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Post by sweptaway on Jul 27, 2023 9:50:18 GMT -6
I know I shouldn’t be laughing in here when very real things are happening but Socks and probablyPhil arguing is sending me Please feel free to ask admin for clarification on whether or not I am Philo, but until then, it might be best if you stop trying to make this a thing. I don't think you're Philo. You might be socks. You probably aren't going to get any traction showing up twice a year with no avatar and a weird screen name. C'mon.
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 9:51:07 GMT -6
So let me outline the running theory:
Phil made the decision to contact me out of the blue with something I perceived as nasty.
I made this post and used that word nasty to describe it and a previous message.
Not because I am reactive and did it in a blaze of fury, a personality trait I am not proud of and have certainly done in the past to similar effect.
Not because I told her in the literal words "if you PM me again I will bring it to the main board."
But bc nasty is so scurrilous an adjective - and one I'm lying about, bc I found the PMs delightful - that she would have to post the PM to clear her name. There would be no choice on her part.
And then I would be able to pounce and get her banned because I enjoy such good will here on this forum that of course people would fall in line.
I'd honestly be prouder of that than what actually happened. That I saw red, overreacted, and made this post and the one on Blinds.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 9:51:47 GMT -6
[...]but until then, it might be best if you stop trying to make this a thing. This is a weird statement. That’s ok, I just don’t think trying to convince people that one poster is someone they’re not is the right thing to do.
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Post by TheoV2 on Jul 27, 2023 9:52:54 GMT -6
I had to look up scurrilous (making or spreading scandalous claims about someone with the intention of damaging their reputation).
I will be adding this to my word bank.
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 9:52:55 GMT -6
The Stranger is making a threat. Spooky.
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 9:53:41 GMT -6
I mean, I'm really sitting with it to feel out the truth pressure points. And the reality is, I just freaked out and threw a temper tantrum bc someone I consider an asshole contacted me for no reason, and I didn't like it.
And when she broke TOU, my red went even higher. I just pulled my usual post without thinking. Which is not a good thing, but again you're giving me too much credit for not being self absorbed enough to have considered what would happen outside myself.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 9:54:06 GMT -6
Please feel free to ask admin for clarification on whether or not I am Philo, but until then, it might be best if you stop trying to make this a thing. I don't think you're Philo. You might be socks. You probably aren't going to get any traction showing up twice a year with no avatar and a weird screen name. C'mon. I’d rather you thought I was Philo if those are my only options 🙈 lol. However, I’m neither, and I do understand your point, but you have to admit, letting people into your life on here can and has backfired in astonishing fashion before, privacy is my best option.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 9:54:58 GMT -6
The Stranger is making a threat. Spooky. Oh, that is not how that was supposed to be taken lol.
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Post by jaygee on Jul 27, 2023 9:59:24 GMT -6
I know I shouldn’t be laughing in here when very real things are happening but Socks and probablyPhil arguing is sending me I always consider it the jump the shark moment when the trolls start trying to troll each other. Happens every time.
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Post by Admin on Jul 27, 2023 10:09:00 GMT -6
I am going to be offline for the next several hours, so my not responding is not me ignoring tags/PMs. Just busy.
As for the photos, we're probably due for a mass attachment deletion anyway. I looked briefly for hers and while we aren't all that close to the limit, there are photos from 2020 and 2021 still up, so it's been a few years. I'll make a separate post about it when I'm back online this afternoon/evening
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:09:37 GMT -6
I know I shouldn’t be laughing in here when very real things are happening but Socks and probablyPhil arguing is sending me Please feel free to ask admin for clarification on whether or not I am Philo, but until then, it might be best if you stop trying to make this a thing. I’ll get on that
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:11:17 GMT -6
Please feel free to ask admin for clarification on whether or not I am Philo, but until then, it might be best if you stop trying to make this a thing. I’ll get on that That’s great, so you can stop making out that I’m philo now.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:15:02 GMT -6
I don't think you're Philo. You might be socks. You probably aren't going to get any traction showing up twice a year with no avatar and a weird screen name. C'mon. I’d rather you thought I was Philo if those are my only options 🙈 lol. However, I’m neither, and I do understand your point, but you have to admit, letting people into your life on here can and has backfired in astonishing fashion before, privacy is my best option. At the risk of starting a back and forth coming in and posting in threads about life such as randoms or whatever is completely different than coming into a thread where someone who is known to go around an IP address and post about deleting pictures is going to get an eye brow raise. Not because we wear pink on Wednesdays cliques but because it raises eyebrows
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:15:44 GMT -6
That’s great, so you can stop making out that I’m philo now. The fact that you are only going after me for saying that is telling
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Post by lucilleaustero on Jul 27, 2023 10:16:19 GMT -6
That’s great, so you can stop making out that I’m philo now. I am fairly confident nobody actually cares if you are Philo. I am 100% certain that you are an iteration of a previous poster that was run off.
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:17:25 GMT -6
That’s great, so you can stop making out that I’m philo now. The fact that you are only going after me for saying that is telling No, I’ve said this to others, socks included, you’re the only one who replied that you’ll ‘get on that’ so what more do you want from me? please, get on it, then you can stop this ridiculous narrative.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:19:19 GMT -6
😂😂😂
You are either Phil because that sounds almost exactly what she has said to me before or Kida
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Post by TheoV2 on Jul 27, 2023 10:19:43 GMT -6
My vote is kida.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:19:57 GMT -6
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:22:10 GMT -6
😂😂😂 You are either Phil because that sounds almost exactly what she has said to me before or Kida You’re being fucking moronic and you reek of desperation here, so Admin, please check if there’s any concern. see, I got on it for you because you never were, you only wanted to carry this shit on for some kind of meaningless recognition.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:22:36 GMT -6
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Post by claudia on Jul 27, 2023 10:23:12 GMT -6
I was thinking it sounded kida-ish.
ETA, posted while more was happening. Very much a kida tone.
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 10:24:30 GMT -6
😂😂😂 You are either Phil because that sounds almost exactly what she has said to me before or Kida You’re being fucking moronic and you reek of desperation here, so Admin, please check if there’s any concern. see, I got on it for you because you never were, you only wanted to carry this shit on for some kind of meaningless recognition. It’s a weird thread to just like, pop in as a lurker. You can’t go say hey what’s up in the randoms threads for a few weeks before you go balls deep in the drama? I don’t care who you are, TO BE CLEAR.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:24:46 GMT -6
Seems like another lifetime! Hey girl hey
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:25:46 GMT -6
You’re being fucking moronic and you reek of desperation here, so Admin, please check if there’s any concern. see, I got on it for you because you never were, you only wanted to carry this shit on for some kind of meaningless recognition. It’s a weird thread to just like, pop in as a lurker. You can’t go say hey what’s up in the randoms threads for a few weeks before you go balls deep in the drama? I don’t care who you are, TO BE CLEAR. 😂😂 I don’t even care either that’s the best part
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Post by thestranger on Jul 27, 2023 10:28:30 GMT -6
You’re being fucking moronic and you reek of desperation here, so Admin , please check if there’s any concern. see, I got on it for you because you never were, you only wanted to carry this shit on for some kind of meaningless recognition. It’s a weird thread to just like, pop in as a lurker. You can’t go say hey what’s up in the randoms threads for a few weeks before you go balls deep in the drama? I don’t care who you are, TO BE CLEAR. I did post a couple of times before, but I was accused of being weird then and socks like then, so I stopped posting. I really only came back to join the chronic pain discussion at some point, but got bogged down in here because I interacted with one person, not even about the original issue 🤦♀️
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 10:30:26 GMT -6
Hey friend! What's happening in this thread? Chasing down repeat trolls or someone pretending they were just lurking and has been unjustly pushed into the troll bucket? A little bit of all this and also TOU questions
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Post by fb on Jul 27, 2023 10:30:39 GMT -6
I’ll eat crow if she’s socks kida or Phil
But it is feeling v mean girl in here with the accusations and saying it’s weird for a lurker to post in this thread.
Not that I’m a #nicegirl. Just sharing my feelings on the matter cause I know everyone wants to know what I’m thinking.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 10:30:47 GMT -6
Seems like another lifetime! Hey girl! Do you want to talk about leggings today or internet trolls?
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Post by Cher on Jul 27, 2023 10:34:13 GMT -6
Short of someone saying hate speech or posting spam, I’m against all bannings. We’re a weird little corner on the internet that no one cares about, I always find the biannual banning way more dramatic than the actual crime.
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