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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 9:28:22 GMT -6
Whew.
I lost my phone Friday afternoon so I was out of touch all weekend. Pete just found it this morning, thank goodness. Didn't want to have to get a new one and lose all my contacts.
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slenle
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Post by slenle on Oct 23, 2017 9:31:05 GMT -6
Morning! Back to work, no desire. My new couch is being delivered tonight. I can't wait! I hope I love it because I bought it without seeing it in person, but I just couldn't find anything I liked in stores.
Other than that, nothing too exciting happening. We have a pretty quiet week, hopefully it stays that way.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 9:31:50 GMT -6
It's too hot here, guys. I want to take the kids to the park but we're stuck inside when it's 100+ degrees all the time.
I was fairly productive this weekend (maybe because I didn't have my phone)! and feel like maybe I'm turning a corner with this heinous first tri exhaustion coming to an end. Fingers crossed.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 9:32:07 GMT -6
chrisy01 how are you feeling this morning?
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Post by mskatiep on Oct 23, 2017 9:32:40 GMT -6
sands42, it's probably my own fault that I don't like bath time. Poor time management in the evening usually ends up with not much time for a bath before bed, so I rush her when she really just wants to play for a while. wedding - other duties as assigned.... assigned by you
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Post by kim22 on Oct 23, 2017 9:32:41 GMT -6
Good morning. It's 70 but so humid I'm sweating at work. DH leaves for Ft Lauderdale this afternoon so I spent all night googling whether Zika is still a concern. All 3 kids are coughing and my BH contractions are staring to hurt (not unusual for me.) We had no free time all weekend so everyone is tired and we have a million things going on this week. Nov. 22 (my last day of work) feels 5 years away.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 9:33:02 GMT -6
slenle did you end up talking to your friend about the situation with the kids? yummeecookee I'll take the ON cash if nobody else has claimed it.
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Post by klong11 on Oct 23, 2017 9:36:19 GMT -6
It's too hot here, guys. I want to take the kids to the park but we're stuck inside when it's 100+ degrees all the time. I was fairly productive this weekend (maybe because I didn't have my phone)! and feel like maybe I'm turning a corner with this heinous first tri exhaustion coming to an end. Fingers crossed. I saw that some of the CA schools are doing early dismissal because of the heat. I didn't realize they didn't have ACs in some of them.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 9:39:11 GMT -6
It's too hot here, guys. I want to take the kids to the park but we're stuck inside when it's 100+ degrees all the time. I was fairly productive this weekend (maybe because I didn't have my phone)! and feel like maybe I'm turning a corner with this heinous first tri exhaustion coming to an end. Fingers crossed. I saw that some of the CA schools are doing early dismissal because of the heat. I didn't realize they didn't have ACs in some of them. 105 for the next three days. It's supposed to get down to high 70's next week, but who knows how long that will last. I think it depends on the year the school was built. My elementary and HS didn't have AC, but my junior high did because it was indoor. I can't think of any other schools around here that are all indoors so I would bet most don't have any.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 23, 2017 9:43:42 GMT -6
I'm taking H back to the ENT this afternoon. He still has drainage coming out one of his ears, he's whacking the other ear with his hand and is up multiple times a night.
Why can't anything ever just go smoothly?
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Post by mwhip on Oct 23, 2017 9:46:13 GMT -6
I'm taking H back to the ENT this afternoon. He still has drainage coming out one of his ears, he's whacking the other ear with his hand and is up multiple times a night. Why can't anything ever just go smoothly? Poor H and you...I hope they find an answer for you and it can be easily resolved!
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 23, 2017 9:46:44 GMT -6
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Post by mwhip on Oct 23, 2017 9:47:23 GMT -6
Speaking of weather...the high for the day here is 65. It's currently 50 outside. The fucking air conditioner is running. Someone has it set at 74. There is no need for the A/C to even be on when it's 50 degrees outside.
I have my space heater on.
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slenle
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Post by slenle on Oct 23, 2017 9:49:05 GMT -6
slenle did you end up talking to your friend about the situation with the kids? yummeecookee I'll take the ON cash if nobody else has claimed it. Ugh. No. I did manage a stone cold side eye in her direction and I think she got the hint. Terrible, I know.. I should've said something To be honest, she made the weekend pretty freaking horrible all around. Not just the kid thing. She was so crabby every day and then as soon as her kid went to bed, a switch flipped and she was fun. Shes 26w pregnant and I honestly don't know how they are going to handle 2 kids. Friday night, we all talked about being to town by 10 the next morning to have more time before the lunch time meltdowns started. She took forever getting ready and we didn't leave the cabin until 10:15, then a half hour drive. So we got the aquarium around 11 and their LO was in the stroller after 20 minutes because he was hungry and crabby. Well, that's what you get when you don't get going in the morning. So then we walked (in the rain) to a place for lunch. It was a 15 minute wait. After 10, they said they were going to just go thru McDonalds drive thru and head back to the cabin for nap time. Fine by me. So we had a super great afternoon Saturday, just the 4 of us doing our own thing. Our kids behaved so well the entire weekend so I have that to be happy about. I think that is the end of vacationing with them. ETA: she texted me after they left us at lunch and said she wasn't mad, she just didn't feel well and felt rushed that morning. WTAF? rushed???? If you can't get out of the cabin before 10, that is an issue. Especially when that was the plan. ETA2: PDQ
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Post by jewels on Oct 23, 2017 9:54:17 GMT -6
slenle - I was just going to say, I think they are not vacation buddies. It's hard to vacation with other people, and I think once you had families in, that difficulty expands exponentially.
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yummeecookee
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Post by yummeecookee on Oct 23, 2017 10:01:52 GMT -6
I’m sorry H is still having a hard time tgrimes. Is this related to that hole that was in the roof of his mouth?
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 23, 2017 10:03:09 GMT -6
I’m sorry H is still having a hard time tgrimes . Is this related to that hole that was in the roof of his mouth? No, he got tubes last week.
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Post by yummeecookee on Oct 23, 2017 10:04:25 GMT -6
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 10:04:32 GMT -6
I think she's not much of a buddy if you can't talk to her without feeling like she's going to get upset over every little thing.
IDK, I just was thinking about what you said how it seems easy to get on her bad side and that's weird. Not on your part, but if you have a reasonable complaint and she would turn it around like you're being the bad guy that's not cool.
I'm not really into being friends with manipulative, gaslighting jerks.
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Post by yummeecookee on Oct 23, 2017 10:05:04 GMT -6
I’m sorry H is still having a hard time tgrimes . Is this related to that hole that was in the roof of his mouth? No, he got tubes last week. Aww man, poor guy.
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Post by slenle on Oct 23, 2017 10:12:42 GMT -6
cagoldi, I agree. And this weekend helped me see it. We normally get along great, but I suppose we have more of the type of friendship of staying up late drinking wine together vs vacationing. And since she can't drink I guess those days are on hold. (And I'm not implying people who don't drink are no fun, just in her case, wine helps take the edge off ) But like I told DH, I think this vacation will have an affect on our friendship for a while.
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Post by cheeksmum on Oct 23, 2017 10:42:22 GMT -6
slenle, I had a similar experience with a couple of our friends except they don’t have kids yet. We went on vacation with them last October... we’ve seen them once since then. I’m pretty sure it’s what ended our friendship, we don’t even text anymore. Sometimes friends and vacations really just don’t mix. But it sounds like the 4 of you had fun by yourselves and that’s something to enjoy!
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 23, 2017 10:43:46 GMT -6
****trigger warning****
I just found out that a good friend of ours from College passed away this weekend. We haven’t been close/hung out in years, but he was dh’s fraternity brother and there was a good two years where he was one of the main people he hung out with. He had some skin cancer removed when we were in college and apparently the cancer came back and was in his bones. He has two year old twins. I was also pretty good friends for those year with his then gf/now widow, and my heart is breaking for her.
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mwhip
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Post by mwhip on Oct 23, 2017 10:47:18 GMT -6
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 23, 2017 10:50:07 GMT -6
chrisy01 how are you feeling this morning? Not so good. I'm hoping my doctor responds soon because I don't know if I can keep taking the antibiotics since they keep making me sicker.
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Post by wedding on Oct 23, 2017 10:51:46 GMT -6
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 23, 2017 10:52:58 GMT -6
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Post by cheeksmum on Oct 23, 2017 10:52:59 GMT -6
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Post by slenle on Oct 23, 2017 10:53:03 GMT -6
I'm sorry xolastunicornxo, how sad. Was it sudden after he found out the cancer returned? I can't imagine.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 23, 2017 10:56:25 GMT -6
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