thatgolfb
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Post by thatgolfb on Oct 16, 2017 10:54:01 GMT -6
Someone fell asleep in the waiting room and is snoring AND I WANT TO DIE AND ALSO THROAT PUNCH HER OMG STOP.
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Post by quinn on Oct 16, 2017 11:01:54 GMT -6
Someone fell asleep in the waiting room and is snoring AND I WANT TO DIE AND ALSO THROAT PUNCH HER OMG STOP. That's weird. Just cough like really loud and wake her up. Or make your phone ring
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thatgolfb
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Post by thatgolfb on Oct 16, 2017 11:09:24 GMT -6
Someone fell asleep in the waiting room and is snoring AND I WANT TO DIE AND ALSO THROAT PUNCH HER OMG STOP. That's weird. Just cough like really loud and wake her up. Or make your phone ring She woke up. Thank goodness. There is a really cute baby here now so that makes up for it. #dealershipliveblog
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Post by blabbermouth on Oct 16, 2017 11:11:16 GMT -6
LOL bazi, I am so there with you. I can barely feign interest for those stories at the best of times! Let alone now. And also, given up on all work issues Hospital bag is mostly packed and car seat base is in the car. A bunch of freezer meals are in the freezer. Made some really tasty ham, pea and barley soup for dinner last night. Off to my MW appt shortly. That's my boring life update!!
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Post by clucky on Oct 16, 2017 11:52:29 GMT -6
This is what is killing me the most about a c-section... DD2 is always with me, she doesn’t necessarily always want to be held, but she likes to be picked up often. If we’re out, she generally want me to carry her, me, not H, not anyone else, me. She’s also 2. I feel like yes, maybe I’ll remember more than she will, but how do I explain it to her? We've been telling DD for a while now that I can't pick her up. While I still do now and again, we keep reiterating it with her so that hopefully it won't be too much of a shock when I really can't. It is always hardest for them to understand picking up the baby and not them.
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Post by snuff9861 on Oct 16, 2017 11:55:14 GMT -6
Today is a day of fuckity fuck. My kids are being RIDICULOUS, I've been awake since 3am and I work a night shift tonight. Chances of me getting a nap before hand: zero. I may kill someone.
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clucky
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Post by clucky on Oct 16, 2017 11:55:52 GMT -6
RE Daily randoms I’m worried about missing baby posts when daily’s start filling the board and get bumped for conversations. I’m not always able to check in and the weekly is easy to catch up on. #ivotenopartyofone
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Post by roloma on Oct 16, 2017 12:14:59 GMT -6
I have a large stack of forms at work that need to be taken care of before I have this baby. I 100% planned on getting them done today. I now have a serious case of fuckit-itis and they are waiting until tomorrow. This kid will probably come tonight now.
We also had a lunch for Boss' day and I ate my weight in walking tacos. So, that probably isn't helping.
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thatgolfb
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Post by thatgolfb on Oct 16, 2017 12:20:45 GMT -6
RE Daily randoms I’m worried about missing baby posts when daily’s start filling the board and get bumped for conversations. I’m not always able to check in and the weekly is easy to catch up on. #ivotenopartyofone I tend to agree with this. I don't really care either way, but if I had to choose I vote weekly thread for randoms.
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Post by snuff9861 on Oct 16, 2017 12:23:35 GMT -6
RE Daily randoms I’m worried about missing baby posts when daily’s start filling the board and get bumped for conversations. I’m not always able to check in and the weekly is easy to catch up on. #ivotenopartyofone On my previous bmbs we've done it two ways: A post that was stickied so everyone could link their birth stories and a stickied post of threads that were about each baby. I'm cool either way since I'll be here till the bitter end.
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Post by beefinch on Oct 16, 2017 12:46:31 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩
Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all
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Post by roloma on Oct 16, 2017 13:01:52 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩 Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all It is absolutely normal, in my mind. I already have major anxiety over being away from DS. I had a sad moment this morning thinking about it. I travel for work occasionally and he has been fine but this seems so different. So have yourself a good cry. Bring that beautiful baby girl into the world. Then enjoy your new family with tons of kisses for everyone.
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Post by beefinch on Oct 16, 2017 13:04:14 GMT -6
Well I just said bye to DS, he's staying at my parents house since my dad has him tomorrow.
Got in the car after giving him kisses and he's with my mum waving st me and saying bye, I just I start bawling my eyes out as I'm driving away.
Had a good 5 minutes runny nose, eyes streaming, cry in the car outside my house.
I just don't want him to think I'm pushing him away to just have another baby, even though he literally has no idea and probably can't even think like that, I mean he's 2 lol. I just wana cuddle him all the time
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Post by cdnfarmgirl on Oct 16, 2017 13:06:27 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩 Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all He can't come visit you in the hospitaal? You'll be there for 4 days?! Oh man. I'd go crazy. I delivered last time in the hospital that was an hour away and my parents still brought DS in to see me. I was only there for 2 days. Not even a full 48 hours.
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Post by beefinch on Oct 16, 2017 13:10:30 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩 Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all He can't come visit you in the hospitaal? You'll be there for 4 days?! Oh man. I'd go crazy. I delivered last time in the hospital that was an hour away and my parents still brought DS in to see me. I was only there for 2 days. Not even a full 48 hours. Yeah he can, but it just depends how long I labour for example. Basically give it 30 hours for it to work before they start doing another things, and then it'll lead to a c-section. And we don't know how long after we will need to stay in for. W stayed in for 6 days after DS, so anything under that im fine with lol. Just want to be in and out so I see DS asap
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Post by grumpycat on Oct 16, 2017 13:34:45 GMT -6
Just had DS2 ped appointment. He lost a little more weight but she's not super concerned. Scales vary so we are gonna stop by tomorrow to get him weighed again. She thought he looked a little jaundiced so she's checking his bilirubin. Basically all the same stuff we went through with ds1. Overall he's looking good though. I'll start a weekly baby check in thread next week
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Post by AnnPerkins on Oct 16, 2017 13:55:49 GMT -6
I’m officially to the stage where I can no longer feign interest in random shit due to fatigue and mental prep for baby. My friend is telling me some long dramatic story about a hookup...thank God it’s over text because I can’t even get it up to write more than “omg that’s crazy”. Same with coworkers who want to discuss upcoming projects and need help. No, window is closed. We aren’t brain surgeons, you will figure this out. Stop.talking.to.me. OMG seriously. DH and the kids are like, What should we do today? What's for dinner? Let's talk about holiday plans! And I'm just shrugging at everything because I have no fucks left to give.
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Post by cdnfarmgirl on Oct 16, 2017 13:58:00 GMT -6
He can't come visit you in the hospitaal? You'll be there for 4 days?! Oh man. I'd go crazy. I delivered last time in the hospital that was an hour away and my parents still brought DS in to see me. I was only there for 2 days. Not even a full 48 hours. Yeah he can, but it just depends how long I labour for example. Basically give it 30 hours for it to work before they start doing another things, and then it'll lead to a c-section. And we don't know how long after we will need to stay in for. W stayed in for 6 days after DS, so anything under that im fine with lol. Just want to be in and out so I see DS asap True. With my induction with my son, I went 30 Hours from time they started till he was born. My daughter was 9. Lol. I'm hoping for even shorter this time around. 6 days?! Did you have complications or why were you in so long? Hopefully this one will be quicker and you can get home!
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Post by peggels24 on Oct 16, 2017 13:58:45 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩 Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all I'm freaking out about this too. MIL is watching DD for us when we go in for the RCS and it will be 5 nights away. MIL isn't sure that she wants to bring DD up to the hospital because she's afraid that DD will get too sad leaving. I understand that and told her we can play that by ear. But then she told me that she doesn't want to bring DD home the day we get home from the hospital and wants to give us a night at home with the baby. Um....no. I want DD back please. I'm going to leave it to H to put an end to that line of thought.
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Post by cdnfarmgirl on Oct 16, 2017 13:59:02 GMT -6
My son starts hockey tonight. I don't know who's more excited- me or him. lol. No, probably him. He's being trying on his hockey gear every time we look at it. Lol
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Post by cdnfarmgirl on Oct 16, 2017 14:01:36 GMT -6
I feel like having a good cry or something. Like it's not really about the new baby, it's the fact that I have to leave DS for a couple days, possibly 3/4 or whatever. I don't wana 😩 Is that normal? I obviously don't exactly want him with me either while labouring, but I'll just miss him for those days that's all I'm freaking out about this too. MIL is watching DD for us when we go in for the RCS and it will be 5 nights away. MIL isn't sure that she wants to bring DD up to the hospital because she's afraid that DD will get too sad leaving. I understand that and told her we can play that by ear. But then she told me that she doesn't want to bring DD home the day we get home from the hospital and wants to give us a night at home with the baby. Um....no. I want DD back please. I'm going to leave it to H to put an end to that line of thought. My mom offered to keep my son when for the first night home when DD was born 2 years ago. We said no we wanted him home. I regret that with every bone in my Mind. That first night was hell with baby at home. MY son kept waking up when baby would cry and only wanted me, not daddy. It was awful. Baby was up every 2-3 hours. I almost phoned my mom at 2am to come get him. I really wish I would have said yes to them keeping him.
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Post by peggels24 on Oct 16, 2017 14:20:51 GMT -6
I'm freaking out about this too. MIL is watching DD for us when we go in for the RCS and it will be 5 nights away. MIL isn't sure that she wants to bring DD up to the hospital because she's afraid that DD will get too sad leaving. I understand that and told her we can play that by ear. But then she told me that she doesn't want to bring DD home the day we get home from the hospital and wants to give us a night at home with the baby. Um....no. I want DD back please. I'm going to leave it to H to put an end to that line of thought. My mom offered to keep my son when for the first night home when DD was born 2 years ago. We said no we wanted him home. I regret that with every bone in my Mind. That first night was hell with baby at home. MY son kept waking up when baby would cry and only wanted me, not daddy. It was awful. Baby was up every 2-3 hours. I almost phoned my mom at 2am to come get him. I really wish I would have said yes to them keeping him. DD literally sleeps though anything until she's ready to get up so I'm not "too" worried about this. She's shared a room with a screaming child before and didn't flinch - just slept right through it.
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Post by cnf on Oct 16, 2017 14:28:53 GMT -6
Add me to the no fucks to give club. I'm so tired and just need to be left alone.
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Post by blabbermouth on Oct 16, 2017 14:31:42 GMT -6
Yep, also feeling crabby today since my appointment. Like I just want to go home and nap and not be bothered by anyone, and I'm not even really that tired.
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Post by thatgolfb on Oct 16, 2017 14:38:11 GMT -6
This must be my cold dark heart talking but... I am not dreading being away from DD for any amount of time. Lol. She will have plenty of people here that love her, and she will come visit as long as they don't declare it flu season. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I totally know I'm in the minority on this one.
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Post by spacecadet on Oct 16, 2017 15:03:10 GMT -6
So, I don't know if this is pregnancy brain or what but we were over at the IL's last night for dinner and my MIL mentioned that they sold tickets to a basketball game that is scheduled for the day before Thanksgiving (I'm due on Thanksgiving, they are season ticket holders) and she was saying something about worrying about going and then getting a call about me going into labor or whatever and I was just thinking "That's cool, but you wont need to rush or anything, etc." It just occurred to me that they are keeping DS while I'm in the hospital so yes, they would need to come and get him. Thankfully I didn't say anything.
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bazi
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Post by bazi on Oct 16, 2017 15:06:36 GMT -6
This must be my cold dark heart talking but... I am not dreading being away from DD for any amount of time. Lol. She will have plenty of people here that love her, and she will come visit as long as they don't declare it flu season. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I totally know I'm in the minority on this one. We are two peas in a pod...a pod of deadness inside.
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Post by AnnPerkins on Oct 16, 2017 15:06:47 GMT -6
This must be my cold dark heart talking but... I am not dreading being away from DD for any amount of time. Lol. She will have plenty of people here that love her, and she will come visit as long as they don't declare it flu season. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I totally know I'm in the minority on this one. We can polish our onyx hearts together.
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Post by AnnPerkins on Oct 16, 2017 15:12:24 GMT -6
My mom stayed with us the first week after DS was born and my MIL came through next week. I honestly have no idea what either of them and DD did while they were together. I'm pretty sure there were a few trips to Build A Bear.
Because DS was in and out of the hospital during that time, we were just like, "So you guys are good, right?" and tried to focus on him as much as we could.
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Post by grumpycat on Oct 16, 2017 15:14:44 GMT -6
This must be my cold dark heart talking but... I am not dreading being away from DD for any amount of time. Lol. She will have plenty of people here that love her, and she will come visit as long as they don't declare it flu season. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I totally know I'm in the minority on this one. FTR, +1 lol. DS1 goes back to school tomorrow and I'm so looking forward to actually being able to relax/sleep when DS2 sleeps. He was with my mom for a few days and then my in laws. He's had a really fun, busy couple of days lol.
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