty.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:51:15 GMT -6
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Post by Betweenthelines on Jun 2, 2017 7:51:15 GMT -6
windwithfingers , I would be salty but I would do my best to check myself. What's best for the DD is to have two parents who are kind to each other and spend time with her. That's what I'm doing. I am trying to be an adult here, and not make it about me. But inside I'm like BUT WHAT ABOUT ME. It's tough. I would be the same way.. that's hard.
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thatgolfb
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Jun 2, 2017 7:51:25 GMT -6
Post by thatgolfb on Jun 2, 2017 7:51:25 GMT -6
I am far too lazy to ever investigate who has viewed my IG stories. Or even to figure out how to create an IG story. Same. I'm not even sure wtf a IG story is. I still have trouble figuring out how to read a dm. That's a direct message btw. The kids here taught me that.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:51:58 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 7:51:58 GMT -6
They live in the same small town, 5 minutes from each other. DD was in the parade, so they both went. But this is your SO, right? Hanging with his ex while you're not there? Yeah. His parents were there too and it was a big event. They attend stuff together sometimes. Egg hunts and stuff. I mean, I hate it, but I'm glad they're civil. I guess.
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thatgolfb
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Jun 2, 2017 7:52:10 GMT -6
Post by thatgolfb on Jun 2, 2017 7:52:10 GMT -6
I sat next to a doctor on the plane ride out who told me about vaccines being linked to autism/containing Mercury, that everyone is allergic to gluten, that flu vaccines don't work, and used the word "gut" an uncomfortable number of times. She told me where she works and I plan on putting up a bad review on her when I get home. I don't know if this is an UO or not, but I firmly believe any doctor who believes in the vaccine/autism link should have their license revoked.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:52:32 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 7:52:32 GMT -6
I think DD is her SO's and his ex's, biologically speaking. At least that was my assumption? Yes, sorry if this was confusing. It's his DD.
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sterling
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Jun 2, 2017 7:53:04 GMT -6
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Post by sterling on Jun 2, 2017 7:53:04 GMT -6
But this is your SO, right? Hanging with his ex while you're not there? Yeah. His parents were there too and it was a big event. They attend stuff together sometimes. Egg hunts and stuff. I mean, I hate it, but I'm glad they're civil. I guess. Is DD your step daughter?
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Post by Sparkly on Jun 2, 2017 7:53:38 GMT -6
Well, Vegas, so pacific time. Oh awesome, have fun! Work but I shall try! 8+ hours of alone sleep in a king size bed was a good start. To make this a confession: The most exciting/enjoyable part of traveling for work is getting to stay in a hotel room, and have a bed and bathroom completely to myself. I could almost not care less about any of the fancy food or perks or even whether I got to the pool (usually don't have time). Just gimme my room allllll by myself! I feel incredibly guilty because I know the solo parenting for H is hard AF and I am just like omgggg this bed is amazing. Imma buy overpriced wine in the gift shop and watch TV and do nothing with any free time I have. No screaming children, no wrestling match diaper changes, no asking the 3yo to put on her underwear/clothes/shoes 17 times. Bliss.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:53:45 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 7:53:45 GMT -6
Yeah. His parents were there too and it was a big event. They attend stuff together sometimes. Egg hunts and stuff. I mean, I hate it, but I'm glad they're civil. I guess. Is DD your step daughter? Not yet.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:53:55 GMT -6
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Post by readyornot on Jun 2, 2017 7:53:55 GMT -6
In 2 weeks I'm going to a 3 day conference located about 1.5 hours from my house. Yesterday my boss told me it was ridiculous for me to have to get up at 4am & not get home until after 8pm for this conference & said I should just book a room & stay there.
So I FFC that even though it feels silly to waste company money on a hotel when it's easily driveable, I'm going to do just that & will relish in my 2 nights ALL ALONE (even if it means I have to sit thought a WC conference for it)
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Jun 2, 2017 7:54:13 GMT -6
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Post by sterling on Jun 2, 2017 7:54:13 GMT -6
Oh, okay. I'm less confused now. I agree, it's good that they have a civil relationship. It sucks to have to be the bigger person, but that's where you're at I think.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:54:35 GMT -6
Post by bearfootz on Jun 2, 2017 7:54:35 GMT -6
I sat next to a doctor on the plane ride out who told me about vaccines being linked to autism/containing Mercury, that everyone is allergic to gluten, that flu vaccines don't work, and used the word "gut" an uncomfortable number of times. She told me where she works and I plan on putting up a bad review on her when I get home. Did she get her medical degree from Trump University?
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Jun 2, 2017 7:55:05 GMT -6
Post by rayann on Jun 2, 2017 7:55:05 GMT -6
I have been wanting to remove the numbers from my username for a while now, but I could never pull the trigger and delete the account on TCF. Well, when we moved I was able to make a username without numbers and I was happy about that part.
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Post by Sparkly on Jun 2, 2017 7:56:45 GMT -6
I had 3 different sex dreams Wednesday morning. I was off for ds's ENT appointment so after I took him to school I took advantage of the alone time and put some toys to use. I also sexed up mh that night too. I guess my C is that after I had my 2nd kid, my sex drive went through the roof and I've been having sex almost daily lately. My girlfriend and I talked about it a few weeks ago and she literally looked at me like I had 5 heads for having/wanting all the sex. Please to share some of that. MH would appreciate it. I ... have not had the same experience.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:56:54 GMT -6
Post by reddelicious on Jun 2, 2017 7:56:54 GMT -6
I think DD is her SO's and his ex's, biologically speaking. At least that was my assumption? Yes, sorry if this was confusing. It's his DD. Ah, that makes a bit of a difference. I would agree with brux then. I might feel salty, but keep that in check. I am sorry either way. Those feelings have to be hard to deal with.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:57:29 GMT -6
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Post by shan-ah-doo on Jun 2, 2017 7:57:29 GMT -6
Wait, is this the ex's biological child? If so then I'm okay with this. If not, then we got a problem.
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Post by Tlex on Jun 2, 2017 7:57:31 GMT -6
I think DD is her SO's and his ex's, biologically speaking. At least that was my assumption? Yes, sorry if this was confusing. It's his DD. No the confusing part is that his ex is the mother of his child. And once I figured that out I felt kind of 🤷🏻♀️. Your feelings are valid. But it's so healthy and important for the daughter to experience support from both parents together like that.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:58:10 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 7:58:10 GMT -6
Yes, sorry if this was confusing. It's his DD. Ah, that makes a bit of a difference. I would agree with brux then. I might feel salty, but keep that in check. I am sorry either way. Those feelings have to be hard to deal with. I haven't really said anything to him about it. He is actually the one who brought it up to me and was like, "is this picture weird? It seems weird." So I raged to my BFF and internally and am trying to let it go.
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Post by Sparkly on Jun 2, 2017 7:58:53 GMT -6
For a hot second at check in, I was afraid my father forgot to book me my own room for some reason, and I very much was about to have a panic attack
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Jun 2, 2017 7:59:25 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Jun 2, 2017 7:59:25 GMT -6
We my FFFC has been making me cringe all week. My H's crazy ex was married over the weekend. My stalking led me to check out her hashtag on IG, and look at a few of the IG stories of the day. Then I found out that people actually see everyone who looks at their IG stories. So random wedding guests now know that I was creeping. Well this sort of fits with my fffc. I was frenimies with this girl for a couple years. She stole bfs from me and was sort of slutty. She was gorgeous don't get me wrong and her body had always been great. She was big on the party scene and wasn't very ambitious. Ff 10 years later and I haven't talked to her in just as long. I was laying in bed and for some reason she popped in my head. I wondered how she was so I proceed to look her up. I couldn't find her and this weird last name kept suggesting. Finally I picked it. It was her. She's semi famous. So I then had to look at every peice of media she has while simultaneously impressed and questions my life choices. She still looks amazing. 😶
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Jun 2, 2017 7:59:42 GMT -6
Post by reddelicious on Jun 2, 2017 7:59:42 GMT -6
I had 3 different sex dreams Wednesday morning. I was off for ds's ENT appointment so after I took him to school I took advantage of the alone time and put some toys to use. I also sexed up mh that night too. I guess my C is that after I had my 2nd kid, my sex drive went through the roof and I've been having sex almost daily lately. My girlfriend and I talked about it a few weeks ago and she literally looked at me like I had 5 heads for having/wanting all the sex. Please to share some of that. MH would appreciate it. I ... have not had the same experience. This may be a good argument for me to get my husband on board with a 3rd. My sex drive is...lack luster to say the least.
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Jun 2, 2017 7:59:59 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 7:59:59 GMT -6
Yes, clarification: His DD is her child. They are divorced. I'm cool with them attending events together, and it wouldn't matter if I wasn't cool with it, because I'd be an asshole (if I tried to control that). I have no issues with her. We are friendly even (to an extent). It was just that picture that messed with my head. It looks like something a photographer would take for like legit family photos. I know it's irrational and probably over the top. I just want to be there, but I'm not.
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Jun 2, 2017 8:00:53 GMT -6
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Post by Betweenthelines on Jun 2, 2017 8:00:53 GMT -6
I had 3 different sex dreams Wednesday morning. I was off for ds's ENT appointment so after I took him to school I took advantage of the alone time and put some toys to use. I also sexed up mh that night too. I guess my C is that after I had my 2nd kid, my sex drive went through the roof and I've been having sex almost daily lately. My girlfriend and I talked about it a few weeks ago and she literally looked at me like I had 5 heads for having/wanting all the sex. Please to share some of that. MH would appreciate it. I ... have not had the same experience. Sometimes I actually feel like it's too much for h? This is in my head obviously, and of course he isnt complaining, but he has a lot of back issues and stuff. It's not like it's crazy wild happenings over here, but I find myself pulling back a little with how often I jump him
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Jun 2, 2017 8:01:08 GMT -6
Post by bearfootz on Jun 2, 2017 8:01:08 GMT -6
This wouldn't be the mature thing to do but if I were Wind, I'd be tempted to make this my IG picture today.
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Post by Sparkly on Jun 2, 2017 8:01:17 GMT -6
In 2 weeks I'm going to a 3 day conference located about 1.5 hours from my house. Yesterday my boss told me it was ridiculous for me to have to get up at 4am & not get home until after 8pm for this conference & said I should just book a room & stay there. So I FFC that even though it feels silly to waste company money on a hotel when it's easily driveable, I'm going to do just that & will relish in my 2 nights ALL ALONE (even if it means I have to sit thought a WC conference for it) I mean that's 9-10 hours of driving overall and 16+ hour days. I don't think that a waste. You'll probably be fresher and a more competent employee while at the conference. Besides, you deserve a little break.
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Jun 2, 2017 8:02:39 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 8:02:39 GMT -6
I haven't really said anything to him about it. He is actually the one who brought it up to me and was like, "is this picture weird? It seems weird." So I raged to my BFF and internally and am trying to let it go. Well I think it's really good that HE brought it up to you as weird. Did you say yes? Because it's equally important to share your feelings with him as it is that he has a good co-parenting relationship with his ex. Yeah, I told him it was definitely weird and that I didn't really love it. But that's about as far as it went.
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Jun 2, 2017 8:03:02 GMT -6
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Post by shan-ah-doo on Jun 2, 2017 8:03:02 GMT -6
We my FFFC has been making me cringe all week. My H's crazy ex was married over the weekend. My stalking led me to check out her hashtag on IG, and look at a few of the IG stories of the day. Then I found out that people actually see everyone who looks at their IG stories. So random wedding guests now know that I was creeping. Well this sort of fits with my fffc. I was frenimies with this girl for a couple years. She stole bfs from me and was sort of slutty. She was gorgeous don't get me wrong and her body had always been great. She was big on the party scene and wasn't very ambitious. Ff 10 years later and I haven't talked to her in just as long. I was laying in bed and for some reason she popped in my head. I wondered how she was so I proceed to look her up. I couldn't find her and this weird last name kept suggesting. Finally I picked it. It was her. She's semi famous. So I then had to look at every peice of media she has while simultaneously impressed and questions my life choices. She still looks amazing. 😶 Now I need to know why she's famous.
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Jun 2, 2017 8:03:36 GMT -6
Post by claudia on Jun 2, 2017 8:03:36 GMT -6
Work but I shall try! 8+ hours of alone sleep in a king size bed was a good start. To make this a confession: The most exciting/enjoyable part of traveling for work is getting to stay in a hotel room, and have a bed and bathroom completely to myself. I could almost not care less about any of the fancy food or perks or even whether I got to the pool (usually don't have time). Just gimme my room allllll by myself! I feel incredibly guilty because I know the solo parenting for H is hard AF and I am just like omgggg this bed is amazing. Imma buy overpriced wine in the gift shop and watch TV and do nothing with any free time I have. No screaming children, no wrestling match diaper changes, no asking the 3yo to put on her underwear/clothes/shoes 17 times. Bliss. If this is a bad thing, I might be the worst.
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Jun 2, 2017 8:03:38 GMT -6
Post by windwithfingers on Jun 2, 2017 8:03:38 GMT -6
This wouldn't be the mature thing to do but if I were Wind, I'd be tempted to make this my IG picture today. I scrolled through many passive aggressive quotes fantasizing about posting one on IG. I am SO TEMPTED. But I'll refrain.
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Post by bobyn on Jun 2, 2017 8:06:42 GMT -6
I sat next to a doctor on the plane ride out who told me about vaccines being linked to autism/containing Mercury, that everyone is allergic to gluten, that flu vaccines don't work, and used the word "gut" an uncomfortable number of times. She told me where she works and I plan on putting up a bad review on her when I get home. She must take Plexus if she's talking about the gut. 🙄
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