sterling
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Post by sterling on May 22, 2023 11:35:17 GMT -6
If men have nothing else, they have the audacity. This should be framed in live, laugh, love script. Embroidered and memorialized for generations to come.
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pobre
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Post by pobre on May 22, 2023 11:40:31 GMT -6
My BBFs (for 20+ years) ExH, who has been asking her for months to reconcile, called me last weekend & asked me (direct quote) "want to come over & get naked with me" & at first I thought he was kidding & had called for something else. After it became clear he was not kidding, I eventually hung up on him because he would.not.stop asking why not when I said no. & he then later texted me "would have been fun" So now I'm mad at him for EVEN, & IDK if I should tell her. She does not want to reconcile but would absolutely feel a way & say something to him about it & I don't want the drama because its not anything that would ever happen anyways. oh shit how drunk was he?
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Post by readyornot on May 22, 2023 11:47:49 GMT -6
I have another:
My neighbor's little sister is/was dating a guy that we found out was very much in another relationship (like living with his fiancee & kids relationship). The little sister & this guy have dated about a year now & had a week long trip to a resort in Mexico planned & my neighbor has very much been trying to ward little sister off this guy, but shes a young 20something & knows everything & he kept telling her that the fiancee is an ex, crazy, won't leave him alone, blah blah the usual....
Anyways, their MX trip was coming up quick & I sat on it & it kept bothering me &......I had a girl at work message the fiancée about the MX trip (she was more than willing to. I didn't make anyone do anything). IDK what happened, the fiancée never replied, but dude did NOT go on the MX trip.
I'm blaming the "are we dating the same guy" FB Group for the push to follow through with this. SO MANY WOMAN had the same story about this guy.
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Post by readyornot on May 22, 2023 11:50:19 GMT -6
My BBFs (for 20+ years) ExH, who has been asking her for months to reconcile, called me last weekend & asked me (direct quote) "want to come over & get naked with me" & at first I thought he was kidding & had called for something else. After it became clear he was not kidding, I eventually hung up on him because he would.not.stop asking why not when I said no. & he then later texted me "would have been fun" So now I'm mad at him for EVEN, & IDK if I should tell her. She does not want to reconcile but would absolutely feel a way & say something to him about it & I don't want the drama because its not anything that would ever happen anyways. oh shit how drunk was he? It was like 11am so I am afraid we can't even blame alcohol for this. Possible though
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Post by MelanieCarmichael on May 22, 2023 12:03:30 GMT -6
I am pretty sure my coworkers are having an affair. The A/C went out in the building next door and while it's being fixed they have moved offices to my hallway. He is in her doorway like half the day and they go to lunch at 11 and come back around 1. This was exactly how things started adding up for two of my co-workers although one of them has moved to a different department, at which point they went FB official (after 3 years of cheating and him leaving his blindsided wife but lying that it was mutual, I guess it was time). Of course, the rest of us are ignoring their coupledom because we're petty like that.
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Eagles
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Post by Eagles on May 22, 2023 12:04:51 GMT -6
So my friend is divorcing her STBXH (B) who cheated on her with a lady named C. C’s stbxh (R) reached out to my friend on FB to try to clarify some timelines of the affair. They (R and my friend) went for coffee, talked about their exes, hit it off and are now together. The cheating exes are big mad. FFMC, this is how my H and I got together. I didn’t see your SN at first and I was thinking "I know someone this happened to!" 🤣
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Eagles
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Post by Eagles on May 22, 2023 12:05:58 GMT -6
Nothing too juicy. A long time employee of my agency was fired very early this year and no one knew why. I just found out why and while it's not as scandalous as the rumors (falsely tying him to another firing at the same time) he is a dumbass for looking at porn on a government owned device. But my working theory is that he is a strict Mormon and that stuff was probably blocked and or monitored on the home wifi. Just get a burner phone and use data, buddy.
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Post by MelanieCarmichael on May 22, 2023 12:06:16 GMT -6
So my friend is divorcing her STBXH (B) who cheated on her with a lady named C. C’s stbxh (R) reached out to my friend on FB to try to clarify some timelines of the affair. They (R and my friend) went for coffee, talked about their exes, hit it off and are now together. The cheating exes are big mad. That's like Shania and her current partner, which I love so much.
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Post by MelanieCarmichael on May 22, 2023 12:06:41 GMT -6
So my friend is divorcing her STBXH (B) who cheated on her with a lady named C. C’s stbxh (R) reached out to my friend on FB to try to clarify some timelines of the affair. They (R and my friend) went for coffee, talked about their exes, hit it off and are now together. The cheating exes are big mad. This is how Shania Twain got with her current husband too I think Beat me to it!
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Post by rachacha on May 22, 2023 12:09:13 GMT -6
FFMC, this is how my H and I got together. I didn’t see your SN at first and I was thinking "I know someone this happened to!" 🤣 Lol! Worked out for me, XH not so much.
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Post by MelanieCarmichael on May 22, 2023 12:12:14 GMT -6
This is how Shania Twain got with her current husband too I think It’s awesome, she’s so happy. I love it. And it brings me a bit of joy to think that the cheating exes, who left their spouses for each other, are so bothered by the people they left living their best lives. And Shania's current husband is a million times better looking and better person than the aptly named Mutt Lange. Petty? Perhaps, but IDGAF.
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gimmeaQ
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Post by gimmeaQ on May 22, 2023 12:27:44 GMT -6
I didn’t see your SN at first and I was thinking "I know someone this happened to!" 🤣 Lol! Worked out for me, XH not so much. This is so freaking satisfying.
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Post by ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ on May 22, 2023 13:32:45 GMT -6
Nothing too juicy. A long time employee of my agency was fired very early this year and no one knew why. I just found out why and while it's not as scandalous as the rumors (falsely tying him to another firing at the same time) he is a dumbass for looking at porn on a government owned device. But my working theory is that he is a strict Mormon and that stuff was probably blocked and or monitored on the home wifi. Just get a burner phone and use data, buddy. Or even better, come to terms with who you actually are (if the theory is correct)!
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Post by kittyriot on May 22, 2023 14:38:32 GMT -6
I don’t know how to type mine out. They’re so complicated. Happens when working with LE.
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Post by peachtree on May 22, 2023 15:08:38 GMT -6
Nothing too juicy. A long time employee of my agency was fired very early this year and no one knew why. I just found out why and while it's not as scandalous as the rumors (falsely tying him to another firing at the same time) he is a dumbass for looking at porn on a government owned device. But my working theory is that he is a strict Mormon and that stuff was probably blocked and or monitored on the home wifi. Just get a burner phone and use data, buddy. Right?! Like dude should have been smarter then this.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2023 15:51:58 GMT -6
Porn has always been blocked from my government devices since the 1990s so I don't know.
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Bookshelves
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Post by Bookshelves on May 22, 2023 16:37:26 GMT -6
If men have nothing else, they have the audacity. Wow to the men mentioned in this thread. Seems relevant, overheard at my daughter’s practice tonight: This single mom was talking to her divorced friend about dating woes and the first man she dated after her breakup. They dated, openly, for more than a year. She found out later that he had been tracking her via her phone, because he was engaged, with kids with his fiancée. (I don’t know how the tracking happened, because I was pretending to read and not listen, but lady if you’re here, fill us in.) They have the audacity and apparently the energy.
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Post by imapenguin on May 22, 2023 17:08:24 GMT -6
If men have nothing else, they have the audacity. Wow to the men mentioned in this thread. Seems relevant, overheard at my daughter’s practice tonight: This single mom was talking to her divorced friend about dating woes and the first man she dated after her breakup. They dated, openly, for more than a year. She found out later that he had been tracking her via her phone, because he was engaged, with kids with his fiancée. (I don’t know how the tracking happened, because I was pretending to read and not listen, but lady if you’re here, fill us in.) They have the audacity and apparently the energy. This feels like so much work for a little bit of extra sex.
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Post by angelashly on May 22, 2023 17:19:30 GMT -6
Seems relevant, overheard at my daughter’s practice tonight: This single mom was talking to her divorced friend about dating woes and the first man she dated after her breakup. They dated, openly, for more than a year. She found out later that he had been tracking her via her phone, because he was engaged, with kids with his fiancée. (I don’t know how the tracking happened, because I was pretending to read and not listen, but lady if you’re here, fill us in.) They have the audacity and apparently the energy. This feels like so much work for a little bit of extra sex. I will never understand cheating
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Pistol
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Post by Pistol on May 22, 2023 17:19:56 GMT -6
This is older news (like last summer). One of the neighbor's has a kid with his girlfriend. Anyhow, so on the kid's second birthday he asks her to marry him (December 2021) fast forward to June 2022 and he is blowing it all up on fb. He posted a screenshot of her tinder profile made a comment along the lines of they were only broke up 15 minutes and already his friends were adding her and to just hurry up and get her out of his house and somewhere along the lines he admitted she was still married when he first slept with her (something along the lines of shes easy so go ahead and fuck her with her ring on like I did when we got together or some shit). I mean blowing it all up. I was screenshotting and sending to H like OMG get the popcorn out. This goes on for like 3 weeks and she's still living there. Then next thing you know all those posts were deleted and they're back to tagging each other on fb and all the love you babe and can't live without you bullshit and now she's pregnant again.
*side note of drama-said girl had a long time boyfriend in high school and even after she ended up calling it quits with and everyone was shocked because they thought for sure they would get married. Turns out that's what happens when you come home to find your boyfriend in bed with your mom.
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Post by angelashly on May 22, 2023 17:28:46 GMT -6
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Eagles
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Post by Eagles on May 22, 2023 17:30:48 GMT -6
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teraiin
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Post by teraiin on May 22, 2023 17:37:08 GMT -6
This isn’t so much gossip as if I’m SUPER NOSY.
They hired a new special Ed teacher for one of the rooms at work. I know her from a previous job. She’s very nice. Everyone was excited because we badly need special Ed teachers.
She worked like three days and then just… stopped coming in? They were looking for her the one day. (Asking if she had come into the classroom without punching in)
Now she’s… no longer on the schedule. So did she ghost us? Did she get let go? Is she sick? No idea lol
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Post by goldenbird on May 22, 2023 17:40:47 GMT -6
This feels like so much work for a little bit of extra sex. I will never understand cheating +1 That's what an active fantasy life/imagination is for.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2023 18:13:13 GMT -6
This feels like so much work for a little bit of extra sex. I will never understand cheating Sometimes there is nothing to understand. It was there and convenient.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2023 18:14:35 GMT -6
This isn’t so much gossip as if I’m SUPER NOSY. They hired a new special Ed teacher for one of the rooms at work. I know her from a previous job. She’s very nice. Everyone was excited because we badly need special Ed teachers. She worked like three days and then just… stopped coming in? They were looking for her the one day. (Asking if she had come into the classroom without punching in) Now she’s… no longer on the schedule. So did she ghost us? Did she get let go? Is she sick? No idea lol If she's Gen Z, strong ghosting possibility Millennial, maybe home sick
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Post by joy on May 22, 2023 18:31:44 GMT -6
This is older news (like last summer). One of the neighbor's has a kid with his girlfriend. Anyhow, so on the kid's second birthday he asks her to marry him (December 2021) fast forward to June 2022 and he is blowing it all up on fb. He posted a screenshot of her tinder profile made a comment along the lines of they were only broke up 15 minutes and already his friends were adding her and to just hurry up and get her out of his house and somewhere along the lines he admitted she was still married when he first slept with her (something along the lines of shes easy so go ahead and fuck her with her ring on like I did when we got together or some shit). I mean blowing it all up. I was screenshotting and sending to H like OMG get the popcorn out. This goes on for like 3 weeks and she's still living there. Then next thing you know all those posts were deleted and they're back to tagging each other on fb and all the love you babe and can't live without you bullshit and now she's pregnant again. *side note of drama-said girl had a long time boyfriend in high school and even after she ended up calling it quits with and everyone was shocked because they thought for sure they would get married. Turns out that's what happens when you come home to find your boyfriend in bed with your mom. Oh sweet moses.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on May 22, 2023 19:32:27 GMT -6
This feels like so much work for a little bit of extra sex. I will never understand cheating How do people have the energy? Lol. This also reminds me of the meme (or ticktock maybe?) that said you can tell women are mostly the default parents because you never hear about the women having a totally separate family.
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Pistol
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Post by Pistol on May 22, 2023 20:13:40 GMT -6
This is older news (like last summer). One of the neighbor's has a kid with his girlfriend. Anyhow, so on the kid's second birthday he asks her to marry him (December 2021) fast forward to June 2022 and he is blowing it all up on fb. He posted a screenshot of her tinder profile made a comment along the lines of they were only broke up 15 minutes and already his friends were adding her and to just hurry up and get her out of his house and somewhere along the lines he admitted she was still married when he first slept with her (something along the lines of shes easy so go ahead and fuck her with her ring on like I did when we got together or some shit). I mean blowing it all up. I was screenshotting and sending to H like OMG get the popcorn out. This goes on for like 3 weeks and she's still living there. Then next thing you know all those posts were deleted and they're back to tagging each other on fb and all the love you babe and can't live without you bullshit and now she's pregnant again. *side note of drama-said girl had a long time boyfriend in high school and even after she ended up calling it quits with and everyone was shocked because they thought for sure they would get married. Turns out that's what happens when you come home to find your boyfriend in bed with your mom. Oh sweet moses. H went to school with her so he knew the story. I went to school with the ex and fully believe it and remembered him having an older girlfriend when he was coaching my brother's basketball team. One he told me the story it all clicked. Yay small towns.
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teraiin
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Post by teraiin on May 22, 2023 20:15:44 GMT -6
This isn’t so much gossip as if I’m SUPER NOSY. They hired a new special Ed teacher for one of the rooms at work. I know her from a previous job. She’s very nice. Everyone was excited because we badly need special Ed teachers. She worked like three days and then just… stopped coming in? They were looking for her the one day. (Asking if she had come into the classroom without punching in) Now she’s… no longer on the schedule. So did she ghost us? Did she get let go? Is she sick? No idea lol If she's Gen Z, strong ghosting possibility Millennial, maybe home sick Probably in her 50s if I had to make a guess. Maybe 60s. She actually recognized me because of a previous job I had. I didn’t recognize her though so I had to take her word for it, lol Curious to see if she gets out on next weeks schedule or not
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