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Post by jedi on Aug 1, 2017 17:32:42 GMT -6
jedi I'm just going to go ahead and say that lady is not your people. She doesn't sound like someone I'd hang out with. Def not. Sadly, she's in the moms club and also on the board so I will interact with her. It's sad that while at board meetings I won't want to share things though.
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Post by librarylady on Aug 1, 2017 17:33:25 GMT -6
I'm excited that I have plans for A's birthday all figured out. We will just celebrate with family this year, about 8 of us total. Her birthday is on Friday and we will do music that morning like normal. Then after her nap we will go to a splash pad and have pizza there. Then we will head home and walk to an ice cream shop. The next day we will go to the beach, have lunch picnic style, clean up and head to the aquarium then out to dinner and head home. I feel less guilt about not doing a party.
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Post by armpants on Aug 1, 2017 17:35:56 GMT -6
librarylady that sounds like an awesome day. Honestly I'm so happy we did a trip instead of a party this year. I bet A is going to have a blast!
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Post by armpants on Aug 1, 2017 17:36:57 GMT -6
jedi it does suck that she makes you feel less like sharing. I would bet you aren't the only person giving her the side eye. Do your best to not let her petty comments get to you.
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Post by jess213 on Aug 1, 2017 17:55:36 GMT -6
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Post by jess213 on Aug 1, 2017 18:02:33 GMT -6
Lordy we waited almost 2 hours for the farkin' ultrasound but DD2 was uncharacteristically patient. I'm so glad my parents were here to watch DS and DD1...it would have sucked having to corral everyone. Should have results by Friday 👍
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Post by flippinchica on Aug 1, 2017 19:07:09 GMT -6
DH almost missed his flight due to customs taking too long but made it. Flight is s few minutes early though!
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Post by easternshoregirl on Aug 1, 2017 19:09:54 GMT -6
jess213 what did I miss? Is DD2 ok?
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Post by jess213 on Aug 1, 2017 19:42:45 GMT -6
jess213 what did I miss? Is DD2 ok? She's good! During my anatomy scan they saw her right kidney was dilated a good bit, so when she was a few days old we had a renal ultrasound done. The dilation did decrease, but it was still well above average. We went today for another scan and depending on how it's going we may have to see a specialist....in most cases the issue will go away on its own, so that's what we're hoping for!
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Post by jedi on Aug 1, 2017 21:20:44 GMT -6
Finally going to bed.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Aug 2, 2017 3:50:47 GMT -6
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Post by booarogue on Aug 2, 2017 5:18:33 GMT -6
jedi I'm just going to go ahead and say that lady is not your people. She doesn't sound like someone I'd hang out with. Def not. Sadly, she's in the moms club and also on the board so I will interact with her. It's sad that while at board meetings I won't want to share things though. I feel this way about the moms group I'm in. They're nice enough but I haven't found my people. You have to find your people. Ours have mom nights out. Do yours? Maybe that would help everyone relax ( not chasing kids) and you could find more mama's like you. The cools ones who eat full fat delicious ice cream. S1 looked tye dyed and I want it.
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Post by RunsforWineandCarbs on Aug 2, 2017 5:28:19 GMT -6
jedi, f that - feed your kids all the dairy ice cream you want! There are worse things that you could be giving or doing to them. And seriously, dairy isn't bad - unless you have a medical reason not to consume it, go for it. I mean, it's not like you are giving your kids liters of mountain dew and tons of candy. Ice cream is a treat - enjoy it. And tell that mom to back off. Plus I am sure you can find several faults with her and her parenting style, but are a bigger person by not doing so, and accepting as is. I say do you.
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Post by easternshoregirl on Aug 2, 2017 5:36:32 GMT -6
jess213, hope the ultrasound results are good!
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Post by easternshoregirl on Aug 2, 2017 5:39:43 GMT -6
This conversation about full fat dairy ice cream reminds me of a friend of mine that is a speech pathologist and she does home visits. When another friend was doubting her parenting skills, the SP mom told us about some of the things she's seen, like soda in baby bottles. It is really really sad to hear how some people treat their kids. But her point was to say we're doing OK. So our usual line when someone criticizes/questions us or we're unsure of something is "well did you put Coke in her bottle?" Not that I think there's any reason to criticize ice cream. We've been eating our fair share this summer!
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Post by jedi on Aug 2, 2017 6:08:27 GMT -6
Def not. Sadly, she's in the moms club and also on the board so I will interact with her. It's sad that while at board meetings I won't want to share things though. I feel this way about the moms group I'm in. They're nice enough but I haven't found my people. You have to find your people. Ours have mom nights out. Do yours? Maybe that would help everyone relax ( not chasing kids) and you could find more mama's like you. The cools ones who eat full fat delicious ice cream. S1 looked tye dyed and I want it. It was called super man ice cream. Not sure bob flavor but he loved it. We do moms night out each month. I go about 1/2 the time. There are a several people in mesh with. She was just sitting near me at the time. What happened yesterday probably would not have bothered me as much had the other things not already happened.
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Post by jedi on Aug 2, 2017 6:09:41 GMT -6
Thanks everyone!
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Post by mamallama on Aug 2, 2017 6:20:59 GMT -6
armpants, it should be 6 weeks or so. Not super long until the house is finished, but a long time when living in a basement.
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Post by 45thparallel on Aug 2, 2017 6:58:28 GMT -6
Oh man me too. I have serious FOMO Random but I just googled and finally learned what FOMO means. I'm gonna use it now.
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Post by redandblue on Aug 2, 2017 8:25:33 GMT -6
Oh man me too. I have serious FOMO Random but I just googled and finally learned what FOMO means. I'm gonna use it now. Please share, because I'm a dinosaur. I've stopped asking and if I can't figure it out I just assume it's secret code language that I'm not supposed to know! Lol
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Post by jedi on Aug 2, 2017 8:35:33 GMT -6
Random but I just googled and finally learned what FOMO means. I'm gonna use it now. Please share, because I'm a dinosaur. I've stopped asking and if I can't figure it out I just assume it's secret code language that I'm not supposed to know! Lol I had to google Fear of missing out
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Post by easternshoregirl on Aug 2, 2017 10:41:20 GMT -6
I knew FOMO but KOKO?I had to check that one (Keep on keepin on)
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