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Post by paperbagliz on Dec 31, 2020 0:05:34 GMT -6
@zweber, for real, I’ll be nearish to you (despite our moving to a different city in two weeks), and I can make suggestions. The new Children’s Hospital is wonderful- one of my twins was in the NICU at the old building and the other oncology, as I’ve mentioned. Let me know if I can help!
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Post by donnameagle on Dec 31, 2020 8:08:19 GMT -6
@zweber I am logistically trying to figure this out for you! LOL. How long is the flight and can you be pushed in a wheelchair to and from the plane?
What. A. Conundrum.
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Post by donnameagle on Dec 31, 2020 8:10:49 GMT -6
Y'all I had my anatomy scan yesterday. Cervix is holding tight at 3.3 and 3.1 with pressure. Still checking it every week but I am released to do some light exercise and move about my life. So far. I had a momentary breakdown yesterday. Just lots of overwhelming feelings. Scans of baby looked good however. We spent about an hour with the tech and MFM doc. No growth restrictions and placenta is good sized and cord is inserted properly. We are crossing off lots of issues we had with the last pregnancy, so it feels good.
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Post by addymac on Dec 31, 2020 8:14:50 GMT -6
What a wonderful update donnameagle!! I hope your cervix keeps holding on tight. How many weeks are you mow? 19?
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Post by donnameagle on Dec 31, 2020 8:18:20 GMT -6
What a wonderful update donnameagle !! I hope your cervix keeps holding on tight. How many weeks are you mow? 19? Just hit 20. They moved my due date up by just a few days cause she is measuring big. Honestly she still measured about 20 weeks 6 days in everything but they are just leaving her where she is because we know the dates we ovulated since it was through a fertility clinic.
I'll be getting a c section somewhere between 37 and 39 weeks depending on what MFM thinks is a good time as long as my cervix holds
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Post by jnetx on Dec 31, 2020 8:41:27 GMT -6
@zweber This sucks so much. I had to coordinate a move from my hospital bed, but I had no outside kids and it was just across town. I wish there was something we could do.
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Post by filingjointly on Dec 31, 2020 9:24:32 GMT -6
@zweber I’m not sure where you’re going exactly in SC but I’m here and willing to help however I can.
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Post by goldenbird on Dec 31, 2020 9:56:34 GMT -6
@zweber that is a lot to deal with. I hope you can make the move as easily and safely as possible ❤
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2020 20:37:02 GMT -6
does anyone want a hoodie for their baby(s)? cause i have this crochet addiction...
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Post by katespade on Jan 1, 2021 1:28:11 GMT -6
does anyone want a hoodie for their baby(s)? cause i have this crochet addiction... I have a southern baby who hates the cold! But he’s also kinda chubby 😂
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2021 14:48:16 GMT -6
does anyone want a hoodie for their baby(s)? cause i have this crochet addiction... I have a southern baby who hates the cold! But he’s also kinda chubby 😂 i’m making the perfect chubby baby hoodie right now!
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Post by Nonniedee on Jan 5, 2021 7:23:58 GMT -6
I have Covid
I’ve been feeling like shit for about 3 weeks and went to get tested Sunday.
I feel like a fucking failure. I followed all the rules, and did everything I could.
I’m scared because I have asthma, and my breathing has been very ragged and labored. Idk how this will affect the baby. I’ve had a few days where my body couldn’t warm up for hours. I was shivering with my teeth chattering.
My kids are asymptomatic, so I’m grateful for that
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Post by fb on Jan 5, 2021 7:35:37 GMT -6
I have Covid I’ve been feeling like shit for about 3 weeks and went to get tested Sunday. I feel like a fucking failure. I followed all the rules, and did everything I could. I’m scared because I have asthma, and my breathing has been very ragged and labored. Idk how this will affect the baby. I’ve had a few days where my body couldn’t warm up for hours. I was shivering with my teeth chattering. My kids are asymptomatic, so I’m grateful for that You are NOT a failure. This virus is highly contagious and really has no rules. Release yourself from that guilt, please, friend. I hope you start feeling better soon; I will be praying for you and sending every positive and healing vibe into the universe for you.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jan 5, 2021 7:35:49 GMT -6
Oh no Nonniedee. I hope it's mild and you are feeling better soon. And you are not a failure. This virus is crazy and it was nothing you did. <3
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Post by donnamoss on Jan 5, 2021 7:36:40 GMT -6
Nonniedee YOU are not a failure. COVID is a beast and it found you—that’s all. Please don’t beat yourself up—you need to stay resilient so you can recover faster. Do you have an oximeter? Sending all the hugs to you.
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 5, 2021 7:41:33 GMT -6
Nonniedee, I am so so sorry. I had it too. OB puts all pregnant patients on low dose aspirin - has your doctor mentioned this? You are not a failure - this virus is just here and it is almost impossible to escape.
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Post by skategirl128 on Jan 5, 2021 7:48:28 GMT -6
Oh no Nonniedee. You are definitely not a failure. This virus is everywhere. Sending lots of prayers for a fast recovery. Lots of love and distant hugs for you too.
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Post by goldenbird on Jan 5, 2021 7:55:25 GMT -6
Nonniedee you are not a failure! I pray that you are feeling better soon. ❤
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Post by Fearsy on Jan 5, 2021 7:55:27 GMT -6
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Post by Nonniedee on Jan 5, 2021 7:58:39 GMT -6
Nonniedee YOU are not a failure. COVID is a beast and it found you—that’s all. Please don’t beat yourself up—you need to stay resilient so you can recover faster. Do you have an oximeter? Sending all the hugs to you. I have an oximeter, I’m trying to get in touch with my doctor, so I can get a nebulizer
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Post by Deleted on Jan 5, 2021 9:09:34 GMT -6
fuck Nonniedee i’m so sorry. i don’t even have words. just anxiety. you and that super swimmer babe are in my thoughts
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Post by wedding on Jan 5, 2021 11:22:17 GMT -6
I'm so sorry Nonniedee. You are NOT a failure! I hope you feel better soon.
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Post by rosalind on Jan 5, 2021 11:27:57 GMT -6
Thinking of you Nonniedee. Rest as much as you can and ask for help when you need it. Can we do anything for you?
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Post by Nonniedee on Jan 5, 2021 11:29:01 GMT -6
Thinking of you Nonniedee. Rest as much as you can and ask for help when you need it. Can we do anything for you? I’m ok, my husband has been really hands on. I’m currently trying to get my ob on the phone to figure out next steps
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Post by hellosweetie on Jan 5, 2021 11:29:06 GMT -6
Big hugs Nonniedee. I’m so sorry. You aren’t a failure! You’re doing all the right things now and before, sometimes shit just happens.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 5, 2021 11:48:43 GMT -6
speaking of pregnancy. how normal is extreme fatigue? when does it get cause for concern? never? this pregnancy is worlds different than my others. i am fucking miserable and feel like i just ran a marathon after using the restroom. i feel like i can’t move my body.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 5, 2021 11:49:33 GMT -6
i have an appointment tomorrow so i’ll bring it up. but damn it i feel awful.
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Post by Nonniedee on Jan 5, 2021 11:50:32 GMT -6
speaking of pregnancy. how normal is extreme fatigue? when does it get cause for concern? never? this pregnancy is worlds different than my others. i am fucking miserable and feel like i just ran a marathon after using the restroom. i feel like i can’t move my body. I’ve been dead on my feet since before I even tested. It’s the norm for me in pregnancy. You have other kids to take care of, so it makes sense this time would be more taxing
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Post by Deleted on Jan 5, 2021 11:59:32 GMT -6
they aren’t doing the glucose test for me because of “scheduling issues” and “no openings” so how hard would you fight for it just in case? H is my advocate because i struggle with speaking up for myself. he’s calling my pcm to see if they can do the glucose screening. idk how important it is to push for it though. maybe wait until i get to SC and hope they schedule it?
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Post by thatgolfb on Jan 5, 2021 12:06:09 GMT -6
Nonniedee I’m so sorry. You are absolutely not a failure. This thing is everywhere.
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