hawkward
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Post by hawkward on Nov 22, 2017 7:21:07 GMT -6
I mean..at least she was honest about who she was and didn't pretend to be a brand new user like other posters we've had... This is her pattern. She intros and says she's doing really well, posts normally for a short time, and then absolutely loses her shit. It's happened at least twice that I can remember pre-coffee.
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Kida
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Post by Kida on Nov 22, 2017 7:25:08 GMT -6
I do wonder how she found her way over here, but as long as she's not posting crazy right now and that was a long time ago, I'm cool with just seeing how it goes.
But that's coming from a place of zero history with her so..
I have faith that if things go to far it will be handled lol.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2017 7:27:14 GMT -6
I believe everybody - no reason not to. I recall hearing about her in the past but couldn't put my finger on exactly what, so I appreciate y'all clarifying.
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Post by Kida on Nov 22, 2017 7:28:51 GMT -6
I mean..at least she was honest about who she was and didn't pretend to be a brand new user like other posters we've had... She never pretends she is someone else. That's not the thing here. But I'm sure we will spend many pages quarreling between those who don't know OP or have any experience with her and think those of us that do are being vaguely bitchy in a totally unnecessary way. No I fully understand I have zero history with her. That being said, if it wasn't vague posting those of us that don't have history, would then at least have reference for the oh shit posts. I'm like, either post exactly the issue and tell her to go the fuck on somewhere or stop being vague and see how it goes this time. I can't stand and support if I don't know what I'm supporting. I also can't just not be nosy because, well, hi I'm kida,you've met me before lol.
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 7:30:11 GMT -6
I am going to try to say this in a nice way because I know people haven't been here with her, but time doesn't always heal things. Brandi said some v v v hateful things. She wished harm on a poster's child.
While I do believe that she was not in a good space mentally and was dealing with a lot in her relationship and things can change I am going to be careful with her
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 7:30:33 GMT -6
Brandi (whatever your name is now) you are obviously welcome to stay and post. Time is the ultimate truth teller so if you are only a medium shit stirrer I'm sure it will be fine. I have no doubt in our ability to handle any shit that might do sideways. +1
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2017 7:33:36 GMT -6
I mean..at least she was honest about who she was and didn't pretend to be a brand new user like other posters we've had... She never pretends she is someone else. That's not the thing here. But I'm sure we will spend many pages quarreling between those who don't know OP or have any experience with her and think those of us that do are being vaguely bitchy in a totally unnecessary way. I think you're incorrect. I don't believe this will go on for many pages. In no capacity am I WK someone I don't know. The posters "who don't know OP or have any experience with her" are trying to figure out what is going on. Is she a raging racist? Does she not return her shopping carts? No skittles for the poor, perhaps?
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Post by shan-ah-doo on Nov 22, 2017 7:33:52 GMT -6
She never pretends she is someone else. That's not the thing here. But I'm sure we will spend many pages quarreling between those who don't know OP or have any experience with her and think those of us that do are being vaguely bitchy in a totally unnecessary way. No I fully understand I have zero history with her. That being said, if it wasn't vague posting those of us that don't have history, would then at least have reference for the oh shit posts. I'm like, either post exactly the issue and tell her to go the fuck on somewhere or stop being vague and see how it goes this time. I can't stand and support if I don't know what I'm supporting. I also can't just not be nosy because, well, hi I'm kida,you've met me before lol. My initial response is justified and I don’t have to have ready to go explanation for you or anybody else. Saying oh shit is not vague posting.
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Post by Kida on Nov 22, 2017 7:36:20 GMT -6
No I fully understand I have zero history with her. That being said, if it wasn't vague posting those of us that don't have history, would then at least have reference for the oh shit posts. I'm like, either post exactly the issue and tell her to go the fuck on somewhere or stop being vague and see how it goes this time. I can't stand and support if I don't know what I'm supporting. I also can't just not be nosy because, well, hi I'm kida,you've met me before lol. My initial response is justified and I don’t have to have ready to go explanation for you or anybody else. Saying oh shit is not vague posting. No one said it wasn't justified but for those of us who don't know her in any capacity, it is kinda vague for everyone to be like oh shit, uh oh, this will go well, etc etc.
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Post by unheardof on Nov 22, 2017 7:37:58 GMT -6
I mean, I'm all for giving people a second chance but I'm pretty sure this is like her 5th.
I remember she pissed off military parents/wives board on TB (vague on details) She personally attacked Pobre (that gif she posted is fucking perfection) And didn't she spew a bunch of racist shit when she GBCB'd? (I might be wrong here)
What's that saying... when someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them?
Let's just welcome cannonsmommy and tinyvagina back while we're at it.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2017 7:38:43 GMT -6
No I fully understand I have zero history with her. That being said, if it wasn't vague posting those of us that don't have history, would then at least have reference for the oh shit posts. I'm like, either post exactly the issue and tell her to go the fuck on somewhere or stop being vague and see how it goes this time. I can't stand and support if I don't know what I'm supporting. I also can't just not be nosy because, well, hi I'm kida,you've met me before lol. My initial response is justified and I don’t have to have ready to go explanation for you or anybody else. Saying oh shit is not vague posting. Saying "oh shit" "oh em gee" "rut roh" ,etc. without context is absolutely vague posting.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Nov 22, 2017 7:39:02 GMT -6
Oh, is this where we are arguing today?
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Post by Cher on Nov 22, 2017 7:47:29 GMT -6
I’ve only been around for Brandi a couple of times but every time, it has been an absolute shit show. Brandi seems unable to keep it together very long before the attacks come out. I know people change but I feel pretty confident this will end up a shit show as well.
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Post by sterling on Nov 22, 2017 7:48:06 GMT -6
Mostly this is just making me realize how many years I've been wasting my time chatting with you heifers.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:48:20 GMT -6
All the vague posting is lame. Either tell a bitch what's up or let it be. There was a lot that went down on the other forums. I'm not the best at this because I don't remember specifics but she said some very hateful things to posters Brandi- I am glad things are going good and hopefully you are in a better place I don't remember it being posters. I remember her and a poster arguing.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:50:50 GMT -6
I also don't recall any racist stuff at all. I don't believe that's really accurate.
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Post by thebanich on Nov 22, 2017 7:52:11 GMT -6
My actual out loud reaction upon opening this thread was "holy god"
Is it 2013 again?
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Post by allthedrinks on Nov 22, 2017 7:53:08 GMT -6
I’ve been lurking parenting since TB. I actually remember the OP but not all the specifics. I just think it’s obvious shit stirring to post and run when you know your return will be met with mixed reviews.
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 7:53:08 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl?
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:54:19 GMT -6
I just don't feel it's my place to give backstory when there may be personal details involved.
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hawkward
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Post by hawkward on Nov 22, 2017 7:54:25 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl? Yep.
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 7:55:36 GMT -6
There was a lot that went down on the other forums. I'm not the best at this because I don't remember specifics but she said some very hateful things to posters Brandi- I am glad things are going good and hopefully you are in a better place I don't remember it being posters. I remember her and a poster arguing. Sure there was one in particular that went at it the most with her, but lets not pretend it was only her.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:56:06 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl? No. She did not use homophobic slurs that I can recall. Can you remind me?
That being said, she came to the board to vent about her ex's new girl friend and because she was not an "in" people took it and twisted it into being she had issues with the LGBT community which was not the whole point of her post.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Nov 22, 2017 7:56:10 GMT -6
I mean, I'm all for giving people a second chance but I'm pretty sure this is like her 5th. I remember she pissed off military parents/wives board on TB (vague on details)She personally attacked Pobre (that gif she posted is fucking perfection) And didn't she spew a bunch of racist shit when she GBCB'd? (I might be wrong here) What's that saying... when someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them? Let's just welcome cannonsmommy and tinyvagina back while we're at it. She said all soldiers are baby killers.
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 7:56:19 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl?
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:56:47 GMT -6
I don't remember it being posters. I remember her and a poster arguing. Sure there was one in particular that went at it the most with her, but lets not pretend it was only her. I mean I remember a lot of people going in on her, I was talking about the one big blow up.
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Post by angelashly on Nov 22, 2017 7:57:03 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl? No. She did not use homophobic slurs that I can recall. Can you remind me?
That being said, she came to the board to vent about her ex's new girl friend and because she was not an "in" people took it and twisted it into being she had issues with the LGBT community which was not the whole point of her post.
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Post by brux on Nov 22, 2017 7:57:57 GMT -6
Was Brandi the one who used homophobic slurs to talk about her Ex's new girl? No. She did not use homophobic slurs that I can recall. Can you remind me?
That being said, she came to the board to vent about her ex's new girl friend and because she was not an "in" people took it and twisted it into being she had issues with the LGBT community which was not the whole point of her post.
regardless of the point of the post, if someone uses racist or homophobic language as color commentary in their larger vent, that's not ok.
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Post by McBenny on Nov 22, 2017 7:58:34 GMT -6
I am just saying most people get rallied around and support when they go through something traumatic.
Then some don't.
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Post by ftwr on Nov 22, 2017 8:00:01 GMT -6
Mostly this is just making me realize how many years I've been wasting my time chatting with you heifers. You love us
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