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Mar 20, 2018 5:17:12 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 5:17:12 GMT -6
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remi
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Post by remi on Mar 20, 2018 6:28:19 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 5.5Month/Cycle: 4/3CD/DPO: 27/8Timing: -5, -3, -2, -1, O, +1RRCS: Feeling pretty positive, and I should be testing this weekend. I'm going to hold off until Sunday if I can. But I'll probably cave, just like Yogurt said. It's my birthday next Monday so I'm really hoping I'll get a positive as a birthday present. I only had one day of a positive OPK but we really got down to business this month to make sure we didn't miss the window. I'm trying not to obsess and just relax. TTC is really hard for me and that's what took us so long to actually start again.
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Yogurt
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Mar 20, 2018 7:32:27 GMT -6
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Post by Yogurt on Mar 20, 2018 7:32:27 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 2.5
Month/Cycle: 11
CD/DPO: 1 😭
Timing: n/a
RRCS: cycle 11
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Post by remi on Mar 20, 2018 7:42:39 GMT -6
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 20, 2018 8:14:04 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 2 & 4
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD/DPO: 18/5
Timing: -4, -1
RRCS: I hate so much when people tell me that at least I already have 2 kids, and that it wouldn't be the end of the world if I didn't have my 3rd. I obviously feel extremely blessed to have kids already, but my family just feels incomplete.
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 20, 2018 8:16:36 GMT -6
remi I hope so much you get your BFP for your birthday!
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Mar 20, 2018 9:26:00 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 9:26:00 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 4
Month/Cycle: 14/6AL
CD/DPO: 14/1
Timing: -3,-2,-1,O
RRCS: So 12 DPO is when I normally test...which is exactly my EDD for our loss...as I expected. Timing was really good (we may still throw in +1) so I'm feeling good about that but I don't feel like this will be our month.
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sammysam
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 9:26:27 GMT -6
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sammysam
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Mar 20, 2018 9:28:01 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 9:28:01 GMT -6
remi I hope this is it for you! You're timing looks great!
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sammysam
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Mar 20, 2018 9:32:53 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 9:32:53 GMT -6
wildhoney Sorry you're getting comments like that. No one should ever comment on the size of someone else's family.
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 20, 2018 10:42:05 GMT -6
sammysam I'm sorry you don't feel like this is your month. I don't feel like this is my month either. It's weird how we get these feelings about it. I hope we are both wrong.
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remi
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Post by remi on Mar 20, 2018 14:05:24 GMT -6
sammysam, do you think you feel that way because of the loss? Big hugs lady.
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sammysam
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Mar 20, 2018 14:33:22 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 14:33:22 GMT -6
sammysam, do you think you feel that way because of the loss? Big hugs lady. I'm not sure. Last month I was so sure it would be the one...but it wasn't. This month I just have a feeling it's not. So who knows...maybe it will be. Maybe you're right...maybe it's because of the loss and timing etc. I hadn't thought of that. My mind might just be expecting to be let down on that date. It might also be that DD is a January baby so maybe in my mind next month seems more likely since it would give us another January due date. It might also be that I'm feeling less pressure after my talk with SO so maybe I just don't "need" it to be this month as badly as I have in the past? I don't know:/
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sammysam
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Mar 20, 2018 14:34:27 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 14:34:27 GMT -6
sammysam I'm sorry you don't feel like this is your month. I don't feel like this is my month either. It's weird how we get these feelings about it. I hope we are both wrong. I hope so too! Maybe negative feelings are a good sign:)
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 20, 2018 14:44:02 GMT -6
Regarding the whole feelings thing. Last month I was so sure I was KU, but wasn't. The month before, I was positive I wasn't pregnant and was (ended in a CP unfortunately). Also, I thought DS was a girl and DD was a boy. I obviously fail at being intuitive.
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Mar 20, 2018 17:17:48 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Mar 20, 2018 17:17:48 GMT -6
wildhoney Haha! I'm the same. I was POSITIVE DD was a boy. I've given up on trying to be right about anything pregnancy related:/
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Post by charliefox on Mar 20, 2018 18:38:36 GMT -6
So sorry Yogurt. Age of LO(s): 2.5 Month/Cycle: 19/2AL CD/DPO: cd7 Timing: n/a RRCS: Not much here. Ordered my trigger shot for next week - getting real.
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Post by mara005 on Mar 21, 2018 8:08:40 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 8 and 2.5
Month/Cycle: 1
CD/DPO: 24/6
Timing: -5 and O
RRCS: This is my first tww in a while and it's so much longer than I remember. Also I don't think I mentioned it before but I only have 1 tube (since my ruptured ecoptic 4 years ago) so while I know that I can get pregnant, it still weighs on my mind.
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remi
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Post by remi on Mar 21, 2018 9:19:12 GMT -6
I feel crampy and uncomfortable. I think AF is on her way.
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Post by sammysam on Mar 21, 2018 10:12:39 GMT -6
remi I actually have even worse cramps when pregnant around the time AF would be due than when I'm not. FX this is a good sign:)
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Post by Tlex on Mar 21, 2018 10:53:55 GMT -6
Hey ladies, I've been lurking you all for a long time, I think I intro'd once a while back but I've had a hard time participating. Just felt like I wanted to send some love and support. Yogurt I'm so sorry for the BFN. wildhoney I relate to the feelings of incompleteness/not wanting to hear that things are already great. I know they are. I'm grateful. I still have a wishful heart and I think that's okay, it's mine to live with. sammysam loss anniversaries are so hard, as is TTCAL. I'm sorry your test date and loss EDD overlap. Sending you love. charliefox ordering a trigger shot must feel big, excited for you! mara005 fx for you, working with a different set of mechanics than the general pop can feel daunting. I hope you have a short stay here! remi sorry about impending AF feelings. I'm there too.
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Post by Tlex on Mar 21, 2018 10:59:48 GMT -6
I feel creepy now! Eek.
LOs: 4 and about to turn 2
I'm M 10/C 7 or 8? I have long cycles and don't feel like pulling up FF and counting.
CD 31/ DPO Unknown, no proof of O this month
Timing: depends on if O happened one of the two times it might have. If it did, we had great timing. (My body gives all the signals and then fails to launch an egg several times a cycle.)
RRCS: just feeling really and truly aboard the crazy train. I think many of my close friends are about done with me and my TTC feelings. Probably with good reason. MH is feeling like this isn't working so let's just drop it and move on with life and I'm not there yet, so that sucks.
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 21, 2018 11:02:48 GMT -6
remi I'm sorry, I hope you are wrong about AF coming. Are you going to test of just WFAF? mara005 I'm so sorry to hear about your EP. The TWW is so rough. It never gets easier. Thanks Tlex.
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 21, 2018 11:16:45 GMT -6
Tlex Do you use OPKs? I'm so sorry your DH feels like it's not going to happen. I'm sure that is super frustrating for you. DH doesn't really seem to care if we have a third or not and I just don't understand that mindset.
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Post by Tlex on Mar 21, 2018 11:23:44 GMT -6
Tlex Do you use OPKs? I'm so sorry your DH feels like it's not going to happen. I'm sure that is super frustrating for you. DH doesn't really seem to care if we have a third or not and I just don't understand that mindset. Yeah I use OPKs, temping, FF, cervical position, and CM tracking. I never get true positives on OPKs so I'm trying to wean myself off them because I feel like they're making me crazier, but I love POAS.
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Mar 21, 2018 11:48:02 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Mar 21, 2018 11:48:02 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 2 3/4
Month/Cycle: 25 / 3 AL
CD/DPO: CD 22.
Timing: Meh. Didn't bother to take any notice this month as H was too stressed with work to dtd during my fertile week.
RRCS: I can't help being frustrated that we missed the boat this month. Definitely nobody's fault and I haven't said anything to H. But I do hate feeling as though we're losing time. That's my age talking, I guess.
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Post by remi on Mar 21, 2018 11:57:14 GMT -6
wildhoney, like an idiot I POAS like a half hr ago. Of course it was negative. I just am feeling more pessimistic now that I was even just yesterday. I thought last month I was for sure pregnant because of the symptoms I was having and now I'm having very similar symptoms. So in my mind it means that it's not going to happen. Hi Tlex, I'm sorry you're having so many struggles right now. Are your cycles usually pretty long? I know what you mean about being on a crazy train. I can't talk to anyone IRL about this and so I'm constantly refreshing the board here. And googling constantly.
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Post by Tlex on Mar 21, 2018 13:21:40 GMT -6
remi I'm so sorry for the BFN, fucking BFNs. Yeah my cycles have always been whack, I have PCOS. Here to talk and listen alllllllll day because that's all I think about and google too!
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Post by wildhoney on Mar 21, 2018 13:30:26 GMT -6
remi The symptom spotting is enough to drive anyone mad. I'm so sorry. I'm constantly going back to my older charts and comparing symptoms. I feel so crazy sometimes.
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Mar 21, 2018 13:31:37 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Mar 21, 2018 13:31:37 GMT -6
Welcome, Tlex. Sorry that your H is feeling hopeless. That's hard for you both. I know exactly what you mean about RL friends. remi, sympathy for the cramps. Mine are usually worse before a pregnancy, too, so fingers crossed! mara005, it must feel harder with only one tube. TWWs can be so long and hard. charliefox, that sounds exciting! Good luck! wildhoney and sammysam, I was so sure L was a boy that I convinced H. We didn't really believe the midwife at the anatomy scan. I had to have an additional scan a week or so later with the consultant, primarily to check her heart. But he looked at everything (it was pretty amazing) and said that she's very clearly a girl, absolutely no room for doubt. For what it's worth, with every chemical I've been sure that I was pregnant well in advance. The pregnancies that went further have been surprise BFPs, including L. Sorry about the timing of your test day, Sammy. That must be hard. I'll be thinking of you on your EDD. Wildhoney, people can be so thoughtless. We've always wanted three. Since it's taking so long, this is unlikely to happen because of my age. I now just pray we'll be able to have one more. Praying hard, remi! That's great timing. ETA: took so long to post this that you've had a bfn. Praying that it's just that it's too early! So sorry for CD1, Yogurt. It's great to have more people posting on this board, but I hope you're all here for a short time.
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