TFAS 7/10

[westiemom]

mnj05
scrang
nikiswims
katelm
baymare
grover
moto
DrHooch

How's it going this week?

[grover]

I had some spotting on Saturday when I woke up. Tested Sunday because it was our anniversary and BFN, which I expected but was hoping otherwise. Guessing CD1 will be here tomorrow, but who knows bc this is only cycle 2. I wasn't expecting all the IF related feels, even though I think it will take another IUI to get pregnant again.

I'm starting meds tonight for PMDD. Hopefully they help.

[mnj05]

I have nothing new to report. I go for my lining check Friday and if all is well, transfer next Friday.

[mnj05]

I'm sorry grover. Those IF feelings suck.

[westiemom]

I'm sorry grover 😢

CD 2 here. Luteal phase improved a bit to 9 days but still not awesome. Nothing else to report. I'm starting to think about how far I want to go this time to TFAS. I am kind of thinking I may be ok with just DD. We will see what happens though.

[moto]

I found out I have to meet with my RE before I can start any testing in preparation for my FET - which seems incredibly obvious now, but for some reason I thought I could jump into testing without meeting with the doctor. I was able to get an appointment for later this month, which is perfect because it means I should be able to do testing when I get my period soon after that.

We are transferring this last embryo, and if that doesn't work my husband said absolutely no more fertility treatments. Which makes me sad... in the end I feel like IVF wasn't that bad and was SO worth it. I would do it again in a heartbeat if it meant I could have more babies. I'm just really really hoping this FET is successful.

[nikiswims]

grover I'm sorry about the BFN 😔

mnj05 I hope everything looks good this Friday!

westiemom hugs as you work through your TFAS feelings

moto everything crossed for your FET!


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[nikiswims]

AFM, hanging out on Estrace, first lining check tomorrow. If lining cooperates FET will be 7/26.


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[westiemom]

Jul 11, 2017 20:55:43 GMT -6 nikiswims said:

AFM, hanging out on Estrace, first lining check tomorrow. If lining cooperates FET will be 7/26.


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Getting so close!

[DrHooch]

Thanks for the checkin, westiemom! I have wondered about whether I'd be ok with just DS, and sometimes I think so and sometimes I just really want him to have a sibling (I am an only child who always wished I had siblings). Good luck figuring it out.

Ugh, sorry grover. That sucks.

FX mnj05, moto, and nikiswims!

****warning: loss mentioned****

I am in the tww. When we met with RE last week, he said we should try on our own for another 6 months because I was able to get pregnant, so clearly it's working, and to do more at this point would be over-treating. I am just bummed because it took 6 months for us to get that BFP, and then we lost it, and in 6 more months I will be almost 37. I realize it's not that old but I don't want to wait too long to start treatment because then every treatment has a lower chance of working. Also, before our IF struggles started we had really hoped for 3 children and now even 2 is looking less and less likely.

[westiemom]

Jul 12, 2017 10:03:16 GMT -6 DrHooch said:

Thanks for the checkin, westiemom! I have wondered about whether I'd be ok with just DS, and sometimes I think so and sometimes I just really want him to have a sibling (I am an only child who always wished I had siblings). Good luck figuring it out.

Ugh, sorry grover. That sucks.

FX mnj05, moto, and nikiswims!

****warning: loss mentioned****

I am in the tww. When we met with RE last week, he said we should try on our own for another 6 months because I was able to get pregnant, so clearly it's working, and to do more at this point would be over-treating. I am just bummed because it took 6 months for us to get that BFP, and then we lost it, and in 6 more months I will be almost 37. I realize it's not that old but I don't want to wait too long to start treatment because then every treatment has a lower chance of working. Also, before our IF struggles started we had really hoped for 3 children and now even 2 is looking less and less likely.

Huge hugs. I totally get this. We got pregnant on our own with DD so DH wants to give it ample time to try on our own and I hate waiting to start treatments.