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Post by babybean on Oct 11, 2017 8:55:59 GMT -6
Thinking of you and hoping you get the best results possible.
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Post by cp3 on Oct 11, 2017 9:05:42 GMT -6
Thinking of you yianna. I hope you are able to get more solid answers this morning.
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Post by mirabelle on Oct 11, 2017 9:30:24 GMT -6
Thinking of you today yianna.
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Post by cornpop on Oct 11, 2017 9:43:31 GMT -6
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Post by yianna on Oct 11, 2017 10:10:31 GMT -6
Best case scenario happened:
MFM saw and measured an empty twin sac.
That’s been missed in three sonograms.
He was pretty irritated they’ve missed it and I think it’s common Bc the sonographer at my OB is super fast. He’s also irritated that Natera couldn’t continue the test because he said they could most definitely check to see if the chromosomes were same dna. Although if the twin was identical then you couldn’t but anyway...
The only problem we saw is that they could only see a two vessel cord but he also said it’s super early and we should be able to see better in four weeks.
I’ll be seeing him along with OB for the remaining pregnancy although if he delivers I may just switch to him.
It’s sad that best case is loss of a baby but I didn’t know and I’ve been down this road so much that I will take one healthy baby over zero any day of the week.
He also highly recommends people don’t use panoram and said Materni21 and Harmony are the best for all three trisomies BUT moment of the tests are best at detecting Triploidy.. (although if it was Triploidy you’d have t13 t18 and t21 positives).
NT fold was perfect, everything is perfect.
Thank you all for holding my hand, praying for me, sending me positive thoughts. This has been the most nerve wracking 24 hours in a very long time.
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Post by Rama on Oct 11, 2017 10:13:26 GMT -6
I am so happy to hear your news, yianna. All the hugs for the loss of your baby's twin, all the cheers for your healthy baby. Here's hoping your cord has all the vessels it needs in a few weeks. <3
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Post by calendula on Oct 11, 2017 10:13:46 GMT -6
omg yianna I am so, so relieved. Imagine all of us bear hugging you right now. I hope you can go home and relax the rest of the day. I can't imagine you got much sleep last night.
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Post by babybean on Oct 11, 2017 10:16:11 GMT -6
yianna I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a devestating “best case scenario”, but I’m glad baby is doing well. I couldn’t get you out of my head so I can’t imagine how you were feeling living it. It’s great they got you in so soon.
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Post by sailsandstitches on Oct 11, 2017 10:21:24 GMT -6
I got goosebumps reading your update yianna. I'm sorry there's still been a loss, but so happy to hear you have a healthy baby still growing.
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Post by smootiepie on Oct 11, 2017 10:22:01 GMT -6
I'm so sorry that this scenario includes the loss of a twin, but so so so relieved that the u/s didn't have any markers!
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Post by katietopaz on Oct 11, 2017 10:22:48 GMT -6
yianna I'm so glad to hear that the best case scenario happened! I'm so sorry for your loss - what a bittersweet best case scenario. It sounds like you had a wonderful and reassuring MFM, and I hope that the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and uneventful!
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Oct 11, 2017 10:33:35 GMT -6
yianna First of all, lots of HUGS. That all sounds like so much to process. I'm so sorry for your loss as well. ❤ I'm glad that this is best case scenario considering the circumstances and that baby looked healthy overall. I hope your next ultrasound will continue to bring nothing but reassuring news.
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Post by polson on Oct 11, 2017 10:34:54 GMT -6
yianna i'm sorry for your loss, but i'm glad for the best case scenario outcome. hugs
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Post by cp3 on Oct 11, 2017 10:37:31 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss yianna but glad and relieved you got positive news for this baby. Do you go back in 4 weeks for another ultrasound? What an emotional rollercoaster you've been on for the past few days.
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Post by yianna on Oct 11, 2017 10:52:29 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss yianna but glad and relieved you got positive news for this baby. Do you go back in 4 weeks for another ultrasound? What an emotional rollercoaster you've been on for the past few days. Yep. Election Day! I’m just so relieved that the one baby we knew of is okay. I’m sad about the twin but it’s happened to me with every pregnancy. I think if I had seen two babies with HB early on and then lost one I would be devastated. My first was a triplet. He’s the only one who made it. We saw two HB then and an empty third sac. It took me a long time to get over that. This is different..I guess I can’t explain it.
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Post by Rama on Oct 11, 2017 10:53:59 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss yianna but glad and relieved you got positive news for this baby. Do you go back in 4 weeks for another ultrasound? What an emotional rollercoaster you've been on for the past few days. Yep. Election Day! I’m just so relieved that the one baby we knew of is okay. I’m sad about the twin but it’s happened to me with every pregnancy. I think if I had seen two babies with HB early on and then lost one I would be devastated. My first was a triplet. He’s the only one who made it. We saw two HB then and an empty third sac. It took me a long time to get over that. This is different..I guess I can’t explain it. So, so, so, SO many hugs. Your first pregnancy was my previous pregnancy, except mine ended in a MMC. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through and I just have to give you all my love.
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Post by ovenrack on Oct 11, 2017 11:11:23 GMT -6
Oh hugs, yianna, I am so sorry for your loss, and simultaneously so glad that your sweet babe is happy in there. Hugs.
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Post by clementine on Oct 11, 2017 11:18:25 GMT -6
Hugs yianna! Definitely bittersweet news. I’m so sorry about the loss of the twin, but relieved to hear everything is okay with baby. Hope you can rest and recover from what I’m sure was a stressful and emotional day.
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Post by cornpop on Oct 11, 2017 11:31:06 GMT -6
I'm so happy and sad simultaneously for you yianna. It is good the mfm was able to get you in so quickly.
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Post by cp3 on Oct 11, 2017 11:35:58 GMT -6
So many hugs yianna. I'm sure you are all over the place emotionally with this news. Process and feel whatever you need to.
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Post by auri on Oct 11, 2017 12:30:25 GMT -6
yianna, I'm so sorry for the loss of your twin, but I am very glad that your other baby doesn't have any markers. Fx that the rest of your pregnancy is smooth sailing.
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Post by nevertoomanyshoes on Oct 11, 2017 13:04:19 GMT -6
yianna I have tears for you now, so relieved but also sorry at the same time. I’d also like to give a small TSp to the sonographer that missed that three time.
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Post by yianna on Oct 11, 2017 13:54:31 GMT -6
Yep. Election Day! I’m just so relieved that the one baby we knew of is okay. I’m sad about the twin but it’s happened to me with every pregnancy. I think if I had seen two babies with HB early on and then lost one I would be devastated. My first was a triplet. He’s the only one who made it. We saw two HB then and an empty third sac. It took me a long time to get over that. This is different..I guess I can’t explain it. So, so, so, SO many hugs. Your first pregnancy was my previous pregnancy, except mine ended in a MMC. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through and I just have to give you all my love. I’m so sorry Rama. My first was actually my 4th pregnancy. The hardest thing they ask you at appointment is how many pregnancies have you had... today I said 7. It’s an astonishing number. I’ve now lost 9 babies between all of them. But I have three amazing kiddos and God willing, a fourth/
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Post by Rama on Oct 11, 2017 14:52:23 GMT -6
So, so, so, SO many hugs. Your first pregnancy was my previous pregnancy, except mine ended in a MMC. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to go through and I just have to give you all my love. I’m so sorry Rama. My first was actually my 4th pregnancy. The hardest thing they ask you at appointment is how many pregnancies have you had... today I said 7. It’s an astonishing number. I’ve now lost 9 babies between all of them. But I have three amazing kiddos and God willing, a fourth/ Ah, my apologies. I wasn't very thoughtful when I said your first pregnancy. I both hate and love that so many of us have felt the sting of loss. I'd never wish the grief on anyone, ever, but I'm glad we all have each other to lean on. <3
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Post by woodenshoes on Oct 12, 2017 9:10:22 GMT -6
yianna, I was so glad to read your update yesterday. I am sorry for your loss, but glad that the your baby looks healthy. I can't imagine what a relief it is. I am doing my NIPT test today and I think my OB office uses the panorama. After reading what your doctor said about it I am slightly nervous.
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Post by alwayscheese on Oct 12, 2017 19:32:05 GMT -6
I never saw all this cause I don't know what NIPT is and opted not to do testing because of no insurance. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that yianna. But I'm glad you still have a perfect baby!
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Post by rm2013 on Oct 13, 2017 7:26:01 GMT -6
I’ve been out of town and missed all this. yianna I’m so sorry for the loss of the twin, and this awful roller coaster ride you’ve been on the past few days. But I’m overjoyed that your baby is healthy and everything looks good. All the hugs 💗 and hope the rest of your pregnancy is easy and uneventful.
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Post by yianna on Oct 13, 2017 15:09:19 GMT -6
NO worries no Rama Thanks ladies. I’m just relieved!
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