clucky
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Post by clucky on Jan 29, 2024 17:22:06 GMT -6
Well. This officially sucks. MRI was clear that it isn’t good. The machines will be turned off tonight. Because of clear and direct conversations between him & MIL, she knows his wishes. It is still a devastating situation. I’m thankful he was home this last time with them both there, having a normal day. H is there and I’m with the boys, who all got to say goodbye over the phone. Thankful for his transplant which is the only reason the little 3 even got to know him. Im going to miss him so much.
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Post by goldenbird on Jan 29, 2024 17:34:42 GMT -6
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Post by AmyG on Jan 29, 2024 17:48:20 GMT -6
clucky, will be holding your whole family in the light may it envelope you in calmness and love in such a difficult time. hugs and love
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elle
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Post by elle on Jan 29, 2024 17:56:32 GMT -6
Oh clucky, I'm so very sorry. ❤️
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Post by blurnette989 on Jan 29, 2024 18:29:42 GMT -6
oh yikes. And I thought 5€ was kind of steep for the test I bought.
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Post by blurnette989 on Jan 29, 2024 18:34:29 GMT -6
clucky I'm so sorry. Sending love to you and yours.
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Post by cnf on Jan 29, 2024 18:36:02 GMT -6
I did see that one. I hunted for one like crazy earlier in the winter and lolnope to spending $40 on that thing.
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Post by cnf on Jan 29, 2024 18:38:05 GMT -6
Oh clucky I am so sorry. I'm holding you and your family in my thoughts.
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Post by klw on Jan 29, 2024 19:23:29 GMT -6
Keeping you all in my thoughts clucky.
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athn64
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Post by athn64 on Jan 29, 2024 19:52:11 GMT -6
clucky, so much love to your family right now.
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clucky
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Post by clucky on Jan 29, 2024 20:23:02 GMT -6
Thanks everyone. Since he has always lived with health history, we didn’t think he could actually donate. Today the transplant team (?) said he may be able to donate his liver, they will know more after running some tests tonight/tomorrow. This is such a rollercoaster, but we are praying all the pieces align for him to pass along his liver. Not sure how much more my ILs can take of seeing him in a hospital bed hooked up to so many machines.
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Post by beepers on Jan 29, 2024 21:36:29 GMT -6
clucky it’s such a hard time, the in-between. Sending lots of love to your family.
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Post by lizblue on Jan 29, 2024 22:01:37 GMT -6
clucky I am so very sorry. Sending you and your family lots of love right now.
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Post by ldubhawksfan on Jan 29, 2024 22:12:59 GMT -6
I’m so sorry clucky. Sending your family prayers during this difficult time.
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Post by enchanted on Jan 29, 2024 22:46:40 GMT -6
Oh, clucky, I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping your and your family in my thoughts.
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Post by kbw on Jan 30, 2024 7:35:50 GMT -6
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Post by cakewench on Jan 30, 2024 7:52:46 GMT -6
I am so incredibly sorry clucky - sending so much love to you and your family <3
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Post by byjove on Jan 30, 2024 8:26:46 GMT -6
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Post by fatpony on Jan 30, 2024 12:20:33 GMT -6
I'm so sorry clucky
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Post by nelzie on Jan 30, 2024 14:46:15 GMT -6
I'm so sorry clucky. Your family has been through so much.
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clucky
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Post by clucky on Jan 30, 2024 18:40:20 GMT -6
Thank you everyone. He peacefully passed and was able to donate his liver. Knowing that another person is going to get their new organ today is comforting. He passed during sunset, which was absolutely beautiful here this evening.
Ultimately, we decided to include the boys. We were all glad they were able to be part of his hero walk and see him one last time.
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Post by elle on Jan 30, 2024 18:57:51 GMT -6
{{{ clucky}}} I'm glad his passing was peaceful and that he was able to give the extraordinary gift of his liver. My thoughts are with you, your boys and your other family members. ❤️
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Post by dc2london on Jan 30, 2024 19:48:17 GMT -6
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Post by enchanted on Jan 30, 2024 22:58:43 GMT -6
Hugs, clucky. I am glad his passing was peaceful. What a beautiful gift he was able to give someone, though I am so sorry for your family's loss.
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Post by trueblue on Jan 31, 2024 0:18:03 GMT -6
I am so sorry for your loss clucky.
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Post by fancynewbeesly on Jan 31, 2024 7:16:20 GMT -6
DD2 has the flu. DD1 and DH fled to my parents house in hopes that she wouldn’t catch it. Yesterday DD2 was fever free all day so they came back home. Got ready for work this morning only to find out DD2 has a fever again.
I told DH if DD2 is home tomorrow he needs to take off. His job is mostly commission and he hates to take off. But like I am working tomorrow. We have no family to help either which is also super stressful as well.
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Post by piratecat on Jan 31, 2024 7:59:16 GMT -6
clucky I'm so sorry for your loss.
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clucky
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Post by clucky on Jan 31, 2024 9:42:06 GMT -6
fancynewbeesly hoping YD1 doesn’t catch it and YD2 is better and this 2nd fever isn’t anything more. Trying to manage everything without help can be overwhelming, I’m sorry.
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Post by nelzie on Jan 31, 2024 13:12:03 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss clucky.
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Post by trueblue on Jan 31, 2024 15:34:29 GMT -6
fancynewbeesly, I remember those heated whisper arguments between H and I, over a sleeping feverish child, about who’s work day was more important and who could take the hit - H is self employed so it was always money out of our pocket when he wasn’t working while I had PTO but carried the benefits so I couldn’t risk being out every time the kids were too sick for school or daycare. I am always a DM away if you need to vent….
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