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Post by pobre on Jul 27, 2023 13:18:27 GMT -6
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 13:18:28 GMT -6
I think I'm ready for a new topic. Should I post my options for hairstyles for my appointment in an hour, along with pictures directly in this thread, or should I start a new one? Start a new one so that when you get banned it’s easier for admin to find and delete
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Post by pobre on Jul 27, 2023 13:19:10 GMT -6
You upside down bell pepper. Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. wut she uses it like every other week
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:20:26 GMT -6
McBenny I do want to say that I wasn’t trying to do anything by writing my initial post to you. I was honestly talking to you as a friend as if we were in person. Like girl, don’t waste your energy, nothing’s going to change. If she was lying intentionally, she’s not going to admit it. By reposting everything you know people will make you out to be a bad guy. I wasn’t trying to call you out in any way. I wasn’t saying you were wrong. I know STP is not going to admit it. I am not delusional. I am not asking her to admit it. I am not expecting it. I was never looking for it. I am not the bad guy here. I don't feel anyone can make me be that guy. I also honestly do not care. I do not seek any personal validation from anyone here. Those here that mean something to me, know it. Those whose opinions I care about, already know it. I am going to point out, hey don't let your hate for a poster lose sight of the fact that we were told a bunch of bullshit. The end.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:20:34 GMT -6
Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. wut she uses it like every other week Welp, I guess now she'll know that we don't pay attention to her.
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Post by pobre on Jul 27, 2023 13:20:39 GMT -6
If you're being actively awful (not just arguing) to me on the board, I do not want you to pm me to hash it out. For any spreadsheets. Or you could say you really don't like someone in a threed and then 90 seconds later ask them to be friends, in the same thread. thestranger kida
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:21:02 GMT -6
Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. wut she uses it like every other week I've been spending a lot of time in the reading and blinds threads.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:21:06 GMT -6
Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. wut she uses it like every other week my writers are on strike pobre damn!
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:21:35 GMT -6
If you're being actively awful (not just arguing) to me on the board, I do not want you to pm me to hash it out. For any spreadsheets. Or you could say you really don't like someone in a threed and then 90 seconds later ask them to be friends, in the same thread. thestranger kida omg this sent me, I had to get my inhaler and everything.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:22:09 GMT -6
Don't let your hate for a poster lose sight of the fact that we were told a bunch of bullshit. The end.
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Post by pobre on Jul 27, 2023 13:22:27 GMT -6
wut she uses it like every other week my writers are on strike pobre damn! I mean it's one of the McB signatures, IMO.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:23:55 GMT -6
The best day was the first day I said it and there was a whole conversation by some, how bell peppers are the same shape upside down as right side up.
OMG I cried laughing.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 13:25:00 GMT -6
And I understand what everyone is saying but it is hard to take the fact that it is Phil out of the equation because it’s a big part of the incident. She chose to PM STP, the person who asked her not to PM her ever again, out of the 3 or 4 posters who said the same thing in a thread. She could have addressed it in the thread. So yes Phil’s intentions at the start of it also come into play when I’m responding And no nasty is not the word i would use but it wasn’t done to me
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:25:27 GMT -6
I searched for bell pepper and the last time it was used was in the confessions last October and this was pobre's response. lol I don't understand the bell pepper insult. Bell peppers look roughly the same right side up or upside down. Phew, I feel better.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:26:29 GMT -6
The best day was the first day I said it and there was a whole conversation by some, how bell peppers are the same shape upside down as right side up. OMG I cried laughing. I'm dying
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:27:01 GMT -6
Pizzaslut, that could not have turned out better.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 13:27:13 GMT -6
And for the Bujo no one should get PMs that are shitty.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:29:25 GMT -6
I searched for bell pepper and the last time it was used was in the confessions last October and this was pobre's response. lol I don't understand the bell pepper insult. Bell peppers look roughly the same right side up or upside down. Phew, I feel better. That is fantastic.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 27, 2023 13:30:56 GMT -6
I agree with what Pizzaslut said. I also want to add I was surprised to learn that Phil sent STP PMs in the first place The dislike was no secret, so why even go there? It makes no sense. I think this is why AmyG I don't really understand you saying Phil didn't start anything. Did she take bait on this thread, maybe. But what good did she think would come out of sending STP private messages when we can see how they interact on the board? That to me screams trying to start shit so I don't think Phil is blameless here at all I fully reserve the fact that I could be totally wrong but again I feel this sentiment is landing clearly in a place cause you don't like phil. The PM was very clear. She asked her directly what have I ever said to you that was hurtful to you was like the first sentence. Maybe started a conversation with someone you are at odds with is new territory for you and yours. I am amazed that it is like blowing some minds. Over the years, I have had people reach out directly to me. I have reached out directly to others. Why? Why not? Two grown women that maybe can hash out our differences or agree to disagree. Neither one of us has to feel the other person is putting on a show because it is just us. I agree with AmyG here. I do not think sending a pm in itself is starting anything. I do not think going to the source and asking what have I done to you is starting anything in itself. I didn't really get that vibe from the PM we saw. Which I guess I can admit is the problem with sharing content of DMs that no one can see. For me the biggest part was publicity seeing Phil ask STP to leave her alone, then learning later that Phil was reaching out in PM. For me, it doesn't compute and just doesn't seem like something I can see myself doing in the type of banter that existed between those two. I do agree in a general sense that it isn't bad to reach out directly adult to adult. I just didn't understand it in the context of those two. Especially if STP had made it known she wouldn't be receptive to anything said over PM. Why even go there if not to get a reaction? I'm not sure I even disliked Phil. I saw trollish ways for sure but my interactions were minimal so I have no strong feelings. I will agree I do have much more of a friendly relationship with STP and like her I dont think STP handled it 100% correct like she's said, but I also cannot get on board with Phil having innocent or good intentions. I think she liked to poke the bear to see what would happen
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 27, 2023 13:31:54 GMT -6
She fucked around and found out, if you will 🤣
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:33:35 GMT -6
She fucked around and found out, if you will 🤣 Didn't we all.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 27, 2023 13:36:45 GMT -6
She fucked around and found out, if you will 🤣 Didn't we all. Yes, yes we did
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 14:01:25 GMT -6
And I understand what everyone is saying but it is hard to take the fact that it is Phil out of the equation because it’s a big part of the incident. She chose to PM STP , the person who asked her not to PM her ever again, out of the 3 or 4 posters who said the same thing in a thread. She could have addressed it in the thread. So yes Phil’s intentions at the start of it also come into play when I’m responding And no nasty is not the word i would use but it wasn’t done to me I just don't understand how you all will sit solidly in the it was phil place, however not in the solid scout place? Scout it not dumb. Scout knows how to use her words. Scout is very calculating when she's at odd with someone. She is quick witted any other time. Yet it's an oopsie. Whatever.
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 14:04:47 GMT -6
I found that viral TikTok french butter with the huge salt flakes in it. Would have told you but you abandoned me. Tag meeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Tell me about the butter!!! But real talk, as cliche and stupid as it sounds, life has just been happening and work is a dumpster fire and summer is a shit show and all the things. Wham bam months have passed. It feels like years. I really miss you. It's about me. eta but it's the Les Pres Sales Butter with Camargue Sea Salt, and it's fucking amazing. I got it at Whole Foods. It was something like $10 and I won't do it again. But drool worthy.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 14:06:32 GMT -6
And I understand what everyone is saying but it is hard to take the fact that it is Phil out of the equation because it’s a big part of the incident. She chose to PM STP , the person who asked her not to PM her ever again, out of the 3 or 4 posters who said the same thing in a thread. She could have addressed it in the thread. So yes Phil’s intentions at the start of it also come into play when I’m responding And no nasty is not the word i would use but it wasn’t done to me I just don't understand how you all will sit solidly in the it was phil place, however not in the solid scout place? Scout it not dumb. Scout knows how to use her words. Scout is very calculating when she's at odd with someone. She is quick witted any other time. Yet it's an oopsie. Whatever. I’ve said many times it was both of them. They are oil and water. I have said that STP shouldn’t have overreacted but also I’m a hypocrite because I know I have too.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 14:08:53 GMT -6
Also scout and I have duked it out. We are on opposite sides a lot so I don’t disagree McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 14:10:39 GMT -6
I fully support STP saying not to pm her anymore. I said this yesterday to be clear. Let's not lose sight of the fact that asking someone to not to pm you anymore is just that. It's a request, no more or less. The act alone is not some big offense. (When I wanted someone not to pm me anymore, I blocked them.) Let's also not lose sight of the fact that she sent scout a screen shot of scout saying she's a good person. Then a thumbs up. That was it. I know some of you apparently want to revisit nasty and mean but c'mon let's not. That was the mildest of pm exchanges. Hilarious. More than me has said so (don't make it about me).
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Post by Rusty Red on Jul 27, 2023 14:11:49 GMT -6
Maybe we can transition this to one of those fun regional dialect threads where we talk about what words mean. Please join bazi on her bench in Hell. Thanks. If y'all get into the mary/marry/merry thing again...
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 14:12:54 GMT -6
Also scout and I have duked it out. We are on opposite sides a lot so I don’t disagree McBenny With love, do you really think there's a resolution to this?
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 14:18:42 GMT -6
Also scout and I have duked it out. We are on opposite sides a lot so I don’t disagree McBenny With love, do you really think there's a resolution to this? No probably not I will sweep it under the rug like I do family stuff
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