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Post by Speedy on Jul 11, 2017 19:07:56 GMT -6
The Trying to Conceive After a Loss thread is posted once a week (generally on Tuesday) for those of us who have unfortunately experienced a loss. No matter what type of loss you've experienced, from miscarriage to stillbirth to the loss of a child, it is heartbreaking. This thread is to help us commiserate, get support, and to try to navigate trying to conceive, after a loss, every week.
Out of respect to all the ladies here, please add a trigger warning if you decide to talk about any living children and please hide your signature if it contains pictures or tickers of babies or children. We also kindly ask for grads to refrain from commenting in this thread.
If you get a BFP, kindly either spoiler alert it or do not post it here at all.
**If this is your first check-in, and you would like to provide a gtky loss history intro go for it. If not, no worries!**
How are you doing?
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched):
Diagnosis (if applicable):
Updates/questions:
Debbie downer (a place to vent ) :
QOTW : Since it's 7-11 day, what is your favorite flavor of slurpee/slushie?
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Post by nevertoomanyshoes on Jul 12, 2017 20:27:54 GMT -6
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I've got everything crossed. Faint BFP yesterday, darker last night and this morning. I'm scared shitless that this will loss number 4, 3 consecutive. But, today I am pregnant.
Thank you to all you amazing ladies. I'll be rooting for you always. Just building up the courage to intronon PGAL (because I'm scared I'll jinx myself, even though I know that is not possible).
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Post by Radley on Jul 14, 2017 21:01:54 GMT -6
How are you doing? I'm not feeling too great. Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): Benched Diagnosis (if applicable): PID related fertility issues. Updates/questions: not really. Debbie downer (a place to vent ) : ****TW OPP**** I'm super excited about my friend finding out her baby's sex next week, but I'm really struggling today about how I should already know and how I'm not pregnant and how I can't even try right now. I even cried at the episodes of Friends where Rachel has Emma. QOTW : Since it's 7-11 day, what is your favorite flavor of slurpee/slushie? Coke/Pepsi slushie. |
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Post by Speedy on Jul 15, 2017 18:55:37 GMT -6
Sorry for the radio silence guys, but big news - we're finally in the new apartment!! Yay! We also went and got new phones yesterday, which was waaaay overdue. MH had a 6(?) year old phone, and I haven't upgraded in like 4 years. So now I'm trying to figure out my new phone, which is always fun lol. Went strawberry picking today and my first batch of jam is currently cooling down slightly, ready for canning, which is kind of late because it's almost 10 here, but ah well, it's the weekend! How are you doing? Somewhat surprisingly, not too bad. I'm feeling very optimistic in general. Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): Benched Diagnosis (if applicable): RPL Updates/questions: Nothing really, besides the above. The countdown for tooth surgery is on though. I went on Wednesday and got the molds done for my partial plate. Very minor gagging. My doctors office is on the 6th floor and has an amazing view so I just focused on that =) Debbie downer (a place to vent ) : {Spoiler}My cousin's baby is now 2 weeks old =/ I guess my brother is being made the godfather, so he's super excited and keeps sending pics, which I both love and hate. At least I know she makes cute babies if we end up needing her to surrogate for us lol QOTW : Since it's 7-11 day, what is your favorite flavor of slurpee/slushie? I'm really partial to cherry, but I'll go with blue raspberry if pressed. Radley, I'm sorry you're having such a rough go. Just try to hang in there. |
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Post by notelsie on Jul 16, 2017 12:46:40 GMT -6
How are you doing? I'm alright.
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): TTC/waiting for 1st period
Diagnosis (if applicable): PCOS
Updates/questions: How long should I wait before calling about not getting AF? Our loss was 5/31.
Debbie downer (a place to vent ) : Yesterday was our EDD from our first loss in December.. it was much harder than anticipated, and we pretty much fought about stupid crap all day. Stupid anxiety.. I really just wanted a peaceful day as a family. I don't want to do this again in December..
QOTW : Since it's 7-11 day, what is your favorite flavor of slurpee/slushie? I usually do coke or blue raspberry... maybe white cherry on a rare occasion.
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Post by notelsie on Jul 16, 2017 12:48:51 GMT -6
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Post by Speedy on Jul 16, 2017 13:13:10 GMT -6
notelsie, I think it can take up to 3 months on rare occasions, but maybe call to be on the safe side? It's normally 4-6 weeks
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