onyx
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May TTC
May 2, 2020 19:03:09 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 2, 2020 19:03:09 GMT -6
This is a combined TTC thread for EVERYONE currently TTC. Whether you're a first timer, a many timer, or an old timer come on in and pass the time as we struggle through WTO and the dreaded TWW.
As this is a combined thread there will be talk of LC, losses, and IF struggles. If any of these are hard for you please just let us know in your first post and I'm sure the lovely ladies on here will be happy to add TWs to accommodate.
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Symptoms:
RRCS:
GTKY: if you could be any superhero, who would you be?
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onyx
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May TTC
May 2, 2020 19:13:50 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 2, 2020 19:13:50 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 5
Timing: N/A
CD/DPO: CD 3
Symptoms: normal CD 3 stuff
RRCS: I guess none right now. Nothing new at least.
GTKY: I love love love X-23 and Quake. So they’re tied.
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Post by Deleted on May 3, 2020 7:48:30 GMT -6
cycle 10!
11dpo today. constantly peeing on cheapies cause this is my 4th pregnancy in that time frame ^ i just need to make it to tomorrow morning for labs. fxxxx.
symptoms: my boobs are so fucking heavy and painful they’re dragging me down.
hopefully progesterone cream helps this time.
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May TTC
May 3, 2020 10:11:08 GMT -6
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Post by shellsncheese on May 3, 2020 10:11:08 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 11
Timing: -2, -1, O.
CD/DPO: 22/10
Symptoms: nothing
RRCS: bfn today
GTKY: if you could be any superhero, who would you be? Jack Jack! He's got all the super powers lol
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May TTC
May 3, 2020 18:43:25 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on May 3, 2020 18:43:25 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 3/3
Timing: I expect to ovulate within the next few days. Trying to get it on but man, TTC with a one year old is exhausting
CD/DPO: CD15
Symptoms: nada
RRCS:Would you name a child the same name as someone you really dislike? H and I have been tossing names back and forth but one girl name keeps coming back to me - but it’s also the name of one of H’s college friends who is an uber bitch to me and had a huge thing for him. But it works with our girl middle name (not changing) and last name.
GTKY: if you could be any superhero, who would you be? Anxietywoman! Lol. It’s made up in my head.
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Post by Deleted on May 4, 2020 10:51:32 GMT -6
can i please also be anxietywoman 😂😂
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Post by Deleted on May 4, 2020 18:51:30 GMT -6
HCG was only 28 today. last pregnancy it got up to 26.1. pregnancy before that it got to 20. i am... not hopeful.
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May TTC
May 4, 2020 19:01:50 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 4, 2020 19:01:50 GMT -6
@zweber sorry for the low beta. Fingers crossed for a great doubling time.
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May TTC
May 5, 2020 12:21:15 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on May 5, 2020 12:21:15 GMT -6
@zweber crossing my fingers so hard for you 💙
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May TTC
May 5, 2020 13:22:19 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 5, 2020 13:22:19 GMT -6
9dpo on cycle 6 for me and I don’t want to pee on things. Maybe tomorrow I’ll change my mind. Very mild lower back pain and my boobs are just a little tingly. The thought of getting a negative and having to do this all again next month makes me tired.
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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2020 14:52:12 GMT -6
12dpo HCG - 28.9
14dpo HCG - 47
she said once i start bleeding to call and ask for an infertility referral. fuck everything.
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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2020 16:17:08 GMT -6
@zweber I’ve been lurking and rooting for you. If you plug your numbers into hcg doubling time calculators, your increase is still within the parameters of what one could expect with a viable pregnancy. Crossing everything and hoping so hard for this to be your super sticky rainbow baby! i really want this to be true. i’ve used every hcg calculator on the first two pages of google. ha. they’re not even doing repeat labs. she said there is zero chance of survival so to call when i start bleeding. i’m at work for the next 4 hours and i’m miserable.
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May TTC
May 6, 2020 18:09:16 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 6, 2020 18:09:16 GMT -6
I’m really sorry @zweber. Those numbers are definitely on the very low side but I wouldn’t say “there’s no chance of survival.” We don’t like your ob, right?
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 6, 2020 18:11:22 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 6, 2020 18:11:22 GMT -6
Fuck, @zweber. I’m really sorry.
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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2020 19:06:50 GMT -6
I’m really sorry @zweber. Those numbers are definitely on the very low side but I wouldn’t say “there’s no chance of survival.” We don’t like your ob, right? i actually just switched hospitals for this pregnancy because i thought i could find better care here. this is the 2nd OB who has been dismissive and unhelpful. i finally got him to agree to progesterone testing after begging over the phone (they tested monday and it was 20) but he didn’t retest today. then the nurse called this afternoon and said non viable and to call him when i start bleeding for an infertility clinic referral. i asked if we could do labs in another 48 hours and she said no. i asked if she could just put the referral in now and she said no. i have to wait until this pregnancy is completely over... i just want this so bad. my doctors do not.
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 6:49:25 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 7, 2020 6:49:25 GMT -6
@zweber that is bullshit. I’m really sorry your medical experiences have been so awful during this rough period.
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 6:50:45 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 7, 2020 6:50:45 GMT -6
Negative this morning at 11dpo. I’ll probably test two more mornings then stop my meds.
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onyx
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 11:02:09 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 7, 2020 11:02:09 GMT -6
@zweber I’m so sorry. I still have everything crossed for you. What inconsiderate fucks.
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onyx
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 11:05:11 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 7, 2020 11:05:11 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 3/3 Timing: I expect to ovulate within the next few days. Trying to get it on but man, TTC with a one year old is exhausting CD/DPO: CD15 Symptoms: nada RRCS:Would you name a child the same name as someone you really dislike? H and I have been tossing names back and forth but one girl name keeps coming back to me - but it’s also the name of one of H’s college friends who is an uber bitch to me and had a huge thing for him. But it works with our girl middle name (not changing) and last name. GTKY: if you could be any superhero, who would you be? Anxietywoman! Lol. It’s made up in my head. I would if it’s someone who I don’t have regular interaction with now.
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 11:08:32 GMT -6
Post by lemondrop on May 7, 2020 11:08:32 GMT -6
Oh @zweber. I'm pulling so hard for you <3 and really, fuck all of your doctors and their uncaring attitudes.
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 11:11:14 GMT -6
Post by lemondrop on May 7, 2020 11:11:14 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 3/3 Timing: I expect to ovulate within the next few days. Trying to get it on but man, TTC with a one year old is exhausting CD/DPO: CD15 Symptoms: nada RRCS:Would you name a child the same name as someone you really dislike? H and I have been tossing names back and forth but one girl name keeps coming back to me - but it’s also the name of one of H’s college friends who is an uber bitch to me and had a huge thing for him. But it works with our girl middle name (not changing) and last name. GTKY: if you could be any superhero, who would you be? Anxietywoman! Lol. It’s made up in my head. I would if it’s someone who I don’t have regular interaction with now. We don't talk to her, but all of the other college friends do. I think we've decided to go another way, though. Although with all my hand wringing over this, kid #2 will probably be a boy and this will have all been for naught
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May TTC
May 7, 2020 14:16:38 GMT -6
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Post by shellsncheese on May 7, 2020 14:16:38 GMT -6
I'm sorry @zweber. I really hope they are wrong.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2020 14:32:51 GMT -6
16DPO and still pregnant (milestone). few more days if this little thing holds on i’ll actually make it to 5 weeks. i called and asked for labs again today and said i was still pregnant but they said no. the OB sent a portal message saying if i’m not bleeding by the 6 week mark they might have to intervene... my test is darker today. borderline dye stealer. so. i’m on the hunt for a new doctor... again.
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May TTC
May 8, 2020 14:39:28 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 8, 2020 14:39:28 GMT -6
I just cannot understand not monitoring someone with a loss history in this situation. Guess my infertility is showing.
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 8, 2020 14:58:22 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 8, 2020 14:58:22 GMT -6
16DPO and still pregnant (milestone). few more days if this little thing holds on i’ll actually make it to 5 weeks. i called and asked for labs again today and said i was still pregnant but they said no. the OB sent a portal message saying if i’m not bleeding by the 6 week mark they might have to intervene... my test is darker today. borderline dye stealer. so. i’m on the hunt for a new doctor... again. Dude fuck your doctor. I hope you’re find to find someone supportive and quickly.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2020 15:08:17 GMT -6
my husband called the infertility clinic and demanded a call back. he told them this entire story. that man was fuming from the disrespect at the OB office.
the infertility lady he talked to basically said her hands are tied in regards to monitoring us and ordering labs because we don’t have a referral. understandable. however, she actually looked at our entire history. she looked at my most recent labs. and she said that there in the infertility clinic, they just want to see numbers double by 50% in 48 hours with patients who have RPL. and from her standpoint, she wouldn’t be celebrating just yet, but we are on the right track for a viable pregnancy.
she’s going to call me on monday to check on me.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2020 15:11:36 GMT -6
so proud of my husband y’all. i’m at work so i wasn’t there for the phone call, but she asked when my last period was. he was like “ummm i don’t know but wednesday was 14DPO” bless his beautiful heart for actually listening to me when i tell him these things.
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May TTC
May 11, 2020 7:28:30 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 11, 2020 7:28:30 GMT -6
CD1 was yesterday. Messaged my RE and the office is back open, so I’m going to start monitored appointments again. This will be cycle 7.
I also want to talk to her about potentially adding Metformin to my treatment. I have atypical PCOS, so I’m curious about if it might help. I’m basically ready to do anything to get this to work (except more intense treatment lol).
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 6:24:16 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 12, 2020 6:24:16 GMT -6
Lurker coming in to check on @zweber 👀
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Post by catlady22 on May 12, 2020 7:48:24 GMT -6
@zweber fx for you!
I'm sort of joining in here...
*TW - loss* We had an early loss a little less than 2 weeks ago, still not down to 0 hcg yet though. No clue how long that takes. So just lurking here mostly.
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