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Post by tgrimes on Sept 25, 2020 8:19:24 GMT -6
mwhip I'm sorry. She's going to be so upset.
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Post by vino on Sept 25, 2020 8:19:27 GMT -6
ah poor E mwhip, I'm sorry she has to miss the camping weekend. |
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Post by wedding on Sept 25, 2020 8:21:57 GMT -6
Your in laws suck wineallthetime and they need to step back. I bet they are reasoning with themselves that he only did it because he was drunk since it couldn’t just be that their son likes men. I also don’t like that your H told you that part. It’s almost like he wanted to test that theory on you to see if you would buy into it. Idk obviously I wasn’t there but what good could come of sharing that piece with you? I want him to be protecting your feelings right now and bearing the weight of this. You mentioned divorce above, if you don’t mind me asking, is that the way you are leaning? |
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Post by wedding on Sept 25, 2020 8:23:13 GMT -6
Poor Evie mwhip. This all sucks. |
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 8:28:44 GMT -6
Long wow to your ILs @wine - although I know you expected this. I’m still stuck on the idea of a family meeting to discuss. Wtf. Right!? And get this... she texted MY MOM asking her to call. My mom thinks she's going to ask her and my dad to join in our "family meeting". |
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 8:30:20 GMT -6
Your in laws suck wineallthetime and they need to step back. I bet they are reasoning with themselves that he only did it because he was drunk since it couldn’t just be that their son likes men. I also don’t like that your H told you that part. It’s almost like he wanted to test that theory on you to see if you would buy into it. Idk obviously I wasn’t there but what good could come of sharing that piece with you? I want him to be protecting your feelings right now and bearing the weight of this. You mentioned divorce above, if you don’t mind me asking, is that the way you are leaning? My H didn't tell me that, MIL texted that to me as an excuse. But don't worry, God will change it. Yeah, I am leaning that way. |
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Post by wedding on Sept 25, 2020 8:32:00 GMT -6
Omg I didn’t realize she texted you! And you said she called your mom!! Your H really needs to put them in their place. I’m sorry you have to deal with all of this.
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Post by tgrimes on Sept 25, 2020 8:45:59 GMT -6
Long wow to your ILs @wine - although I know you expected this. I’m still stuck on the idea of a family meeting to discuss. Wtf. Right!? And get this... she texted MY MOM asking her to call. My mom thinks she's going to ask her and my dad to join in our "family meeting". OMG. I'm dying. That sounds like a great idea! Let's get the entire family together to talk about my son's indiscretions and how god will fix this! Will she be inviting the priest, too? maybe you should recommend it... |
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 8:47:30 GMT -6
Right!? And get this... she texted MY MOM asking her to call. My mom thinks she's going to ask her and my dad to join in our "family meeting". OMG. I'm dying. That sounds like a great idea! Let's get the entire family together to talk about my son's indiscretions and how god will fix this! Will she be inviting the priest, too? maybe you should recommend it... Nooooo, because how would that make HER look if the priest knew?? We obviously need to keep this just between the family and God. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Sept 25, 2020 8:49:44 GMT -6
I’m sorry about E’s canceled trip. mwhippeachsmama Gosh that is hard to hear it’s nothing else they can do. That’s just way too young. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Sept 25, 2020 8:50:55 GMT -6
Right!? And get this... she texted MY MOM asking her to call. My mom thinks she's going to ask her and my dad to join in our "family meeting". OMG. I'm dying. That sounds like a great idea! Let's get the entire family together to talk about my son's indiscretions and how god will fix this! Will she be inviting the priest, too? maybe you should recommend it... You are cracking me up today. @winealthetime Not that your current situation is funny, just T’s take on it. |
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 8:53:56 GMT -6
OMG. I'm dying. That sounds like a great idea! Let's get the entire family together to talk about my son's indiscretions and how god will fix this! Will she be inviting the priest, too? maybe you should recommend it... You are cracking me up today. @winealthetime Not that your current situation is funny, just T’s take on it. I laughed too  |
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Post by lahdeedah on Sept 25, 2020 8:55:14 GMT -6
Hi.
I’m at work. It’s not too bad. So glad for the weekend. I am planning on sleeping in tomorrow. I hope my body lets me and doesn’t wake up early just for fun.
My neighbor mentioned last week that she wanted to get the babysitter watch all our kids so we could go out to eat with them. I was like yeah sure, thinking maybe a few weeks or so. Well she literally asked the mutual babysitter the next day and planned it for this weekend. We are going along with it because I want a good kid free meal. It should be fun and I will try my hardest. The past two weeks has been mentally draining, so I’m not exactly thrilled about it, but we probably need it. I just hope it’s not awkward.
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Post by slenle on Sept 25, 2020 8:56:36 GMT -6
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Post by slenle on Sept 25, 2020 9:00:38 GMT -6
Morning. We’re on our way to a campground for the weekend. Supposed to be a beautiful weekend but the mosquitos have been so awful lately, I hope we don’t get carried away by them.
I’m surprisingly not really sore from volleyball last night and i was able to fall asleep pretty quickly after getting home so I’m not too tired either. I’m ready to get set up and crack a hard cider (and yes, it’s 10am)
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Post by tgrimes on Sept 25, 2020 9:23:30 GMT -6
You are cracking me up today. @winealthetime Not that your current situation is funny, just T’s take on it. I laughed too I knew you would, otherwise I wouldn't have said it. I hope no one thought I was being inconsiderate with my sarcasm. |
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Post by jewels on Sept 25, 2020 9:35:20 GMT -6
wineallthetime, I would be livid about them contacting your parents. I mean... did she know you told them? Could you imagine if you hadn't and that's how they found out?!? I don't tell my parents shit so that would definitely push me over the edge. She needs to learn how to stay in her lane. This is not her marriage. Jesus. And tgrimes, how else do we deal with shit if not with humor? That's my answer to most everything
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Post by mwhip on Sept 25, 2020 9:39:58 GMT -6
Omg @wineallthetine what did you mom say? I would fully expect my mom to tell her to mind her damn business.
This is your marriage, not your in laws. That woman needs to butt out of it, unless you specifically ask for help
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 9:41:01 GMT -6
wineallthetime , I would be livid about them contacting your parents. I mean... did she know you told them? Could you imagine if you hadn't and that's how they found out?!? I don't tell my parents shit so that would definitely push me over the edge. She needs to learn how to stay in her lane. This is not her marriage. Jesus. And tgrimes , how else do we deal with shit if not with humor? That's my answer to most everything Right? I'm assuming MH told them that my parents knew. But I don't know for sure. I'm super close to my family so she may have just assumed. |
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 25, 2020 9:43:16 GMT -6
Omg @wineallthetine what did you mom say? I would fully expect my mom to tell her to mind her damn business. This is your marriage, not your in laws. That woman needs to butt out of it, unless you specifically ask for help My mom hasn't responded. She said she will not respond until MIL isn't watching my kids. I'm sure she will just say that it's our business and decision and that she supports me no matter what. She will not have much of a conversation with her and no way in hell would she agree to sitting down with us and them to have a discussion about it. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Sept 25, 2020 10:03:58 GMT -6
I laughed too I knew you would, otherwise I wouldn't have said it. I hope no one thought I was being inconsiderate with my sarcasm. Not at all. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Sept 25, 2020 10:05:51 GMT -6
Wow to her contacting your mom. @wine WOOOOOW. She really does have a set of balls on her, huh?
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Post by nam2013 on Sept 25, 2020 10:32:37 GMT -6
You girls. Just got back from the midwife, it was the best. I’m so happy we could bring the kids, the midwife was amazing. She really involved the kids, they were allowed to handle the doppler, measure my blood pressure, guess how big the baby is & how it is positioned in my belly. They were so curious, it was beyond adorable. I will treasure this memory forever 🥰. ETA and the baby was doing great btw  . |
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Post by inthekitty on Sept 25, 2020 10:38:04 GMT -6
That's so nice nam2013. So glad you had a good appointment. |
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Post by inthekitty on Sept 25, 2020 10:42:12 GMT -6
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Post by inthekitty on Sept 25, 2020 10:44:13 GMT -6
Oh Lordy. Yesterday I didn't realize until we got to OR, but M and I were wearing the same t-shirt (MH bought us all the same shirt about a year ago). Then when my mom arrived and we met up for dinner I saw that my mom and I were both wearing the same flannel over our tees.
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Post by vino on Sept 25, 2020 10:58:42 GMT -6
Oh Lordy. Yesterday I didn't realize until we got to OR, but M and I were wearing the same t-shirt (MH bought us all the same shirt about a year ago). Then when my mom arrived and we met up for dinner I saw that my mom and I were both wearing the same flannel over our tees. This is amazing. |
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Post by chrisy01 on Sept 25, 2020 11:21:38 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] that is just....wow. You handled it much better then me.
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Post by tallb on Sept 25, 2020 14:21:10 GMT -6
Just getting caught up, but thinking of your cousin and family peachsmama, that is heartbreaking. Is her husband still in the hospital too? wineallthetime eek on family meeting involving all in-laws, hard pass on that. Sorry they are being ridiculous. |
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Post by peachsmama on Sept 25, 2020 14:29:28 GMT -6
Just getting caught up, but thinking of your cousin and family peachsmama, that is heartbreaking. Is her husband still in the hospital too? wineallthetime eek on family meeting involving all in-laws, hard pass on that. Sorry they are being ridiculous. He was discharged late last night. And was anle to spend time with her before heading home to the kids. Her kidneys are now starting to fail. They are starting dialysis. Her heart continues to fail and she is in respiratory distress. |
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