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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:26:22 GMT -6
Right? Like, what did I miss?
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:28:17 GMT -6
OMG a call out thread. So vintage. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it we need a good call out
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:28:55 GMT -6
I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. If you are talking about the initial PM from awhile ago, again you don't have the full context and can't bc she deleted what led up to it. I agree with you about boundaries with people. But I only care to set and hold them with people I want to care about. She's such a non-entity in my mind that she doesn't warrant my continued attention. I don't think I would've done anything about the thumbs up PM other than reply "fuck off" and deleted it. But I'm not the one she follows around to engage in battles, like she does you, so I don't blame you for being pissed. You would have never replied “fuck off”. If you were one of the acting parties, this would have ended with you having a gtg with philo and buying her a cake. 🤣
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:29:41 GMT -6
It was also in response to Socks. I leave that there with no further commentary and for others to make an interpretation. My interpretation is you’re entirely obsessed with the idea of Socks and bring them up constantly, because you enjoy the drama of it, then act like you’re above it anytime anyone else mentions them. Aren’t you also a writer? Would that be creative writing?? this is hilarious
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:29:50 GMT -6
I am actually laughing out loud that being compared to Kristen Bell was the straw that sent Phil over the edge to Ban land. Kristen’s just that bad, guys. Non bath taking bitch. With her drunk ass kids. 🤣
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Post by microworm on Jul 26, 2023 13:29:56 GMT -6
Right? Like, what did I miss? Just normal Wednesday shit talking on Kristen Bell. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:31:22 GMT -6
I didn’t even realize there was a joke in blinds that philo was Bell. Was there a joke about philo being Bell? Idk. Like there was zero drama today. Just chatting about Bell’s kids being boozehounds and today is the day philo thinks she’s being personally attacked? I don’t get it.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:32:45 GMT -6
I agree with you about boundaries with people. But I only care to set and hold them with people I want to care about. She's such a non-entity in my mind that she doesn't warrant my continued attention. I don't think I would've done anything about the thumbs up PM other than reply "fuck off" and deleted it. But I'm not the one she follows around to engage in battles, like she does you, so I don't blame you for being pissed. You would have never replied “fuck off”. If you were one of the acting parties, this would have ended with you having a gtg with philo and buying her a cake. 🤣 I love a good fuck off maybe I am a terrible person
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:32:59 GMT -6
I didn’t even realize there was a joke in blinds that philo was Bell. Was there a joke about philo being Bell? Idk. Like there was zero drama today. Just chatting about Bell’s kids being boozehounds and today is the day philo thinks she’s being personally attacked? I don’t get it. There was not
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:33:13 GMT -6
As we’re being crystal clear here’s my nasty pm sent a year and 2 months ago You posting things you know that STP won’t be able to show the real one doesn’t prove your case This is silly to me. She either sent that Pm or not. Scout could speak to that.
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:34:16 GMT -6
The joke about nebulous breeziness in parenting is ongoing here and not remotely about any one person. It's a Bump and HIH trope that we laugh about, and have forever. That's all Cher was talking about, FFS. That is well established, not pointed, and this is SO WEIRD. ETA OMFG so I'm in trouble for a deleted post I didn't see?! This is the whole thing? It was about no one! It was such an easy softball I had to take it before someone else did!
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:35:20 GMT -6
You posting things you know that STP won’t be able to show the real one doesn’t prove your case This is silly to me. She either sent that Pm or not. Scout could speak to that. I’m saying that she could post whatever PM she wanted and not the one STP was talking about
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:35:30 GMT -6
I didn’t even read the coffee post bc it was such a word salad that I didn’t know what was happening. So, there was zero judgment about parenting on that post. Maybe some composition judgment but I really don’t have room to talk.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:35:53 GMT -6
Sending that pm was an odd thing to do. Expecting people not to find it odd is even odder. I do not think you're unintelligent, but I'm very confused by your confusion. I've been telling y'all for years I get pms all the fucking time. It's not weird or unhinged. Scout gets one and sound the alarm? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:35:55 GMT -6
I am great at ignoring people that I don’t want to interact with here. But PMs from those same people would make me annoyed and probably angry. It’s just trollish. And the shoe fits in this case. There is just general trollish behavior. And those are the people you block so they can't pm you but stp just recently decided to unblock unblock because it is annoying when it's a prolific poster and you have to click to view any of their messages. You can block them but as you mentioned, that has other implications. So you can use the ignore method. And if needed communicate to the person that you do not want them to PM you. (I had to do that on Nextdoor with a mansplainer) My point is just that I would find unwanted PMs annoying as well. #notbreezy
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Post by dc2london on Jul 26, 2023 13:37:52 GMT -6
I am very head tilty at Cher's post being called "snide." What the what?
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:38:19 GMT -6
A post laughing at a post snidely talking about people on this message board being similar to Kirsten bell, not about Kirsten bell. And a post about stp referring to herself as a good person. So you were trying to let STP know you think she is a hypocrite? I’m still trying to get you to use grown up words to tell us what you were trying to accomplish with this PM you sent. What made you spend your time crafting and sending that message? omg with this you act like she wrote a dissertation I think going straight to the source when you have an issue with the best way. I would not pm cause bitches fucking lie and embellish here and white woman tears and all of that. It's not out of this world to want to address an issue with someone WITH THAT PERSON. I mean lawd.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:39:54 GMT -6
Wow yes I faked a pm. Wild You can’t understand simple shit No one said you showed a fake one I said you didn’t show the right one and you knew you could because STP won’t post the real one so you can continue to pull your BS victim shit OK but in all fairness calling something the real one implies something was fake. That's the language you used.
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:41:40 GMT -6
So you were trying to let STP know you think she is a hypocrite? I’m still trying to get you to use grown up words to tell us what you were trying to accomplish with this PM you sent. What made you spend your time crafting and sending that message? omg with this you act like she wrote a dissertation I think going straight to the source when you have an issue with the best way. I would not pm cause bitches fucking lie and embellish here and white woman tears and all of that. It's not out of this world to want to address an issue with someone WITH THAT PERSON. I mean lawd. To ME, pulling together screenshots of different posts and PMing and not just saying in public “bitch you’re a hypocrite” is more work. I think she acts like a troll so I wanted to hear from her what she was doing other than being a weird troll.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:43:50 GMT -6
I didn’t even realize there was a joke in blinds that philo was Bell. Was there a joke about philo being Bell? Idk. Like there was zero drama today. Just chatting about Bell’s kids being boozehounds and today is the day philo thinks she’s being personally attacked? I don’t get it. Maybe she's the president of the fan club. Who knows?
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Post by dc2london on Jul 26, 2023 13:43:54 GMT -6
And those are the people you block so they can't pm you but stp just recently decided to unblock unblock because it is annoying when it's a prolific poster and you have to click to view any of their messages. You can block them but as you mentioned, that has other implications. So you can use the ignore method. And if needed communicate to the person that you do not want them to PM you. (I had to do that on Nextdoor with a mansplainer) My point is just that I would find unwanted PMs annoying as well. #notbreezy Especially from someone who routinely comes for you
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:44:08 GMT -6
I am very head tilty at Cher's post being called "snide." What the what? Who called it snide? I missed that. I mean do we really need to go over nobody is posting at you lesson again? I’m just bullshitting on the internet talking about KBell with my friends. If you’re taking my words personal, that’s on you. Because it’s not about you. General you, because this place.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:44:14 GMT -6
You can’t understand simple shit No one said you showed a fake one I said you didn’t show the right one and you knew you could because STP won’t post the real one so you can continue to pull your BS victim shit OK but in all fairness calling something the real one implies something was fake. That's the language you used. The real one that STP was talking about yes she knows what she was doing
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:44:22 GMT -6
I didn’t even realize there was a joke in blinds that philo was Bell. Was there a joke about philo being Bell? Idk. Like there was zero drama today. Just chatting about Bell’s kids being boozehounds and today is the day philo thinks she’s being personally attacked? I don’t get it. Maybe she's the president of the fan club. Who knows? Wack fan club.
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Post by Cher on Jul 26, 2023 13:45:12 GMT -6
If I need to apologize for calling Kristen Bell’s fan club wack, I STG I will GBCHIH.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:45:20 GMT -6
omg with this you act like she wrote a dissertation I think going straight to the source when you have an issue with the best way. I would not pm cause bitches fucking lie and embellish here and white woman tears and all of that. It's not out of this world to want to address an issue with someone WITH THAT PERSON. I mean lawd. To ME, pulling together screenshots of different posts and PMing and not just saying in public “bitch you’re a hypocrite” is more work. I think she acts like a troll so I wanted to hear from her what she was doing other than being a weird troll. The posting of screenshots is excessive to say the least and she should know how it would go with this group. However my post to you was about you repeating "what were you looking to accomplish?" and your "but why?" Clearly she had an issue with scout so... She took it to scout. 🤷🏻♀️
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:46:31 GMT -6
OK but in all fairness calling something the real one implies something was fake. That's the language you used. The real one that STP was talking about yes she knows what she was doing So again it is being implied that something was fake. Which was my point. Which Phil reacted to But then you said she couldn't read So then I said well you called it real so...
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Post by dc2london on Jul 26, 2023 13:47:11 GMT -6
I am very head tilty at Cher's post being called "snide." What the what? Who called it snide? I missed that. I mean do we really need to go over nobody is posting at you lesson again? I’m just bullshitting on the internet talking about KBell with my friends. If you’re taking my words personal, that’s on you. Because it’s not about you. General you, because this place. Philo did
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:47:15 GMT -6
If I need to apologize for calling Kristen Bell’s fan club wack, I STG I will GBCHIH. This is so mature. We have grown as a community. ❤️ Well you, maybe not me. 🤣
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:47:27 GMT -6
If I need to apologize for calling Kristen Bell’s fan club wack, I STG I will GBCHIH. Just listen to four hours of Dax’s podcast and your sins will be commuted.
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