🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊
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Post by 🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊 on Jul 26, 2023 21:09:26 GMT -6
It does of course all run together since this kerfuffle started on blinds, on general and in pm. It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. Which part of that is a nasty message? Page 1 says nasty message; what’s the nasty part. Scout could have started a thread on not PM me anymore without saying she got a nasty message.
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AmyG
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Post by AmyG on Jul 26, 2023 21:09:56 GMT -6
It does of course all run together since this kerfuffle started on blinds, on general and in pm. It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. I first saw stp say something to Phil on blinds. Then I saw her post here of almost same words.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:10:04 GMT -6
She didn’t post the thumbs up on the board. Page 1 there's thumbs up. So if the pm was only things also posted in public what's the fuss about posting the pm? None Of It Was On The Board It Was All PM Including The Thumbs Up The Only Public Posts Were The PM Screenshots Of Two Posts Not The Thumbs Up Those Were Only In PM The Thumbs Up Were Never Public My Response That She Posted Here Was Only In PM And Never On The Public Board Nothing Happened In Blinds You Are Being Obtuse
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:11:51 GMT -6
It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. I first saw stp say something to Phil on blinds. Then I saw her post here of almost same words. It’s time to ask if you hit your head. Holy moly.
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jaygee
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 21:13:10 GMT -6
It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. Which part of that is a nasty message? Page 1 says nasty message; what’s the nasty part. Scout could have started a thread on not PM me anymore without saying she got a nasty message. It’s not my opinion that matters on that. I have an opinion. I don’t believe it was a “hey bestie, let’s have some fun message”. I think it was a “I see you being a hypocrite bitch” message. I attempted to clarify intent with the sender but she didn’t answer my question. Anyways, it doesn’t matter what I think.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:16:00 GMT -6
It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. Scout could have started a thread on not PM me anymore without saying she got a nasty message. Yes and I admitted that hours ago. Well before you wandered in. I’m sorry I don’t always act perfectly when taken aback, of course.
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piratecat
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Post by piratecat on Jul 26, 2023 21:20:26 GMT -6
Nothing here is ever clear.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:21:37 GMT -6
Nothing here is ever clear. I mean, I really don’t think this is THAT confusing.
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wasabi
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Post by wasabi on Jul 26, 2023 21:22:31 GMT -6
Nothing here is ever clear. .pro boards.com Ok goodnight
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piratecat
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Post by piratecat on Jul 26, 2023 21:22:35 GMT -6
Nothing here is ever clear. I mean, I really don’t think this is THAT confusing. Some of us need more gummies and some of us need less gummies.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:22:51 GMT -6
STPIt seems she did post the thumbs up on the board. This is AFTER she posted the PM, Amy. The time stamps are all there. Even with the image removed. You were here when that was up. It’s getting embarrassing. Truly.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 21:24:32 GMT -6
I mean, I really don’t think this is THAT confusing. Some of us need more gummies and some of us need less gummies. More and less of lots of things for lots of people. I’ll take a Xanax at this point.
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Post by piratecat on Jul 26, 2023 21:33:04 GMT -6
I don't have a problem wanting clarity on it. I could also see that there is some difference between posting the contents of a PM sent to you vs. a PM you sent -- I agree that the latter is a lesser offense but I think I'm also fine with the general concept of keeping private messages private. Especially since philo is the one that chose to send a PM instead of posting to @stp publicly. It also does feel like philo kind of took something of a bait. It was clearly a lie. Not a bait. She was lied on. And she defended her name. Let’s call it what it is. Y’all can like Scout and still tell her that what she did was throwing stones and hiding her hand. She went into damsel mode and y’all fell for the dramaz. Perhaps I'm guilty of trying to be too diplomatic. I don't have particularly strong feelings one way or the other.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 23:18:29 GMT -6
It does of course all run together since this kerfuffle started on blinds, on general and in pm. when I tell you nothing happened in blinds. Then there was this call out thread here. 🤷🏻♀️ 😂 😂 😂
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 23:26:23 GMT -6
It did not start on blinds. There was nothing on the blinds. She took what STP posted on the blinds added an older post and then all those thumbs up and PM’d them to STP, a person who asked not her not to PM her. Which part of that is a nasty message? Page 1 says nasty message; what’s the nasty part. Scout could have started a thread on not PM me anymore without saying she got a nasty message. She said nasty to incite a reaction and or response from the board. My theory. She has a literary background from what she has said so she knows the power of words. She said nasty pms in the blinds. Then she came here and said nasty pms. When questioned by angelashly I believe (don't quote me) she said it was nasty due to timing and what the thread was about or something crazy. (it's still in this thread) Then brux asked about nasty pms and she said it was her feelings or something and that's all that matters I said nah that shit don't fly. You know why you said nasty pms. You wanted people to believe you were being harassed. Others have asked about nasty pms and she ignored it here and there depending on poster. What you think don't matter etc etc.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 23:30:17 GMT -6
STPIt seems she did post the thumbs up on the board. This is AFTER she posted the PM, Amy. The time stamps are all there. Even with the image removed. You were here when that was up. It’s getting embarrassing. Truly. Don't do AmyG that shit. It doesn't make sense to many people cause it's bullshit. You lied. You got caught in your lie. You then was omg admin admin admin tagging left and right ban ban ban. Now it's deflection. You need to be embarrassed. AmyG trying to make sense where there is none. You showed your whole ass in this thread. You need to do the work. This shit is old. It's stale and stagnant.
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AmyG
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 1:06:00 GMT -6
When someone is banned Shouldn't the board delete their personal photos that have been posted? Pics of philos pottery mugs she sells. Cause she can't delete them herself anymore.
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Post by YakkityYak on Jul 27, 2023 5:30:32 GMT -6
When someone is banned Shouldn't the board delete their personal photos that have been posted? Pics of philos pottery mugs she sells. Cause she can't delete them herself anymore. That's asking a lot of an admin who does this in their spare time. If she didn't ask for it to be deleted in the whole time it was up prior to being banned I don't think it's admins responsibility to do that.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 7:05:34 GMT -6
A+ thread.
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Post by babybean on Jul 27, 2023 7:13:12 GMT -6
I’ve been trying to understand this thread since yesterday and I’m still confused.
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Post by babybean on Jul 27, 2023 7:19:01 GMT -6
I don’t think posting PM’s should result in bans (outside of doxing) but those are the current rules so it is what it is. If I couldn’t stand someone I’d probably be petty too and would hope TOU would be followed through on.
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Post by fb on Jul 27, 2023 7:19:08 GMT -6
I’ve been trying to understand this thread since yesterday and I’m still confused. +1 very much. STP hasn't made any secret her feelings about phil. I think it was weird to bring this to the board regardless of boundary set (you could just ignore the message) but whatever. Honestly speaking if I were in her position and could bait someone I didn't like into a bannable offense, maybe I'd do the same thing.
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Post by fb on Jul 27, 2023 7:19:28 GMT -6
I don’t think posting PM’s should result in bans (outside of doxing) but those are the current rules so it is what it is. If I couldn’t stand someone I’d probably be petty too and would hope TOU would be followed through on. I'll just nod along with you today.
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🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊
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Post by 🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊 on Jul 27, 2023 7:25:40 GMT -6
I’ve been trying to understand this thread since yesterday and I’m still confused. +1 very much. STP hasn't made any secret her feelings about phil. I think it was weird to bring this to the board regardless of boundary set (you could just ignore the message) but whatever. Honestly speaking if I were in her position and could bait someone I didn't like into a bannable offense, maybe I'd do the same thing. I think if I a poster came out and said “stop sending me racist bigoted messages FB”. And you posted that you didn’t send raxist or bigoted messages. Wouldn’t you want them to get banned to? Because now they are putting it out there as a narrative that you are raxist? I don’t see this as any different. There was no nasty PM. There wasn’t even nice nasty. It was a lie. There to rile up the board and play damsel in distress. I don’t particularly care for Philo but I hate the fact that this shit happens because people are afraid to call people out when it’s well liked/vocal ve the board general punching bag and troll.
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Post by fb on Jul 27, 2023 7:27:48 GMT -6
+1 very much. STP hasn't made any secret her feelings about phil. I think it was weird to bring this to the board regardless of boundary set (you could just ignore the message) but whatever. Honestly speaking if I were in her position and could bait someone I didn't like into a bannable offense, maybe I'd do the same thing. I think if I a poster came out and said “stop sending me racist bigoted messages FB”. And you posted that you didn’t send raxist or bigoted messages. Wouldn’t you want them to get banned to? Because now they are putting it out there as a narrative that you are raxist? I don’t see this as any different. There was no nasty PM. There wasn’t even nice nasty. It was a lie. There to rile up the board and play damsel in distress. I don’t particularly care for Philo but I hate the fact that this shit happens because people are afraid to call people out when it’s well liked/vocal ve the board general punching bag and troll. I fully get what you're saying. It's just that....lying on someone isn't a bannable offense whereas posting PMs is. Plus, around here, there is always going to be the history of the poster, popularity etc. I do agree with your last sentence for sure.
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thatgolfb
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Post by thatgolfb on Jul 27, 2023 7:29:06 GMT -6
Speaking of people being unnecessarily mean, I don't think I've seen easier recently. I’m (very) late to this thread because of course this the week I’m lacking cell coverage, but I just randomly think about this sometimes, and think wtf to myself.
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Post by blurnette989 on Jul 27, 2023 7:44:42 GMT -6
Speaking of people being unnecessarily mean, I don't think I've seen easier recently. I’m (very) late to this thread because of course this the week I’m lacking cell coverage, but I just randomly think about this sometimes, and think wtf to myself. why don't I remember which one was easier? Goldfish memory is not useful
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 8:04:39 GMT -6
I feel PMing someone that they are not a good person, apropos of nothing and literally out of the blue, is nasty. I feel that sending a woe is me, stop being so mean, when you are actively and simultaneously saying DISGUSTING stuff on the public board is also nasty. If you feel that was nothing, neat. It doesn't make me a liar. If that wouldn't have been your adjective, bigger neat. If I'd said rude, would that be ok? Please do let me know what adjective I'm allowed to use and be believed. We can add it to TOU for clarity, of course. I told Phil I would post on the main board if she PMd me again, and that's what I did. If you wouldn't do the same, neat. It doesn't mean I pulled some Machiavellian bait and switch. It's fascinating that you're not holding Phil responsible for her own choices and actions. You all could have scrolled by and ignored to, so the humor isn't lost. Speaking of baiting, I'm well aware of what 🍍 🍊 Fineapple 🍍 🍊 is doing. But I'm laughing at the attempt to make it seem that anyone actually thinks I lied vs felt/handled something differently than perhaps you would have. None of you have handled all things perfectly, and I've certainly had different take on your interpretation of how someone else treated you. That doesn't mean you were lying about it.
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Post by thatgolfb on Jul 27, 2023 8:12:14 GMT -6
I’m (very) late to this thread because of course this the week I’m lacking cell coverage, but I just randomly think about this sometimes, and think wtf to myself. why don't I remember which one was easier? Goldfish memory is not useful She was apparently someone else previously that I didn’t recall having beef with, but she apparently had *extreme* beef with me. Lol.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 8:12:55 GMT -6
Guys, please for the love of all things don't bring that mess over here again.
eta the situation is messy. Gotta be real clear, of course.
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