Post by sammysam on Sept 11, 2017 19:03:13 GMT -6
Hi everyone. I'm a longtime lurker from TB...I started posting on here after the migration to TCF then my anxiety over SO wanting a second made me disappear for a while.
SO ended up convincing me that it was the right choice for our family to TFAS so I put 100% into the decision and didn't look back. I got KU in June and am currently almost 11.5 weeks along, however, I found out last week the pregnancy has stopped progressing so I am currently in limbo waiting for my body to figure it out so I can move on. They are monitoring my Hcg as well as any signs of infection and are planning on letting me go another week before they consider any intervention.
In any case, my plan is to go back to being OAD. SO said he will support any decision I make and I honestly think it is the best decision for our family. Another LO would have been lovely, however, I don't think I can go through this again. I was very happy being OAD to start with and so I think it is where our family will be the happiest moving forward.
We have been together 16 years and have a lovely 3.5 year old DD.
I'm focusing on losing the stupid stress weight I gained while TFAS and then the extra bit I gained during first tri. I know it might sound petty but I don't feel like I can get back to being myself fully until I can get these 15 lbs off.
In any case I'm homeless on here at the moment and don't really have anywhere I feel like I fit...but I was hoping you might have me back? This was my first home and I miss it.
SO ended up convincing me that it was the right choice for our family to TFAS so I put 100% into the decision and didn't look back. I got KU in June and am currently almost 11.5 weeks along, however, I found out last week the pregnancy has stopped progressing so I am currently in limbo waiting for my body to figure it out so I can move on. They are monitoring my Hcg as well as any signs of infection and are planning on letting me go another week before they consider any intervention.
In any case, my plan is to go back to being OAD. SO said he will support any decision I make and I honestly think it is the best decision for our family. Another LO would have been lovely, however, I don't think I can go through this again. I was very happy being OAD to start with and so I think it is where our family will be the happiest moving forward.
We have been together 16 years and have a lovely 3.5 year old DD.
I'm focusing on losing the stupid stress weight I gained while TFAS and then the extra bit I gained during first tri. I know it might sound petty but I don't feel like I can get back to being myself fully until I can get these 15 lbs off.
In any case I'm homeless on here at the moment and don't really have anywhere I feel like I fit...but I was hoping you might have me back? This was my first home and I miss it.
