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Post by Cher on Feb 6, 2018 6:54:50 GMT -6
But I think Kylie is a little different. She lives for social media. It’s not like saying to a celeb that they have to deal with the paparazzi when they get a bagel with their kid. Prior to Kylie’s pregnancy, she shared everything with social media. Maybe having a baby will change that, who knows. But it’s hard for me to feel bad for someone who complains about the attention she gets, when she literally spends her days inviting attention. I dunno. I mean it’s her career. It’s what she knows. It’s what she’s good at. I think I really have trouble with the “if you don’t like it (or if it gives you anxiety), just quit/do something else.” It’s like saying you’re not allowed to complain during pregnancy because you asked for it, or you’re not allowed to bitch about your kids cause you asked for them. Or “if they don’t like the insurance plan offered at Hobby Lobby, they should just get a new job.” I think it’s ok for her to have feelings of both “I want some privacy” AND “I need to continue this for the sake of my career/wealth.” I’m not saying quit though. I’m saying if the comments and scrutiny are giving you so much anxiety, don’t put thong pics on IG. I think it’s possible to have fame somewhere between retiring from fame and daily snapchats of you lip syncing rap songs.
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Post by Cher on Feb 6, 2018 6:55:40 GMT -6
I also feel in my heart she didn't hide because of some moral reasons. She wanted to control the images and not have cellulite butt pics or sole pics like they did Kim so she hid. She's not the first celebrity to hide in latter parts of pregnancy and won't be the last. I feel it was vanity and not privacy. I totally agree.
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Post by Cher on Feb 6, 2018 6:59:31 GMT -6
November 7, 2017
Once again, this A+ list singer truly goes to the ends of the earth to keep her world sanitized as only she sees fit to distribute it to the masses. Any time anything derogatory or critical or not in her plan to present to the public makes her way out she sends out her legal team. She really is petty.
Taylor Swift
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 7:17:42 GMT -6
I judge everyone. I am here for judgment. I take issue with saying a female CEO isn’t “raising” her kid. That’s just a bridge too far for me. I wouldn't either. But..... By that argument is Amber raising her kid? Is the difference having a job? CEO isn't seeing her kid because work. Amber doesn't see her kid because she is worried about the men in her life. There is a difference to me. If she wasn't seeing Leah because she was working on herself I wouldn't say a word about her.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 7:36:33 GMT -6
Also the difference between Kylie saying she has wanted to be a mom since 15, really anyone who says that and the Duggars are the fact that the Duggar girls are expected to be mom's. They are not necessarily saying that because that's what they want.
Maybe they do really want that and in that case go on with your bad self.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 7:40:35 GMT -6
I thought BC was known for being a pretty well involved/good mom overall? I don’t know I feel this went so many places I just can’t quite reach. My biggest issue was with the “icky” comments wrt Kylie/her motherhood aspiration. I hope she and all of the other mothers out there live their best lives. I’m ok agreeing to disagree on The Who/what/where/when of it all. I understand where most are coming from in the discussion. Nah she was torn apart here I must have missed that day because I don't remember anyone here talking bad about her as a mother. I think she is a great mom and love seeing her posts with her kids.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 7:42:39 GMT -6
I also feel in my heart she didn't hide because of some moral reasons. She wanted to control the images and not have cellulite butt pics or sole pics like they did Kim so she hid. She's not the first celebrity to hide in latter parts of pregnancy and won't be the last. I feel it was vanity and not privacy. This I can believe. I do think it was a little of both, but mostly she has seen her sister get torn to shreds while pregnant and didn't want that.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 8:31:47 GMT -6
Also the difference between Kylie saying she has wanted to be a mom since 15, really anyone who says that and the Duggars are the fact that the Duggar girls are expected to be mom's. They are not necessarily saying that because that's what they want. Maybe they do really want that and in that case go on with your bad self. That's why I said money and upbringing.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 8:35:51 GMT -6
Also the difference between Kylie saying she has wanted to be a mom since 15, really anyone who says that and the Duggars are the fact that the Duggar girls are expected to be mom's. They are not necessarily saying that because that's what they want. Maybe they do really want that and in that case go on with your bad self. That's why I said money and upbringing. But money to me isn't even an issue. Like I said I knew I wanted to be a mom at a young age and my friends and I had names picked out and I was the furthest from wealthy
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 8:38:12 GMT -6
That's why I said money and upbringing. But money to me isn't even an issue. Like I said I knew I wanted to be a mom at a young age and my friends and I had names picked out and I was the furthest from wealthy Money as in she can financially support herself and a child so that makes it more socially acceptable.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 8:41:24 GMT -6
But money to me isn't even an issue. Like I said I knew I wanted to be a mom at a young age and my friends and I had names picked out and I was the furthest from wealthy Money as in she can financially support herself and a child so that makes it more socially acceptable. I guess I just don't have a problem with a teen saying she knows she wants to be a mom as long as she is living her life and not actively trying to have a baby at the age of 15.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 8:44:32 GMT -6
Y'all... TMZ has been in Kris' pocket for years. Tyga doesn't have King most of the time. I'm pretty sure they have a pretty even custody spilt I don't love the insinuations on her mothering. Idk If I did this right, but this thread.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 8:50:00 GMT -6
I did not do that correctly, oh well.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2018 8:59:20 GMT -6
Y'all... TMZ has been in Kris' pocket for years. Tyga doesn't have King most of the time. I'm pretty sure they have a pretty even custody spilt I don't love the insinuations on her mothering. Idk If I did this right, but this thread. I believe you. And don’t agree with mom-shaming Blacc.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:11:29 GMT -6
Why does it even need to be said if she didn't have money and it was your little sister getting pregnant at 20 while in a new relationship your feelings would totally be different?
She has money. While that does not dictate for me what kind of mother she will be. She does not have to ever worry about housing, food, child care if she wants to work, etc. If she gets no financial support from the father she is still set. She already knows she can buy whatever her child needs and send her kid to college today if she could.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:13:13 GMT -6
And also I could not even with some of the comments here last night. If Kylie didn't have money, we wouldn't even know Kylie. Let's we forget what she used to look like. She would not be an IG model or the other shit y'all were listing. She didn't even have a top lip. What the hell.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:15:03 GMT -6
I also don't think any of the "Teen Moms" are representative of actual teen moms. I have said that long ago. Those bitches buy cars and houses left and right. You never seen any of them stressing about bills and groceries.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:18:32 GMT -6
I take issue with the female CEO comment.
I also take issue to someone who says shit like, "daycare is raising my kid." Well if that's what you believe have at it but no, daycare never raised mine.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 6, 2018 9:22:45 GMT -6
Idk If I did this right, but this thread. I believe you. And don’t agree with mom-shaming Blacc. this
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:24:46 GMT -6
Children learn how to love , about faith, confidence, patience, affection, compassion, respect, empathy, integrity, resourcefulness, self awareness, social skills, how to value family members, gratitude, manners, courage, how to react to stress, how to be strong, how to be a friend, how to be a team player from their parents aka family.
I am teaching and molding my kids daily since they were born. Someone who holds my mold while I am at work is not doing the work for me.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 9:26:55 GMT -6
I also don't think any of the "Teen Moms" are representative of actual teen moms. I have said that long ago. Those bitches buy cars and houses left and right. You never seen any of them stressing about bills and groceries. That was my point We see teen moms and housewives literally do nothing all day. A lot of the time they have tons of help. So my question was is it ok to judge that scenario?
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Post by McBenny on Feb 6, 2018 9:29:28 GMT -6
I also don't think any of the "Teen Moms" are representative of actual teen moms. I have said that long ago. Those bitches buy cars and houses left and right. You never seen any of them stressing about bills and groceries. That was my point We see teen moms and housewives literally do nothing all day. A lot of the time they have tons of help. So my question was is it ok to judge that scenario? My judgment is case by case. The Teen Moms are wide open and available for me to judge just like everyone else. Money or no money. I didn't get the we can't judge memo. I am here for it and I am petty as well.
So yeah, I judge the hell out of most of the Teen Moms who sit on their ass and not do anything. They have a limited window to get this MTV money and I don't see many of them making plans for the future. Farrah as much as she grates on my nerves at least has tried to start businesses and do something that will pay her in the future.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 9:36:19 GMT -6
That was my point We see teen moms and housewives literally do nothing all day. A lot of the time they have tons of help. So my question was is it ok to judge that scenario? My judgment is case by case. The Teen Moms are wide open and available for me to judge just like everyone else. Money or no money. I didn't get the we can't judge memo. I am here for it and I am petty as well.
So yeah, I judge the hell out of most of the Teen Moms who sit on their ass and not do anything. They have a limited window to get this MTV money and I don't see many of them making plans for the future. Farrah as much as she grates on my nerves at least has tried to start businesses and do something that will pay her in the future.
Then we agree lol. I would never say a woman working her ass off to provide for her family was neglecting her kids. But I do feel there are cases where the help (whether hired or family) is doing the lion share of child rearing, and the parent isn't doing much of anything (job or otherwise)
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 9:39:04 GMT -6
I think Kylie knows and plays the game well. I'm not mad at her, but I'm gonna call a spade, a spade. She's nobody's wide eyed innocent
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 6, 2018 10:01:56 GMT -6
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Post by unheardof on Feb 6, 2018 10:12:15 GMT -6
Well I just found out about 20 min ago that Kylie had a baby. I live under a rock.
Brielle Biermann needs to stop with the lip injections and plastic surgery in general. So do all the Kardashians too.
I mostly get annoyed at celebs who hock these magic weight loss teas, waist trainers, and then act like what they got is all natural. But... tale as old as time I guess.
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Post by tinyjoys on Feb 6, 2018 10:13:21 GMT -6
Full disclosure I judge Kim Z and think she over sexualizes her girls Agreed, like when she asked Chrissy Teigen who Brielle had to blow to get tickets to John's concert?
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Post by unheardof on Feb 6, 2018 10:24:20 GMT -6
I'm reading backwards and the 'she didn't even have a top lip' is killing me right now.
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Post by brux on Feb 6, 2018 10:51:19 GMT -6
She didn't even have a top lip. What the hell.
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Post by brux on Feb 6, 2018 10:53:38 GMT -6
JFC with that beach picture Ariana posted.
Kim Z does a pretty shitty job, day in and day out, of raising her children. I'm pretty comfortable saying that.
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