It’s a Wednesday thing

[wineallthetime]

Happy birthday, C! flamingo.

And huge thank you to inthekitty and all of our military families.

[tgrimes]

Nov 11, 2020 13:14:07 GMT -6 wineallthetime said:

Nov 11, 2020 11:38:09 GMT -6 inthekitty said:

I convinced the girls to start Twitches last night before we get too far from the Halloween mood because I like Tia and Tamera and have never seen it. As usual they were bitching about but then really liked it. We'll finish it today then see if we can go right to Christmas if I can find Mistletones streaming. I think it's Tamera in that one and we love it.

I love Mistletones! It's one of my H's favorites.... should this have been a red flag??? 

I'm laughing.

I know it's not funny....but it is.

[lahdeedah]

😂 wineallthetime

[tgrimes]

*******PDQ**********

Poof

[trtlcrzy]

I’m sorry tgrimes I hope it can all be resolved amicably by all parties.

[nam2013]

tgrimes wth, I’m at a loss for words really. I hope you can resolve the issue fast and won’t loose your friends over it.

[wineallthetime]

Shit, tgrimes! Does he have a reason he thinks this or just being paranoid? Not saying you did anything wrong but like did he see something and misinterpret it or just come up with that out of thin air?? I'm sorry you're going through that.

[tgrimes]

***poof

[klong11]

tgrimes, yh is being a petty betty and he needs to chill. Not to say someone wouldn't hit on you, I'm just saying in these instances it doesn't sound like he was.

[wineallthetime]

Oh man, tgrimes. If he wants to see some very suspicious texts I'll send him the ones I found. That...is not. Especially if cheating has never been a concern before.

Let me know if you want me to delete any of my comments.

[guster]

New pet peeve: Any one else have an H who reflexively asks “where is that?” whenever I ask for something.
MH is always more than helpful, but the immediate question is too much for me some days.

[guster]

Shit! I didn’t read before posting. I’m so sorry, tgrimes. That’s annoying— he’s totally overreacting .

[peachsmama]

Nov 11, 2020 13:14:07 GMT -6 wineallthetime said:

Nov 11, 2020 11:38:09 GMT -6 inthekitty said:

I convinced the girls to start Twitches last night before we get too far from the Halloween mood because I like Tia and Tamera and have never seen it. As usual they were bitching about but then really liked it. We'll finish it today then see if we can go right to Christmas if I can find Mistletones streaming. I think it's Tamera in that one and we love it.

I love Mistletones! It's one of my H's favorites.... should this have been a red flag??? 

I'm laughing.

I'm sorry.

[mwhip]

tgrimes I'm glad you got good news about your dad and they finally allowed him to eat.
But WTF to your H. I'm so confused as to how he could go so far with it. Would he just confront the guy as well? Seems like it was a harmless joke, played on lots of others, not just singling you out, so it doesn't make much sense. What did his wife say to you about it?

I hope you guys can resolve it quickly and move along.

[lahdeedah]

Nov 11, 2020 14:59:39 GMT -6 guster said:

New pet peeve: Any one else have an H who reflexively asks “where is that?” whenever I ask for something.
MH is always more than helpful, but the immediate question is too much for me some days.

Girl this is Mh about everything. He has a million and one questions about things he should be able to figure out on his own. It truly drives me batty.

[lahdeedah]

tgrimes wow. I mean... he just pulled this out of thin air, because that seems like a reach. And he knows your history with your ex, you wouldn’t do that. Has he ever been in this situation with anyone else and he is now insecure? I’m just trying to figure out where this is coming from.

It sucks that you had to involve your friends in his insecurity. Hope they are graceful about it.

[tgrimes]

lahdeedah Not that I’m aware of.

[tgrimes]

mwhip She just kept apologizing saying that he should know better as a 43 yo. She knows how he is and obviously doesn’t think it was anything more than a joke. She called MH and apologized and said she was sure her H would want to call and apologize later as well, once she spoke to him about it. She said she understood if he didn’t want to take his call and she loved us and hoped this was something we could get past.

[inthekitty]

Grr, I'm sorry for the frustrating situation tgrimes. I hope he pulls his head out of his ass. Does he have a history of jealousy or an ex who cheated on him? Or maybe Rona life stressor getting to him? How does he like his job now? Just wondering if other areas of his life are a source of frustration and he's bringing it out on you.

Eta: just saw your updates. Hope he chills soon.

[inthekitty]

My state is starting to surge again with Rona too (I think they all are? Woof). The rural areas have higher rates of transmission. 😒😒 In other words the lower population density areas where it should be easier to manage but more Trumpers are there so...🙄

I predict another shutdown here.

[slenle]

Happy birthday to C flamingo! How are you holding up being solo?

tgrimes, sorry about the fight. Seems a bit ridiculous of Yh. I hope it blows over soon.

[inthekitty]

wineallthetime 😆😆😆 I like his taste with movies.

I'm sorry for your ILs continued fuckery. I hope they step on a hundred Legos and every time they get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom they sit directly on cold porcelain. And because I'm that evil I hope somewhere in their house a faint beeping keeps going off but they can never detect the source.

[slenle]

Nov 11, 2020 16:48:52 GMT -6 inthekitty said:

My state is starting to surge again with Rona too (I think they all are? Woof). The rural areas have higher rates of transmission. 😒😒 In other words the lower population density areas where it should be easier to manage but more Trumpers are there so...🙄

I predict another shutdown here.

This is exactly what is happing here. It’s frustrating. And my dad who is the most high risk in the family is mad that we might not be able to have the whole family together for thanksgiving because we have a 10 person max restriction again. Meanwhile, my nephew got tested yesterday and we were around him Sunday.

[inthekitty]

My house has been depressing me because it was so gross (I was working a ton extra over the past 3 weeks and MH is...not good at housekeeping 😒). I got everything done except for the vacuuming and it makes me so much happier. I couldn't even enjoy my time off looking around at how nasty it was. A vast improvement.

[mwhip]

tgrimes I'm glad she was so good about it. I hope your H takes the call and calms the fuck down. Then apologizes.

Hopefully your night doesn't suck.

[joelies]

tgrimes - I missed the poof but from what I can gather, I hope your DH calms down quickly. Honestly it's been a crazy enough year without blowing dumb stuff out of proportion.

And thank you to all our military families!!

[slenle]

Welp.... guess we’re all quarantined. My nephew is positive. N did not handle the news well and cried for about an hour. She’s scared and sad and I just feel so bad for her because she doesn’t understand.

[tgrimes]

Nov 11, 2020 19:30:07 GMT -6 slenle said:

Welp.... guess we’re all quarantined. My nephew is positive. N did not handle the news well and cried for about an hour. She’s scared and sad and I just feel so bad for her because she doesn’t understand.

Yikes. I hope y’all don’t get it.

[tgrimes]

Random thoughts by M:

M: I know a lot of people are doing to marry me.

Me: why?

M: because I have red hair.

[klong11]

inthekitty pretty sure my house will depress you. Youre welcome to come clean it! 😜