TheoV2
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Post by TheoV2 on Jul 27, 2023 10:34:37 GMT -6
Iβll eat crow if sheβs socks kida or Phil But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying itβs weird for a lurker to post in this thread. Not that Iβm a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what Iβm thinking. The stranger's first post was about trying to out a past poster as being back so the irony is strong with this one. ETA actually I went back and looked and I read it wrong, but it was in a post about outting someone. I'm still skeptical.
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wasabi
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 10:35:28 GMT -6
Itβs a weird thread to just like, pop in as a lurker. You canβt go say hey whatβs up in the randoms threads for a few weeks before you go balls deep in the drama? I donβt care who you are, TO BE CLEAR. I did post a couple of times before, but I was accused of being weird then and socks like then, so I stopped posting. I really only came back to join the chronic pain discussion at some point, but got bogged down in here because I interacted with one person, not even about the original Β issue π€¦ββοΈ I really donβt think youβre anyone hiding out here, honestly. Although Iβve been wrong a lot. Join the fun. Weβre fun. This is fun.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:37:27 GMT -6
Iβll eat crow if sheβs socks kida or Phil But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying itβs weird for a lurker to post in this thread. Not that Iβm a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what Iβm thinking. No one said they couldnβt post in this thread we said donβt be surprised if eye brows get raised. And the first post after being asked if you are someone to come out at a 10 is a choice Im so over the mean girl bs in this place and yet when real mean girl shit happens no one can be found
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pobre
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Post by pobre on Jul 27, 2023 10:38:30 GMT -6
Youβre being fucking moronic and you reek of desperation here, so Admin , please check if thereβs any concern. see, I got on it for you because you never were, you only wanted to carry this shit on for some kind of meaningless recognition. Itβs a weird thread to just like, pop in as a lurker. You canβt go say hey whatβs up in the randoms threads for a few weeks before you go balls deep in the drama? I donβt care who you are, TO BE CLEAR. Would you walk in to a crowd of strangers and ask them if you're pregnant??????
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dc2london
Admin
Press Secretary
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Post by dc2london on Jul 27, 2023 10:38:54 GMT -6
If you post a pic on a public forum and don't delete it prior to getting banned, that's not on the admin. Sorry. Not everyone operates as if they will get banned. So Iβm not sure what you want someone to do- Also- yes itβs a free job. That they all signed up for. They volunteered for it. There was voting and threads and more thread. And almost a mutiny. FTR I agree with this. It's not like we said, "You're getting banned, clear out your desk." I think it's reasonable for admins to make an effort to remove any personal pics after a ban.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:39:27 GMT -6
If you are not a strange keep posting no one is saying otherwise but Iβve got my senses up now because you came hard for me so we will interact but Iβll be who I am
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wasabi
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 10:39:35 GMT -6
Iβll eat crow if sheβs socks kida or Phil But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying itβs weird for a lurker to post in this thread. Not that Iβm a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what Iβm thinking. It *is* kinda weird though. Happens a lot (or used to) but I never understand why lurkers feel like the dramatics threads are their best opportunity to join in.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:40:29 GMT -6
I did post a couple of times before, but I was accused of being weird then and socks like then, so I stopped posting. I really only came back to join the chronic pain discussion at some point, but got bogged down in here because I interacted with one person, not even about the original issue π€¦ββοΈ I really donβt think youβre anyone hiding out here, honestly. Although Iβve been wrong a lot. Join the fun. Weβre fun. This is fun. Itβs all fun until youβre accused of being socks π seriously though, I do not and have never had worms π€’ lol.
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fb
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Post by fb on Jul 27, 2023 10:40:42 GMT -6
Iβll eat crow if sheβs socks kida or Phil But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying itβs weird for a lurker to post in this thread. Not that Iβm a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what Iβm thinking. No one said they couldnβt post in this thread we said donβt be surprised if eye brows get raised. And the first post after being asked if you are someone to come out at a 10 is a choice Im so over the mean girl bs in this place and yet when real mean girl shit happens no one can be found I never said couldnβt post. And if you donβt think what is happening to stranger is mean girl behaviorβ¦.k. It is. Just own it. Itβs very you canβt sit with us. And itβs *fine* but donβt pretend thatβs not what it is.
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AmyG
Ruby
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 10:41:21 GMT -6
Short of someone saying hate speech or posting spam, Iβm against all bannings. Weβre a weird little corner on the internet that no one cares about, I always find the biannual banning way more dramatic than the actual crime. Yes like banning for a thumbs up passing someone off that theybfelt they had to defend themselves with a pm was definitely out there on things I think should be bannable. Posting real life info, hate speech, spam and talking bad about someone's kids those are my lines. We have so few people here maybe we might consider treading a little lighter on banning and then watch our habit of running new posters off. I don't care if someone comes back from the past at least they'll be someone else to talk to. lol. And most mellow with age and experience up to a point anyways. I've gotten so many pms that are good, bad and mean even some that came from people that are the opposite of what they post to me on the boards. I think think hard to not let it sour me but I'm already old and stale I don't need to be sour too.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:41:50 GMT -6
If you are not a strange keep posting no one is saying otherwise but Iβve got my senses up now because you came hard for me so we will interact but Iβll be who I am I did not come hard for you at all, you replied to my posts as much as I did to yours ππ
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AmyG
Ruby
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 10:43:12 GMT -6
Iβll eat crow if sheβs socks kida or Phil But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying itβs weird for a lurker to post in this thread. Not that Iβm a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what Iβm thinking. It *is* kinda weird though. Happens a lot (or used to) but I never understand why lurkers feel like the dramatics threads are their best opportunity to join in. because the thread is busy and no matter which side they take there will likely be someone on that side too.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 10:44:56 GMT -6
It *is* kinda weird though. Happens a lot (or used to) but I never understand why lurkers feel like the dramatics threads are their best opportunity to join in. because the thread is busy and no matter which side they take there will likely be someone on that side too. Is that how you make new friends? Wait until you see a group of people fighting and randomly join in on one side? Most people will pick a different scenario to join in, but I wonr kink shame if you're into that.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:45:11 GMT -6
Short of someone saying hate speech or posting spam, Iβm against all bannings. Weβre a weird little corner on the internet that no one cares about, I always find the biannual banning way more dramatic than the actual crime. Yes like banning for a thumbs up passing someone off that theybfelt they had to defend themselves with a pm was definitely out there on things I think should be bannable. Posting real life info, hate speech, spam and talking bad about someone's kids those are my lines. We have so few people here maybe we might consider treading a little lighter on banning and then watch our habit of running new posters off. I don't care if someone comes back from the past at least they'll be someone else to talk to. lol. And most mellow with age and experience up to a point anyways. I've gotten so many pms that are good, bad and mean even some that came from people that are the opposite of what they post to me on the boards. I think think hard to not let it sour me but I'm already old and stale I don't need to be sour too. We have literally banned 1 person in the last year. People have left because this place has become something it wasnβt before not because they were banned
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:47:05 GMT -6
If finding someone who hasnβt posted before eyebrow raising as they post in a thread where someone was banned is mean girl behavior then I guess Iβm the mean girl everyone keeps pushing on me
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wasabi
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 10:48:22 GMT -6
It *is* kinda weird though. Happens a lot (or used to) but I never understand why lurkers feel like the dramatics threads are their best opportunity to join in. because the thread is busy and no matter which side they take there will likely be someone on that side too. I guess if you joined the internet to argue itβs a good choice.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
*itβs a joke. get some hobbies.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 10:50:39 GMT -6
because the thread is busy and no matter which side they take there will likely be someone on that side too. Is that how you make new friends? Wait until you see a group of people fighting and randomly join in on one side? Most people will pick a different scenario to join in, but I wonr kink shame if you're into that. Is this why I don't have any friends?
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π π Fineapple π π
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I never gossip, I observe...And then relay my observations to practically everyone.β
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Post by π π Fineapple π π on Jul 27, 2023 10:53:29 GMT -6
Short of someone saying hate speech or posting spam, Iβm against all bannings. Weβre a weird little corner on the internet that no one cares about, I always find the biannual banning way more dramatic than the actual crime. Yes like banning for a thumbs up passing someone off that theybfelt they had to defend themselves with a pm was definitely out there on things I think should be bannable. Posting real life info, hate speech, spam and talking bad about someone's kids those are my lines. We have so few people here maybe we might consider treading a little lighter on banning and then watch our habit of running new posters off. I don't care if someone comes back from the past at least they'll be someone else to talk to. lol. And most mellow with age and experience up to a point anyways. I've gotten so many pms that are good, bad and mean even some that came from people that are the opposite of what they post to me on the boards. I think think hard to not let it sour me but I'm already old and stale I don't need to be sour too. Did you post that someone said you should die via Pm?
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TheoV2
Sapphire
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Post by TheoV2 on Jul 27, 2023 10:53:36 GMT -6
I don't find being openly skeptical of someone with the stranger's post history to be mean girling.
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Eagles
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Post by Eagles on Jul 27, 2023 10:55:57 GMT -6
I am unsurprised that Phil has spun the board into *waves hands* all of this. STP overreacted, she's said she overreacted, but now all the horses have left the barn and are three states away so closing the door is pointless.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
*itβs a joke. get some hobbies.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 10:57:00 GMT -6
all the horses have left the barn and are three states away so closing the door is pointless. This is the only way we know how to operate. Chaotically.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 10:57:58 GMT -6
Is that how you make new friends? Wait until you see a group of people fighting and randomly join in on one side? Most people will pick a different scenario to join in, but I wonr kink shame if you're into that. Is this why I don't have any friends? I wasn't supposed to let you in on that, but yes.
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McBenny
Unicorn
#sickomode
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 10:59:09 GMT -6
We're maybe 20 people on a message board no one knows about. There are no mass bannings, no banning of anyone who wasn't an ass. I don't get why the admin should even have to deal with any of this. They signed up for the job.π€·πΏββοΈ And whether or not they do It for free or get paid Iβm Allowed to Scrutinize them or anything else. Until it becomes bannable on the board. I agree with this. It is so annoying to have the "OMG the poor admins" whenever something happened. People forget these folks volunteered. Literally threw their name in the ring for voting. A vote was held. It was anyone but mcbenny. Why should an admin have to deal with any of this? They do not. They can choose to step down. However, if you choose to moderate or admin any group online nowadays (cause I do in other platforms) then is part of that job. #mygosh
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McBenny
Unicorn
#sickomode
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 11:02:18 GMT -6
As someone here who has felt people were being βnastyβ to me, although on the board but not actually saying something most would call outright mean I get what STP is saying about how it felt nasty to her. In this very thread Phil threw the whole thing Iβm talking about with me back at me. I do not agree with this. It's like some of you are fighting to give her an out. She did not say anything felt nasty to her. She said nasty pms. She said in here. She said it in blinds. When called on it, she then said it felt that way to her. Last night I believe the response was "mea culpa." #mygosh
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 11:02:39 GMT -6
I am unsurprised that Phil has spun the board into *waves hands* all of this. STP overreacted, she's said she overreacted, but now all the horses have left the barn and are three states away so closing the door is pointless. I mean, this is more us doing this to ourselves. As we do from time to time.
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AmyG
Ruby
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 11:03:36 GMT -6
because the thread is busy and no matter which side they take there will likely be someone on that side too. Is that how you make new friends? Wait until you see a group of people fighting and randomly join in on one side? Most people will pick a different scenario to join in, but I wonr kink shame if you're into that. I know some of us are here as friends and to make friends. But a lot of people in the internet are looking for advice or something to pass the time not to make true friends.
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McBenny
Unicorn
#sickomode
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 11:04:23 GMT -6
The level of nastiness that has flown on this board and all versions previous itβs laughable to be that this is the line too far for some of yβall. But noted. omg yes. Then people wonder why certain people do not feel comfortable in certain spaces. Then certain people act like they don't understand how certain persons are always given the benefit of the doubt vs others. #mygosh
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Cher
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BMB, GD, Special Interests
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Post by Cher on Jul 27, 2023 11:05:22 GMT -6
Iβm here to make best friends.
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AmyG
Ruby
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 11:05:35 GMT -6
I am unsurprised that Phil has spun the board into *waves hands* all of this. STP overreacted, she's said she overreacted, but now all the horses have left the barn and are three states away so closing the door is pointless. Phil might have had a hand in it But someone else started this not Phil
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AmyG
Ruby
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 11:06:06 GMT -6
Iβm here to make best friends. All the best friend
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