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Post by coconutbacon on Mar 23, 2018 7:46:24 GMT -6
I’m sorry Betweenthelines. Sending good vibes and strength your way. Hoping for the best possible outcome.
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Post by coconutbacon on Mar 23, 2018 7:52:32 GMT -6
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 23, 2018 8:03:04 GMT -6
Betweenthelines, I am so sorry this is happening. I would be crumbling too, can we do anything for you?
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Post by RunsforWineandCarbs on Mar 23, 2018 9:11:25 GMT -6
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 23, 2018 10:30:07 GMT -6
this day and week is just absolutely dragging. holy shit. HURRY UP FRIDAY NIGHT.
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 23, 2018 11:35:24 GMT -6
I can hear people in the boardroom ordering pizza...
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Post by mommabakes on Mar 23, 2018 12:11:16 GMT -6
Betweenthelines I'm so sorry you and your h are dealing with this. So many good vibes being sent for you! I can only imagine how scary this is. coconutbacon so sorry about your trip, what a major bummer!
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 23, 2018 12:41:47 GMT -6
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Post by jedi on Mar 23, 2018 12:50:53 GMT -6
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Post by aydee on Mar 23, 2018 13:08:21 GMT -6
Betweenthelines I'm sorry you guys are going through such a scary time. I hope the surgery goes smoothly and that the news is as positive as possible. Sending T&P your way.
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Post by taketheshot on Mar 23, 2018 13:35:29 GMT -6
Just figured out how to make this board a shortcut on my phone.. that's a game changer 👊
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Post by mommabakes on Mar 23, 2018 14:10:08 GMT -6
Hey doing okay. Still struggling mentally/emotionally with life, staying busy between the kids and home stuff. Anxiously awaiting spring weather. I've been so terrible about keeping up in all of the places, but I miss you ladies!
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Post by easternshoregirl on Mar 23, 2018 14:53:14 GMT -6
I'm going to a 'sip and shop' at a friend's house tonight although I told DH I prob won't sip OR shop! Taking baby...I'm not ready to leave her for more than an hour or so yet.
ETA: the shop part is that it is sort of like a yard sale, they are selling some furniture out of a rental house they have sold...I am looking for a couple of pieces of furniture for our dining room still
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Post by armpants on Mar 24, 2018 4:51:16 GMT -6
We're off to the zoo with booarogue and family this morning. I hope everyone has a relaxing weekend, we need it after this week.
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Post by Betweenthelines on Mar 24, 2018 5:58:22 GMT -6
Surgery went well last night. At THIS point it was the better scenario. The mass didn't LOOK malignant, so they only took the appendix. They have to wait 3-5 days for the full pathology report. If it does come back malignant, they may have to go back in, but she said by the look of the mass, it wasn't seedy or malignant looking.
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Post by jedi on Mar 24, 2018 6:00:45 GMT -6
Surgery went well last night. At THIS point it was the better scenario. The mass didn't LOOK malignant, so they only took the appendix. They have to wait 3-5 days for the full pathology report. If it does come back malignant, they may have to go back in, but she said by the look of the mass, it wasn't seedy or malignant looking. Oh thank goodness! I’ve been thinking of you and worried. I was trying to be patient but worried because we hadn’t heard anything.
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Post by flippinchica on Mar 24, 2018 8:53:08 GMT -6
Betweenthelines I'm glad it went as well as possible. Are they going to send you home to wait for the path?
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Post by Betweenthelines on Mar 24, 2018 9:32:45 GMT -6
Betweenthelines I'm glad it went as well as possible. Are they going to send you home to wait for the path? We should be leaving in an hour or so, thankfully.
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 24, 2018 10:35:21 GMT -6
Betweenthelines I'm glad it went as well as possible. Are they going to send you home to wait for the path? We should be leaving in an hour or so, thankfully. such amazing news to go home! And I am relieved for you that it doesn't look bad.
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Post by armpants on Mar 24, 2018 12:37:02 GMT -6
Poof
Third trimester belly.
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Post by RunsforWineandCarbs on Mar 24, 2018 13:08:09 GMT -6
Hungover, party of 1.
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Post by redandblue on Mar 24, 2018 13:26:09 GMT -6
armpants you look great! Betweenthelines glad the surgery went well and that you guys were able to go home. I hope you get good news from the tests. RunsforWineandCarbs hang overs suck..eat something greasy... jedi late to post but my DH has planted pepper seeds over a month ago. Planting something indoors to prep for planting outside is definitely doable and not a dumb idea. You just need to climatize the plant for a bit before actually planting it. armpants sorry about the speech worries, but I wanted to chime in Re: M getting into 'fight. I can appreciate going down a black hole there but children have to learn emotion regulation skills (well and some adults too for that matter). Reacting physically to a frustration (while not something we want to see) is completely age appropriate. Focus on helping to teach ways to problem solve and communicate his emotions (doesn't just mean verbally, can use pictures/signs/gestures), as well as calmimg strategies. Self regulation needs to be taught, just like colour / numbers etc. Hugs mamma.
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Post by redandblue on Mar 24, 2018 13:27:01 GMT -6
coconutbacon sorry about the cancelled trip. Have you decided if you are going to go somewhere else?
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Post by Pizzaslut on Mar 24, 2018 13:31:36 GMT -6
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Post by coconutbacon on Mar 24, 2018 13:34:09 GMT -6
coconutbacon sorry about the cancelled trip. Have you decided if you are going to go somewhere else? Unfortunately with work schedules, it’s just not in the cards for us to go somewhere now until maybe (hopefully) the fall. But H’s work is going to pay for a babysitter for us one day, so that we can get a little time to ourselves which is really nice. I think we might go to Spa Castle which is this really crazy Korean Spa complex in Queens.
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Post by taketheshot on Mar 24, 2018 19:26:29 GMT -6
armpants .. I looked at that picture and said "Awwww" out loud 😊😊😊
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Post by shellyr on Mar 24, 2018 22:47:35 GMT -6
Betweenthelines, I'm sorry about the scare and I hope the pathology report comes back benign. armpants, you look so cute! easternshoregirl, I use hotmail for anything I'm worried will result in excess junk.I don't even feel bad.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Mar 25, 2018 5:23:48 GMT -6
Not even 7:30 and I need a fucking break.
I feel like I have a ton to do today and I don't want to do any of it. It doesn't help that H is still having health stuff going on and is not the most helpful right now.
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Post by armpants on Mar 25, 2018 7:16:07 GMT -6
I'm sorry Pizzaslut, I hope you get a break and some help today.
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Post by CestLaVie on Mar 25, 2018 7:19:19 GMT -6
Pizzaslut I feel ya. Between the pile of dishes, the pile of laundry, the kids, the meals to be planned and prepped, and getting ready for a week of work I don't want to do any of it!
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