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Post by GhoatMonket on Sept 21, 2020 16:10:31 GMT -6
This is a pretty snotty response just for disagreeing with you And I feel this is an overreaction to a gif. We are such a diverse group. I should probably not tell her to get the stick out of her ass, right?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2020 16:12:56 GMT -6
I'm still hung up on requiring employees to report to the office in a situation where they can all be in their offices with the doors closed And not interact. Why not just maintain remote work (provided that the jobs can be done remotely)? Air filtration and ventilation are major concerns and aren't addressed by closed doors. Speaking for my job, documents have to be turned in for review in a very timely and time sensitive basis. They were allowing us to WFH full time back from March to June and beginning in July they scaled us back to 2 days a week. WFH also requires us to use sick time if we don't have anything active to do and when I'm at the office I can find alternative projects. Eta to be more clear we even had to come in just to drop documents off when WFH was full time. We just can't not come to the office for the nature of my job. Maybe someday they'll figure out full remote
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:13:06 GMT -6
[mention]kmkd [/mention] I’m sorry I didn’t see the same nefarious bad behavior in [mention]angelashly [/mention] that you did. But I don’t think I get to hold the title on snotty alone today.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:18:44 GMT -6
And I feel this is an overreaction to a gif. We are such a diverse group. I should probably not tell her to get the stick out of her ass, right? Wow ok.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:19:16 GMT -6
[mention]kmkd [/mention] I’m sorry I didn’t see the same nefarious bad behavior in [mention]angelashly [/mention] that you did. But I don’t think I get to hold the title on snotty alone today. I never said anything about nefarious bad behavior.
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:22:20 GMT -6
[mention]kmkd [/mention] I’m sorry I didn’t see the same nefarious bad behavior in [mention]angelashly [/mention] that you did. But I don’t think I get to hold the title on snotty alone today. I never said anything about nefarious bad behavior. I was being colorful. What on Earth? Truly. I’ll use your words. I think this was a snotty reaction to someone disagreeing with you.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:23:01 GMT -6
I never said anything about nefarious bad behavior. I was being colorful. What on Earth? Truly. Apparently it’s just me but it’s really not landing.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:23:46 GMT -6
I really don’t know how we got here but I’m not looking to fight with anybody so I’ll just bow out.
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:23:51 GMT -6
[mention]kmkd [/mention] I’m sorry I didn’t see the same nefarious bad behavior in [mention]angelashly [/mention] that you did. But I don’t think I get to hold the title on snotty alone today. I am absolutely perplexed by how you have interpreted kmkd’s original comment. She was just saying she hasn’t seen the flaming that AA has brought up several times in a row at the end of this thread. I haven’t seen it either / Im coming back to this thread after looking for it, because I was like woah what did I miss? I am usually good as seeing how things can come across one way or the other but I’m missing it on her original post.
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:26:42 GMT -6
[mention]kmkd [/mention] I’m sorry I didn’t see the same nefarious bad behavior in [mention]angelashly [/mention] that you did. But I don’t think I get to hold the title on snotty alone today. I am absolutely perplexed by how you have interpreted kmkd’s original comment. She was just saying she hasn’t seen the flaming that AA has brought up several times in a row at the end of this thread. I haven’t seen it either / Im coming back to this thread after looking for it, because I was like woah what did I miss? I am usually good as seeing how things can come across one way or the other but I’m missing it on her original post. But she had multiple posts? Which this that you’ve quoted was after? It’s not just about her original post? And several other people said they did see it the flaming. AA brought it up to make the point that it happens to everyone at some point. Not that she was surprised or confused.
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Post by jaygee on Sept 21, 2020 16:29:11 GMT -6
I'm still hung up on requiring employees to report to the office in a situation where they can all be in their offices with the doors closed And not interact. Why not just maintain remote work (provided that the jobs can be done remotely)? Air filtration and ventilation are major concerns and aren't addressed by closed doors. I’m literally not going to the office because I don’t want to use a shared bathroom. Lol
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:29:17 GMT -6
I am absolutely perplexed by how you have interpreted kmkd’s original comment. She was just saying she hasn’t seen the flaming that AA has brought up several times in a row at the end of this thread. I haven’t seen it either / Im coming back to this thread after looking for it, because I was like woah what did I miss? I am usually good as seeing how things can come across one way or the other but I’m missing it on her original post. But she had multiple posts? Which this that you’ve quoted was after? It’s not just about her original post? And several other people said they did see it the flaming. AA brought it up to make the point that it happens to everyone at some point. Not that she was surprised or confused. I don’t know I instantly regret inserting myself but I was just like woah what how did we take this steep turn. It just seemed like as someone who loves all parties I should say I think you’re all misreading each other a bit. Kmkd also works in a hospital so I’m like if anyone could dish out Private Thoughts righteously she could but I didn’t see that.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 21, 2020 16:29:54 GMT -6
I am absolutely perplexed by how you have interpreted kmkd’s original comment. She was just saying she hasn’t seen the flaming that AA has brought up several times in a row at the end of this thread. I haven’t seen it either / Im coming back to this thread after looking for it, because I was like woah what did I miss? I am usually good as seeing how things can come across one way or the other but I’m missing it on her original post. But she had multiple posts? Which this that you’ve quoted was after? It’s not just about her original post? And several other people said they did see it the flaming. AA brought it up to make the point that it happens to everyone at some point. Not that she was surprised or confused. It’s all good I’m calling this a loss and we are just mean to Olive
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:30:46 GMT -6
But she had multiple posts? Which this that you’ve quoted was after? It’s not just about her original post? And several other people said they did see it the flaming. AA brought it up to make the point that it happens to everyone at some point. Not that she was surprised or confused. I don’t know I instantly regret inserting myself but I was just like woah what how did we take this steep turn. It just seemed like as someone who loves all parties I should say I think you’re all misreading each other a bit. Kmkd also works in a hospital so I’m like if anyone could dish out Private Thoughts righteously she could but I didn’t see that. I’m just not sure what her original point had to do with it. It kept going. That’s when it started to get a reaction. From not just me.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2020 16:31:56 GMT -6
But she had multiple posts? Which this that you’ve quoted was after? It’s not just about her original post? And several other people said they did see it the flaming. AA brought it up to make the point that it happens to everyone at some point. Not that she was surprised or confused. It’s all good I’m calling this a loss and we are just mean to Olive There was only two people who did fuck you to me in this thread and its not the usual people I argue with. To speak for myself, I don't think the usual disagree-ers were pointed or rude. I'm okay.
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:32:43 GMT -6
I don’t know I instantly regret inserting myself but I was just like woah what how did we take this steep turn. It just seemed like as someone who loves all parties I should say I think you’re all misreading each other a bit. Kmkd also works in a hospital so I’m like if anyone could dish out Private Thoughts righteously she could but I didn’t see that. I’m just not sure what her original point had to do with it. It kept going. That’s when it started to get a reaction. From not just me. I read her as saying “I don’t recall this flaming but I don’t see everything ever, in all honesty it wouldn’t be surprising if it happened.” Like, not even calling AA out saying she didn’t get flamed just saying I don’t recall this but ya wouldn’t be surprising.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2020 16:33:06 GMT -6
I mean, there may be more arguments and discussions regarding this exact topic going forward. I don't think I'm the only one who's going to have to weigh options when they feel sniffly.
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:36:55 GMT -6
I’m just not sure what her original point had to do with it. It kept going. That’s when it started to get a reaction. From not just me. I read her as saying “I don’t recall this flaming but I don’t see everything ever, in all honesty it wouldn’t be surprising if it happened.” Like, not even calling AA out saying she didn’t get flamed just saying I don’t recall this but ya wouldn’t be surprising. I mean, non aggressive ok. Obviously others read it differently. AA didn’t say it was surprising. Saying “I don’t know why you’re complaining about being flamed” was off. To me.
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Post by ldubhawksfan on Sept 21, 2020 16:40:06 GMT -6
I'm still hung up on requiring employees to report to the office in a situation where they can all be in their offices with the doors closed And not interact. Why not just maintain remote work (provided that the jobs can be done remotely)? Air filtration and ventilation are major concerns and aren't addressed by closed doors. I’m literally not going to the office because I don’t want to use a shared bathroom. Lol This was a huge thing for me when we had to start transitioning back. I found a single stall bathroom half way across the office complex that I walk to just so I don’t have to be in a shared restroom with others that may not be masking up.
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Post by piratecat on Sept 21, 2020 16:43:13 GMT -6
No. I didn't say it was. It was a side note. It was something that popped in my head because even at the time I was shaking my head at myself and told H that I have officially turned into my mother. This reminded me of it and had me laughing again. The other day I told a guy that worked at Costco that I liked his name because it was the same as DS's. After which I thought to myself, okay, so that's a thing I do now...? I feel like we’ve all forgotten what to do with other humans. 😅
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:46:24 GMT -6
I read her as saying “I don’t recall this flaming but I don’t see everything ever, in all honesty it wouldn’t be surprising if it happened.” Like, not even calling AA out saying she didn’t get flamed just saying I don’t recall this but ya wouldn’t be surprising. I mean, non aggressive ok. Obviously others read it differently. AA didn’t say it was surprising. Saying “I don’t know why you’re complaining about being flamed” was off. To me. I don’t think kmkd *was* saying that last bit. I genuinely think she was more saying “you were flames? Where?” And added the “not surprising” bit as a way of showing she doesn’t doubt AA. I might be projecting because that’s what was going through my head - I was like what, when was AA flamed? Its believable I just don’t recall it.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 21, 2020 16:46:34 GMT -6
I’m just not sure what her original point had to do with it. It kept going. That’s when it started to get a reaction. From not just me. I read her as saying “I don’t recall this flaming but I don’t see everything ever, in all honesty it wouldn’t be surprising if it happened.” Like, not even calling AA out saying she didn’t get flamed just saying I don’t recall this but ya wouldn’t be surprising. Yeah that’s not the vibe she gave off
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Post by angelashly on Sept 21, 2020 16:47:01 GMT -6
I mean, non aggressive ok. Obviously others read it differently. AA didn’t say it was surprising. Saying “I don’t know why you’re complaining about being flamed” was off. To me. I don’t think kmkd *was* saying that last bit. I genuinely think she was more saying “you were flames? Where?” And added the “not surprising” bit as a way of showing she doesn’t doubt AA. I might be projecting because that’s what was going through my head - I was like what, when was AA flamed? Its believable I just don’t recall it. She literally asked me why I was complaining
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Post by angelashly on Sept 21, 2020 16:47:29 GMT -6
But again I’m not surprised by even responses in this thread and I’m not telling anyone they are wrong for their thoughts? Ok. Then I’m not sure why you’re complaining about being flamed or about comments in the Covid thread. Tlex
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:47:49 GMT -6
I mean, non aggressive ok. Obviously others read it differently. AA didn’t say it was surprising. Saying “I don’t know why you’re complaining about being flamed” was off. To me. I don’t think kmkd *was* saying that last bit. I genuinely think she was more saying “you were flames? Where?” And added the “not surprising” bit as a way of showing she doesn’t doubt AA. I might be projecting because that’s what was going through my head - I was like what, when was AA flamed? Its believable I just don’t recall it. It’s a direct quote? It’s literally her words? I know I’m being Me right now, but this is frustrating when it’s literally in the thread a few posts up. It’s my kryptonite.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:49:38 GMT -6
I don’t think kmkd *was* saying that last bit. I genuinely think she was more saying “you were flames? Where?” And added the “not surprising” bit as a way of showing she doesn’t doubt AA. I might be projecting because that’s what was going through my head - I was like what, when was AA flamed? Its believable I just don’t recall it. It’s a direct quote? It’s literally her words? I know I’m being Me right now, but this is frustrating when it’s literally in the thread a few posts up. It’s my kryptonite. I first said surprised. You corrected me and wasn’t surprised. So I said complaining because I’m not sure what else to call it. Some people have seen flames, others haven’t. I don’t know what else to say.
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:49:39 GMT -6
Ok. Then I’m not sure why you’re complaining about being flamed or about comments in the Covid thread. TlexOk, thank you, I missed this.
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Post by kmkd on Sept 21, 2020 16:50:34 GMT -6
I don’t think kmkd *was* saying that last bit. I genuinely think she was more saying “you were flames? Where?” And added the “not surprising” bit as a way of showing she doesn’t doubt AA. I might be projecting because that’s what was going through my head - I was like what, when was AA flamed? Its believable I just don’t recall it. It’s a direct quote? It’s literally her words? I know I’m being Me right now, but this is frustrating when it’s literally in the thread a few posts up. It’s my kryptonite. And your literal words to me were “nefarious bad behavior” but when I quoted them you were just kidding. Come on, Scout.
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Post by STP on Sept 21, 2020 16:52:08 GMT -6
It’s a direct quote? It’s literally her words? I know I’m being Me right now, but this is frustrating when it’s literally in the thread a few posts up. It’s my kryptonite. And your literal words to me were “nefarious bad behavior” but when I quoted them you were just kidding. Come on, Scout. Oh you come on. Tlex said you weren’t intending that when it’s what you said. I intended that you were calling out her behavior and wouldn’t deny it. Regardless of word choice. I know darn well that I’m usually the issue, and I’m not this time.
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Post by Tlex on Sept 21, 2020 16:54:08 GMT -6
Ok, thank you, I missed this. But angelashly you referenced this flaming no less than 5x in the thread so it’s kinda fair to say someone could interpret that as... salty? Which, to be clear, I think feelings are feelings and it’s not wrong to feel salty about a flaming, I’m not being critical.
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