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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 14:52:32 GMT -6
waitwhat love you. Didn't shed tears but I may have had to excuse myself to go collect myself a bit ago. Every minute of sleep is a fight and when this MF dog wakes her up for no GD reason I actually have to restrain myself. He woke M up ten minutes into her afternoon nap and she's been screaming for almost two hours now. I'm now very aware that my ulcer is nowhere near healed. Fuck. Wine. Your H better bring you some. Hugs to you as well. And dashook. May there be wine in all our futures! |
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Post by dashook on Aug 23, 2017 15:29:21 GMT -6
Ugh, I'm sorry. Those days are so hard. I wouldn't mind it so much if they would be cheerful when they don't sleep, but obviously that is not the case. I've just been informed that D's only nap today was from 1:30-3, which means that she is going to be a holy mess when I get home  I wish I could courier pigeon you some wine right now. It's terrible. I haven't had a day like today ever. He just won't sleep and wouldn't eat. I had to tap into my freezer stash to make him a bottle. He drank about half and then I put the rest in a sippy cup and he pretty much drank that, which I feel better about. He's just a whiny mess. Like so whiny. And I feel like such a loser because I actually shed tears today. I'm just feeling super defeated. Blah. LT for hugs! You are not a loser. I have so been there. You're an amazing mom and even amazing moms have shit days like this. It is exhausting, and emotional. I want to add that I find one of my biggest triggers personally is any issue with nursing or eating. Idk, maybe it's a biological thing, but I totally feel anxiety when D isn't eating for whatever reason; it can and does send me into tears. |
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Post by sophiegrace on Aug 23, 2017 15:56:17 GMT -6
waitwhat love you. Didn't shed tears but I may have had to excuse myself to go collect myself a bit ago. Every minute of sleep is a fight and when this MF dog wakes her up for no GD reason I actually have to restrain myself. He woke M up ten minutes into her afternoon nap and she's been screaming for almost two hours now. I'm now very aware that my ulcer is nowhere near healed. Fuck. Wine. Your H better bring you some. Hugs to you as well. And dashook. May there be wine in all our futures! Or tequila! JK...I need to unwind, not run down the street naked. |
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 16:38:12 GMT -6
It's terrible. I haven't had a day like today ever. He just won't sleep and wouldn't eat. I had to tap into my freezer stash to make him a bottle. He drank about half and then I put the rest in a sippy cup and he pretty much drank that, which I feel better about. He's just a whiny mess. Like so whiny. And I feel like such a loser because I actually shed tears today. I'm just feeling super defeated. Blah. LT for hugs! You are not a loser. I have so been there. You're an amazing mom and even amazing moms have shit days like this. It is exhausting, and emotional. I want to add that I find one of my biggest triggers personally is any issue with nursing or eating. Idk, maybe it's a biological thing, but I totally feel anxiety when D isn't eating for whatever reason; it can and does send me into tears. YES. that's it exactly. I start to freak out. And then I pumped and got droplets but I'm sure the stress wasn't helping my supply. I'm nursing him now and all is well. He's already passed out for the evening. Thank you 😘 |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 16:53:47 GMT -6
I had morw wine than plannned. Not @brenda drunk, but Mr. Danib is gonna het licky lol.
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 17:10:39 GMT -6
I had morw wine than plannned. Not @brenda drunk, but Mr. Danib is gonna het licky lol. QFP😜 |
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Post by dashook on Aug 23, 2017 17:12:56 GMT -6
I had morw wine than plannned. Not @brenda drunk, but Mr. Danib is gonna het licky lol. QFP😜 You beat me to it 😂 |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 17:18:29 GMT -6
My head is spinning just a little haha
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 17:21:07 GMT -6
I had morw wine than plannned. Not @brenda drunk, but Mr. Danib is gonna het licky lol. Usually when this happens to me I just want to go to bed. But I guess if I didn't see my H for 3+ weeks it might be different. Nope. I think I'd still want sleep. |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 17:24:08 GMT -6
I had morw wine than plannned. Not @brenda drunk, but Mr. Danib is gonna het licky lol. Usually when this happens to me I just want to go to bed. But I guess if I didn't see my H for 3+ weeks it might be different. Nope. I think I'd still want sleep. LOL there's a fine line. One extra glass and Id probably be sleepingg. As long as thr kdis go to sleep on timr we are gilden!! |
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 17:31:07 GMT -6
Usually when this happens to me I just want to go to bed. But I guess if I didn't see my H for 3+ weeks it might be different. Nope. I think I'd still want sleep. LOL there's a fine line. One extra glass and Id probably be sleepingg. As long as thr kdis go to sleep on timr we are gilden!! isn't it 9pm there? I hope they are both fast asleep!!! |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 17:35:28 GMT -6
LOL there's a fine line. One extra glass and Id probably be sleepingg. As long as thr kdis go to sleep on timr we are gilden!! isn't it 9pm there? I hope they are both fast asleep!!! It is. But we were at my mom's. We stayed late. DH totalky knew I was drinking too much. He is taking advantage of my low tolerance haha. H is uust about s9lid now. Ahit my tuping is worse than notmal. |
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Post by sophiegrace on Aug 23, 2017 18:02:55 GMT -6
Don't pop that blow up mattress danib!!! |
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 18:16:04 GMT -6
Guys. All is right in the world.  |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 18:35:43 GMT -6
Don't pop that blow up mattress danib!!! Hahahaha!! We had to hr super quici. H was being a little cokc-block! So no kinky busting of the mattress tonight lol. |
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Post by danib on Aug 23, 2017 18:36:49 GMT -6
YAAAAYYY waitwhat is drinking with me!! Exceot I'm gonma he asleep soon. ( |
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Post by waitwhat on Aug 23, 2017 18:39:44 GMT -6
YAAAAYYY waitwhat is drinking with me!! Exceot I'm gonma he asleep soon. ( Boo! It's ok. I'm usually in bed by 10 too! |
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Aug 23, 2017 18:47:33 GMT -6
Lol!! Hi drunk danib! I hope the quickie was at least good! |
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Post by sophiegrace on Aug 23, 2017 19:24:11 GMT -6
Guys. All is right in the world. Cheers friend! I'm drinking my glass too quick to take a picture. 😝 |
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Post by goldenlove on Aug 23, 2017 19:34:16 GMT -6
Haha hope you enjoyed the quickie danib! |
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Post by cookswithwine on Aug 23, 2017 19:36:39 GMT -6
Re: clothing size - I just broke out the 12 mo clothes. My mom thinks I switch too early but I think I wait too long!
AFM: Cheers! I had 2 tonight! Work was the day from hell. I even had to log on at home after I got O to bed and cooked dinner.
O has an ENT appt tomorrow morning. We were referred by our ped for multiple ear infections. I'm worried he might have to have another surgery (tubes).
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Post by tgrimes on Aug 23, 2017 19:48:15 GMT -6
Don't pop that blow up mattress danib!!! Hahahaha!! We had to hr super quici. H was being a little cokc-block! So no kinky busting of the mattress tonight lol. Drunk@danib is funny. |
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Post by tgrimes on Aug 23, 2017 19:52:07 GMT -6
My dad is disoriented and has a fever. He thinks he's in GA or FL and is calling my sister by the wrong name. They want to either send him to a skilled nursing facility or keep him here to do acute therapy. We don't want him going to another facility. He was expecting to go home tomorrow and will be crushed when he realizes that isn't an option.
I forgot how hard it is to see someone like this. My mother is getting really frustrated with him and I keep reminding him he can't help it.
If he doesn't get a roommate one of us will be staying with him tonight. We don't want to leave him when he doesn't know where he is.
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Post by tgrimes on Aug 23, 2017 19:55:49 GMT -6
cookswithwine The tubes should help. FWIW, a lot of N13 had tubes. The procedure is pretty quick and easy. You still worry about them though. I think H might be headed for tubes soon, too.
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Post by sophiegrace on Aug 23, 2017 20:07:28 GMT -6
That sounds extremely hard and upsetting tgrimes. I'm really sorry it's not going smoother. What do they think the fever is coming from? Can we do anything? |
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Post by sophiegrace on Aug 23, 2017 20:09:10 GMT -6
cookswithwine good luck at the ENT. If he has to go the tube route I hope it's exactly what he needs to get rid of those nasty EIs. I imagine that's so hard to have to think about though.
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Post by flamingo on Aug 23, 2017 20:16:39 GMT -6
cookswithwine B had tubes put in when he was around 17 months old (he didn't have a history of ear infections, oddly enough, but fluid had built up and was adversely affecting his hearing and speech). Feel free to PM me if you have ?s--it really was a breeze.
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Post by flamingo on Aug 23, 2017 20:33:14 GMT -6
Hi all. Long, busy day, but DH is home!
We've been catching up on Broadchurch, and the lasagna and brownies turned out well. It's nice having another adult around!
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Post by dashook on Aug 23, 2017 20:44:51 GMT -6
I'm so sorry tgrimes; it must be really hard to see him like that. |
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Post by tgrimes on Aug 23, 2017 20:51:49 GMT -6
That sounds extremely hard and upsetting tgrimes. I'm really sorry it's not going smoother. What do they think the fever is coming from? Can we do anything? They're not sure. The blood work came back normal but no one has read his chest X-ray yet. It took them 9 hours to read his arm X-rays so.... My sister is going to stay with him tonight and I'll stay tomorrow. |
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