trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 18, 2017 18:50:04 GMT -6
I took the girls to the park after S woke up from her nap earlier. H was super brave and doing everything on her own, S was terrified of everything and wanted to be held the whole time. Which is weird for her, normally she likes walking around and climbing up stairs.
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Post by Sunny41 on Oct 18, 2017 19:19:52 GMT -6
I hate bedtime struggles! Why does a good day have to be ruined by bedtime?
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Post by Sunny41 on Oct 18, 2017 19:37:02 GMT -6
I just kicked my mom out for blaming the Harvey Weinstein victims and all assault victims for not saying no
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 18, 2017 19:38:52 GMT -6
Well, sounds like she earned it, Sunny41. I sent FIL out of my house once for the exact same thing.
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Post by Sunny41 on Oct 18, 2017 19:41:00 GMT -6
She is visiting from California
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 18, 2017 20:09:50 GMT -6
I will be calling out tomorrow and going to the doctor. Between my cough and insomnia things feel pretty crappy
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 18, 2017 20:10:57 GMT -6
Sunny41 sometimes you got to stand your ground. I'm sure she'll see the error of her ways soon
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 18, 2017 20:24:02 GMT -6
I will be calling out tomorrow and going to the doctor. Between my cough and insomnia things feel pretty crappy I'm not glad you're feeling so terrible but happy to hear you're going to see someone. Hope you can get some relief.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 18, 2017 20:24:44 GMT -6
mamabear how is everything with you? heymama haven't heard from you in awhile. Hope all is well with your family.
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Post by Sunny41 on Oct 18, 2017 21:13:31 GMT -6
I posted in the group ...drama!
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Post by heymama on Oct 19, 2017 3:28:59 GMT -6
mamabear how is everything with you? heymama haven't heard from you in awhile. Hope all is well with your family. Hi! Thanks for thinking of me! I never created a username here after all of the exodus drama because I was tired of figuring out where we would land. I intended to at some point, but things have been busy and I've hardly even been lurking. I was reading the daily for the first time in a long time and saw your shout out, so it was fate! We are doing well, just crazy busy juggling being back at work with 3 kids and my H's ever changing work schedule. S is almost 6 months now! She's actually been able to come to work with me, which has been so awesome. But, this is her last week with me. So, I'm just pulling out the pump and getting ready to be away from her for the first time in a long time. I'm sure I've missed so much with all of you, but I hope everyone is doing well. I'll try to be better with keeping up! (And, yes, it's the middle of the night here. S and I both have coughs/colds, which means lots of being up all night!)
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 19, 2017 5:46:23 GMT -6
Hi, heymama! Thanks for checking in
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 19, 2017 5:47:20 GMT -6
chrisy01, I hope the dr can help. Is the insomnia a new thing for you or cough/pregnancy related?
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 19, 2017 7:28:12 GMT -6
heymama I was just thinking about you and was going to tag you soon too. I’m glad things are going well. mamabear I’m sorry you’re struggling. We are here if you want to talk.
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Post by mwhip on Oct 19, 2017 7:32:47 GMT -6
Sorry things are so hard mamabear! We are here if you need to talk. I hope you feel some relief from everything soon!
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Post by guster on Oct 19, 2017 7:39:04 GMT -6
I'm sorry things are tough mamabear, we're here if you want to talk.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 19, 2017 7:47:38 GMT -6
chrisy01, I hope the dr can help. Is the insomnia a new thing for you or cough/pregnancy related? It's cough/pregnancy related. I'm so uncomfortable right now and my cough has been making me throw up which might be related to ms but I don't know. Hopefully the dr can figure it out.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 19, 2017 7:53:14 GMT -6
Lots of us dealt with PPA/PPD after our N13 kids were born, heymama. We're here if you need to talk to us.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 19, 2017 8:27:39 GMT -6
Sorry things are so hard mamabear ! We are here if you need to talk. I hope you feel some relief from everything soon! Thanks...it may require its own thread lol We have a private board if you'd feel more comfortable posting on there. I had PPA with M & H. Sometimes it helps just to type everything out, too.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 19, 2017 8:42:30 GMT -6
chrisy01 , I hope the dr can help. Is the insomnia a new thing for you or cough/pregnancy related? It's cough/pregnancy related. I'm so uncomfortable right now and my cough has been making me throw up which might be related to ms but I don't know. Hopefully the dr can figure it out. Ugh, I'm sorry. I just had a cough for a little over 2 weeks that was making me gag and throw up. Definitely doesn't help the morning sickness. Hopefully it goes away soon.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 19, 2017 8:43:25 GMT -6
mamabear, I'm sorry you're struggling. We're here if you want to talk.
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Post by sherminator on Oct 19, 2017 12:10:39 GMT -6
I put in an application with a Lab rescue a month ago. They recommended applying even though we wouldn't be ready to adopt for a while and said the approval is good for 2 years. The process takes a bit so I wanted to have the application approved so when we are ready we won't miss a match. I get an email this morning saying: In reviewing your application it appears that you would not qualify for a puppy. Save a Lab requires that a puppy not be crated/left alone for more than one hour per one month of age (daytime hours inclusive). Bladder capacity is just one of the considerations. There is also the process of teaching the puppy to be okay staying alone comfortably for a short amount of time and a puppy's critical socialization to consider. We would be happy to consider your application for an adult. Is that something you are agreeable to? I'm offended. 1) We wanted an adult anyway. But also want a pair and sometimes that is hard to find with adults so we would like the option of puppies. Did she not read my application and see this? 2) Seriously rescue! This stuff pisses me off so much because clearly I am stupid qualified to have any dog I want. But rescues have their hard and fast rules and she clearly looked at my app and saw I work full time and shut it down. Apparently she missed where I said I would have a dog walker or doggie daycare so the dog would at most be along 4-5hrs per day. 3) It's stuff like this that turn people off to rescues. It took a month to get a response and then it's obvious she didn't read my application. Anyway, I emailed her back explaining that we do want an adult but don't want the door shut on a puppy and that it would not be alone that long and I get it. So frustrating! Looks like I will be throwing apps into other rescues as well. Rescues have good intentions but often suck. My take of having to return a dog we've had for over a year has waaaay soured me on ever doing that agian
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 19, 2017 12:14:25 GMT -6
I put in an application with a Lab rescue a month ago. They recommended applying even though we wouldn't be ready to adopt for a while and said the approval is good for 2 years. The process takes a bit so I wanted to have the application approved so when we are ready we won't miss a match. I get an email this morning saying: In reviewing your application it appears that you would not qualify for a puppy. Save a Lab requires that a puppy not be crated/left alone for more than one hour per one month of age (daytime hours inclusive). Bladder capacity is just one of the considerations. There is also the process of teaching the puppy to be okay staying alone comfortably for a short amount of time and a puppy's critical socialization to consider. We would be happy to consider your application for an adult. Is that something you are agreeable to? I'm offended. 1) We wanted an adult anyway. But also want a pair and sometimes that is hard to find with adults so we would like the option of puppies. Did she not read my application and see this? 2) Seriously rescue! This stuff pisses me off so much because clearly I am stupid qualified to have any dog I want. But rescues have their hard and fast rules and she clearly looked at my app and saw I work full time and shut it down. Apparently she missed where I said I would have a dog walker or doggie daycare so the dog would at most be along 4-5hrs per day. 3) It's stuff like this that turn people off to rescues. It took a month to get a response and then it's obvious she didn't read my application. Anyway, I emailed her back explaining that we do want an adult but don't want the door shut on a puppy and that it would not be alone that long and I get it. So frustrating! Looks like I will be throwing apps into other rescues as well. Rescues have good intentions but often suck. My take of having to return a dog we've had for over a year has waaaay soured me on ever doing that agian You had to return the dog? Why?!
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 19, 2017 12:14:39 GMT -6
We adopted our little guy from a pet store. They wanted me to promise that I wouldn't let my dog jump from high surfaces or go up and down stairs. I said I would try. He does this everyday now.
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Post by guster on Oct 19, 2017 12:16:48 GMT -6
Who's the sherminator?
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 19, 2017 12:19:07 GMT -6
I think she posts on parenting. Probably found the thread listed on the home page or something.
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Post by guster on Oct 19, 2017 12:19:23 GMT -6
Cool! Welcome!
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Post by sherminator on Oct 19, 2017 20:30:56 GMT -6
Oh sorry Tapatalk accidentally got me to post.. im parenting/occasional cloth diaper... my dog. Obtained on a legit rescue website... the people we got him from are being sued after 3 almost 4 years by the original owners. They claim all sorts of things but mainly they never intended to give the dog up forever... We've had him well over a year... and are willing to deal with the loveable but garbage raiding constantly shedding terrible kneed 8 year old dog . Previous owners being forced to reveal our identities and since they are total fucking whack jobs we would rather surrender the dog than deal with them in court.
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Post by sherminator on Oct 19, 2017 20:31:41 GMT -6
I think she posts on parenting. Probably found the thread listed on the home page or something. All true.. sorry for being so random!
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 19, 2017 20:45:29 GMT -6
I think she posts on parenting. Probably found the thread listed on the home page or something. All true.. sorry for being so random! Come by when you want. We're random too.
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