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Post by mskatiep on Oct 12, 2017 15:27:47 GMT -6
There's a movement to ban solitary confinement in PRISON, and they're using it in schools? WT ever loving F? Exactly! I'm pretty sure it's not particularly effective on grown adults, let alone children that inherently trust and value the adults around them. I can only imagine the mental scars these kids will end up with.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 12, 2017 15:28:24 GMT -6
There's a movement to ban solitary confinement in PRISON, and they're using it in schools? WT ever loving F? I just can't grasp why/how anyone would have approved this.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 12, 2017 16:15:49 GMT -6
tgrimes thinking of you and your dad. Let us know when you have news. mwhip hugs and al the wine to you! @klongoria just hugs girl. I’m sorry. Grief is hard.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 12, 2017 16:18:25 GMT -6
tgrimes and will you send me that video too? And cagoldi I used a bellefit postpartum corset after my last two pregnancies and I think it really aided in my stomach muscles coming back together and healing.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 12, 2017 16:18:39 GMT -6
My new appliances are being delivered!!
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Post by kim22 on Oct 12, 2017 17:16:59 GMT -6
So in NJ schools you can't even sit a kid facing the wall, let alone lock them in a room! My grandma taught kindergarten in Connecticut and talks about the first grade teacher that used to put kids in the door to crawl space for the heating system. She said one night she stayed late and kept hearing crying and she couldn't figure out where it was coming from. That other teacher left a kid in there and went home for the night!
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Post by snoopmommymom on Oct 12, 2017 18:23:43 GMT -6
mwhip I think you need a Percocet, glass of wine, and a bubble bath! I can't get over the drinking at work thing. Do you sit at your cubicle and continue to work while you drink? Or does everyone socialize? I'm in the wrong line of work!
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Post by klong11 on Oct 12, 2017 18:25:01 GMT -6
So in NJ schools you can't even sit a kid facing the wall, let alone lock them in a room! My grandma taught kindergarten in Connecticut and talks about the first grade teacher that used to put kids in the door to crawl space for the heating system. She said one night she stayed late and kept hearing crying and she couldn't figure out where it was coming from. That other teacher left a kid in there and went home for the night! omg!
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Post by mskatiep on Oct 12, 2017 18:31:28 GMT -6
So in NJ schools you can't even sit a kid facing the wall, let alone lock them in a room! My grandma taught kindergarten in Connecticut and talks about the first grade teacher that used to put kids in the door to crawl space for the heating system. She said one night she stayed late and kept hearing crying and she couldn't figure out where it was coming from. That other teacher left a kid in there and went home for the night! Holy crap!!
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Post by mwhip on Oct 12, 2017 18:33:37 GMT -6
mwhip I think you need a Percocet, glass of wine, and a bubble bath! I can't get over the drinking at work thing. Do you sit at your cubicle and continue to work while you drink? Or does everyone socialize? I'm in the wrong line of work! I was considering a Xanax tonight, but after the wine, I'm good. The VP of sales has a mini fridge in her office that we all keep our wine/beer in. We either drink there, in the HR managers office, or our CEO, since he has a dart board. It's a very small office so we all help keep each other sane. Most of the time, pretty much everyone (minus engineers, because engineers) drinks or hangs out and talks. Everyone knew my day sucked, so I was the only one drinking today, but everyone knew it since there were 5 of us in the VP of sales office bull shitting. It's a pretty great office.
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Post by mskatiep on Oct 12, 2017 18:40:09 GMT -6
Please tell me if I'm overreacting:
I made BLT wraps for dinner tonight, there was only enough bacon for Tim to have 2 wraps. He got pissed that I didn't make more bacon as he was still hungry. I'm pissed that instead of saying "I'll eat leftovers from last night, or I'll make a PB&J" he was pissed and pouting that there wasn't more bacon. I feel like he should be happy that I planned/shopped and prepped for all of our meals (to include his lunches) and he shouldn't be a dick that I underestimated the damn bacon.
This homemaking thing doesn't come naturally to me and I struggle a lot to do it to the best of my abilities. So I am hurt and feel underappreciated.
Am I overreacting?
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 12, 2017 18:41:44 GMT -6
My dad has surgery the 27th. They’ll be removing 1/2 his lip and a square of the skin on the side of it. Then they’ll reconstruct everything. Liquid diet for a week and then the stitches come out. He’ll need radiation for 6 weeks 5 days a week.
My mother is upset she’ll miss h’s 1st birthday. I’m sure she’s making my dad feel like shit about it, too.
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Post by mskatiep on Oct 12, 2017 18:47:30 GMT -6
My dad has surgery the 27th. They’ll be removing 1/2 his lip and a square of the skin on the side of it. Then they’ll reconstruct everything. Liquid diet for a week and then the stitches come out. He’ll need radiation for 6 weeks 5 days a week. My mother is upset she’ll miss h’s 1st birthday. I’m sure she’s making my dad feel like shit about it, too. I'm sorry tgrimes your mom is a piece of work. I hope your dad has a fast recovery.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 12, 2017 18:50:18 GMT -6
Please tell me if I'm overreacting: I made BLT wraps for dinner tonight, there was only enough bacon for Tim to have 2 wraps. He got pissed that I didn't make more bacon as he was still hungry. I'm pissed that instead of saying "I'll eat leftovers from last night, or I'll make a PB&J" he was pissed and pouting that there wasn't more bacon. I feel like he should be happy that I planned/shopped and prepped for all of our meals (to include his lunches) and he shouldn't be a dick that I underestimated the damn bacon. This homemaking thing doesn't come naturally to me and I struggle a lot to do it to the best of my abilities. So I am hurt and feel underappreciated. Am I overreacting? No, I'd be pissed and hurt. If MH cooked and I was still hungry I'd just make more bacon or something else. I'd expect the same from him. I'm sorry
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 12, 2017 18:51:04 GMT -6
My dad has surgery the 27th. They’ll be removing 1/2 his lip and a square of the skin on the side of it. Then they’ll reconstruct everything. Liquid diet for a week and then the stitches come out. He’ll need radiation for 6 weeks 5 days a week. My mother is upset she’ll miss h’s 1st birthday. I’m sure she’s making my dad feel like shit about it, too. I'm sorry. Hoping for a speedy recovery and that your mom reigns in her bitch.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 12, 2017 18:58:52 GMT -6
mskatiep I’d be pissed. You have plenty of food on the house. He can make a sandwich & STFU.
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 12, 2017 19:02:00 GMT -6
My dad has surgery the 27th. They’ll be removing 1/2 his lip and a square of the skin on the side of it. Then they’ll reconstruct everything. Liquid diet for a week and then the stitches come out. He’ll need radiation for 6 weeks 5 days a week. My mother is upset she’ll miss h’s 1st birthday. I’m sure she’s making my dad feel like shit about it, too. So sorry it wasn't better news. And for your mom's attitude. I hope his recovery is good.
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Post by mwhip on Oct 12, 2017 19:08:42 GMT -6
mskatiep tell him he can start planning and cooking and see if he does any better. I've made enough shitty comments to H about his shitty comments about food/cooking, he has learned to say dinner was good, regardless.
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Post by mwhip on Oct 12, 2017 19:10:18 GMT -6
tgrimes sounds like a rough surgery. I know your mom isn't the most delightful, so telling her to chill won't help. Just let you dad know he has lots of prayers headed his way for a speedy recovery and there is always Hs bday next year!
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Post by joelies on Oct 12, 2017 19:15:30 GMT -6
mskatiep - He's being an idiot. He could have nicely asked you to make more next time while making himself a sandwich, like an adult. I'm sorry, tgrimes. I wish this was over already.
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Post by klong11 on Oct 12, 2017 19:17:52 GMT -6
Please tell me if I'm overreacting: I made BLT wraps for dinner tonight, there was only enough bacon for Tim to have 2 wraps. He got pissed that I didn't make more bacon as he was still hungry. I'm pissed that instead of saying "I'll eat leftovers from last night, or I'll make a PB&J" he was pissed and pouting that there wasn't more bacon. I feel like he should be happy that I planned/shopped and prepped for all of our meals (to include his lunches) and he shouldn't be a dick that I underestimated the damn bacon. This homemaking thing doesn't come naturally to me and I struggle a lot to do it to the best of my abilities. So I am hurt and feel underappreciated. Am I overreacting? Why didn't he make his own damn bacon? And yes, he should be happy you took the time to make him dinner at all.
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Post by snoopmommymom on Oct 12, 2017 19:18:57 GMT -6
I'm sorry tgrimes. Your dad is a fighter though so I'm sure he'll bounce back.
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Post by mskatiep on Oct 12, 2017 19:21:21 GMT -6
Thanks guys! He apologized and I explained to him that I already feel so much pressure to feed my family home cooked relatively healthy meals that I don't need to be made to feel like I failed somehow. I think he gets it. Time will tell. I reminded him that I'm only responsible to feed Layla, I'm not his Mom and I can stop cooking for him altogether if he's gonna be a dick.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 12, 2017 19:21:30 GMT -6
tgrimes I’m so sorry. Sending lots of love. mskatiep not overreacting. Tell him to get off his ass and make a sandwich if he’s still hungry. And let him be on dinner duty for a week.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on Oct 12, 2017 19:21:59 GMT -6
snoopmommymom am I getting old? Because that sounds like the most perfect night ever!
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Post by snoopmommymom on Oct 12, 2017 19:23:14 GMT -6
snoopmommymom am I getting old? Because that sounds like the most perfect night ever! Me too
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 12, 2017 20:04:48 GMT -6
I think I may need to fly back out to my parents house.
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Post by peachsmama on Oct 12, 2017 20:09:46 GMT -6
I think I may need to fly back out to my parents house. I'll prime the wine. Emergency or mama drama? Either way, I hope it settles quickly.
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Post by tallb on Oct 12, 2017 20:11:41 GMT -6
Oh man tgrimes I'm sorry. Hopefully it goes smoothly. No hurricanes allowed if you fly out though!
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Post by vino on Oct 12, 2017 20:19:54 GMT -6
I'm sorry tgrimes i hope it goes well and recovery is smooth. mskatiep nope, not overreacting. I hate when men are petty like that, because obviously he just felt the need for a fight. I'm glad he apologized and hopefully he remembers next time he wants more food.
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