chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 8:21:37 GMT -6
How big of a jerk would I be if I called out right now?
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Oct 16, 2017 8:22:07 GMT -6
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 16, 2017 8:22:07 GMT -6
Day drinking is tough these days! I have to really pace myself or else I'm sooooo tired and useless and also feel terrible the next day. I do love day drinking though! I've found if I can chug some water in between drinks, it's not quite as bad. But then again I usually don't want water once I start drinking so it's a delimma. Lol this is me too. I have the best water intentions but once I get a couple in all I want is the booze!
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Post by mwhip on Oct 16, 2017 8:22:55 GMT -6
How big of a jerk would I be if I called out right now? You deserve it! Take some time and relax.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 8:22:56 GMT -6
xolastunicornxo I had ms off and on throughout my pregnancy with LO. It got bad at the beginning and the 7th month
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Oct 16, 2017 8:23:28 GMT -6
Post by flamingo on Oct 16, 2017 8:23:28 GMT -6
Morning! I don't remember if I posted this weekend.. It was a busy couple of days. I work 3 days this week then we're off for a long weekend up north with friends. I found out this morning that my boss is renting an apartment in Chicago instead of staying in hotels to save money since he's been going there more frequently. Which for some reason make the whole sext message even more gross! Today is the first time I've seen him since the incident and I can't look him in the eyes. lol ewwww, as soon as I saw "renting an apartment" i thought of that icky text. :shudder:
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Post by vino on Oct 16, 2017 8:23:28 GMT -6
It’s picture day at daycare and they asked J to come in to take sibling pics. Since we’re not doing family pics this year I’m excited.
I’m sure the beautiful, cooperating experience I have in my mind will in reality be a hot mess with a shy B and wandering J.
We shall see...
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 8:23:57 GMT -6
How big of a jerk would I be if I called out right now? You deserve it! Take some time and relax. But I'm on the shuttle but I feel so nauseous. I know I'm not sick. Maybe I'll leave early. I should catch J up with what has happened.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 8:24:37 GMT -6
It’s picture day at daycare and they asked J to come in to take sibling pics. Since we’re not doing family pics this year I’m excited. I’m sure the beautiful, cooperating experience I have in my mind will in reality be a hot mess with a shy B and wondering J. We shall see... I have faith the kids will cooperate
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Oct 16, 2017 8:26:03 GMT -6
Post by flamingo on Oct 16, 2017 8:26:03 GMT -6
It’s picture day at daycare and they asked J to come in to take sibling pics. Since we’re not doing family pics this year I’m excited. I’m sure the beautiful, cooperating experience I have in my mind will in reality be a hot mess with a shy B and wondering J. We shall see... Our preschool offered sibling pics; I didn't take them up on it but I probably should have. B's actually turned out really well, and they did them outside, which was nice. You can dooo eeeeeet, J & B!
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 8:26:41 GMT -6
Dear dude on the shuttle. We don't want to hear your video. Thanks from a crowded work shuttle.
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joelies
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Oct 16, 2017 8:56:25 GMT -6
Post by joelies on Oct 16, 2017 8:56:25 GMT -6
Morning. I'm in a Monday kind of mood. Things with DH and I have been a bit weird lately, I think I alluded to that last week after having a long talk with one of my best friends. In trying to make things better last night, they somehow just got weirder I guess? But I don't really know how or why because DH won't talk to me, it's like he has a mental block against talking about feelings. He knows very well that he's going through something right now but he won't DO anything about it. It's so damn frustrating and I'm still feeling all out of sorts this morning.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 16, 2017 9:35:06 GMT -6
Morning. I'm in a Monday kind of mood. Things with DH and I have been a bit weird lately, I think I alluded to that last week after having a long talk with one of my best friends. In trying to make things better last night, they somehow just got weirder I guess? But I don't really know how or why because DH won't talk to me, it's like he has a mental block against talking about feelings. He knows very well that he's going through something right now but he won't DO anything about it. It's so damn frustrating and I'm still feeling all out of sorts this morning. Want to talk about it on the private board?
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 16, 2017 9:43:46 GMT -6
Morning! I don't remember if I posted this weekend.. It was a busy couple of days. I work 3 days this week then we're off for a long weekend up north with friends. I found out this morning that my boss is renting an apartment in Chicago instead of staying in hotels to save money since he's been going there more frequently. Which for some reason make the whole sext message even more gross! Today is the first time I've seen him since the incident and I can't look him in the eyes. lol ewwww, as soon as I saw "renting an apartment" i thought of that icky text. :shudder: Identical same. One of my friends had an asshole husband who wanted to rent an apartment in "the city" (they lived in a Dallas suburb) because he didn't want to drive home after long shifts. LOL NO.
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 16, 2017 9:45:13 GMT -6
I'm sorry, joelies. That in between thing is really weird.
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joelies
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Oct 16, 2017 9:51:12 GMT -6
Post by joelies on Oct 16, 2017 9:51:12 GMT -6
Morning. I'm in a Monday kind of mood. Things with DH and I have been a bit weird lately, I think I alluded to that last week after having a long talk with one of my best friends. In trying to make things better last night, they somehow just got weirder I guess? But I don't really know how or why because DH won't talk to me, it's like he has a mental block against talking about feelings. He knows very well that he's going through something right now but he won't DO anything about it. It's so damn frustrating and I'm still feeling all out of sorts this morning. Want to talk about it on the private board? Maybe eventually. Right now I need to keep pushing for us to talk about.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 16, 2017 9:54:52 GMT -6
Hugs joelies. We’re here when you want to talk. I hope he opens up to you.
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Oct 16, 2017 9:55:09 GMT -6
Post by flamingo on Oct 16, 2017 9:55:09 GMT -6
Want to talk about it on the private board? Maybe eventually. Right now I need to keep pushing for us to talk about. I'm sorry, that sounds really tough. Have --you/your H/you and your H together-- ever talked to a counselor? If no, do you think that would better enable him to express himself, whether it's by learning some different communication techniques or maybe just being in a more neutral environment? Or maybe it would give you the chance to express your frustration with his stonewalling and how to deal with it? IDK. I don't mean to butt into your marriage, these are just suggestions. Feel free to tell me to take a leap...
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 16, 2017 10:01:19 GMT -6
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Post by jewels on Oct 16, 2017 10:11:01 GMT -6
That sucks joelies. We've been in a weird place too now, for a while. And this weekend he was home for the first time in a while, and I felt so... disconnected from him. It's like we're 2 people raising these kids together, but that's it. In our case, I don't know if it's just b/c we spend so little time together that we almost don't know how to be together anymore, or what. But anyway, sorry you are in a similar situation. It's not fun.
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joelies
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Oct 16, 2017 10:23:08 GMT -6
Post by joelies on Oct 16, 2017 10:23:08 GMT -6
Maybe eventually. Right now I need to keep pushing for us to talk about. I'm sorry, that sounds really tough. Have --you/your H/you and your H together-- ever talked to a counselor? If no, do you think that would better enable him to express himself, whether it's by learning some different communication techniques or maybe just being in a more neutral environment? Or maybe it would give you the chance to express your frustration with his stonewalling and how to deal with it? IDK. I don't mean to butt into your marriage, these are just suggestions. Feel free to tell me to take a leap... No, you're not butting in at all. I brought my issues up here. I just typed up a really long response but ultimately, I don't see DH actually going through with counseling. He's too proud. I need to go for myself though, I just need to find someone local enough that I can't use being busy as an excuse.
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Post by sands42 on Oct 16, 2017 10:30:31 GMT -6
I’m sorry joelies.... marriage can be so difficult.
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Oct 16, 2017 10:37:24 GMT -6
Post by mwhip on Oct 16, 2017 10:37:24 GMT -6
joelies and jewels sorry you are both having difficulties with your H's. Marriage is hard work. Adding the little people to it takes it to an entirely new level of difficulty. I hope things get better for both of you soon!
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 16, 2017 10:58:18 GMT -6
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Oct 16, 2017 11:02:24 GMT -6
Post by peachsmama on Oct 16, 2017 11:02:24 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 16, 2017 11:03:28 GMT -6
Thanks. She makes the dumbest faces sometimes though.
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Post by guster on Oct 16, 2017 11:07:50 GMT -6
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Post by wedding on Oct 16, 2017 11:14:03 GMT -6
wedding what movie will you go see? We decided against it. Nothing looked that great. We dropped off to goodwill and then went to a fancy lunch. Now we are going to Home Depot and then I'm napping. Best.
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Post by wedding on Oct 16, 2017 11:16:29 GMT -6
Lots of hugs joelies. I've been there. Right now Dh and I are also in an odd space that I haven't been able to identify more than us both being exhausted. that's why we took today off so we could reconnect a little. Marriage is so difficult.
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 16, 2017 11:22:40 GMT -6
joelies & jewels i'm sorry you're having a rough time in your marriage. Lots of hugs.
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