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Post by babybean on Jul 19, 2021 8:31:01 GMT -6
How do we get to those who are hesitant and not anti-vax? There has to be something. That thread is a good reminder that not everybody has access to the same information. As someone who reads lots of news sources and seeks out information, it’s easy for me to forget that a lot of people don’t also do that or may not be able to do this. There are plenty of people who have legitimate reasons for being vaccine hesitant. And lots of people who are indifferent. Recognizing this and meeting people where they are is a vital step to overcoming vaccine hesitancy. Having visible, easy to understand information in places where people can get informed even if they aren’t actively seeking it out could make a difference in convincing them to get vaccinated. Honestly, vaccines are well understood at this point but the newness of this one is going to be what holds a lot of people back, even if they have the facts. Every doctor and healthcare professional I spoke with after my facial numbness from the Pfizer shot said “I don’t know, we don’t have enough information yet. That’s really odd. I don’t know what to do/tell you. Idk when or if it’ll go away.” and just left it there. None of this was very comforting. I’ve been hesitant but vocally pro covid vaccine this whole time ftr. I am a lot more hesitant now and don’t know how I’m feeling about vaccines for my small children. If there’s a reaction you’re told “I don’t know/have info on that”, that you’re lying or minimizing things by saying ‘that’s better than catching Covid’. I still advocate for vaccinating because every body is different but the way I was treated definitely made me feel like a guinea pig. Which adds on to my already negative feelings about a lot of healthcare in general. Pregnancy adds to nervousness too. I’m not allowed to get my second dose so rely on other to get theirs, and hope they do, but there’s a lot of lumping people into categories that I don’t find fair or helpful. (Yes I know in the grand scheme the numbness I had/have was benign) |
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Post by byjove on Jul 19, 2021 8:36:39 GMT -6
babybean , benign yes, but it's sure as hell scary while you're going through it and waiting for it to stop. I was given the same response as you and made to feel the same way (like a guinea pig) over and over again by all the doctors I saw for my reactions. And basically as long as I didn't die from getting my shot, I should make getting a second one a priority (I was even told by a doctor to lie about my vaccine history in order to do so). There was no nuance or understanding of the fear of what will happen if I try again. I was able to get the j+j as my second dose eventually at least.
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Post by klw on Jul 19, 2021 8:43:48 GMT -6
I thought that I was ok with taking my girls to a cousin's graduation party this weekend. It was in a fire hall so that there could be alot of space. But I watched the video that I shared yesterday AND THEN I found out that they are expecting 70 people. My DD1 is upset that she isn't going (she even asked for a new dress), but then I told her that if she got sick she wouldn't be able to go to the beach the following week so now she is fine with staying home.
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Post by thatgolfb on Jul 19, 2021 9:14:59 GMT -6
And now I know i follow you on IG. Based on BP it's a boy. Based on my gut it's a girl. So I'm not helpful! Loll The IG/ HIH guessing game is funny. There are many I can match but many I couldn't. I allllllllways forget peoples’ IG names. 😂 |
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Post by ldubhawksfan on Jul 19, 2021 9:18:03 GMT -6
thatgolfb, what is your current kid lineup? I don't recall offhand. 2 girls so far! Put me down on your spreadsheet as guessing another girl. All the estrogen for your DH!  |
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Post by blurnette989 on Jul 19, 2021 9:32:56 GMT -6
Soo just took a covid test at home and I can't tell if it's a squinter or if it's just me seeing the line where the test strip is? Ughhhhhh
It's pregnancy all over again.
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Post by Minerva on Jul 19, 2021 9:34:04 GMT -6
Soo just took a covid test at home and I can't tell if it's a squinter or if it's just me seeing the line where the test strip is? Ughhhhhh Ugh. Can you access PCR testing today? |
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Post by blurnette989 on Jul 19, 2021 9:36:56 GMT -6
Soo just took a covid test at home and I can't tell if it's a squinter or if it's just me seeing the line where the test strip is? Ughhhhhh Ugh. Can you access PCR testing today? Likely not this late in the day, but Ido have another at home test i could take. MH says there is no line, but i don't trust his needs reading glasses eyes. |
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Post by greykitty on Jul 19, 2021 10:04:55 GMT -6
AAP recommends all older than two wear masks while in school www.cnn.com/2021/07/19/us/aap-open-schools-covid/index.html (excerpt below) 'The American Academy of Pediatrics released new Covid-19 guidance for schools on Monday that supports in-person learning and recommends universal masking in school of everyone over the age of 2 regardless of vaccination status -- a stricter position than that taken this month by the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. ...' |
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Post by greykitty on Jul 19, 2021 10:06:43 GMT -6
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Post by byjove on Jul 19, 2021 10:09:50 GMT -6
AAP recommends all older than two wear masks while in school www.cnn.com/2021/07/19/us/aap-open-schools-covid/index.html (excerpt below) 'The American Academy of Pediatrics released new Covid-19 guidance for schools on Monday that supports in-person learning and recommends universal masking in school of everyone over the age of 2 regardless of vaccination status -- a stricter position than that taken this month by the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. ...' Quite happy to see this. |
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Post by DavidRose on Jul 19, 2021 10:30:41 GMT -6
blurnette989, oh no, I hope there is no line there and you are negative.
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Post by blurnette989 on Jul 19, 2021 10:33:43 GMT -6
I don't have a fever, but I'm heavy and exhausted and have swollen lymph nodes in my under arms.
I'm 2 weeks out from my first vax- that's too late for aide effects, right?
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Post by byjove on Jul 19, 2021 10:36:12 GMT -6
I don't have a fever, but I'm heavy and exhausted and have swollen lymph nodes in my under arms. I'm 2 weeks out from my first vax- that's too late for aide effects, right? Did you already have side effects from it? And how closely have you been monitoring your lymph node? Swelling can starts several days after vaccination and take 2 weeks to go away. |
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Post by clucky on Jul 19, 2021 10:40:06 GMT -6
thatgolfb I’m guessing girl. After seeing the recent one I remembered thinking girl from the family photos too. And eek!!! nearly baby time!
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Post by Minerva on Jul 19, 2021 11:13:42 GMT -6
I don't have a fever, but I'm heavy and exhausted and have swollen lymph nodes in my under arms. I'm 2 weeks out from my first vax- that's too late for aide effects, right? I think if it’s lymph nodes and fatigue, it could be a post-vax thing, even 2 weeks out. They’ve said the enlarged armpit and breast lymphnodes can last 3-4 weeks. It could also be a little cold and your immune system is already in fighting mode from the vaccine and overreacting a bit. |
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Post by blurnette989 on Jul 19, 2021 11:16:08 GMT -6
I don't have a fever, but I'm heavy and exhausted and have swollen lymph nodes in my under arms. I'm 2 weeks out from my first vax- that's too late for aide effects, right? Did you already have side effects from it? And how closely have you been monitoring your lymph node? Swelling can starts several days after vaccination and take 2 weeks to go away. . I know only noticed it a little yesterday and today it was more pronounced. But I'm notorious for not noticing pain so much. No side effects after the shot really. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2021 11:18:04 GMT -6
I didn’t delete my comment. And I would have responded to anyone else that said the same thing, the same way. I’m sick of the “she is just here to cause drama” from you. That’s such bullshit and completely unfair. Your comment was so low drama to me that I literally didn't register it when easier got upset. But lack of retention is clearly a me problem. Ugh. GolfB, I have boundaries and I deserve to have them respected. “I think you have me blocked but I’m gonna talk at you anyway” is shitty. Leave me alone. |
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Post by nelzie on Jul 19, 2021 11:38:22 GMT -6
AAP recommends all older than two wear masks while in school www.cnn.com/2021/07/19/us/aap-open-schools-covid/index.html (excerpt below) 'The American Academy of Pediatrics released new Covid-19 guidance for schools on Monday that supports in-person learning and recommends universal masking in school of everyone over the age of 2 regardless of vaccination status -- a stricter position than that taken this month by the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. ...' Ugh, too bad the schools here can't mandate them thanks to our worthless governor. I'm hoping at the very least this will make more parents have their kids wear them. But I fully expect my girls to be the only kids in their classes in masks this fall. |
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Post by sweetpea on Jul 19, 2021 12:15:41 GMT -6
People are protesting tomorrow at my school district's office to "advocate for mask choice". They want to restore smiles - eye roll for days
One mom, when told her child could do virtual if she was so afraid of Covid, said maybe the maskless kids should stay home. Thunderous applause from me.
I am ready for the French method of dealing with these a-holes, no shots no fun things. I am done trying to reach out to their senses
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Post by nelzie on Jul 19, 2021 12:25:51 GMT -6
One mom, when told her child could do virtual if she was so afraid of Covid, said maybe the maskless kids should stay home. Thunderous applause from me. Yes! My child wearing a mask does not hurt anyone else. Their child not wearing a mask has the potential to hurt and even kill people. Who should be the one to stay home 🤔 I'm so frustrated with these people. |
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Post by greykitty on Jul 19, 2021 13:54:30 GMT -6
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Post by sweetpea on Jul 19, 2021 14:03:38 GMT -6
Put me down on your spreadsheet as guessing another girl. All the estrogen for your DH! Put me down for a girl, based on absolutely nothing. |
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Post by jkjacq on Jul 19, 2021 14:12:16 GMT -6
I'm going with boy. Just because.
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Post by dc2london on Jul 19, 2021 14:17:54 GMT -6
Poof
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Post by thatgolfb on Jul 19, 2021 14:21:21 GMT -6
Your comment was so low drama to me that I literally didn't register it when easier got upset. But lack of retention is clearly a me problem. Ugh. GolfB, I have boundaries and I deserve to have them respected. “I think you have me blocked but I’m gonna talk at you anyway” is shitty. Leave me alone. Then stop addressing me. Ironic that you want to address me without tagging me. What’s funny is that I purposely quoted you so as to AVOID vague posting, since that’s what you got so upset about last time. You saying I’m just here for drama is shitty, but I’m guessing I won’t get an apology for that. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2021 16:14:17 GMT -6
Ugh. GolfB, I have boundaries and I deserve to have them respected. “I think you have me blocked but I’m gonna talk at you anyway” is shitty. Leave me alone. Then stop addressing me. Ironic that you want to address me without tagging me. What’s funny is that I purposely quoted you so as to AVOID vague posting, since that’s what you got so upset about last time. You saying I’m just here for drama is shitty, but I’m guessing I won’t get an apology for that. Girl. You quoted me. Acknowledging that I had you blocked, then went on to address me anyway. I would not say a single thing about you or to you, if you left me alone. So leave me alone. Problem solved. Sorry everyone. I’m sure this is as dumb and boring to read as it is to participate in. |
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Post by athn64 on Jul 19, 2021 17:15:56 GMT -6
People are protesting tomorrow at my school district's office to "advocate for mask choice". They want to restore smiles - eye roll for days One mom, when told her child could do virtual if she was so afraid of Covid, said maybe the maskless kids should stay home. Thunderous applause from me. I am ready for the French method of dealing with these a-holes, no shots no fun things. I am done trying to reach out to their senses Restoring smiles... Eye rolls. Let them know there are masks that have a clear front so people can see your smiles. Maybe invest in a few of those. |
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Post by richard on Jul 19, 2021 18:28:01 GMT -6
My kids started their outdoor swim lessons today. DS who is 6 was not enthused at all going in and I was nervous about how he'd do since he's been home for 16 months. He did so well! It took him a few minutes to get into it, but then he was doing everything his teachers asked him and having fun.
I may have cried behind my sunglasses a little bit.
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Post by doublestuf on Jul 19, 2021 19:58:08 GMT -6
I'm panicking a bit. DS just turned 3, and hasn't been in daycare since March 2020. It closed for a while, and then we decided to find a sitter for him once we went back to school in August. She was wonderful, but she had her 3rd LO a few months ago and her husband has to start traveling for work again very soon, so she doesn't feel like she can do it this year.
I have posted in my (large) neighborhood FB group, NextDoor, and care.com and have only had 1 lead (who has since stopped communicating). My big request is that the person is fully vaxxed, and I truly think that is the sticking point. There just aren't that many around us vaccinated.
Especially with Delta (and in an area with 40% vaxxed), we don't want him around a bunch of unmasked kids everyday in a larger childcare setting. There are so few kids masked here and walking around stores. As soon as he is fully vaxxed, I will gladly put him back in daycare. We've made it this long, and I just need someone to watch him for a few more months. Ugh. I'm feeling defeated tonight.
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