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Jul 11, 2017 14:33:48 GMT -6
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Post by RunsforWineandCarbs on Jul 11, 2017 14:33:48 GMT -6
Hoi guys! I'm on vacation!! We stopped at hard rock casino and I left with an extra $300 in my pocket. Hung by the pool and swam in the ocean. At a dive bar called mcnasty's. Waiting out the rain. Then happy hour and dinner. Hoping to find a good place on the beach with music so we can dance...
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Jul 11, 2017 14:37:27 GMT -6
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Post by avocadotoast on Jul 11, 2017 14:37:27 GMT -6
Hoi guys! I'm on vacation!! We stopped at hard rock casino and I left with an extra $300 in my pocket. Hung by the pool and swam in the ocean. At a dive bar called mcnasty's. Waiting out the rain. Then happy hour and dinner. Hoping to find a good place on the beach with music so we can dance... Sounds awesome! Have fun!
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Post by jedi on Jul 11, 2017 14:40:28 GMT -6
Hoi guys! I'm on vacation!! We stopped at hard rock casino and I left with an extra $300 in my pocket. Hung by the pool and swam in the ocean. At a dive bar called mcnasty's. Waiting out the rain. Then happy hour and dinner. Hoping to find a good place on the beach with music so we can dance... Jealous!
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Post by fierymama on Jul 11, 2017 14:56:22 GMT -6
jedi I'm sorry. That's so frustrating. Is there any chance the school can provide OT when he starts kindergarten in the fall? He'll get 15 min twice a week (I think that's what it is) but he really benefits from private OT I am sorry jedi. Any chance you can demand to speak to whomever is in charge of the department and tell them you want an explanation since it has been covered until this year?
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Post by jedi on Jul 11, 2017 15:03:09 GMT -6
He'll get 15 min twice a week (I think that's what it is) but he really benefits from private OT I am sorry jedi. Any chance you can demand to speak to whomever is in charge of the department and tell them you want an explanation since it has been covered until this year? As soon as I get my letter I will be calling. They sent a fax to the place we do therapy.
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Post by jedi on Jul 11, 2017 15:15:34 GMT -6
It's just, they didn't read it. They didn't even read my letter, or any that followed because if they did there would be more of an explanation (as I requested). Instead they just sent the same generic thing
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Post by fierymama on Jul 11, 2017 16:14:31 GMT -6
It's just, they didn't read it. They didn't even read my letter, or any that followed because if they did there would be more of an explanation (as I requested). Instead they just sent the same generic thing That is why I think you need to escalate it as high as you can at the insurance company. A regular customer service representative is not enough.
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Jul 11, 2017 16:30:31 GMT -6
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Jul 11, 2017 16:31:57 GMT -6
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Post by armpants on Jul 11, 2017 16:31:57 GMT -6
Well M peed in potty for the first time when we got home. Unfortunately he was crying while he did it, even though he was the one to indicate he wanted to do it. He pooped 4 times at my dad's, so I thunk his butt and balls were a little raw. He felt a little warm, he has a 101.1 fever. Hopefully it will be gone in the morning.
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Post by jedi on Jul 11, 2017 17:38:35 GMT -6
It's just, they didn't read it. They didn't even read my letter, or any that followed because if they did there would be more of an explanation (as I requested). Instead they just sent the same generic thing That is why I think you need to escalate it as high as you can at the insurance company. A regular customer service representative is not enough. I don't think the appeal place gave me a number. OT didn't see one but I didn't get my letter yet. I plan to call reg customer service and try to get to the appeal dept and escalate from there. Or escalate right away.
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Jul 11, 2017 17:45:09 GMT -6
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Jul 11, 2017 18:13:36 GMT -6
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Post by jess213 on Jul 11, 2017 18:13:36 GMT -6
No DH. You don't get to work all day and then come home and send DS to play alone in his room just so you can watch Fear the Walking Dead. Suck it up until bedtime dude.
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Post by mrspiatt on Jul 11, 2017 18:21:34 GMT -6
Poof I'm going to take a break from social media and HIH. I hope you're all doing well.
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Jul 11, 2017 18:26:59 GMT -6
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Post by jess213 on Jul 11, 2017 18:26:59 GMT -6
Oh my mrspiatt. I'm so sorry. Please stay in touch whenever you're ready *hugs*
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Post by shellyr on Jul 11, 2017 18:29:07 GMT -6
jedi, oh dear, I'm sorry about the insurance appeal. I hate insurance companies. I hope you are able to have a productive phone conversation...but it is likely going to require to move up the ladder to supervisors. The entry level person you speak with initially probably isn't going to be helpful.
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Jul 11, 2017 18:57:04 GMT -6
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Post by RunsforWineandCarbs on Jul 11, 2017 18:57:04 GMT -6
Omg mrspiatt, don't quit us, especially now! Seriously just dont. I feel yu need us more than ever.. He,needs to figure it out. You need to move forward in a positive mindframe no matter his decision
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Post by fierymama on Jul 11, 2017 18:59:34 GMT -6
mrspiatt I am so sorry. I hope he is just being an ass because of his son moving and rebounds to focusing on bettering the situation. Please don't be hesitant to reach out when needed. We will be hear when you are ready. Hugs mama.
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Post by easternshoregirl on Jul 11, 2017 19:00:05 GMT -6
jedi, so sorry this is such a headache for you. Keep fighting for him!
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Post by easternshoregirl on Jul 11, 2017 19:00:53 GMT -6
Ugh, mrspiatt, I don't even know what to say....but please come here to talk whenever you need it. We're here for you!
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Post by mrspiatt on Jul 11, 2017 19:04:18 GMT -6
Thanks ladies... I poofed my post, but I think I do need a break. FB is deactivated, which did me a lot of good the last time I took it down. I just have a lot to figure out.
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Jul 11, 2017 19:36:44 GMT -6
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Post by armpants on Jul 11, 2017 19:36:44 GMT -6
mrspiatt I didn't see your poof, but you know how you get in touch with me. Please feel free to text if you need anything. Lots of love to you.
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Post by amberlie on Jul 11, 2017 20:10:31 GMT -6
Conversation with E a few mins ago-
Me: do you know how to say yes?
E: no. No no. Nooooooo!
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Jul 11, 2017 20:16:02 GMT -6
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Post by redandblue on Jul 11, 2017 20:16:02 GMT -6
mrspiatt I also missed the post, but know we are here if you need us. Sounds like you may be in a stressful place, so support, however you need it, is here for you.
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Jul 11, 2017 20:18:54 GMT -6
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Post by redandblue on Jul 11, 2017 20:18:54 GMT -6
jedi I just want to say sorry for your struggles with insurance, and absolutely keep fighting. I did want to also add please do not discount all of the hard work you and your DS have put in over the past year, and the amount of progress you have seen. I know a lot of it has come from the support he has gotten in OT sessions, but don't forget what a great influence you are to him, and it sounds like he has made some definite gains, which doesn't necessarily mean he will regress if OT sessions slow down or stop right now. Hugs to you.
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Post by aydee on Jul 11, 2017 20:34:33 GMT -6
shellyr Just noticed your signature. Good luck and have fun!
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Post by aydee on Jul 11, 2017 20:38:11 GMT -6
mrspiatt I missed the poof but I'm sorry you're not in a good place right now. I hope the break is helpful.
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Post by aydee on Jul 11, 2017 20:40:26 GMT -6
The nanny we've had for the past year is going back to school (eventually plans to apply to med school) so we need to find someone new by the end of August. Every time we go through this it's so stressful trying to find someone I'm comfortable leaving the kids with. I just posted the job last night and I'm hoping and praying that we get some decent applicants.
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Post by shellyr on Jul 11, 2017 21:03:24 GMT -6
aydee, yeh, we agreed to give it a go. I added the sig so I could hang out easier with the +35 ladies. It feels strange to be back in the TTC game. Real strange. Also, good luck with the nanny search. We hire my sister to nanny and she lives with us. It is pretty awesome. I don't know what we would do without her given my schedule. mrspiatt, thinking about you. I understand media breaks, but I would recommend not shutting people out completely for too long. Take care of yourself.
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Jul 11, 2017 21:23:21 GMT -6
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Post by redandblue on Jul 11, 2017 21:23:21 GMT -6
armpants yay for M peeing on the potty. I hope his fever is a fluke! M will pee in the potty cup, but refuses to sit on it. I need to get a reducer ring and a step stool. But not looking to potty train really anytime soon. I have decided to go back to cloth for a bit, as he is starting to tell us when he has gone poop, and will pee pretty much on command when we remove his diaper.
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Post by jedi on Jul 11, 2017 22:01:38 GMT -6
mrspiatt missed the poof but feel free to text me if needed. That is, if you still have my number or pm me if you need it
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