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Post by willow on Aug 3, 2023 12:30:47 GMT -6
Yeah I don't love conflating one's sexual "openness" or fluidness as a reason why one might behave a certain way around other people who are not. It paves the way for lending credence to the whole idea that LGBTQIA people are inherently deviant and predatory. Which I take umbrage with as someone who would be labeled as more sexually "open". It doesn't make someone automatically pushier and harassing of people who are less comfortable in sexual spaces or forcing anyone to do something they aren't interested in doing.
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Post by lucylou on Aug 3, 2023 12:33:36 GMT -6
So much this I listen to a local morning show and they were talking about his being better and I just sighed. I loved that she only let him do the cover if he didn't change a single lyric. He’s a checkout girl.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 12:44:20 GMT -6
Yes I've read this too. They were at some kind of entertainment club and she was allegedly pushing them to touch the breasts of the dancers/performers and there was a half peeled banana sticking out of vag that she pressured them to eat And this is why you don't go to these places with co-workers. This does change my mind a bit though. If you're going to a show that is specifically advertised as what it is, I can see people being their with who they believe are their friends and being like "OMG just do it!, touch them titties, eat the damn banana" etc etc. Idk, I'm conflicted on this. And I'm referring to this specific situation only, not the additional people coming out with other complaints and I haven't read much about it. I'm sure I'll change my mind 500 times. Yes I’m here except she is their boss and they are saying she made them go to these places not that they were there of their own curiosity
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Post by claudia on Aug 3, 2023 12:57:03 GMT -6
And this is why you don't go to these places with co-workers. This does change my mind a bit though. If you're going to a show that is specifically advertised as what it is, I can see people being their with who they believe are their friends and being like "OMG just do it!, touch them titties, eat the damn banana" etc etc. Idk, I'm conflicted on this. And I'm referring to this specific situation only, not the additional people coming out with other complaints and I haven't read much about it. I'm sure I'll change my mind 500 times. Yes I’m here except she is their boss and they are saying she made them go to these places not that they were there of their own curiosity Yes, with those portions of the complaints, I could see it being a really bad error in judgment where she was like "And tonight we're going to a strip club!" (or whatever the place was) And because she was like "We're doing XYZ" instead of "Do you want to do XYZ?" people felt they couldn't say no. But to her, she was just planning what she thought was a fun outing. Some of the other info coming out makes me think it is more than that, or a combination of things. But then I also want to make sure I'm not victim blaming or excusing bad behavior from someone in a position of power over the dancers. So basically, I don't know. The more info that comes out the less it seems like this was a misunderstanding though.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 12:57:46 GMT -6
Yes I’m here except she is their boss and they are saying she made them go to these places not that they were there of their own curiosity Yes, with those portions of the complaints, I could see it being a really bad error in judgment where she was like "And tonight we're going to a strip club!" (or whatever the place was) And because she was like "We're doing XYZ" instead of "Do you want to do XYZ?" people felt they couldn't say no. But to her, she was just planning what she thought was a fun outing. Some of the other info coming out makes me think it is more than that, or a combination of things. But then I also want to make sure I'm not victim blaming or excusing bad behavior from someone in a position of power over the dancers. So basically, I don't know. The more info that comes out the less it seems like this was a misunderstanding though. You are me
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Post by ggirl on Aug 3, 2023 13:13:19 GMT -6
And this is why you don't go to these places with co-workers. This does change my mind a bit though. If you're going to a show that is specifically advertised as what it is, I can see people being their with who they believe are their friends and being like "OMG just do it!, touch them titties, eat the damn banana" etc etc. Idk, I'm conflicted on this. And I'm referring to this specific situation only, not the additional people coming out with other complaints and I haven't read much about it. I'm sure I'll change my mind 500 times. Yes I’m here except she is their boss and they are saying she made them go to these places not that they were there of their own curiosity And even if it was just a “suggestion” by Lizzo We can all agree no boss should be setting up a fun outing to a strip club lol. For reasons exactly like this lawsuit.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 13:16:39 GMT -6
Yes I’m here except she is their boss and they are saying she made them go to these places not that they were there of their own curiosity And even if it was just a “suggestion” by Lizzo We can all agree no boss should be setting up a fun outing to a strip club lol. For reasons exactly like this lawsuit. My sister has one staff member that she had to stop inviting over because she would drink and get into shenanigans but then tell the younger or new staff all about what the management did.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 13:20:14 GMT -6
Cher, I had the impression that Honey was ill or injured. There was a tweet that alluded to rallying for the hometown (NY) crowd, basically. I guess we'll see if more sneaks out! I like seeing the crew from Legendary make it onto bigger things. That’s what Honey’s saying. But apparently there’s some tweets in the past that people Want her to answer for. I haven’t seen them but have seen the fighting in her IG comments. So, the rumor is that caught up to her and she doesn’t want to address it.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 13:22:41 GMT -6
There’s a couple of former dancers not in the lawsuit that came out and said everything in the lawsuit is true and they’re really brave for doing this bc it could be a career ender.
I don’t know. I don’t have an opinion yet but the allegations are wild. I just watch the TikTok while I scroll for Blue to throw the Roc or Bey to give a dirty look to a crew member. This is my life now.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 13:23:20 GMT -6
July 20, 2023
The ginger haired one has a realtor looking for a place for him in Africa. Just him.
Prince Harry
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Post by icedcoffee on Aug 3, 2023 13:54:20 GMT -6
Yes I've read this too. They were at some kind of entertainment club and she was allegedly pushing them to touch the breasts of the dancers/performers and there was a half peeled banana sticking out of vag that she pressured them to eat And this is why you don't go to these places with co-workers. This does change my mind a bit though. If you're going to a show that is specifically advertised as what it is, I can see people being their with who they believe are their friends and being like "OMG just do it!, touch them titties, eat the damn banana" etc etc. Idk, I'm conflicted on this. And I'm referring to this specific situation only, not the additional people coming out with other complaints and I haven't read much about it. I'm sure I'll change my mind 500 times. I def agree with the first sentence. They could have not even wanted to go but felt like they needed to because it's a "work" outing. Maybe they felt like they'd be ok and just not do the things they don't feel comfortable doing? Eta like I can picture myself agreeing to go, I feel fine in a strip club type setting, but actually feeling forced to participate in touching someone else would make me highly uncomfortable and upset so I guess thats where I'm coming from
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Post by Lord Disick on Aug 3, 2023 14:07:18 GMT -6
I did add Jared Leto Met Cat as a costume, though. I mean...I kind of want to be that for regular Halloween.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 14:58:20 GMT -6
July 21, 2023
The Scientologist composer got a sweetheart deal and all he had to do was pay the bill and no one would be the wiser. Then, he decided he wasn't going to pay and now will have to have the whole world know how awful he is.
Danny Elfman
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 14:58:55 GMT -6
Oh no, is Danny Elfman cancelled?
We’re Nightmare Before Christmas AF.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 14:59:13 GMT -6
I did add Jared Leto Met Cat as a costume, though. I mean...I kind of want to be that for regular Halloween. He’s the worst but that costume was the best.
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Post by ggirl on Aug 3, 2023 15:54:46 GMT -6
And even if it was just a “suggestion” by Lizzo We can all agree no boss should be setting up a fun outing to a strip club lol. For reasons exactly like this lawsuit. My sister has one staff member that she had to stop inviting over because she would drink and get into shenanigans but then tell the younger or new staff all about what the management did. I may be out of a job come January due to contract issues and one of my best friends (I was actually her supervisor and then we became friends at our old job) had a position open up under her..but she would be my supervisor so we decided not a good idea.
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Post by SweetPotato on Aug 3, 2023 16:25:55 GMT -6
I’ve been to the Amsterdam sex show with the banana situation. That’s all I have to contribute at the moment
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 16:31:15 GMT -6
July 21, 2023
This royal commentator had to quickly delete a social media post because there was identifying information about a royal they claim to not know.
Omid Scobie
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 16:31:52 GMT -6
Are the separation H+M rumors getting traction in royals? Bc TikTok has me believing it.
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Post by roselab on Aug 3, 2023 16:33:54 GMT -6
I think one of the articles I read about the Lizzo allegations actually said the dancers weren't even told where they were going ahead of time, like 'surprise, we're at an interactive strip show!' That seems even more inappropriate IMO.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 16:39:57 GMT -6
Are the separation H+M rumors getting traction in royals? Bc TikTok has me believing it. I don’t go into the thread but it isn’t catching on royal twitter minus the full blown M&H haters. They just did a video together making calls to people they are giving scholarships to
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 16:42:07 GMT -6
I think one of the articles I read about the Lizzo allegations actually said the dancers weren't even told where they were going ahead of time, like 'surprise, we're at an interactive strip show!' That seems even more inappropriate IMO. But again I can chalk that up to just not thinking about it being uncomfortable to some when it’s normal to you. It isn’t you being pushy just not thinking. It’s the forcing people to interact that I don’t like
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 16:42:54 GMT -6
Cher I am interested in your thoughts though since I don’t TikTok on why you think they are divorcing because I feel I’m missing something important
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Post by ggirl on Aug 3, 2023 17:37:12 GMT -6
Cher I am interested in your thoughts though since I don’t TikTok on why you think they are divorcing because I feel I’m missing something important I haven’t seen it on TT but I have seen it submitted to deuxmoi a ton the last few weeks. More so than usual.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 17:49:42 GMT -6
Cher I am interested in your thoughts though since I don’t TikTok on why you think they are divorcing because I feel I’m missing something important I haven’t seen it on TT but I have seen it submitted to deuxmoi a ton the last few weeks. More so than usual. I’ll have to look
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 17:53:18 GMT -6
So the first article I read about Deuxmoi and the rumors said enty was on the podcast and considering he hates Meghan I’m inclined to not believe it
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 17:54:16 GMT -6
Cher I am interested in your thoughts though since I don’t TikTok on why you think they are divorcing because I feel I’m missing something important Lots of royal gossip people seem to have info. Like the people who only talk about royals. I saw Charles’ lawyers were allegedly working on it. It just feels like where there’s smoke….. And of course Harry (in my opinion) would go running back to Daddy.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 3, 2023 17:55:32 GMT -6
Cher I am interested in your thoughts though since I don’t TikTok on why you think they are divorcing because I feel I’m missing something important Lots of royal gossip people seem to have info. Like the people who only talk about royals. I saw Charles’ lawyers were allegedly working on it. It just feels like where there’s smoke….. And of course Harry (in my opinion) would go running back to Daddy. Hmm I can’t imagine Harry using his people or the royal sources knowing anything but I guess time will tell.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 17:55:42 GMT -6
I haven’t seen anything from Enty except what I just posted. I really ignored it. But when the old white guys with the proper English accents started weighing in, I thought, hmmmm.
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Post by Cher on Aug 3, 2023 17:56:13 GMT -6
Lots of royal gossip people seem to have info. Like the people who only talk about royals. I saw Charles’ lawyers were allegedly working on it. It just feels like where there’s smoke….. And of course Harry (in my opinion) would go running back to Daddy. Hmm I can’t imagine Harry using his people or the royal sources knowing anything but I guess time will tell. Where else would he get the money and power to get the deal he wants?
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