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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 8:00:35 GMT -6
I am just saying most people get rallied around and support when they go through something traumatic. Then some don't. mcbenny taking on the role of WK today. Brandi had legit complaints. She chose to pepper those complaints with garbage beliefs and language.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:01:32 GMT -6
No. She did not use homophobic slurs that I can recall. Can you remind me?
That being said, she came to the board to vent about her ex's new girl friend and because she was not an "in" people took it and twisted it into being she had issues with the LGBT community which was not the whole point of her post.
regardless of the point of the post, if someone uses racist or homophobic language as color commentary in their larger vent, that's not ok. I don't remember racist language at all. Again instead of spreading bullshit I asked up thread for someone to be more specific. I can't see me not remembering racist language but I am human. So what racist language did she say?
I still have no answer as to what homophobic language did she use? I remember her saying the woman looked like a man.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:02:30 GMT -6
I am just saying most people get rallied around and support when they go through something traumatic. Then some don't. mcbenny taking on the role of WK today. Brandi had legit complaints. She chose to pepper those complaints with garbage beliefs and language. I am not talking the role of WK. I am speaking to what happened at that time as I saw it.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Nov 22, 2017 8:02:46 GMT -6
Oh, because one person doesn't remember the full story that means it never happened? Coolio.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2017 8:02:56 GMT -6
If she's that awful of a human I assume she'll show herself but it also kind of makes me question why people are like "glad you're well." Just cause I don't usually wish well to people who have wished harm on my kids or whatever, but I realize there are some weird nuances so I will just wait and see how she shows herself.
Which I'm sure she will if she is what y'all say she is. I just hope no one's feelings get hurt in the process, since it sounds like that's what she does.
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Post by Cher on Nov 22, 2017 8:06:09 GMT -6
I think we figured out how the Leggings thread will die.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Nov 22, 2017 8:06:29 GMT -6
I am just saying most people get rallied around and support when they go through something traumatic. Then some don't. mcbenny taking on the role of WK today. Brandi had legit complaints. She chose to pepper those complaints with garbage beliefs and language. It's fun that some of it is still on TB and one can have a refresher if they would like.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:07:40 GMT -6
Oh, because one person doesn't remember the full story that means it never happened? Coolio. Have you not seen me ask for specifics? Really?
You know what I am so tired of you. You of all people should know I am not down with someone lying on someone. The thing is with the truth it does not have to be remembered it just is. When they lied on you, I felt it was a fucking lie and I proved it. Not cause you and I are bosom buddies because I don't like people lying on people. Period. Not only did I prove they lied on you, I tried to get people to leave the fucking forum because if they could fuck over GhoatMonket like that then they can do it to us. Not only because we could no longer post WITH you. Again, not because we were BFFs because I felt it was right.
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Nov 22, 2017 8:11:38 GMT -6
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Post by Kida on Nov 22, 2017 8:11:38 GMT -6
mcbenny taking on the role of WK today. Brandi had legit complaints. She chose to pepper those complaints with garbage beliefs and language. It's fun that some of it is still on TB and one can have a refresher if they would like. Link it then
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Post by rayann on Nov 22, 2017 8:11:42 GMT -6
I have no idea what's going on, so Hi! ![](https://media2.giphy.com/media/nKRbN4clUMUw0/giphy.gif)
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Nov 22, 2017 8:13:14 GMT -6
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Post by lupineaura on Nov 22, 2017 8:13:14 GMT -6
I don’t really know Brandi but look at all the shit she was able to stir with just one intro post. If she’s a drama llama, her mission was too easily accomplished.
We have to level up y’all.
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Post by hawkward on Nov 22, 2017 8:14:15 GMT -6
I remember her being rallied around more than once... There were several times I can recall her getting "good for yous" when she was getting out of her relationship with her SO, and threads of advice/support when she had stuff going on with Isla. In her second or third iteration, there was a brief time when she seemed reformed and people gave her another chance. Not wholeheartedly, granted, but still she was given another chance.
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Nov 22, 2017 8:14:21 GMT -6
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 8:14:21 GMT -6
I don’t really know Brandi but look at all the shit she was able to stir with just one intro post. If she’s a drama llama, her mission was too easily accomplished. We have to level up y’all. nah. I like this level.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:14:59 GMT -6
If she's that awful of a human I assume she'll show herself but it also kind of makes me question why people are like "glad you're well." Just cause I don't usually wish well to people who have wished harm on my kids or whatever, but I realize there are some weird nuances so I will just wait and see how she shows herself. Which I'm sure she will if she is what y'all say she is. I just hope no one's feelings get hurt in the process, since it sounds like that's what she does. You are so wise.
That being said common sense does tell us if not everyone is coming all aggressive then there is obviously more to it.
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Nov 22, 2017 8:15:02 GMT -6
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 8:15:02 GMT -6
Lisajay was the racist one. I don't recall Brandi being racist.
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Nov 22, 2017 8:16:23 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2017 8:16:23 GMT -6
If she's that awful of a human I assume she'll show herself but it also kind of makes me question why people are like "glad you're well." Just cause I don't usually wish well to people who have wished harm on my kids or whatever, but I realize there are some weird nuances so I will just wait and see how she shows herself. Which I'm sure she will if she is what y'all say she is. I just hope no one's feelings get hurt in the process, since it sounds like that's what she does. It's the new "How are you today?".
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 8:17:48 GMT -6
I remember her being rallied around more than once... There were several times I can recall her getting "good for yous" when she was getting out of her relationship with her SO, and threads of advice/support when she had stuff going on with Isla. In her second or third iteration, there was a brief time when she seemed reformed and people gave her another chance. Not wholeheartedly, granted, but still she was given another chance. I agree. I am pretty sure that I gave her good for yous 90% of the time.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Nov 22, 2017 8:18:05 GMT -6
It's fun that some of it is still on TB and one can have a refresher if they would like. Link it then I'm not your personal Google. type in her user name and site:thebump.com
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Nov 22, 2017 8:21:42 GMT -6
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Post by lupineaura on Nov 22, 2017 8:21:42 GMT -6
I don’t really know Brandi but look at all the shit she was able to stir with just one intro post. If she’s a drama llama, her mission was too easily accomplished. We have to level up y’all. nah. I like this level. Fair.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:24:47 GMT -6
Anyone know where nanaosaki is? Or bunkin?
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 8:25:29 GMT -6
Or the young girl that literally had the babies back to back and did tot school?
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Post by hawkward on Nov 22, 2017 8:36:02 GMT -6
Or the young girl that literally had the babies back to back and did tot school? I think about her a lot. Weren't they about to adopt her nephews or something too?
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Nov 22, 2017 8:38:04 GMT -6
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Post by wasabi on Nov 22, 2017 8:38:04 GMT -6
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Post by mrsnezbit on Nov 22, 2017 8:40:02 GMT -6
Well I know where I will be today.
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Post by Nonniedee on Nov 22, 2017 8:42:39 GMT -6
I don't remember any racist or homophobic comments.
I remember her saying that the new gf looked like a man, and people saying that was body shaming and transphobic.
She was LRMM at that time, yes?
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Post by sweptaway on Nov 22, 2017 8:44:59 GMT -6
I think we figured out how the Leggings thread will die. ![](https://media.giphy.com/media/2h8BdeXxhGGB2/200.gif)
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Post by sweptaway on Nov 22, 2017 8:46:47 GMT -6
How come I can't see my own Gifs anymore?
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Post by longhornwino on Nov 22, 2017 8:53:16 GMT -6
Appears as though she found her way here by going back to TB and posting a similar reintro.
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 9:15:50 GMT -6
How come I can't see my own Gifs anymore? I can't see my own giphy gifs anymore.
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 9:16:08 GMT -6
Appears as though she found her way here by going back to TB and posting a similar reintro. on TB? Who there is lurking here?
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