tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 12, 2017 20:28:08 GMT -6
I think I may need to fly back out to my parents house. I'll prime the wine. Emergency or mama drama? Either way, I hope it settles quickly. My sister & I don’t think my mother will handle the surgery very well, after what we witnessed the last time.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 12, 2017 20:29:19 GMT -6
I'll prime the wine. Emergency or mama drama? Either way, I hope it settles quickly. My sister & I don’t think my mother will handle the surgery very well, after what we witnessed the last time. Let me know if you need reinforcement. I can get there quickly.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 12, 2017 20:31:51 GMT -6
I’m sorry tgrimes your dad has been through so much lately. I hope your mom can keep her comments to herself and not guilt your dad (though I highly doubt she will).
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 12, 2017 20:35:39 GMT -6
So I worked 11 hours today. Mostly along. Boss B came and helped a little so I can take a small break. I'll have the same day tomorrow since J is still sick. But overall it was a good day.
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Post by wedding on Oct 13, 2017 3:56:57 GMT -6
I'm sorry tgrimes. I hope the surgery and radiation are easy on him and curative.
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guster
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Post by guster on Oct 13, 2017 5:14:50 GMT -6
I'm so sorry your dad has to deal with another surgery, tgrimes. I'm thinking of you all.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Oct 13, 2017 7:47:15 GMT -6
tgrimes, I hope the surgery goes well and your mom can chill.
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 13, 2017 8:34:25 GMT -6
tgrimes I'm so sorry about all this, hope surgery goes smoothly .
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Post by lahdeedah on Oct 13, 2017 8:47:57 GMT -6
tgrimes, sorry about your dad needing more surgery. I hope your Mom can chill out and just be supportive. mskatiep Not overreacting at all. You cooked, and though it may not have been enough, he could eat something else. MH always does when we don't have enough leftovers. He'll eat what's left and then whatever else we may have. Even if it's just a bowl of cereal. I'm glad you talked about it and I hope he understands going forward.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 13, 2017 9:41:57 GMT -6
mskatiep tell him he can start planning and cooking and see if he does any better. I've made enough shitty comments to H about his shitty comments about food/cooking, he has learned to say dinner was good, regardless. Yep.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Oct 13, 2017 9:45:05 GMT -6
Sorry about your dad, tgrimes. Is it your mom's behavior that makes you think you need to fly out again?
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 13, 2017 9:49:41 GMT -6
Sorry about your dad, tgrimes . Is it your mom's behavior that makes you think you need to fly out again? Sort of. She freaked out with my dad's last surgery. My sister & I had to make all of the medical decisions, fight with insurance co, etc. My dad was hallucinating and asking crazy questions, didn't know where he was, and my mom would get so upset with him, which didn't help anything. I could go into more detail, but that's the gist of it. For my dad's sake (& probably the nurses, too), I feel like one of us needs to be there for this. My sister is a school teacher and has already exhausted all of her days with her oldest & her H being sick. It's also cheaper for me to get a flight out there than it is for her.
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