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Post by king26 on May 6, 2018 23:45:29 GMT -6
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Post by king26 on May 6, 2018 23:47:02 GMT -6
Any time I say how well j is doing with sleep it changes. Last Sunday was a disaster but then Monday through Saturday he did great. Tonight he's been up for an hour. DH is in the bedroom snoring and I'm in here trying to get j to sleep.
My heel is killing me and walking on it all day didn't help. Not sure what is going on with it but it's painful
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Post by pennylane on May 7, 2018 7:51:25 GMT -6
Both kids have runny noses and fevers.... Nooooo!
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 8:49:11 GMT -6
Both kids have runny noses and fevers.... Nooooo! Oh noooo T&Ps |
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 8:51:48 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?!
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2018 9:26:14 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?! I’m so nervous for today since he’ll be getting his 9 month shots. He’s been sttn for 3 weeks and I feel like this will unravel it all. Especially since he’s getting into the next leap too! |
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 9:27:42 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?! I’m so nervous for today since he’ll be getting his 9 month shots. He’s been sttn for 3 weeks and I feel like this will unravel it all. Especially since he’s getting into the next leap too! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 |
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 9:54:08 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?! I don't get it either. 6 awesome nights with 1 or 2 15 minute wake ups to eat then horrible night last night. What is the deal??? |
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 9:54:29 GMT -6
Both kids have runny noses and fevers.... Nooooo! I hope they go away quickly |
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 9:55:01 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?! I’m so nervous for today since he’ll be getting his 9 month shots. He’s been sttn for 3 weeks and I feel like this will unravel it all. Especially since he’s getting into the next leap too! I hope it doesn't mess anything up. |
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 10:26:14 GMT -6
Ugh guys. I’m really in a mood lately.
Im so bitter I have to work 12h on Mother’s Day. My first official one and I won’t even get to spend more than an hour with my baby before he goes to bed. I’m already cranky about it. Just adding to the guilt I’ve been feeling lately about being a working full time mom. I hate this feeling. I didn’t even have it when I went back to work in January so idk why it’s hitting me now so hard. Probably bc he self-weaned off BFing about 2w ago and I’m really sad about that too. He will be crying and refuse the boob and then guzzle 6oz of the bottle. Idk why it makes me sos as. He’s still eating and that’s the important part. 😔🤷🏻♀️
Sorry I’m a Debbie downer right now.
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 10:53:52 GMT -6
Ugh guys. I’m really in a mood lately. Im so bitter I have to work 12h on Mother’s Day. My first official one and I won’t even get to spend more than an hour with my baby before he goes to bed. I’m already cranky about it. Just adding to the guilt I’ve been feeling lately about being a working full time mom. I hate this feeling. I didn’t even have it when I went back to work in January so idk why it’s hitting me now so hard. Probably bc he self-weaned off BFing about 2w ago and I’m really sad about that too. He will be crying and refuse the boob and then guzzle 6oz of the bottle. Idk why it makes me sos as. He’s still eating and that’s the important part. 😔🤷🏻♀️ Sorry I’m a Debbie downer right now. Hugs. That sucks about mothers day. It's hard working full time. Like dh stays home with j so i know hes fine but i get jealous. This morning j threw himself into my arms when i wad trying to leave. Working is tough man. |
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 11:38:54 GMT -6
@starzia woof. My mom gets all butthurt about shit r/t my MIL (I could go on and on about things from my first pregnancy/loss and then this pregnancy/birth / visits for Noah etc) and she’s all butthurt my MIL is visiting this week and leaving Sunday morning AKA mother’s day. I was like uh we’re not spending mother’s day together because I leave for work at 6am and get home at 8pm and her flight is at 10am so chill the fuck out. 🙄🙄🙄
And +1 to even weird feelings about Mother’s Day and loss. Last year sucked and I hate saying this is my first mother’s day bc 1) it should have been last year and it WAS. I’m still a mom to loss baby even if others don’t recognize it but I know it’s different with a living child but ugh and 2) I hate the idea of posting to social media bc I know how much it gut me last year to see posts but I wanna share pics of N so it’s such a conflict.
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Post by addymac on May 7, 2018 11:41:46 GMT -6
Hugs addymac I was really sad when breastfeeding ended for us too Sorry you have to work all day your first Mother’s Day. You do such an amazing job taking care of all the babies and all the mothers will appreciate you so much but doesn’t change that you want to be home with your baby You’re so sweet. Thanks! I have a “primary” baby, I take care of him every time I work and he’s so cute and I love his mom and I’m excited to make her an art project from him but she’s here all day today! I wanna be like go away lady!! This has to be a surprise haha. I also really want an art project with Noah’s footprints but i doubt it will occur to dh to make one. I may make one myself for me lol. I’m going to make him one for his grandmas. Too bad my art projects literally look like a child made them. 🤷🏻♀️ |
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2018 12:46:08 GMT -6
Well today I learned that there are not 9 month shots. So that was a nice surprise! @starzia & addymac, sorry for the conflicting Mother’s Day feelings. I hope it’s still a nice day. Try not to feel too badly about wanting to post pictures of your kids! I’m sure those who are struggle have already hidden your posts, like I did to my friends list after the first year of TTC. 😂 It’s nice to be mindful, but release any guilt. MH has to work on mother’s day, and we recently sold his truck so he has to take my car to work. So, I’ll be alone and without transportation. I’ve already given up any dream of an amazing first Mother’s Day. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ |
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 13:11:53 GMT -6
Mother’s Day feels are complicated. I feel badly for all the people I know who aren’t mothers yet and want to be. I don’t want to be the person who post anything on Facebook on Mother’s Day. I feel badly for posting monthly pictures of my kid. But I love it. Ahh conflicted. I’m exited to have my first Mother’s Day at the same time. But I remember my first Mother’s Day after my first loss and that was not a great day. The Mother’s Day after my second loss was worse. [br I post a lot of pics on Instagram but no Facebook because my SIL follows me on FB and she's had 2 miscarriages and wants nothing more than a baby. I get it, it took us 4 years, but I'm excited I finally get to have one. But I'm keeping pics minimal.for her sake and any others struggling. |
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 13:17:04 GMT -6
My first pregnancy I was due may 4th so mothers day has always sucked. I'm looking forward to my first happy mother's day in 3 years.
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Post by jt2378 on May 7, 2018 16:57:55 GMT -6
Hugs to all you ladies! I’m sorry for all the conflicted feelings for Mother’s Day. You are all wonderful mamas. 💕
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Post by bsouls on May 7, 2018 16:58:51 GMT -6
I don’t care about Mother’s Day at all. I usually don’t get my mom anything anymore, because she buys the things she wants. MIL tells H what to get her. We tried to do brunch with both mothers the first year, but MIL didn’t want to do it. I think these holidays just put a lot of stress on relationships. I think it’s cute when kids are small, but at some point our obligation to spend it with our parents should go away. I guess I’ll see how I feel when my girls are grown, but I’m hoping to have a good relationship with them that doesn’t hinge on seeing the one day in May.
For our first Mother’s Day and Father’s Day we bought journals. We have T’s foot prints and we write a little something. I need to put R’s footprints in my book (H usually needs help to do it) this week and I’m excited that this is the first year T can write her name or draw a picture.
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Post by king26 on May 7, 2018 17:31:25 GMT -6
bsouls I like the journal idea addymac I mentioned to DH something about j getting me an art project and he was all how did you know? I got excited until I realized he was kidding. I hope he and j do something for me. I send my mom flowers every year and this year I got her an Instant Pot cookbook since I got her an Instant Pot last month for her birthday
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Post by jt2378 on May 8, 2018 5:50:10 GMT -6
I swear ever since I posted the other day about M being so happy, she has been an absolute miserable thing! Woof..It says she is coming out of the leap in a couple of days so hopefully she cheers up. She has been not fun..
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Post by addymac on May 8, 2018 6:12:18 GMT -6
I swear ever since I posted the other day about M being so happy, she has been an absolute miserable thing! Woof..It says she is coming out of the leap in a couple of days so hopefully she cheers up. She has been not fun.. Of course she has been! Woof. I haven’t even kept track of this leap bc I just can’t. Dh also doesn’t believe in them so it’s pointless for me to point them out to him 🙄 |
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Post by muscari on May 8, 2018 6:21:02 GMT -6
king26 ugh. I’m sorry. N slept terribly last night. Like I don’t get it. He can STTN and then wake up 3+ times the next night. Wtaf kid!?! I’m so nervous for today since he’ll be getting his 9 month shots. He’s been sttn for 3 weeks and I feel like this will unravel it all. Especially since he’s getting into the next leap too! There is a 9mo leap as well???? D pretty much just finished h the previous one a few days ago and will be 9mo in 2 weeks?? GL with the shots hopefully it won't be too bad 🤞🏻 |
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2018 7:03:11 GMT -6
I’m so nervous for today since he’ll be getting his 9 month shots. He’s been sttn for 3 weeks and I feel like this will unravel it all. Especially since he’s getting into the next leap too! There is a 9mo leap as well???? D pretty much just finished h the previous one a few days ago and will be 9mo in 2 weeks?? GL with the shots hopefully it won't be too bad 🤞🏻 Yes. 😣 I feel like there’s always a leap lurking! It’s 41 1/2 weeks after the due date. So, mine starts in about 6 days, he’ll be just about 9.5 months. It can last up to 5 weeks! |
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Post by kristyw on May 8, 2018 7:11:27 GMT -6
Another one with conflicting Mothers Day emotions here. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage diagnosed a couple days before Mothers day.
My H has asked a few times what our plans are for Mothers day. He's trying to plan a trip to visit our moms. I'm over here like...that's cool and all, but I'm a mom too. He hasn't done anything ever, so I'm not expecting anything. I'm not happy about it, but gift giving is not his love language.
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Post by addymac on May 8, 2018 8:18:35 GMT -6
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Post by jt2378 on May 8, 2018 8:22:51 GMT -6
Ok i just got a look in her mouth while she was screaming for no reason and it looks like 2 more top teeth are coming, 1 is already through and the other just cutting so 4 total on top. Poor thing, maybe this explains some of the misery, LOL
Anyone try Ibuprofen yet? I keep saying I will and haven't, not sure why I'm nervous she would be allergic or something...I never had to give it to my first so maybe thats why....
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Post by addymac on May 8, 2018 8:28:17 GMT -6
Ok i just got a look in her mouth while she was screaming for no reason and it looks like 2 more top teeth are coming, 1 is already through and the other just cutting so 4 total on top. Poor thing, maybe this explains some of the misery, LOL Anyone try Ibuprofen yet? I keep saying I will and haven't, not sure why I'm nervous she would be allergic or something...I never had to give it to my first so maybe thats why.... I haven’t, just have kept giving Tylenol. Idk why 🤷🏻♀️ Poor girl! |
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Post by king26 on May 8, 2018 9:19:14 GMT -6
I swear ever since I posted the other day about M being so happy, she has been an absolute miserable thing! Woof..It says she is coming out of the leap in a couple of days so hopefully she cheers up. She has been not fun.. Funny how that works. The day I said how awesome j was with sleeping his next day was crap lol |
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Post by king26 on May 8, 2018 9:19:55 GMT -6
I swear ever since I posted the other day about M being so happy, she has been an absolute miserable thing! Woof..It says she is coming out of the leap in a couple of days so hopefully she cheers up. She has been not fun.. Of course she has been! Woof. I haven’t even kept track of this leap bc I just can’t. Dh also doesn’t believe in them so it’s pointless for me to point them out to him 🙄 My dh was on board with the leaps at first but now he doesn't want to hear about then |
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