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Post by Wtfshouldmynamebe on Oct 26, 2022 20:25:49 GMT -6
Right? I kept looking at Colleen and wondering what made her a 10. I mean, she’s very pretty, but… I get Colleen is very fit. And of course, she’s a pretty girl. Everyone on the show is attractive. But compared to Zanab she seems plain to me. But I guess that is eye of the beholder and all that. I just don’t see why she is being made out to be some ugly duckling compared to Colleen because she is gorgeous. The girl should know her worth. I very much get that Cole never dated anything but a white girl
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Post by leatherpants on Oct 26, 2022 21:11:55 GMT -6
I think Cole and Zanab are the worst match, but I want them to get married and do a reality show so I can watch every minute of it. I’m watching when they first meet right now and oh gosh this is so awkward and forced, I kind of want to fast forward but I can’t.
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 26, 2022 21:24:36 GMT -6
Nancy is way too good for Bartise I fucking HATE Bartise! I liked him at the beginning, and I actually felt so bad for him when Raven was doing jumping jacks while he was telling her a heartfelt story, but man…fuck him. He’s like all other superficial, shallow, mid twenties men.
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Post by unheardof on Oct 27, 2022 6:14:27 GMT -6
Nancy is way too good for Bartise I fucking HATE Bartise! I liked him at the beginning, and I actually felt so bad for him when Raven was doing jumping jacks while he was telling her a heartfelt story, but man…fuck him. He’s like all other superficial, shallow, mid twenties men. Yep - and he's whole 'I'm just being honest here' schtick makes me want to punch him in the face. There's a difference between being honest and being hurtful. He and Cole need to grow up. They really need to do a 30+ version of love is blind. Zanab is GORGEOUS and very much needs to work on her own self esteem but again, Cole has poor communication skills and an issue with being too honest.
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Post by downwarddog on Oct 27, 2022 8:43:00 GMT -6
I also think they are being supplied with a TON of booze. There was a scene when one of the girls (Colleen?) was trying to recall a conversation she had the night before and was asked if she talked about something specific and she was like, "I think so? I just don't remember..." I think they are all at least vaguely drunk most of the time they are on camera, and definitely when they are all together.
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 8:48:13 GMT -6
Somehow between the first set of episodes released and the latest set, which I binged last night, SK & Raven are my favorites? I don't even know who I am anymore. I Also really like Alexa and Brennon and I hope they are still going strong today. Like has been said already, I find Zanab to be a gorgeous woman, and Cole just isn't ready for real life marriage. Honestly, he might be better paired with Colleen, at least she was honest about her superficiality - he is exactly like that, despite not wanting to face it. Fuck that guy, and Bartise, too.
I don't know what got me watching this season, I hadn't seen the previous two, but now I will probably go back and watch. It's such a curious thing, and reminds me of the early days of chat rooms and such, getting to know someone without seeing their photos/in person.
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 8:52:57 GMT -6
Cole will tell anyone who will listen that he's not into Zanab physically. What's the matter with him?!! It's bad enough to say it but for cameras to be around and capture it all - and for it to air - even if they're not together anymore, and maybe especially if they are, how cruel to do to a person who your proclaim to have chosen, to love... to make her relive it every.single.time. Ugh, makes me sad. From a newer ep, so spoilering just in case {Spoiler}Bartise had some nerve acting interrupting Andrew and Nancy's chat - I don't think Andrew and Nancy have chemistry, but Bartise, after saying he's not attracted to Nancy and distancing himself from her physically, then being all up on her and MINE MINE MINE is gross.
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Post by downwarddog on Oct 27, 2022 8:57:37 GMT -6
Cole will tell anyone who will listen that he's not into Zanab physically. What's the matter with him?!! It's bad enough to say it but for cameras to be around and capture it all - and for it to air - even if they're not together anymore, and maybe especially if they are, how cruel to do to a person who your proclaim to have chosen, to love... to make her relive it every.single.time. Ugh, makes me sad. From a newer ep, so spoilering just in case {Spoiler}Bartise had some nerve acting interrupting Andrew and Nancy's chat - I don't think Andrew and Nancy have chemistry, but Bartise, after saying he's not attracted to Nancy and distancing himself from her physically, then being all up on her and MINE MINE MINE is gross. I think it was important to Cole to make sure everyone knew he wasn't locked in and was leaving the door open for Colleen.....or whomever else.
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 9:01:47 GMT -6
downwarddog, that may well be. but he's like a broken record about it ala Colleen with "soooo I'm a ballerina" yeah, ok, WE HEARD YOU the first time.
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 27, 2022 9:10:02 GMT -6
Cole and Colleen are both so annoying. They both float by on their good looks and thats it. But neither one of them are *that* great to look at. I could find you 100 other white people that look exactly like them (or better looking) in my town alone. What's that saying "they're a Dallas (or any other city) 10, but a LA 4" lol
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:03:33 GMT -6
I’m so angry at Cole telling Zanab she’s a 9 while Colleen and Raven are 10s. Yes, you can be in a relationship and still think other people are attractive or good looking, but you should always think your partner is the most attractive.
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Post by downwarddog on Oct 27, 2022 13:06:20 GMT -6
I’m so angry at Cole telling Zanab she’s a 9 while Colleen and Raven are 10s. Yes, you can be in a relationship and still think other people are attractive or good looking, but you should always think your partner is the most attractive. I completely agree, but I also side eye an adult woman asking her partner to "rate her".
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 13:09:53 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, "you should always think your partner is the most attractive" -- I don't buy it. But I also don't think a person needs to tell his/her partner that they aren't. downwarddog, it bothered me, too, that she was asking him to rate her, basically goading him into a fight, something she could get upset about. A very unhealthy thing to ask, but totally comes from her insecurity. He NEVER should have answered the question, and especially not in the manner in which he did so.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:13:08 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, "you should always think your partner is the most attractive" -- I don't buy it. But I also don't think a person needs to tell his/her partner that they aren't. downwarddog, it bothered me, too, that she was asking him to rate her, basically goading him into a fight, something she could get upset about. A very unhealthy thing to ask, but totally comes from her insecurity. He NEVER should have answered the question, and especially not in the manner in which he did so. You don’t buy it?
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:17:43 GMT -6
I’m so angry at Cole telling Zanab she’s a 9 while Colleen and Raven are 10s. Yes, you can be in a relationship and still think other people are attractive or good looking, but you should always think your partner is the most attractive. I completely agree, but I also side eye an adult woman asking her partner to "rate her". Well yes, he shouldn’t have even gone down that road with her. But it all could have been avoided had he said something like “I don’t need to rate you, I already think you’re beautiful.” Or you know, told her she was a 10.
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 13:18:14 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, no, I don't. I don't think it's realistic to think your partner is the most [physically] attractive person. Maybe I'm in a minority having that feeling.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:25:06 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, no, I don't. I don't think it's realistic to think your partner is the most [physically] attractive person. Maybe I'm in a minority having that feeling. interesting. I feel very differently and would be really hurt if my partner told me that they found other people more attractive than me. And I don’t think that’s an unrealistic expectation at all.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:32:33 GMT -6
Wait until you see Matts moms haircut. Watching this right now 😬😂 I’m honestly not shocked.
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 13:38:47 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, ABSOLUTELY do not disagree with you there, I'd be very hurt, too! There is no reason to ever tell your partner there are more attractive people than them, I can't even, that's not ok ever. That's not what I am saying at all. I've never had a conversation with my husband about rating me or who's hotter, and I never would, but it wouldn't be far fetched in my mind for him to say the most attractive person he's ever seen is Adele, for example.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 13:48:08 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, ABSOLUTELY do not disagree with you there, I'd be very hurt, too! There is no reason to ever tell your partner there are more attractive people than them, I can't even, that's not ok ever. That's not what I am saying at all. I've never had a conversation with my husband about rating me or who's hotter, and I never would, but it wouldn't be far fetched in my mind for him to say the most attractive person he's ever seen is Adele, for example. I get it! I would also never ask any partner to rate me or anything like that. I guess when I say “think” I mean what they’re saying out loud. They can have all the private thoughts they want, just don’t say it out loud to me. I do think it’s perfectly ok to think other people are attractive, and even to say out loud “I think Adele is attractive”, it’s the “I think Adele is more attractive than you” that I wouldn’t be ok with.
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Post by imapenguin on Oct 27, 2022 13:53:31 GMT -6
Cole and Batise could both use a lesson in the art of omission. You don’t need to say everything you think. Even to your soulmate. Even if it’s true. They were both dicks.
But what fun would it be to watch mature and level headed people on tv?
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Post by abbandkaa on Oct 27, 2022 13:54:53 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, you'll get no argument from me. I was coming at the discussion with you from a perspective of their private thoughts (the word "think") not what they might voice out loud to me or anyone else.
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Post by jaidit on Oct 27, 2022 14:15:13 GMT -6
I applaud Nancy for talking about abortion, on a reality show, in Texas. She really stood her ground and it was a refreshing actual conversation.
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 27, 2022 14:22:54 GMT -6
I dunno, I think my H is attractive but is he THE MOST physically attractive person ever to me? No, that’s quite ridiculous. But same for him. I know he finds me attractive, but I’m not the most attractive woman he’s ever laid eyes on. We’re just smart enough not to verbalize those words to each other lol. I’m probably a (insert name of my city here) 7, but a LA 2 lol.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 14:24:44 GMT -6
Huh. Maybe my feelings on attraction are why I’m divorced 🤷♀️
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Post by normadix on Oct 27, 2022 16:46:48 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, you'll get no argument from me. I was coming at the discussion with you from a perspective of their private thoughts (the word "think") not what they might voice out loud to me or anyone else. That’s where I am. Private thoughts should stay private. I think it’s unrealistic that H finds me the most attractive person in the world. But I would hope he is the most attracted to me, if that makes sense.
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Post by normadix on Oct 27, 2022 16:47:46 GMT -6
But again maturity is not asking about others attractiveness or rating them, etc..
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 27, 2022 17:11:05 GMT -6
Huh. Maybe my feelings on attraction are why I’m divorced 🤷♀️ I don’t think you’re wrong in your feelings. Although, I definitely wanted to be the most attractive person to ExH, and we’re now divorced…
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Oct 27, 2022 17:13:04 GMT -6
jubilantsquirrel, you'll get no argument from me. I was coming at the discussion with you from a perspective of their private thoughts (the word "think") not what they might voice out loud to me or anyone else. That’s where I am. Private thoughts should stay private. I think it’s unrealistic that H finds me the most attractive person in the world. But I would hope he is the most attracted to me, if that makes sense. I think this is what I am saying. I would hope my partner wouldn’t be more attracted to someone else. I don’t care if it’s ridiculous, I would be pretty devastated to learn my partner was more attracted to someone else than me.
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 27, 2022 17:17:15 GMT -6
You know what I like to think about when watching this show? If I would choose my H if we were in this show. And we’re both confident neither of us would have ever chosen the other. Solely based on communication style without visual cues, woof! We still, after nearly 8 years together, don’t do well with that. He’s too literal and I’m too…not lol.
Would you choose your spouse?
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