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Post by wedding on Jul 18, 2017 9:27:44 GMT -6
That sucks calimocho. I hope the new group exceeds your expectations.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 18, 2017 9:29:30 GMT -6
joelies, what about wine and scratch offs? Or wine with a cute luggage tag (if you're going with a travel type theme).
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 9:40:47 GMT -6
DD ahead...
I'm spiraling on other health issues H might be faced with down the road. I know, I know, I need to stay off google.
I emailed my pedi. I think I need to set up an appt with her to discuss things and I sort of want to show her this huge thing in his mouth that she fucking missed.
The more I'm reading the more pissed I'm getting. Some of the "signs" I brought up to the pedi when she came to my room the night I had him and I talked to the lactation consultant about it the next day. I'm feeling like if I had been more persistent that we could have caught it much earlier.
All of the what ifs are weighing on me and I'm getting emotional about it.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Jul 18, 2017 9:48:00 GMT -6
DD ahead... I'm spiraling on other health issues H might be faced with down the road. I know, I know, I need to stay off google. I emailed my pedi. I think I need to set up an appt with her to discuss things and I sort of want to show her this huge thing in his mouth that she fucking missed. The more I'm reading the more pissed I'm getting. Some of the "signs" I brought up to the pedi when she came to my room the night I had him and I talked to the lactation consultant about it the next day. I'm feeling like if I had been more persistent that we could have caught it much earlier. All of the what ifs are weighing on me and I'm getting emotional about it. I know it's so hard, but try to stay of google. IF it is a small cleft and you want to pm me I can talk you through some Of the stuff we dear with with Lucas. (Obviously his was large and discovered at birth, but I can help at all I will!) hopefully its small and just a wait and see situation. Please don't beat yourself up. I've been down this road. It's our natural inclination to trust our doctors, and not to second guess them. You are an amazing mother, who spotted this issue and followed up on it more quickly than some People might have. H is a happy and healthy little boy, you have done everything right.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Jul 18, 2017 9:49:22 GMT -6
wedding that sucks, but at least you know the (childish) reason now? I would go above and beyond to help them, but stay kind and help if and when you can. If you do that it just makes them look shitty.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 9:51:26 GMT -6
xolastunicornxo Thank you. I'll send you a pm with some questions in a bit.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Jul 18, 2017 9:52:07 GMT -6
Morning! I was exhausted yesterday and slept hard from about 9:00 until 7:30. I'm a little worried about having to get up early in a few weeks when school starts. I've also gone four nights without puking. Still a little queasy, but as long as I eat what sounds god and stick to small portions I think the worst may be over. We have our 12 week screening ultrasound today and also meet with the genetic counselor to talk about doing the panorama test. I'm feeling nervous.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Jul 18, 2017 9:53:06 GMT -6
Oh! And if any of you follow kamakaziartist on fb and her succulents page, I won the giveaway for the cute little dinosaur! I'm excited, he's going to live on the kitchen windowsill in the new house!!
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 18, 2017 9:53:55 GMT -6
wedding I'm glad you at least got an explanation. calimocho good luck with the new group of people. I'm sorry for all the work stress lately. tgrimes don't beat up yourself, and I know it's hard, but try not to spiral and avoid Google. Is the pedi part of a practice? Would you feel more comfortable switching to another doctor there?
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 18, 2017 9:54:37 GMT -6
Hi ladies, I've been busy lately so I haven't been around much. Lots of online training and I went to my parents house this weekend. One day was filled with fun and swimming, the next was filled with puking. Luckily for Cass it was a 24 hr bug.
I leave for work travel SUN morning and I'm hardcore dreading it. I wish it was during the school year so the girls were busy with school and it wouldn't stand out so much that I'm gone. I finally get to check off a little of the NE to "visit" but I'll be so busy with class I don't think I'll see a thing. I feel like I have a million things to do before I go.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 9:56:59 GMT -6
inthekitty Yes, there are 2 doctors in the practice. H has seen both of them over the last 8 months but his well checks have only been with one of them. I've also taken him to urgent care 3 times and none of those doctors saw anything either but I don't know how hard they'd be looking when I'm there for an ear infection. They usually look in the mouth though.
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Post by peachsmama on Jul 18, 2017 9:59:18 GMT -6
inthekitty Yes, there are 2 doctors in the practice. H has seen both of them over the last 8 months but his well checks have only been with one of them. I've also taken him to urgent care 3 times and none of those doctors saw anything either but I don't know how hard they'd be looking when I'm there for an ear infection. They usually look in the mouth though. It's weird that no one saw it. Maybe it got bigger recently. I hope answers come soon and it's the best case scenario for H. GET OFF GOOGLE!
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 10:04:01 GMT -6
inthekitty Yes, there are 2 doctors in the practice. H has seen both of them over the last 8 months but his well checks have only been with one of them. I've also taken him to urgent care 3 times and none of those doctors saw anything either but I don't know how hard they'd be looking when I'm there for an ear infection. They usually look in the mouth though. It's weird that no one saw it. Maybe it got bigger recently. I hope answers come soon and it's the best case scenario for H. GET OFF GOOGLE! I'm not very informed yet on his issue, but I have a hard time believing that this spot just appeared. I was just at urgent care 2.5 weeks ago and at the pedi a week before that.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 10:04:37 GMT -6
I hope that didn't come off as bitchy^^^ because I really didn't mean it to be.
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Post by kamakaziartist on Jul 18, 2017 10:18:08 GMT -6
Oh! And if any of you follow kamakaziartist on fb and her succulents page, I won the giveaway for the cute little dinosaur! I'm excited, he's going to live on the kitchen windowsill in the new house!! excited for you!
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Post by slenle on Jul 18, 2017 10:18:47 GMT -6
Hi. I think we may be turning the corner at dropoffs. I talked to N's teacher and she also offered to let her pick out a price from the jar at the end of the week if she does well every day at drop off. I think that really helped because she happily went today and didn't even ask for a hug and kiss. yay! She has a 2 day session at her new preschool tomorrow and Thursday and I'm curious to see how that will go with all new teachers and kids.
I'm embarrassed at how sore I am just from walking the last 3 days. I am seriously out of shape. But it's just that much more motivating to get moving.
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Post by cagoldi on Jul 18, 2017 10:19:46 GMT -6
work work work I got out of the shower this morning and Cadence had taken over my bed and was fast asleep. I guess when mh woke her up she wasn't ready. I let her sleep while I finished getting ready, then got her up. She was moving at a snail's pace. Then when I told her I needed my phone and to use mh's she hit mh, then refused to apologize other than in a smartass way. I told her there would be no post-swim Subway if she couldn't straighten up. We'll see how her day goes. She spit at her teacher yesterday, but then put herself in time out for it before the teacher could say anything because she knew she was in trouble. Also, are any of you dealing with letter possession? Cadence says all Cs are hers because her name starts with C and that's her letter. Cute, sure, until it comes time for activities involving other children. No one is allowed to have any Cs whatsoever. They were working on an alphabet puzzle yesterday and couldn't complete it because Cadence refused to let them have the C piece. I've tried explaining there are many Cs and you have more fun when you share, but she isn't having it. Nouns are ok to use Cs (cat, car, etc.) but no one can have a name that starts with C because that is hers..... Everything possession: letters, the color red, certain foods, etc. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 18, 2017 10:27:49 GMT -6
I'm glad you know what their issue is now so you have clarity about the situation wedding. It's still petty AF. It's not your job to make them feel secure in their positions. Fill in when you can and keep it moving without any extras. tgrimes That was a lot to take in yesterday. It's not your fault lady. I know it's easier said than done, but don't guilt trip yourself. Hugs. calimocho Change is hard and I hope this is the last of it for you. @klongoria M is all about M is for [his name]. He also says his friends letters and names. If I say any different, he corrects me that the letter is for his friend. I know you're concerned, but I giggled at your little rebel holding her C hostage from the class. Maybe when you all are out, you can show her words with C in them. Signs, menus, etc.
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Post by peachsmama on Jul 18, 2017 10:29:50 GMT -6
I hope that didn't come off as bitchy^^^ because I really didn't mean it to be. It didn't come off that way at all. I'd be pretty pissed off as well that no one saw it.
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Post by klong11 on Jul 18, 2017 10:32:05 GMT -6
I'm glad you know what their issue is now so you have clarity about the situation wedding . It's still petty AF. It's not your job to make them feel secure in their positions. Fill in when you can and keep it moving without any extras. tgrimes That was a lot to take in yesterday. It's not your fault lady. I know it's easier said than done, but don't guilt trip yourself. Hugs. calimocho Change is hard and I hope this is the last of it for you. @klongoria M is all about M is for [his name]. He also says his friends letters and names. If I say any different, he corrects me that the letter is for his friend. I know you're concerned, but I giggled at your little rebel holding her C hostage from the class. Maybe when you all are out, you can show her words with C in them. Signs, menus, etc. Oh, she shows them all to me! But, since they have a C in them she assumes they all say her name. For instance her swim school has a C in it's name and she says that the sign says her name because she comes there all the time. The grocery store is lots of fun: carrots, cabbage, coleslaw, ice cream, chocolate, etc. etc. She finds them all!
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Post by snoopmommymom on Jul 18, 2017 10:37:29 GMT -6
tgrimes I'd be upset too. Maybe it was small and as he grew the spot did? I hope you get definitive answers soon.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 18, 2017 10:41:04 GMT -6
Nothing going on here. Hanging out with a baby all day, everyday.
I have been using my IP since it arrived and I'm pretty pleased with it. I just need to clear out a cabinet to store it in. That thing is huge and can not continue to live on my counter.
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Post by calimocho on Jul 18, 2017 10:41:26 GMT -6
tgrimes I'm really sorry - you're a great mom, and H is lucky to have you advocating for him.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 10:44:41 GMT -6
Y'all are sweet to give me hair pats, but that's not why I posted what I did. I'm a mixture of pissed, worried, scared & concerned. Now looking back, I'm kicking myself.
I'm just in a mood/fuck.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 10:44:58 GMT -6
That was supposed to say funk but I'm leaving it.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 18, 2017 10:47:00 GMT -6
Lol klong11. It's funny how kids think. M does the same. If he sees an M on anything, he gets excited and thinks the word is his whole name... first,middle, and last. lol
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Post by vino on Jul 18, 2017 10:48:03 GMT -6
I'm sorry tgrimes, if there is anything we can do let us know. We love you and sweet H ❤️
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Post by klong11 on Jul 18, 2017 10:56:04 GMT -6
tgrimes, I'd be pissed too. I'm interested to see what the pedi says, if anything.
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Post by csho on Jul 18, 2017 10:58:07 GMT -6
I'm on my lunch at work. I got a crazy text from DH that he had a disastrous morning at home with V before daycare drop off.
Can't wait to hear how hard it is to care for our child. As if I haven't been doing that for over three years.
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Post by csho on Jul 18, 2017 11:01:22 GMT -6
DD ahead... I'm spiraling on other health issues H might be faced with down the road. I know, I know, I need to stay off google. I emailed my pedi. I think I need to set up an appt with her to discuss things and I sort of want to show her this huge thing in his mouth that she fucking missed. The more I'm reading the more pissed I'm getting. Some of the "signs" I brought up to the pedi when she came to my room the night I had him and I talked to the lactation consultant about it the next day. I'm feeling like if I had been more persistent that we could have caught it much earlier. All of the what ifs are weighing on me and I'm getting emotional about it. Don't blame yourself. I have been down the shoulda coulda woulda road myself with V's oral motor issues. My pedi basically says no one takes mom seriously with these types of concerns. It sucks. ETA: I suspected more serious problems with V at 18 months and was told by the local children's hospital that he was fine, the same hospital finally diagnosed him correctly just before his third birthday. I felt just like you at the time, blaming myself for not being persistent but it was not my fault, I did my best as a mom. We're not doctors.
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