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Post by guster on Oct 20, 2017 15:24:19 GMT -6
Haha yes, nam2013 I have made a few passive aggressive comments. But it’s only been 1 day, I don’t think I’ll make it the rest of the weekend like this. I’ll need to say something. It'd be difficult for me, but I'd have to be direct. I'd be fuming inside though. MH would have to listen to the "speech" I'd want to give.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 20, 2017 16:09:50 GMT -6
cagoldi, how was your ob appointment today?
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 20, 2017 16:34:33 GMT -6
cagoldi update please...curiosity is what keeping me from getting sick.
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guster
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Post by guster on Oct 20, 2017 17:11:05 GMT -6
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joelies
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Post by joelies on Oct 20, 2017 17:14:47 GMT -6
I'm now going to girls' night tomorrow, DH actually encouraged it. Considering Cool is crying in time-out and Chase is crying because Col is crying... Yeah, it'll be nice. LOL.
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Post by joelies on Oct 20, 2017 17:15:19 GMT -6
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 20, 2017 17:25:31 GMT -6
cagoldi When do you find out if you are having a boy or girl? I couldn't do my Panorama when I planned because the FedEx guy had already been there that day and if they did the collection it wouldn't get to the lab in time. So I'm going to take a long lunch Monday and try again. Then results should take 7-10 days. So within the next two weeks! How has work been treating you lately?
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 20, 2017 17:25:45 GMT -6
I'm now going to girls' night tomorrow, DH actually encouraged it. Considering Cool is crying in time-out and Chase is crying because Col is crying... Yeah, it'll be nice. LOL. Jack does the sympathy cry.. It's great. Really really great.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 20, 2017 17:27:13 GMT -6
I think she finds out today. Fingers crossed for you cagoldi Wait! Already?! Holy crap, I don't feel prepared.... I wish! But the heartbeat was lower than I remember it being with the boys and old wives tales tell me that means girl. But you know, old wives tales...
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 20, 2017 17:29:15 GMT -6
Oh, I know that feeling. It's mentally exhausting. I even used to feel it after a day of teaching, but I would take about 30 minutes of my 45 minute commute home and ride in silence, but that opportunity doesn't present itself anymore. Hugs (and quiet), lovey! Is this where I confess that i’m looking forward to going back to work; 30 minute quiet commute with my driver, read public transit, providing stress free door to door travel, and taking personal days to have the quiet house to myself. Not much of a confession. I love when I get to have time to drive alone. FX work will be a nice change of pace.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 20, 2017 17:34:30 GMT -6
Thanks, girls. ❤️
Everything looks good so far. Strong HB and the doctor isn't worried about my little bit of spotting.
All my initial labs for B12, thyroid, iron, etc. were perfect.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 20, 2017 17:36:25 GMT -6
slenle I would definitely say something. You could try, "you know, last night you mentioned being close enough to discipline each other's kids but it actually makes me uncomfortable. If I am here (or my H is) I want to be the one correcting their behavior."
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 20, 2017 17:38:01 GMT -6
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 20, 2017 18:45:43 GMT -6
Glad the appointment went well, Goldi!
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 20, 2017 18:50:37 GMT -6
Dh is on my list tonight. He has an issue with everything I say to the boys. It's getting old. Fast.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 20, 2017 18:52:58 GMT -6
slenle I have a friend like that. It doesn’t bother me too much (she doesn’t sound as bad, and we aren’t around them that much) but it drives our other friend crazy. I think the way that goldi put it would be an easy segue into the conversation. I hope it all goes well.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 20, 2017 18:53:34 GMT -6
DH and I decided on our costumes. I’m going to be disgust and he will be anger from inside out.
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Post by kim22 on Oct 20, 2017 19:35:01 GMT -6
cagoldi Panarama is the company I got the text from with the sex of the baby. Be ready once you have it done, it came quickly. They now call me every week about cord blood banking.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 20, 2017 19:46:30 GMT -6
guster No she doesn’t. After really paying attention to it the thing that is bothering me the most is ALWAYS having to talk; I direct or provide commentary, to B because three, for almost every single thing I do. By the end of the day i’m spent. Basically, I want a silent day, or week on the beach with a slushy alcoholic drink in my hand at all times brought to me by a good looking non-speaking pool boy, to myself. My new pool boy looks and sounds like Bill Murray, if you're interested. He'll be here Monday. I'm with you on the silence...we were driving back from Williamsburg yesterday and B was just chatting non-stop and finally I was like, "I just need some quiet time." It lasted for all of 15 seconds. I live for bedtime these days. eta: I should clarify..."boy" is probably pushing it. Not quite grandpa, maybe just a middle-aged uncle.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 20, 2017 19:50:25 GMT -6
I just messaged my obgyn. I think the antibiotics are making my MS worse and I haven't kept any food down today. Hopefully someone responds soon
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 20, 2017 19:51:30 GMT -6
guster No she doesn’t. After really paying attention to it the thing that is bothering me the most is ALWAYS having to talk; I direct or provide commentary, to B because three, for almost every single thing I do. By the end of the day i’m spent. Basically, I want a silent day, or week on the beach with a slushy alcoholic drink in my hand at all times brought to me by a good looking non-speaking pool boy, to myself. My new pool boy looks and sounds like Bill Murray, if you're interested. He'll be here Monday. I'm with you on the silence...we were driving back from Williamsburg yesterday and B was just chatting non-stop and finally I was like, "I just need some quiet time." It lasted for all of 15 seconds. I live for bedtime these days. LO is like that now too. I now promise him coins for his piggy bank if he can stay quiet.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 20, 2017 19:57:32 GMT -6
Hi all. Long day. I think I've said that every day lately, sorry.
Still no word from the husband on when they'll be back...can't recall if I told y'all but they cancelled their return (they were supposed to leave yesterday and get back the 23rd or 24th). So that's...fun. He called tonight and fortunately C was already down and B was in the shower so we could chat a minute. Everyone down there is frustrated; he talked to some helo pilots and a lot of the supplies that have been taken in have been confiscated or "lost" in the jungle (i.e., they get into the wrong hands and are sold on the black market). So that's been discouraging for all involved.
I have no idea what I'm doing with the kids this weekend, except we are going back to the farm where B's field trip was to meet friends on Sunday. Weekends are tough, it's just a huge expanse of time to fill. We went to Williamsburg yesterday and we're driving down to FL late next week but I'm tempted to load them into the car and do a day trip tomorrow, just to get us out of the house.
Wow, I sound delightful. I'm going to go get some more wine.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 20, 2017 20:02:03 GMT -6
slenle that is super tough and I hate confrontation with friends (esp. friends of the steamroller variety) but I think I would have to say something. I'm sorry. I would be irritated, too. Does she have older kids, besides the 2 y.o? You hate to be like, "Just you wait" but that's kind of what I'm thinking, it seems like she has unrealistic expectations of preschoolers, and a terrible delivery. cagoldi Glad to hear your appt went well! I'm trying to remember but I think C's heart rate was on the lower end, and B's was higher...they both went against the wives tale, ha. Guess we'll find out soon enough! chrisy01 So sorry to hear about your m.s. So miserable.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 20, 2017 20:14:13 GMT -6
@slene you have gotten some good advice. I would just encourage you to talk with your friend before it gets worse.
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Post by klong11 on Oct 20, 2017 20:49:34 GMT -6
Really hope my kid is just preparing herself for the time change with these late bedtimes.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 20, 2017 23:05:27 GMT -6
Im sorry klong11 LO went through that a few weeks ago and now he goes to sleep much easier.
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 20, 2017 23:37:05 GMT -6
cagoldi happy to hear the u/s looked great! chrisy01 im sorry you’re feeling so terrible, hope second tri will treat you better!
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Post by wedding on Oct 21, 2017 5:44:08 GMT -6
Did you hear back chrisy01? I hope you feel better soon.
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